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Good evening guys well this is my first time doing this. I just want to hear you guys opinion, cause am currently serving in one private school so I met this girl just normal teacher in the school I confessed my feelings to her and you know the way nigerian girls are, at first she was forming hard to get and all , after sometimes she started relating and all well the issue here is she had a problem with her phone and I've 3 phones most of which has little issues the first one is infinix smart hd or something, I do use that to mine all this crypto update and all the other 2 phones cant mine so she started talking about me using 3 phones without even thinking about her, so I gave her my iphone 8 so we can you know communicate i didnt give her this phone to keep but to just use it for the main time and all, she didnt even show sign of appreciation, she was just like she's not comfortable with the way my pictures and my documents are on that phone I told her to chill up that at least gradually I'll start sending the pictures, this girl formatted the phone the next day. I decided to keep quiet about it now she has this sister that do complain about us being together to the point she insulted me when I gave her the phone she didnt ask where she got the phone from .
Now the issue here is that her dad saw us together yesterday slapped her and now she wants to break up so I told her we need to meet to discuss but my main plan is just to collect my phone back tomorrow, I dad didnt even ask her where she got the phone from, so I just want to ask if this is a good decision.
My friend was annoyed he saw he cant even believe at this stage am still doing hide and seek relationship with a girl the girl is 20 though.

1.
Did you give her the phone because she needs it or did you trade the phone for romance? If the former is the case, don't collect the phone from her. But if the later is the case, I reserve my comment on that.

2.
Her father slapping her is a different issue. It could be that the father is the type that believes in using strict behaviour to checkmate children. If this is the reason he slapped her, I won't discuss it because the girl is not the one seeking advice here.

3.
It could be that her family is irritated by your personality. This might be the case since you said that her sister hates seeing you around her.

Do you know what quid quo pro means?

Basically, you quidded but got no pro in return, so I guess you can take your phone back.

Personally, I'm glad her dad slapped her. No father wants their daughter to be in the ashewo business.

Next time, let the person know what you are quidding for to avoid misunderstandings with the pro you want in return.

immortalcrown:
1.
Did you give her the phone because she needs it or did you trade the phone for romance? If the former is the case, don't collect the phone from her. But if the later is the case, I reserve my comment on that.

2.
Her father slapping her is a different issue. It could be that the father is the type that believes in using strict behaviour to checkmate children. If this is the reason he slapped her, I won't discuss it because the girl is not the one seeking advice here.

3.
It could be that her family is irritated by your personality. This might be the case since you said that her sister hates seeing you around her.

I borrowed her the phone and I told her she should use it for the main time

budaatum:
Do you know what quid quo pro means?

Basically, you quidded but got no pro in return, so I guess you can take your phone back.

Personally, I'm glad her dad slapped her. No father wants their daughter to be in the ashewo business.

Next time, let the person know what you are quidding for to avoid misunderstandings with the pro you want in return.

I didnt even ask for anything in return

Psychopatheko:
Good evening guys well this is my first time doing this. I just want to hear you guys opinion, cause am currently serving in one private school so I met this girl just normal teacher in the school I confessed my feelings to her and you know the way nigerian girls are, at first she was forming hard to get and all , after sometimes she started relating and all well the issue here is she had a problem with her phone and I've 3 phones most of which has little issues the first one is infinix smart hd or something, I do use that to mine all this crypto update and all the other 2 phones cant mine so she started talking about me using 3 phones without even thinking about her, so I gave her my iphone 8 so we can you know communicate i didnt give her this phone to keep but to just use it for the main time and all, she didnt even show sign of appreciation, she was just like she's not comfortable with the way my pictures and my documents are on that phone I told her to chill up that at least gradually I'll start sending the pictures, this girl formatted the phone the next day. I decided to keep quiet about it now she has this sister that do complain about us being together to the point she insulted me when I gave her the phone she didnt ask where she got the phone from .
Now the issue here is that her dad saw us together yesterday slapped her and now she wants to break up so I told her we need to meet to discuss but my main plan is just to collect my phone back tomorrow, I dad didnt even ask her where she got the phone from, so I just want to ask if this is a good decision.
My friend was annoyed he saw he cant even believe at this stage am still doing hide and seek relationship with a girl the girl is 20 though.

Take your phone back quick!!!! Before talk will begin to enter talk. Those girls deserve no mercy. Never help them with what you can't afford to lose.

Me, for one, do not pity any member of that gender at all in any matter in this life....
As long as we're not blood relations, and you're not my wife or someone I'm really planning to marry, forget it. It will just be pure business between you and I !!!!

Lemme run along now before they start coming for my jugular....

I come in peace....

Psychopatheko:
I didnt even ask for anything in return

Indeed you didn't. But the reason you want your phone back is you haven't gotten what you want.

Below is a list of what you've confessed you wanted.

so we can you know communicate

show sign of appreciation

us being together

relationship with a girl.

