₦airaland Forum

1. Avoiding Unnecessary Stress

Dating a man without financial stability can lead to a lot of stress. Constantly worrying about money can take a toll on your relationship and your mental health. Financial struggles often lead to arguments and dissatisfaction.

2. Seeking a Man, Not a Project

When you date someone without money, you might find yourself taking on the role of a caregiver or financial supporter. A relationship shouldn’t be a project where you have to fix your man’s financial issues.

3. Setting Standards

It’s important to set standards for what you want in a partner. Financial stability should be one of those standards. It’s not about being materialistic; it’s about ensuring that you’re with a man who can contribute to a stable and secure future.

4. Building a Future Together

If you’re looking to build a future with a man, financial stability is crucial. Whether it’s buying a home, starting a family, or planning for retirement, having a man who is financially secure makes these goals achievable.

5. Emotional Well-being

Being with a man who is financially unstable can take an emotional toll. The constant worry and stress about money can affect your happiness and overall well-being. It’s important to prioritize your mental and emotional health in a relationship.

Ladies, don’t ignore the fact that financial stability plays a significant role in creating a happy and secure partnership.

So ladies, don’t settle for less than what you deserve. Aim for a man who can offer you not just love, but also the stability and security you need to thrive together. Even Davido said it in his song Assurance: That love is sweet but when money enter love is sweeter. Abi Regina Daniels wey marry Ned Nwoko, no dey enjoy her life despite the earlier backlash she faced from people. Na better money dey cook good food, ladies don’t let any man convince you otherwise.

Money will definitely build a strong and happy relationship not the unnecessary headaches lack of money brings, so men work hard and stop chasing girls up and down if you don’t have money because I am tired of you guys saying a woman dump you for a richer person. Ask yourself, won’t you dump yourself too? Just saying!

Just as men should not date broke ladies too
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Well that's from the hurstle angle

Solofresh2:
Just as men should not date broke ladies too
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Lol. Men are supposed to be the head, you are supposed to be rich enough to lead the family, marrying a broke lady is different from marrying a broke man. What a lady brings to the relationship is beyond that.

These Nairaland bannies keep giving me endless reasons why I should keep on bashing them even though I've vowed to reduce the way I used to bash dem

Just imagine what a female bush cow took her precious time to write down . Instead of you to advice your fellow coconut-headed bannies to go out and hustle so that they can make their own money, you're here insinuating and telling Dem not to date the same broke guys who aren't different from their own broke brothers and fathers

Mrtaye:
Well that's from the hurstle angle

What are you saying ?

Sonnobax15:

These Nairaland bannies keep giving me endless reasons why I should keep on bashing them even though I've vowed to reduce the way I used to bash dem

Just imagine what a female bush cow took her precious time to write down . Instead of you to advice your fellow coconut-headed bannies to go out and hustle so that they can make their own money, you're here insinuating and telling Dem not to date the same broke guys who aren't different from their own broke brothers and fathers

Did you read the message at all Abi you carry your coconut head rush reply me

Solofresh2:
Just as men should not date broke ladies too
Equation balanced

Na broke ladies full Nigeria pass

BaddieFreak:
Lol. Men are supposed to be the head, you are supposed to be rich enough to lead the family, marrying a broke lady is different from marrying a broke man. What a lady brings to the relationship is beyond that.

You can't be broke as a lady and expect a rich man to come for you in marriage.That is theft and gold digging.Any lady that thinks like that is a thief and a gold digger.Even if he marries you,the so called man will still rub your poverty to your face one day.
Tell your fellow women to find something to do as a woman and stop being a thief and a gold digger

ojun50:
Na broke ladies full Nigeria pass

Keep deceiving yourselves. Una plenty for these same broke girls DM always pleading for them to accept your relationship proposal. But na online we dey, let’s keep deceiving ourselves.

BaddieFreak:
Did you read the message at all Abi you carry your coconut head rush reply me

. Honestly,once I see any thread created by a banny whose focus is to mock hustling men,I don't waste my time reading it,cuz it ain't gonna worth it

Very true!

It is very IMPORTANT for a man to be financially stable before considering a serious relationship.

Another IMPORTANT thing for a man considering a serious relationship is to ONLY consider VIRGINS without baggage like pusssy that's seen more traffic than Third Mainland Bridge, MULTITUDES of abortions and some other guy's kids.

