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Afodot0022:
Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

davillian:
Buy calabash, buy red clothes, buy powder buy live chicken buy charcoal .....
At midnight wear the red cloth, tie on your head tie on your arm put the charcoal inside lite it put the feathers inside so it would bring smoke start talking rubbish until she wakes up and see you but don't say anything to her before u wake up in the morning she don run

davillian:
Buy calabash, buy red clothes, buy powder buy live chicken buy charcoal .....
At midnight wear the red cloth, tie on your head tie on your arm put the charcoal inside lite it put the feathers inside so it would bring smoke start talking rubbish until she wakes up and see you but don't say anything to her before u wake up in the morning she don run

Duchexx:
Tueh!
You begged that woman to stay with you! You disvirgined her! And now you’re fed up! You were the problem in your previous marriage!
You didn’t know “ To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married” when you were begging her to stay with you o. Shameless and wicked man

ProfOkai:
I read most of the comments and I must commend the good minds being poured out here.
To add mine, I think you are very weak as a person. Harsh? That's what I intended it be. You are very very weak. How can a strong lady of that sort... Yes she is strong and not a liability... How can this sort of a lady manipulate you this securely.? Oga, be a man. Tell her to pack out. She will be fine and you will be alright.
By the way, stop sleeping around with other women. Either go back to your first love or hide your guy down there forever. Stop getting God angry.

Duchexx:
Tueh!
You begged that woman to stay with you! You disvirgined her! And now you’re fed up! You were the problem in your previous marriage!
You didn’t know “ To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married” when you were begging her to stay with you o. Shameless and wicked man

fineberry:
This story remind me of what someone told me recently. He said a friend of his ( a guy) came to complain in tears about girl that has been cohabiting with him for more than a section now( bcus we're in school) the guys was crying to his elder sister that he was tired of the girl (fiance), because he was the one in charge of all expenses in the house, pay bill, even give her money to meet her need......the funny part is that, this girl was still claiming virgin, that over a year now that she has been staying in his house he has not allow him to touch her come to talk of sex..... When my guy told me....Omo I weak oo....the thing now is, this guy in question have tried to evict her out but to know avail . Shit dey happen ooo

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation.

Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well.

Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for.

She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores, clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her.

I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues, stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for.

The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment.

Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for.

Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation.

Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well.

Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for.

She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores, clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her.

I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues, stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for.

The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment.

Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for.

Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

AllBlack:
You say you have been married before but you are here telling us how you are still wrapped up in childish situations and inability to make decisions like a man.

run & hide your face in deep shame.

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation.

Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well.

Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for.

She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores, clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her.

I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues, stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for.

The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment.

Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for.

Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

Confirmedzombie:
Bro arrange pot with fetishism things inside.

Keep it somewhere in your room. One night wake up, tie a red clothe, and white clothes, bring out the pot, start saying unnecessary things.

I bet you she will run and never return to your house

seanery:
HERE IS THE SAID ASHAWO GIRLFRIEND

Duchexx:
Don’t go and keep your foolish wandering eyes on your mother. Don’t come back here when she goes missing again o. Fool at 40

Bobbynobobby:
Please which school are they having yearly 'sections' instead of sessions. We need to know so we can avoid wasting money on our wards' fees

seanery:
WEREY OBIRRIN

Duchexx:
E pain am🤣 foolish fool.

seanery:
Ur papa

Duchexx:
No go find your stray mama…idiot🤣

seanery:
OLOSHI, u mean my ashawo mother.
Like ashawo mother like son

Duchexx:
Your mama wey dey stray like dog😅🤣 She confided in me..she told me the reason she went missing is because she birthed a paedophile and a waste of labour pains. Na me and her dey do the ashewo business anytime she goes missing😅🤣 that your mama wey no wan retire🥰😅
My regards to her jare🌸

seanery:
Werey re oooo

Ma ress ur case here.

Nature will deal with ur father

Afodot0022:
This won't work cos my rent is sorted out till the end of 2025. I can't wait till then to kick her out

Duchexx:
E dey pain am🤣😅 Same way nature has death with your poverty stricken sef. See as your house dey..common paint you no fit buy. Na to dey argue with woman you sabi. Woman wrapper. Na because of people like you them legalize abortion

seanery:
Formy mumu father mind now, u think my mother don talk swnse