Psychopatheko:
I borrowed her the phone and I told her she should use it for the main time

You lent her the phone for what reason (for romance or because she needs the phone) and for how long?

Nigha said he borrowed his GF a phone

Nigha, lemme be brutal with you here and that's the fact that you certainly have no business to do with relationship if you can't make little sacrifices like this

Allow the smallie to focus with her her,cuz it's very obvious you don't mean well for her

HandsomeSkeleto:
Take your phone back quick!!!! Before talk will begin to enter talk. Those girls deserve no mercy. Never help them with what you can't afford to lose.

Me, for one, do not pity any member of that gender at all in any matter in this life....
As long as we're not blood relations, and you're not my wife or someone I'm really planning to marry, forget it. It will just be pure business between you and I !!!!

Lemme run along now before they start coming for my jugular....

I come in peace....

Thanks boss

budaatum:
Indeed you didn't. But the reason you want your phone back is you haven't gotten what you want.

Below is a list of what you've confessed you wanted.

so we can you know communicate

show sign of appreciation

us being together

relationship with a girl.

Let's just say it's part of it though

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Nor lie, na toto u be dey find

Psychopatheko:
I borrowed her the phone and I told her she should use it for the main time

You should have collected it back when she formatted what doesn't belong to her but you refused acting thinking romance will go on. That's a big red flag

Collect your phone back, let her dad and her sister buy her phone


That she even formated your documents is a huge disrespect, when you meet her tomorrow quietly collect the phone and tell her you are no longer interested in the relationship


Next time don't make the mistake of dating someone at your place of work, people don't shit where they eat cos that girl could accuse you of something sinister and may cost you your job, without fair hearing

Psychopatheko:
Now the issue here is that her dad saw us together yesterday slapped her

Hahahahahahahaha

Op is a bloody forking pedo


Kys forking pedo


Kys Ahmed Taiwo

Indirectly it was a contract between the two of you.

If you were able to chop her puna like 4-5 times, you can pity her but if not collect your phone back. Don't be a fool.

Collect every fucking thing from her
Don't be a bastard of your mother

Guys wey dey date Nigerian girls dey try!

For you to keep dating a Nigerian girl, definitely your life go don rack/spoil/frustrate to an extent!

Collect it back and move on. The family no like you. Know this and know peace

budaatum:
Do you know what quid quo pro means?

Basically, you quidded but got no pro in return, so I guess you can take your phone back.

Personally, I'm glad her dad slapped her. No father wants their daughter to be in the ashewo business.

Next time, let the person know what you are quidding for to avoid misunderstandings with the pro you want in return.

the dad slapped her but cannot get her sorry ass a phone ...

What kind of Dad is that ??

They're irritated by his presence yet he's the one gifting their daughter a phone .. shouldn't both parents be ashamed .


The stupid girl too .. you were gifted a phone for the main time, you're complaining of his pictures and his documents beingo his own phone even had the bloody audacity to format the files on it ..

Would she have done the same if it was her father that gave her that phone , would she be that entitled to the phone ...
... Well I blame the op still..


Cause I don't understand why you had to give her a phone when she has a Father. Now the same father is slapping her because you were seen with her ..


What insolence 😕😕😕

Sonnobax15:

Nigha said he borrowed his GF a phone

Nigha, lemme be brutal with you here and that's the fact that you certainly have no business to do with relationship if you can't make little sacrifices like this

Allow the smallie to focus with her her,cuz it's very obvious you don't mean well for her

Be like you smoke something this afternoon ..


Which kind sacrifice be that one .. same girl that cannot make a sacrifice of leaving her bf pictures and files on his own very phone ..


You must be joking

😕😕😕

Collect your phone jor

Psychopatheko:
My friend was annoyed he saw he cant even believe at this stage am still doing hide and seek relationship with a girl the girl is 20 though.

Oga...collect your phone..
Stop dating hungry girls...una no dey hear word...girls that need relationship to have phone, decent food, wig, etc should be a no go area...... Can't u guys see they date u to exploit you..??... Spits!!!

E get some kind men you go see with your pikin, you no go know when you go tear am better slap.

I understand the father well well

Come and update us please.have u collected the phone

Sonnobax15:

Nigha said he borrowed his GF a phone

Nigha, lemme be brutal with you here and that's the fact that you certainly have no business to do with relationship if you can't make little sacrifices like this

Allow the smallie to focus with her her,cuz it's very obvious you don't mean well for her

You are one of the least sensible folks on this forum. For your mind now you don drop advice? Muchimuchi na u be.
Back to op, if you know you really mean well for that girl, stop doing hide and seek relationship and instead go straight to her family to register your interest in being her friend. I think for this you don’t need much, just one non alcoholic wine and a close friend you can trust is outspoken and smooth with words. They will either accept or deny your request.