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id4sho:
Am having same issues too but it's madness that will bring solution. Bury pops in his house and ensure that other properties are marked not for sale.
She's up to no good, mobilize your brothers

We don bury popsy for villa , in front of one of his uncompleted project

patorial:
This is were you appeal the case.

Every member of the groom family are all entitled to the desesed groom. But the wife and children take first, then the groom's parents, then the siblings and extended relatives.

Nobody dey appeal , we just leave everything to God honestly

LilNetty:
Please I need your candid advice.

My wedding is coming up in some months and I need your advice. My fiancé and her family are insisting on court wedding which I don’t want to object to. I should have moved on but she pregnant. What can I do?

Is she pregnant for Jesus? Don't try that rubbish. Where una dey find and give attention to all these kind women or in-laws from hell sef?
Find a neutral lawyer to ask. They are literally trying to tie your destiny down incase of any mess up. Even if she becomes toxic. Everything you do would be serious criminal even jailable offence; Affairs, second wife etc will be heavily frowned upon by the court not withstanding if it was setup.

Mikespecialone:
We don bury popsy for villa , in front of one of his uncompleted project

All good, no just gree for anybody

Chinny024:
🤣🤣🤣🤣..I wish VN dey NL.I need to laugh small..
Why are u regretting urs sir?

Even you wey be woman, your gender doings no dey fear you

GorillaApp:
which tribe is your girl

yoruba

wirinet:
False. Stop advising people wrongly based on ignorance.
If she divorced you based on court marriage, she will be entitled to a share of your properties as determined by the judge, based on the years of marriage, your assets acquired during the marriage and her contributions to the marriage.

Keep quiet, you ignoramus. The guy was right. It is always you poor folks always trying to protect one nonexistent and imaginary property(ies). I'm sure a lot of you have no pin to your name. 🙄

If a lady insists on court wedding just know she have an evil motive.

akan102:
My brother, am not happy to say this but, pls leave that marriage it will not end well for you.

Don't say that. If the love between them is genuine, they will stay happily married while disgruntled in-laws will forever be bickering.

id4sho:
Even you wey be woman, your gender doings no dey fear you

🤣🤣..Abi ooo..
Just dey am us the way una see am..It's not easy to handle home, work, kids,and other surroundings stuffs.

Wainey:
Na our greedy politicians deh enact laws.
None of them go enact that kind law.
The thing no go even pass first reading.

You know this! Those whoremongers...they will shred the damn thing soon as they read the introduction

jeffizy:
I noticed there are a lot of arguments indicating that both the poster and the cheerleaders on front page are lacking the maturity and understanding needed to be in marriage.

First off, if you're not a dubious lover, why are you scared of having a court wedding?

Secondly, you are taking their daughter who you have impregnated already and you still want to pick that date for them to give her out via introduction?

As the lady, she should be scared of these red flags in you.

Cheerleaders? Looool

digitaliz:
I am afraid we may not be able to influence your decision because you have gone neck deep in tampering with the seemingly normal way of marital process.

Because you got her pregnant before wedding you can't back down easily from their demands.

You are trapped bro, for asking this question I believe you are already looking to listen to them.

A real man will stand his ground regardless but this is easy to say if you are very wealthy and influencial.

Nobody: ...
Digitaliz: I am a real man
Digitaliz: I am very wealthy
Digitaliz: I am 'influencial'

Old ashawoe or poor man daughter don see property to thief

Foolish men full this country o! So because of pregnancy that you are not even sure belongs to you, you want to be entrapped into eternal bondage!
You simps deserve what you get.

godofuck231:
Old ashawoe or poor man daughter don see property to thief

Trenches babes na real problemssss oohh 💯

Hello,

Let me equally advised you don't be pushed rushing to registry to certified your marriage your wife and her family knows what they are doing sit your wife down and assure her that you will do that at later time if she wont give into your advice or words let her be when she put to bed she will calm down its a trap to tie you down don't be rushed.

Healthrelatedjo:
It's either this guy is wealthy,or they have checked his destiny and they have seen that he will become extremely rich in future.


Yoruba pple they do this thing very well,them go say na to check if they are compatible.

Ps.I am a Yoruba guy.

So, someone can actually see future and destinies?..Interesting.

advanceDNA:
Lol....see funny threat.....will name change make her love you or die for you....who cares about name change in 2024....

