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lacasera14:
Until the challenge is accepted which doesn't have to be time tasking since you'll be ignoring and not focusing your attention, the only place we'll find a common ground is if you say it's subjective. It can work for some low self esteemed women and you have to be extremely attractive and irresistible for it to work. There's no mystery behind an ugly face that's easy to forget. You ignore and be ignored forever. However, I'm not a proponent of choking a woman with love unless you both are officially partners and there can't be enough choking. But completely ignoring a woman with the hopes that it cause her to be attracted to you is laughable and delusional but I can accept that it's subjective - works for some women, some category of women. Peace bro.

This!!!

oglalasioux:
Op, you don’t understand women. Their philosophy is ‘less is more’. Majority of women don’t like nice guys. And your idea is the ‘nice guy’ idea.

Women are curious and will easily go to bed with men that give them less attention and friend zone the one always calling and texting.

Majority? Lol the delusion

You must have dated Majority to know this about women right? Lol

otherway:
When a high value man ignores a lady, she chases after him but when a low value man ignores a lady, she forgets him.

What qualifies or make a man high value? Shock me.

Orlu13:
All these women hiding under male monikers to put up simping threads..una well done oo



I pity fr d man dat will listen to dis op

Why? Because truth is bitter?

greypencils:
Women want men other women want. Understand that, understand life. They love a challenge, they love competition. They love a high flyer not a low lifer. You can't be a high flyer and not have women chase you. That is who they want. Give them attention as a high flyer and they would drool after you until you cross that line of chasing them. They don't want to be chased. They want to chase, catch, tame and domesticate what they've caught until their catch loses relevance and they are on turned by the next high flyer. Because they are married to a high flyer doesn't mean they don't get aroused by the next high flyer.

Grand delusion 🤣🤣🤣

Give an example of a high flyer let's see.

Biglittlelois:
Grand delusion 🤣🤣🤣

Give an example of a high flyer let's see.

You've already tagged me as deluded. Why should I answer you?

Biglittlelois:
Why? Because truth is bitter?

Carry ur fish brain out of my mention...u social media women aren't worth my time

lacasera14:
😂 congratulations bro. If I were you I would be worried. Because a lady that allows you have your way with other women doesn't really love you. You could be marrying a LovePeddler who's feelings have been seared.

They don't always agree to this, which woman in her right senses will allow her man have his way with other women?

greypencils:
You've already tagged me as deluded. Why should I answer you?

Lol no example I guess, got it.

Orlu13:
Carry ur fish brain out of my mention...u social media women aren't worth my time

Projecting your family members fishy brain on others shows how foamy your brain is.

I will quote you till you cry, can't do nothing about it.

Biglittlelois:
Projecting your family members fishy brain on others shows how foamy your brain is.

I will quote you till you cry, can't do nothing about it.

Fish brain...u women reason with dat fishy thing in between ur legs..so no need

Orlu13:
Fish brain...u women reason with dat fishy thing in between ur legs..so no need

Like your mother.

Biglittlelois:
Like your mother.

...e pain am...fish brain

Leemzyy:
Auhm for phone am not someone who like the idea of using or checking her man's phone,and as for settling down,we both are still schooling tho,he still schools at police academy so we dont meet much tho

Well, on that phone thing I'll personally encourage you to do it. That's everyone's personal area and it shouldn't be hidden from the closest person to you. You can only know people deeply through the things they do with their phone. By phone here, I mean smartphone. Everything you see will be telling you one thing or the other about that person. From there, you can ask questions and understand the person better. Most importantly, human beings hide to do wrongs where no one is watching them. Once they know someone is watching, they either let go of some føølish things or do it in moderation.

If you feel you are involve in the relationship, then be involve indeed. Don't do it like you don't care. The relationship may not really take you to where you want at the end of the day but you can learn valuable lessons for the next one. I'm not saying you should be policing a man but let him know that you're interested in their life based on your terms of relationship with them.

Uhm samuelson06 thanks for this,i will save this 4 my own benefit,i appreciate sir

Leemzyy:
Uhm samuelson06 thanks for this,i will save this 4 my own benefit,i appreciate sir

You are welcome, daddy's girl

samuelson06:
You are welcome, daddy's girl

Biko stop na

Leemzyy:
Hmm okay oo,i'm 19

be ready when when heartbreak comes. If he doesn't break ur heart come and collect my house... eyaaaaa

Leemzyy:
Biko stop na

What I do?

Lol.

Imagine your favorite male celeb collects the number of a girl he really likes.