Also important is the NEED for men to ONLY consider serious relationship with YOUNG women (under 25) who are not JADED and NIHILISTIC.

Men should be financially stable before getting into relationships. But financially stable men should leave AGING SINGLE MOTHERS alone to continue scissoring each other.

Solofresh2:
You can't be broke as a lady and expect a rich man to come for you in marriage.That is theft and gold digging.Any lady that thinks like that is a thief and a gold digger.Even if he marries you,the so called man will still rub your poverty to your face one day.
Tell your fellow women to find something to do as a woman and stop being a thief and a gold digger

any small thing, na to run tag ladies gold digger.

Don’t advise your fellow men to work hard, they should keep waiting for ready made women.

BaddieFreak:
Keep deceiving yourselves. Una plenty for these same broke girls DM always pleading for them to accept your relationship proposal. But na online we dey, let’s keep deceiving ourselves.

Any broke girl in the building

BaddieFreak:
Keep deceiving yourselves. Una plenty for these same broke girls DM always pleading for them to accept your relationship proposal. But na online we dey, let’s keep deceiving ourselves.

. If not for the sake of curing our konji,I don't see any reason why a sensible man will go into a relationship with a Nigerian banny in the first place..

Sonnobax15:
. Honestly,once I see any thread created by a banny whose focus is to mock hustling men,I don't waste my time reading it,cuz it ain't gonna worth it

This thread is not for mocking hustling men. It is to sey priorities right. You can’t be struggling and same you are in every girls DM looking for yeye relationship. It doesn’t work that way, Work first and play later.

ojun50:
Any broke girl in the building

You say?

Sonnobax15:
. If not for the sake of curing our konji,I don't see any reason why a sensible man will go into a relationship with a Nigerian banny in the first place..

Hustle hard then and japa to oversea countries where loneliness and konji wan kill them.

BaddieFreak:
any small thing, na to run tag ladies gold digger.

Don’t advise your fellow men to work hard, they should keep waiting for ready made women.

Why won't I tag you a gold digger since you want to reap where you did not sow
And of course men have been working hard so women should do the same as well so
You can't be broke and praying for a rich man

BaddieFreak:
This thread is not for mocking hustling men. It is to sey priorities right. You can’t be struggling and same you are in every girls DM looking for yeye relationship. It doesn’t work that way, Work first and play later.

. Work first and play later can equally affect you the bannies cuz you'll also be wasting away indirectly until menopause will catch up with you . Keep advising your fellow native hens until mucor and cobwebs will start gathering momentum around your kpekus

Solofresh2:
Why won't I tag you a gold digger since you want to reap where you did not sow
And of course men have been working hard so women should do the same as well so
You can't be broke and praying for a rich man

You can’t be broke and expect full loyalty and commitment from a woman. Women work hard as well but you don’t expect a lady to take full responsibility of the house when the man of the house is not dead.

ojun50:
Na broke ladies full Nigeria pass

They should also marry their fellow broke men.
You can't be broke as a lady and tag a man broke

Sonnobax15:
. Work first and play later can equally affect you the bannies cuz you'll also be wasting away indirectly until menopause will catch up with you . Keep advising your fellow native hens until mucor and cobwebs will start gathering momentum around your kpekus

Keep joking. Women are getting married to responsible and financially stable men every weekend. All those menopause nonsense that you guys like using no dey work again

BaddieFreak:
1. Avoiding Unnecessary Stress

Dating a man without financial stability can lead to a lot of stress. Constantly worrying about money can take a toll on your relationship and your mental health. Financial struggles often lead to arguments and dissatisfaction.

2. Seeking a Man, Not a Project

When you date someone without money, you might find yourself taking on the role of a caregiver or financial supporter. A relationship shouldn’t be a project where you have to fix your man’s financial issues.

3. Setting Standards

It’s important to set standards for what you want in a partner. Financial stability should be one of those standards. It’s not about being materialistic; it’s about ensuring that you’re with a man who can contribute to a stable and secure future.

4. Building a Future Together

If you’re looking to build a future with a man, financial stability is crucial. Whether it’s buying a home, starting a family, or planning for retirement, having a man who is financially secure makes these goals achievable.

