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| My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by LoveUdie(op): 11:33pm On Aug 24, 2024 |
I've been happily married for years now but issues started when several years passed and she was unable to get pregnant. We tried all we could and she went for several doctor's appointments to no avail. They kept saying she was fine but yet she couldn't get pregnant. I am the only male child of my parents so of course everyone expects me to produce a child to continue our family legacy. My mom and sister started antagonizing my wife for this and I did my best to support her from their attacks but with time, I started getting fed up with her. I knew the issue wasn't from me because my ex girlfriend had gotten pregnant and given birth to a baby boy for me two years before I met my wife. The only thing was that the baby died at four years and six months. My wife however had told me about the abortions she had in her university days so I knew this was a repercussion of what she had done. I was considering taking my parents advice and getting a second wife when something happened. We were in the middle of an argument one day and I told my wife if she hadn't been wayward and done what she did, her womb wouldn't be rejecting babies. She counter attacked and said I was talking bullshit and might be shooting blanks because for all she knows, the issue could be from me. I laughed in her face and called her silly because why did I have no problem impregnating my ex who was on birth control but couldn't get her my wife pregnant. Out of spite, l decided to get tested and went to the hospital. I couldn't wait to rub it in her face when I was proven right. Well I was in for a surprise. Unfortunately, according to the doctor's, I have some prostrate issues which have rendered me sterile over time. It could have been avoided if it had been discovered earlier but it has developed fully and so even though I could have sexual intercourse, I can't father a child. I was ashamed and didn't disclose this to my wife or anyone. Knowing the fault is from me, I stopped pressuring my wife and asked my mother to stop harassing her. I brought up the idea of adoption to my wife annoyed told her I have decided it will be best if we can get a child from an orphanage since we weren't seeing any signs of a child coming our way anytime soon. She agreed happily. Anyway, I came home from work a few weeks later to see my wife grinning from ear to ear. She rushed towards me with a piece of paper and I read it, and it said she was pregnant. My smile faded immediately. I realized that this woman had actually been cheating on me. She asked me why I didn't seem happy about the pregnancy and l immediately blew up at her and asked why she was trying to pin another man's pregnancy on me. She asked me what I was talking about and I told her that the baby couldn't be mine. She got angry and started shouting at me, telling me I was a horrible human being for saying that. She asked me why I had pressured her into getting pregnant and now that God had finally done it for us, I was trying to accuse her of what she knows nothing about. That was when I dropped the bombshell on her that I am actually sterile and cannot father a child. The situation escalated from there. She started insulting me, calling me a bastärd, all sorts of names and asked how I could do this to her. She mentioned how I had pressured her for years when I knew I was the one at fault. I immediately corrected that and told her I had only known for four months now. She cried and told me it didn't matter because if I had actually told her the truth,she wouldn't have had the affair with the man because she had only started having that affair just three months ago. I told her it doesn't excuse what she'd done and that I would never forgive her. She looked at me amused and laughed. That was when she told me she didn't need my forgiveness. She said I had made the choice easier for her. The man had asked her to leave me and marry him but she had been skeptical. She removed her wedding ring and threw it at me. Then she went upstairs to call him and pack some of her things to leave. I watched her leave without a word. She wanted to come back to take the rest of her things later on but I refused her entry into the house and she told me she'd see me in court. l got a Court summons in a mail the day before yesterday and a letter from her saying her lawyer would be in touch for the divorce proceedings. I have been in a state of shock ever since. I can't believe she'd do this to me and the worst part is her family are aware and in support. How do I begin to pick up the pieces of my life? I know she doesn't deserve my forgiveness but I want her back. I can't start over with someone else. Please advise me. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by onumadu: 11:40pm On Aug 24, 2024*. Modified: 4:48am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Oga dis ya story get as e be o. I doubt its authenticity... |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by onumadu: 12:11am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Yep I don answer am. ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Mentholated: 12:54am On Aug 25, 2024 |
FAKE STORY You created 2 threads the same day. You had a girlfriend in one and a wife in the another. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by NOC1(m): 2:37am On Aug 25, 2024 |