Because of his busy time and all, he would sparingly have time to converse with the girl unintentionally.

So if a man or even a woman creates that effect intentionally, it sure would give that same "celeb" effect i.e. this person has something going on for him/her that is obviously more important.

It may not make the woman like you more directly. But it'd sure communicate to her that you have more important things in your life which makes you different from the majority of the other men toasting her. And she would of course prioritize the different than the clichè.

Also, IMO, chatting a romantic interest is one of the most unproductive things to do as a man. Let girls do that. As a man, do the actions such as initiating physical meetings. Show workings...

samuelson06:
What I do?

U said daddy's girl

YourGFsnatcher:
be ready when when heartbreak comes. If he doesn't break ur heart come and collect my house... eyaaaaa

U know i am use to statements like this, from haters and enviers,so i'm not suprise,i'm only suprise that its coming from a total stranger,God knows the best not you guys so thanks 4 your contribution

lacasera14:
Honestly, I need to find the originator of this theory that ignoring women will make them chase you.

How does that even work?

They say you'll ignore her, don't reply her texts, don't call her often, even when she calls you form busy and promise to call back but don't call back, keep yourself busy with other women, pretend like you can thrive without her and see her chasing after you like her life depends on you.

Really?

In what world is that?

The truth is, a woman that loves you or is attracted to you can easily lose interest when she notices you don't have her time or starve her attention. Women thrives on attention, they do everything to get it, and when they don't get it, they find it elsewhere. So, even if the woman loves you to your poo, and you starve her attention, you cause her interest in you to decline. She feels "okay great, this guy doesn't like me and I don't want to disturb him, let me focus on this one that has my time".

Secondly, if the woman doesn't even like you, she'll be glad you stopped calling and texting and you gave zero chance of winning her back if you like surround yourself with multiple women to create the illusion that you're highly sought after. She'll only wonder how dumb these women are that they're flocking after you.

I conducted this survey on about 30 different women and all gave the same reply

"If a guy keeps ignoring me and starves me attention, I feel he doesn't really want me and I'll move on because I'm beautiful and there are other men who want me too, so why chase after one that shows disinterest?"

Lastly, I think the only girls that will chase a guy who ignores them are low self esteemed, insecure, less attractive, broke, without-a-life, sociopaths, and mentally unstable girls.

No real girl with beauty, brains, steeze, curves, charms, small money and high self esteem will chase a guy or crave a guy that is showing lack of interest in her. She believes she's the prize and should be chased, not the other way round.

So, I wonder again, who thought men this?

Modified.

If you hold unto this fallacious theory so strong you're willing to experiment with it, then I'm game. It will be fun while it lasts. We create a WhatsApp group to share our screenshots of chats.

We approach beautiful women online or offline, chat them up, inspire some vibes and ghost them, then see how many will chat back or call and become interested. 10 girls each. We can finally put this theory to rest and dispel the deception.

But that's the truth. Women are more interested in that guy that doesn't behave like a woman wrapper or after her body.

She's curious why that particular guy isn't chasing her like others, hence she developed interest in him

Stv..PID usel..Esss BAs..TARD vagabon..d bi.tch

lacasera14:
So when a gurl tells you all these and sees a better guy who's giving her attention do you think she'll still come for you? She may even dump you and settle for less. You see why I said girls who do this don't have admirers. They're hardly chased after and that's why they cling unto guys who are clearly rejecting them. What caliber of women are you guys dealing with? I roll with women who believes they are the prize and any man that's too busy for them should be left alone to continue his busy life. We can do an experiment to end this argument once and for all. Who's game?

You are a hope..Esss ani..mal

Rotten put..rid foo.l

lacasera14:
I like your perspective. Quite thoughtful. However, this reverse psychology hardly works for a couple of reasons.
1. Women have ego, especially the beautiful ones with a ton of admirers.
2. Unless they love you to a fault and that's because of something you possess that none of her courters have. Even at that, the ego in her won't allow her return the attention you didn't give.
3. I believe a woman can love you and crave you after she's known you for who you are not what you're not by distancing yourself from her. You only create an aura of mystery and if she's interested in you because of that, it's because of curiosity not attraction. When she eventually finds out there's nothing special about you she'd leave.
4. If you must roll by the scarcity and ignoring principle, then you have something special about you that when she draws close she gets glued.
5. Also, you have to be lucky that while you're creating scarcity another guy doesn't emerge from the blues and sweeps her away.
6. This theory of ignoring is brazenly dumb and doesn't worth even the sheet of the paper it's written on. I've put out a challenge let's try it. We create a WhatsApp group and share our results let's end this sharade and deception once and for all. It'll be fun while it lasts.