5. Emotional Well-being

Being with a man who is financially unstable can take an emotional toll. The constant worry and stress about money can affect your happiness and overall well-being. It’s important to prioritize your mental and emotional health in a relationship.

Ladies, don’t ignore the fact that financial stability plays a significant role in creating a happy and secure partnership.

So ladies, don’t settle for less than what you deserve. Aim for a man who can offer you not just love, but also the stability and security you need to thrive together. Even Davido said it in his song Assurance: That love is sweet but when money enter love is sweeter. Abi Regina Daniels wey marry Ned Nwoko, no dey enjoy her life despite the earlier backlash she faced from people. Na better money dey cook good food, ladies don’t let any man convince you otherwise.

Money will definitely build a strong and happy relationship not the unnecessary headaches lack of money brings, so men work hard and stop chasing girls up and down if you don’t have money because I am tired of you guys saying a woman dump you for a richer person. Ask yourself, won’t you dump yourself too? Just saying!

Financial stability goes both ways. Them forbid woman to make money for your village?😏
If a financially stable woman is looking for a financially stable man, I’d definitely understand. But if you’re broke you have no business looking for a rich man if you’re not a gold digger. Please go and work!

BaddieFreak:
Keep joking. Women are getting married to responsible and financially stable men every weekend. All those menopause nonsense that you guys like using no dey work again

. Who tell you say e no dey work again? . If e no dey work,then explain to me which category of evening newspapers dey full prophet Jeremiah church dey buy magic soap and miracles water? . Keep deceiving yourself my sister..

BaddieFreak:
You can’t be broke and expect full loyalty and commitment from a woman. Women work hard as well but you don’t expect a lady to take full responsibility of the house when the man of the house is not dead.

You are trying to say that ladies get married because of money but not for love because the last I checked marriage should be for better for worst

Clevagal:
Financial stability goes both ways. Them forbid woman to make money for your village?😏
If a financially stable woman is looking for a financially stable man, I’d definitely understand. But if you’re broke you have no business looking for a rich man if you’re not a gold digger. Please go and work!

Go and warm your cold eba.

Sonnobax15:

These Nairaland bannies keep giving me endless reasons why I should keep on bashing them even though I've vowed to reduce the way I used to bash dem

Just imagine what a female bush cow took her precious time to write down . Instead of you to advice your fellow coconut-headed bannies to go out and hustle so that they can make their own money, you're here insinuating and telling Dem not to date the same broke guys who aren't different from their own broke brothers and fathers

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@bush cow 😹😹

Sonnobax15:
. Who tell you say e no dey work again? . If e no dey work,then explain to me which category of evening newspapers dey full prophet Jeremiah church dey buy soap and miracles water? . Keep deceiving yourself my sister..

Those ones are probably hypnotized spiritually. Check your news every weekend and see thousands of women getting married, you will see men proposing publicly to women. Just stop saying things you don’t know.

BaddieFreak:
Go and warm your cold eba.

I’m not you (I know that’s what you eat every day). It’s not every woman that’s broke like you looking for men to foot bills your father cannot even foot. It’s foolish broke women like you that give our gender bad names. Stupid entitled girl

BaddieFreak:
Those ones are probably hypnotized spiritually. Check your news every weekend and see thousands of women getting married, you will see men proposing publicly to women. Just stop saying things you don’t know.

. Men who are getting married,most of dem are being deceived into it by manipulative bannies knowing fully well that the men certainly have nothing to gain from it apart from avoidable wahala . Go to customary court every week and see the amount of divorces going on there.

Namaster:
Very true!

It is very IMPORTANT for a man to be financially stable before considering a serious relationship.

Another IMPORTANT thing for a man considering a serious relationship is to ONLY consider VIRGINS without baggage like pusssy that's seen more traffic than Third Mainland Bridge, MULTITUDES of abortions and some other guy's kids.

Also important is the NEED for men to ONLY consider serious relationship with YOUNG women (under 25) who are not JADED and NIHILISTIC.

Men should be financially stable before getting into relationships. But financially stable men should leave AGING SINGLE MOTHERS alone to continue scissoring each other.

Who disvirgined the women? MEN! Who impregnated them? MEN! Who advised the women to go for abortion ? MEN!Ain’t they all men? But you same men wants to eat your cake and have it. Sha go and hustle if not don’t come online and rant that one lady dump you oo