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BrutusOj:
See this one. Too much reading of America rape cases has made most of you guys so timid before ladies. If you a are sharp guy, you don't need to rape a lady, your playful/romantic demeanors will do everything for you.

Playful and romantic gini? Before she come the house, she must have known that the DO might be DONE.
If you approach and she starts saying NAH in a serious tone, guy zip up o.
No go do playful and romantic demeanor take go rape person daughter o.

Most girls are playing CHESS while men are playing CHECKERS.
This is why before you invite her, dangle a CARROT in front of her.
That way she becomes a lot more submissive.

carl90:
Your profile says you are a male
Are we missing something here ?

You read to the end?

1. Sex has become cheaper.

2. Worsening economic situation.

3. It's now harder than ever to maintain a fake life.

essentialone:
There's this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.

All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn't really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.

About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.

I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn't want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn't talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home.
Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal. That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn't ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.

He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply "not yet."

Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it.

What should I do now as a Lady?

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I don’t know why people will just seat and begin to write fake stories. When did you become a lady?.

You love him and you were playing hard to get abi....if na me,d first day ,you said no ...no more....and even your ex,dat broke ur heart,u didn't do hard to get abi....u go wait till dis year end...guy man do move on

jorion:
No go rape person daughter o. If she says no, let her be bro.
Before you go start to here, "HE RAPED ME".

Some will tell you that you couldn't take your chance, NA LIE.
She is just giving you hope and shifting blame to you so THAT SHE CAN FURTHER STRING YOU ALONG.

Very correct.

Entanglement:
na your type dey go rape girls up and down

Shall na Nigeria you dey you fit get away with tape! Carry this your yeye mentality abroad, na prison you go sleep

Your type will borrow data while staying in the interior of a village accessing internet on top of tree and be forming woke online. Mr. abroad, please tell us the conditions necessary for a guy to make sexual advances towards a grown/ mature lady who followed him to his house on first date.

BrutusOj:
Your type will borrow data while staying in the interior of a village accessing internet on top of tree and be forming woke online. Mr. abroad, please tell us the conditions necessary for a guy to make sexual advances towards a grown/ mature lady who followed him to his house on first date.

You no dey hear word until woman trap you.

Personally I dont ask a girl out more than once

jorion:
Playful and romantic gini? Before she come the house, she must have known that the DO might be DONE.
If you approach and she starts saying NAH in a serious tone, guy zip up o.
No go do playful and romantic demeanor take go rape person daughter o.

Most girls are playing CHESS while men are playing CHECKERS.
This is why before you invite her, dangle a CARROT in front of her. That way she becomes a lot more submissive.

And where in my posts above did i mentioned or encouraged guys to continue pushing if they make advances toward ladies when they say NO.

BrutusOj:
And where in my posts above did i mentioned or encouraged guys to continue pushing if they make advances toward ladies if they say NO.

Good thing that we are now saying the same thing.

Go toast him na

jorion:
You no dey hear word until woman trap you.

I am not a mummy's boy like you. Grow up and start dating matured ladies who go for what they want not mummy's girls who will be forming hard to touch while they are wet down there

Fadakings:
You've done just about enough jare... just continue with that vegetable you're picking. You will be ok

Tohsynetita1:
I wooed a lady last 2 years but she said she will give me feedback after six months that will should just be friend, we were friends for those months after 6 months, I asked her again and she said she will still get back to me. Ever since then, I no dey disturb myself anymore. After some months if I don’t post on WhatsApp for like months, she will now call me to ask why am I not posting since. And I will say am busy. That scenario happened coincidentally but I facilitate it again by not posting for like 2 months on WhatsApp status to see if she would call, you won’t believe at around 1 month, she called me again to ask why am I not posting , and I said am busy. But why trailing me?

She is observing you from afar waiting for you to become rich so she can then come fully for you, no strong thing

Na job?

BrutusOj:
I am not a mummy's boy like you. Grow up and start dating matured ladies who go for what they want not mummy's girls who will be forming hard to touch while they are wet down there

By matured girls, you mean over used products with very dehydrated pucis.
NO THANKS
I prefer them young.

Na APC'a fault
They have destroyed the economy

I blame the economic hard times

I also blame the folishness and emptiness observed in most girls of nowadays

JustPowerApps:
Too many women chasing men, so men are now expensive like USD. MEN SCARCITY

Lol @ men scacity

Tallesty1:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

This is why I laugh at women who, instead of working on their stubbornness, say they will find a man that can "handle" them.

Who told you that a man wants to handle you? The last lady I asked out did something similar.

We vibed well, I took her out once, then invited her over, and it was at my place that I told her what I wanted. She straight up said "na."

I said okay, we're good, and that was it.

We gisted a bit more, I saw her off, and when she got home, she texted me, "Are you angry?" I said, "na," but that was it for me.

It wasn’t even the rejection that was the issue, but how it was said. If you want to play hard to get, at least drop hints that you're interested, otherwise, I'll assume you're playing "never gonna happen."

Later she told me I had everything on a platter of gold but wasn’t man enough to take it.

Ladies don’t realize how stressed the average Nigerian guy is already, and then you add unnecessary hard to get on top of it.

I will pass abeg.

You are a very wise man.

As a man, the first priority is to avoid anything, including a woman, that will not give you rest of mind.

That is why most guys are escaping away.

BrutusOj:
I can say you are still learning about Nigerian ladies sha, she came to your house on first date, you didn't do the needful with her instead you started talking about relationship afresh?

Babe don already assume her duty as your babe na, she wanted more of you in your room not gentle man talk of relationship. Nowadays, you don't ask ladies out formally, from the first romantic move you take towards them, it has started.

Going straightforward most times spoil everything for those ladies who have dated very badt sharp guys

When she accuses me of rape, what needful will you do? Join the other victims of one side of the story to cancel me bah?


Verbal consent isn't even enough for me these days, I will ensure she consents on whatsapp too.

Tell him you have made up your mind about him. That you are ready to swing with him.

jorion:
By matured girls, you mean over used products with very dehydrated pucis.
NO THANKS
I prefer them young.

Enhenn..now I see, those are the type you will even say ordinary hello to and they will cry home that you raped them.

jorion:
You no dey hear word until woman trap you.

just leave that guy make he dey form Mr sharp guy!
Na him type Mr sharp guy full prison with regrets.
Something similar happened with one of our neighbors some years back ago! That guy sleep for detention cell for 4days until them bail am.

Village people dey do meetings for that guy head! Them go soon finalize am

Tallesty1:
When she accuses me of rape, what needful will you do? Join the other victims of one side of the story to cancel me bah?


Verbal consent isn't even enough for me these days, I will ensure she consents on whatsapp too.

Lol, I understand your fear sha.

men are taking the back bench now while the women are taking the lead in every offices now. men are not happy because thing are not coming easy now.

You like plucking ewedu so continue.

Women of the 90s joined the Gen Zs on killing the fun of chasing in a relationship. Putting sex above all else, making a lady feel a man is only after them because of sex and men feel lady’s are after them because of money. While in the real sense, I feel if you like somebody and feel a chemistry or connection, your hard to get no suppose pass two days.

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