As long as ur kids bear your name....if wife like make she bear tinubu name

🤣🤣🤣...Actually it matters to some people.

Chinny024:
🤣🤣🤣...Actually it matters to some people.

Yeah....it matters to men who hold on to unimportant shittts.....Actually....It is of no serious importance to the name....

It is the women that should want it in the case of marrying someone powerful, very rich, or influential...... What use is it changing ur name to some punk àss nigga's name....

.even worse some times....some women change nice name for stupid, ugly sounding names

🤣🤣🤣

advanceDNA:
Yeah....it matters to men who hold on to unimportant shittts.....Actually....It is of no serious importance to the name....

It is the women that should want it in the case of marrying someone powerful, very rich, or influential...... What use is it changing ur name to some punk àss nigga's name....

.even worse some times....some women change nice name for stupid, ugly sounding names

Being angry isn't necessary na..Easy biko🤣🤣🤣
As for me,he insisted I change to his after wedding..I initially refused cos of the stress
One has to undergo in the process, documents and certificates wahala..Aside that, there's no issues. Shebi na just name?..Pple still know me by my maiden name notwithstanding

LilNetty:
yoruba

E be like say you get money true true...nowadays introduction party and trad party are the same except for exchange of ring. So why throw a party for introduction and throw another party for trad. As for me, invite your family to her house and do the introduction. Her family should sponsor the feeding except you want to assist.

For trad and white, most times the groom sponsors everything ooo including buying of cloths for their inlaws except the brides family want to assist willingly.

To pick date, the brides family will suggest 1 or more dates or a time frame, your family will review if it suits them or not.

The question is why are you afraid of a legal document binding you together? If you dont trust this person why marry her? if she agrees to keep the baby then take care of your child,dont make your life and hers miserable

LilNetty:
When they ask me I told them I will do it later after the marriage they said no that they must do all at once and they told me if we won’t be doing it that my wife to be won’t be changing her name.

id4sho:
Trenches babes na real problemssss oohh 💯

use your intelligence and kick them out or they will drag you into their filth or poorverty

Court wedding is not my portion all this moronic heads supporting it let them dey their dey, me I'll be polygamous if you like cry e no concern me if u don't want e no concern me because b4 marriage I'll tell u without playing games I want to be polygamous if u accept we roll if u no accept everyone go yah separate ways because I won't allow a woman have full control in my house with full entitlement simple as ABC

Chinny024:
🤣🤣🤣🤣..I wish VN dey NL.I need to laugh small..
Why are u regretting urs sir?

This response is so irresponsible and disgusting. I just wrote that i regret a thing, it became a thing of joy for you to laugh about and then you are stupid enough to ask me why am i regretting again? Check yourself.

Mikespecialone:
The last woman my popsy date, carry popsy go do court wedding even though she no born for popsy, now popsy die , she travel comot go another country , we won bury popsy for the house wey him build , she no gree , she say na only she wey be the legally married wife get the authority to bury popsy and that’s if she comes back in 5 months later from where she go , make we carry the dead body go mortuary. Court Dey tell us say we no get access to our popsy properties except that woman wey do court wedding with popsy .... Think twice brother , court wedding might favour and it might not favour you

Wetin your popsy dey find around? Your popsy sef no try at all. Doing court wedding in the evening!!

Wainey:
Nothing is wrong with court wedding.
If she divorce you, one office pin she no go see collect, this is not western world where wealth is shared after divorce

It is not always like that in some cases my friend. Unless she doesn’t get the court involved.
A Muslim man married a third wife and did court wedding for her. When the man died, the third wife headed to court and the court awarded the sole right to all the man's properties, everything! Here in our Nigeria o! Who wants to stand against the court order?

maasoap:
Wetin your popsy dey around? Your popsy sef no try at all. Doing court wedding in the evening!!

The man no try atall... I no blame the woman though, because if a man cannot stick to one wife , there will be consequences

Registry or not, the foundation of the marriage you're about to enter is already faulty. If I were you I will tell the brides family to give me a year to sort my self out if they like you they'll wait, if they don't like you you'll know

Whois:
Registry or not, the foundation of the marriage you're about to enter is already faulty. If I were you I will tell the brides family to give me a year to sort my self out if they like you they'll wait, if they don't like you you'll know

Exactly Boss the foundation is already faulty and my head is spinning