₦airaland Forum

Saao:
Stay there until u reach 40 years. You can marry with 100k as far as u and ur partner understand each other. Is anything wrong with a simple wedding with just 4 people in attendance? Things are hard so u must be creative, don't waste money. As far as you have regular income, go ahead and marry your love in the most simplest way

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.

If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.

Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.

Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.

Sososo:
Seconded

But there are women that marry men of lower financial standing to them.

Veekee James

Ennyjude:
If them never kill one motivational speaker,others no go learn

CyrusVI:
Thats correct
But dont u think 500k is too small as most couples tend to fix dates ahead and that affords the lady enough time to save more


Thing is,Most working class ladies have more than that in their account sef. And i dont know why you would wanna marry a lady that isnt working or have a proper job

Ennyjude:
If them never kill one motivational speaker,others no go learn

Oracleee:
Them dey carry late comer for marriage? Abi na accomplishment? I suppose you're one of the folks who believe you're in life to go to school, get a job, get married, pay bills, retire and die.


Na when you enter matsala and that lady you call wife can't aid you with ordinary 1m or even less your eye go clear.

AndrewTate:
This is invalid in a realistic assessment.

Women don’t need to be worth a dime in riches or bank account to get married to anyone they would, the criteria for a woman is how well-groomed they are from the onset, which would result in how well she can cohabit with a provider male to build/take care of a home and ensure a completely orderly and serene environment for her children, husband and every other person who enters her space to thrive…

Saao:
We were created to fulfil destiny. Except you can do without intercourse. you can't fulfil destiny with different women or sex with a woman that's not your wife. Curses and blessings comes from sex. Their are women that are demon, having sex with them you immediately enter into covenant with them. There are so many spiritual and physical reasons marry a right woman is very important.

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.

If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.

Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.

Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.

zeusdgrt:
People like u are the reason men day on time due to depression

Saao:
whether u marry or not young man, u must pay bills. You will get girlfriend or girlfriends that you may pay more than having a wife. Purpose of marriage is for companionship not necessarily children, procreation is secondary. We were created to fulfil destiny. Except you can do without intercourse. you can't fulfil destiny with different women or sex with a woman that's not your wife. Curses and blessings comes from sex. Their are women that are demon, having sex with them you immediately enter into covenant with them. There are so many spiritual and physical reasons marry a right woman is very important.

safarifarms:
Only in Nollywood.

tropaz:

Kindly note; A WOMAN WHO CAN GROW LEGALLY MADE 500K IS BETTER THAN A WOMAN WHO HAS 500K. (If you don't understand, then you are a diploma drop out)

Money is not really the most important basis in choosing a LIFE PARTNER... It's called life partner for a reason. Hence, ask YOURSELF;
Is she ready to grow with you?
Is she optimistic or a victimized soul? Kindly not; Victim mentality is mostly a genetic or environmental trait. So, take time to look your partner mama well well, That's whom your wife will become in future. Then, observe her company as well before tying the knot.

Lastly, Never marry a woman who can't pray until something happens (PUSH)... I know you will ignore that and follow yansh. Don't worry, your pastor that wasn't responsible for your choices will waste anointing oil on you when the trouble starts in future.

PS; look at your partner very well and ask yourself; can this person help with the kid's assignments when I'm busy handling contracts?

Let me off the mic 🎙️ here.... ✌️ 🕊️

FOR YOUR OWN MENTAL HEALTH, PROSPERITY AND SAFETY, NEVER MARRY A WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN IN MANY RELATIONSHIPS IN THE PAST, THEY ARE ALWAYS EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE.... I TAKE GOD BEG YOU....


free advice from young a married man.... I married at 26, we will be 10 years together very soon....

AutoChick4U:
Go for a lady with millions na. I'm sure ur grandfather didn't look out for how many farmlands ur grandmom got before marrying her. Boys of this age sef

Sososo:
But I just gave you an example.

Do you even know that so many women are the bread winners of their homes?

Many families are being run by both the man and the woman.

The SIT@HOME/TROPHY WIVES era is over.