Egocentric piece of eh.it

Bi..g talker, yo.u fit be one hope.less non.entity wey dey chop e mama food

BAs.TARD

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Bahamas95:
One thing with me is that I hardly talk to strangers irrespective of who you're. Women crave for attention and if they notice you don't give a damn about them they get irritated.

Whenever I find myself in the midst of guys and pretty girl(s) I am always the last person to talk to the girl(s), most times they talk to me first.....If a girl truly finds you attractive she would do anything within her power to get your attention.

I have NEVER chased any woman in my life and I dated many pretty girls before I finally got married. What I discovered about women is that the pretty ones are easier to get, just be smart.

Do whatever works for you.

lacasera14:
The higher you go means you talking about improving your life and status which is great and is something that can attrac t women. Not ignoring her and acting too busy. Even wives cheat because their husbands are too busy they go for men who have their time. The female is wired to be craved for and given attention. I'm not talking about choking her with your presence. A decent dose of attention can do the trick. But starving her is a recipe for losing her.

To your original post, I feel you are speaking from a place of limited information. The people who advocate for this have "scientific data" to back up the claims and I have often observed same to be true. Not that I support it but that's just the science. Typically that's how attraction actually work. You have to give the other person something to miss but people are using it manipulatively to support their promiscuous desires

Leemzyy:
U said daddy's girl

My bad! But I saw it in your signature.

lacasera14:
Honestly, I need to find the originator of this theory that ignoring women will make them chase you.

How does that even work?

They say you'll ignore her, don't reply her texts, don't call her often, even when she calls you form busy and promise to call back but don't call back, keep yourself busy with other women, pretend like you can thrive without her and see her chasing after you like her life depends on you.

Really?

In what world is that?

The truth is, a woman that loves you or is attracted to you can easily lose interest when she notices you don't have her time or starve her attention. Women thrives on attention, they do everything to get it, and when they don't get it, they find it elsewhere. So, even if the woman loves you to your poo, and you starve her attention, you cause her interest in you to decline. She feels "okay great, this guy doesn't like me and I don't want to disturb him, let me focus on this one that has my time".

Secondly, if the woman doesn't even like you, she'll be glad you stopped calling and texting and you gave zero chance of winning her back if you like surround yourself with multiple women to create the illusion that you're highly sought after. She'll only wonder how dumb these women are that they're flocking after you.

I conducted this survey on about 30 different women and all gave the same reply

"If a guy keeps ignoring me and starves me attention, I feel he doesn't really want me and I'll move on because I'm beautiful and there are other men who want me too, so why chase after one that shows disinterest?"

Lastly, I think the only girls that will chase a guy who ignores them are low self esteemed, insecure, less attractive, broke, without-a-life, sociopaths, and mentally unstable girls.

No real girl with beauty, brains, steeze, curves, charms, small money and high self esteem will chase a guy or crave a guy that is showing lack of interest in her. She believes she's the prize and should be chased, not the other way round.

So, I wonder again, who thought men this?

Modified.

If you hold unto this fallacious theory so strong you're willing to experiment with it, then I'm game. It will be fun while it lasts. We create a WhatsApp group to share our screenshots of chats.

We approach beautiful women online or offline, chat them up, inspire some vibes and ghost them, then see how many will chat back or call and become interested. 10 girls each. We can finally put this theory to rest and dispel the deception.

Trash advice especially when it is coming from a man and not a woman. Only a woman can explain better not a man, op,pack well.

sonofthunder:
To your original post, I feel you are speaking from a place of limited information. The people who advocate for this have "scientific data" to back up the claims and I have often observed same to be true. Not that I support it but that's just the science. Typically that's how attraction actually work. You have to give the other person something to miss but people are using it manipulatively to support their promiscuous desires

Great scientists have had their facts falsified time and time again. The theory only works when the girl is emotionally invested in you. Using it to gain attention doesn't work. And that's where I stand. How can a girl who doesn't know you be interested in you just because you are not giving her attention? It drives curiosity not attraction. When the curiosity eventually leads her to you and she discovers you're probably shallow what happens next?

JetApartment:
Trash advice especially when it is coming from a man and not a woman. Only a woman can explain better not a man, op,pack well.

Some of you people need to learn how to read and understand. It's not that hard.

samuelson06:
My bad! But I saw it in your signature.

Oh yea i mean dont call me that unless u wanna make me blush