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Are you being serious? What exactly will 500k do. You should've said 5m

Saao:
don't take it personal Sister, that's what it is. Our own girls own too much, thank God our guys are taking cover

Yimu. Taking which cover

TrustNone:
no present day Nigerian lady will marry you nor even reason you despite having potentials of growing or amassing millions.
Baba if you no get ready made money no lady go look your side.
So enough with such mentality unless na village girl you go marry

My wife has an MBA
Works with an international airline
Graduated with 4.43CGPA B. Tech.
From an average family in Nigeria... We have 2 solid boys already.... Mind the caliber of girls you mingle with.... Okonjo Iweala types still dey... Na you dey find wife for clubs... Better put your life in God's hands... Let God help you in making sensitive choices!!! Psalm 121 vs 1....

My friend whom we both grew up from struggling and below average homes, is being sponsored by a topnotch western govt as a medical researcher, the wife is also a doctor in the west... They are both 30 years old... Na you dey follow useless bottom shaking by force!!!

Laslas, I still dey chop life pass you if I want.... But not in a way that can jeopardize my whole existence....

Carcholce:
Come closer lemme give a warm hug and wet kisses for this beautiful comment. Call me homo, it’s fine. The comment is gold.

You welcome bro

you can give her 50cent to begin the hustle, but main i want to share my last Garri with my bae.

Considering how greedy women are, I say we raise the minimum figure they must have to 3million

As a master degree holder I can marry a hard working waec or neco holder.
Even Na tailoring or Hairdresser no problem so far she get head she is OK for me.
But I can't marry a liability.

I agree that there are several women who are bread winners but go and find out if it started that way. I'm yet to know of a Nigerian woman that will go into marriage with the mindset to be the bread winner. Women mostly go into marriage with the mindset of relaxing and enjoying the man's sweat. Even those who have money would rather keep their money for fancy things that thrills them and let the man do all the spending. But sometimes if the woman has a source of income and the man happens to loose his, the woman becomes the bread winner and in most cases, that man is in hell for having to eat from the woman's sweat.

There are few (very few) exceptions though.

Sososo:
But I just gave you an example.

Do you even know that so many women are the bread winners of their homes?

Many families are being run by both the man and the woman.

The SIT@HOME/TROPHY WIVES era is over.

NOETHNICITY:
Considering how greedy women are, I say we raise the minimum figure they must have to 3million

I have ever met one with no less than 10million naira in her account.
She want turn me to her messenger abi boyboy.
Omo I ran ooo.Las Las Na one radio mechanic she we'd.

Kenobsky:
I have ever met one with no less than 10million naira in her account.
She want turn me to her messenger abi boyboy.
Omo I ran ooo.Las Las Na one radio mechanic she we'd.

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Lol

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zeusdgrt:
People like u are the reason men day on time due to depression

well, if the responsibilities of being a man will lead men to depression they can either talk to God about it, face it head on or kill themselves.

moscow007:
Nigerian men always marry down because any Nigerian gal with up to 1m in her bank account often lacks manners and in her mind, she's miss feminist and perfect, can't change or compromise for nobody.

Everywhere in the world Nigerian men are desired, have u ever seen any foreigner talking about having it with a Nigerian woman?

They are nothing but liabilities, whether rich or poor.

Nigerian women who left this country made a terrible impression of all other women. They go about using the western laws to deal with their Nigerian husbands, not knowing that the rest of the world is watching. No man will desire to marry such women because they are evil incarnates.

Ennyjude:
If them never kill one motivational speaker,others no go learn

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You are the first woman to speak on this topic o!

Calm down naa!

Cassandraloius:
You're very correct! I agree 💯

It bothers me that after significant investments on your education, struggle to get a job or even start a business, investment on your body (fitness aficionados) and years to acquire properties, a guy will still most likely end up with a girl with little or no substance. I am an advocate of a symbiotic relationship. It makes no sense for any guy to settle for less. The truth is that the difference between you as a guy and a girl is the reproductive system. We need to start deconstructing the societal gender narratives, it makes girls lazy and overly reliant.

with the situation of things, it should be ₦5M

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen.

Have you bothered to find out why such happens?
No financially secure man will enter into such marriage unless they are getting something big from it.

Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.
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It happens too but not just frequent.

Medici777:
you be mumu. I’m sure you’re broke.

I have just checked your posts and I see how you move from thread to thread insulting people with nothing meaningful to add to discussions. That's how you identify uneducated people.

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.

If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.

Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.

Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.

Listen having 500k it's not enough to support a future husband except you mean 500k in the account for a start, mine is simple any lady who is seeing marriage or relationship as a poverty alleviation scheme should better stop that liability entitlement, if as a lady you have nothing to offer your husband financially then you have not business in marriage, you should also have something doing not everything the man will bring, we men they suffer that's why look around men don't eat the fruit of their labour almost most families now wives still dey alive while the man has long gone to eat dust , let's stop this , the men needs to be helped and supported, gold diggers stay off.

Saao:
just dey speak English, life is a mystery, na small boy dey do you.

Small boy? I suppose because I don't see things from your school of thought, na small boy dey do me. Lol, all this religious folks them. So Solomon that have over 1000 female he copulated, he's destiny was truncated blah blah blah. Africans and defying logic for religion. Not surprised we are still backward in all ramifications.



I'm not a small boy like you said. I just emanicipated myself from mental slavery. And, I don't need religion or a fear of afterlife to be a moralist.

It’s not just about how much she has right now but what she earns monthly or her potential. You might meet someone who doesn’t even have 30k at the moment, but when you see what she’s working on, her qualifications, and her drive, you’ll know she’s on her way to making serious money. What if it took her 4 years to save that 500k?

At the end of the day, marry a good person who wants marriage and wants it with you.

And what is 500k going to do?

MartinsD12:
Listen having 500k it's not enough to support a future husband except you mean 500k in the account for a start, mine is simple any lady who is seeing marriage or relationship as a poverty alleviation scheme should better stop that liability entitlement, if as a lady you have nothing to offer your husband financially then you have not business in marriage, you should also have something doing not everything the man will bring, we men they suffer that's why look around men don't eat the fruit of their labour almost most families now wives still dey alive while the man has long gone to eat dust , let's stop this , the men needs to be helped and supported, gold diggers stay off.

I have no issue supporting my husband financially (not 50/50) but when it's time to support the woman with childcare and domestic tasks, you guys are quick to say it's a woman's job, isn't that hypocrisy?

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500K IS PEANUT NOW,WHAT IF IVF IS INVOLVED TO HAVE KIDS IN THAT MARRIAGE,YOU NEED 5MILLION NOT 500K