In real life may your wife be pregnant for another man. What is the gain on fake story |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Ndipe(m): 2:53am On Aug 25, 2024*. Modified: 9:15am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Fake story. He also created the thread below. https://www.nairaland.com/8194432/brother-having-sex-girlfriend-confused |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by ruggedtimi(m): 4:09am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Mentholated:might be a fake...but alot to learn from the story. A man needs to go for regular check up especially sexually active men. You might think gonorrhea or syphilis you treated within three days is gone for good. But the bacteria is actually causing more silent damages. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Tallesty1(m): 4:39am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Mentholated:Welcome to nairaland. If you go to his house now, you'll see he has no wife or girlfriend. Just a small Hisense fridge with four sachets of water and a bottle of groundnuts inside. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:56am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Tallesty1:😂😂😂Ha! Tallesty. You are naturally not a good person with that your head like tyre of yaba motor.😂😂😂 |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Freeeelancer(m): 6:02am On Aug 25, 2024 |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Holybaddo: 6:24am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Nice story, keep it up 👍 |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Starboytwo(m): 6:39am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Write well na so that people go fit read. Space, punctuations, paragraphs are very important if the write up is long like snake. I read am reach where your ex girlfriend born for you and the pikin die, so I know say na fake story. Still, write well next time. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Emvicprints1: 7:52am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Tallesty1:and loud or colos. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Khd95(m): 7:52am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Typical nollywood classic movie ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by calabaman(m): 7:53am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Then divorce her and stop being a SIMP. IIf my wife tries such - she is gone to me |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by manmade(m): 8:07am On Aug 25, 2024 |
No advice for fake story tellers, it's like seun is now paying some fake stories Teller to be on this forum because I can't just understand the reason behind the high rate at which this fake tales mongers have been plying their merchandise on this forum in recent time. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by folake4u: 8:07am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Tallesty1:This is too detailed. 😂😂 |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by RoyalBlu(f): 8:43am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Mentholated:It's obvious the OP copies these stories from other forums and paste them here for nairalanders... |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Rich4god(m): 9:43am On Aug 25, 2024 |
Fake story... So all the while wey una dey go medical test for your wife, Una no bother to do Ur own test. Walks outta thread. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by stevups(m): 10:43am On Aug 25, 2024 |
LoveUdie:The story has 3 k.legs: foolish, cunning and fake. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Rexymania(m): 10:59am On Aug 25, 2024 |
You're a good story writer. Keep it up |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by OgaTheTop2: 11:50am On Aug 25, 2024 |
onumadu:You no know say fake stories plenty for here? Lookatyou ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by BigYash: 11:58am On Aug 25, 2024 |
LoveUdie:I don’t believe your story sha,but if it’s true,then the both of you are M A D. Did you just say you want her back? Them really swear for you .. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Hustlerlomo(m): 12:00pm On Aug 25, 2024 |
Na only God know wetin u dey smoke at times wey u go jst sit down for dt ur four ceiling room dey type fake stories… U nd dt ur wife dey craze. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Ate247(m): 12:20pm On Aug 25, 2024 |
LoveUdie:Your wife is right in every way. You accused her for years not checking your self. The divorce process will be very easy for her. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Tallesty1(m): 3:13pm On Aug 25, 2024 |
folake4u:I know their type ni. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Tallesty1(m): 3:13pm On Aug 25, 2024 |
Emvicprints1:😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by Tallesty1(m): 3:14pm On Aug 25, 2024 |
FRANCISTOWN:How yaba Tyre be? Make I know whether you're a friend or foe 😂 😂 |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by folake4u: 3:17pm On Aug 25, 2024 |
Tallesty1:Hahahaha you sure do. |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by jaszplus12(m): 3:18pm On Aug 25, 2024 |
onumadu:Seconded! |
| Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, Now She Wants A Divorce. by caye(m): 3:46pm On Aug 25, 2024 |
manmade: ![]() !I always call these topics " Seun Must to Chop" topics. Na seun dey use them cash out. |
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