₦airaland Forum

AndrewTate:
“didn’t demand so much” isn’t true. When people talk about “the old society” they leave out the fact that status has always been a thing from the onset of time, even in the Stone Age I believe some people lived better than others, in every ancient story of any civilization there has always been the rich and the not so rich…it’s all the same with now, not harder, just slight changes in pattern through which to achieve that goal. Choose the life you want as a man, map out the way to that goal and work towards it, no matter how big, as long as someone has done that before you can do it 100% but the way it’s designed is, the more you desire the harder the journey is but the same law states that if you can persevere till the end the universe will give you all you ask for.

@[2]> if you don’t want the burden to conquer as a man then live within your means without sharing your responsibilities with a woman or else you shouldn’t complain about the chaos that comes with it because you’re disrupting the flow of nature by doing just that… you don’t have to be rich, if you feeling you need to get married asap with 100thousand naira in your name then you should probably go to the village to pick a wife, live in a hut, make babies, send them to the government funded school around there, your little income will be enough to take care of that family without any conflict, but if you want more, you have to go though the very painful and difficult process of increasing your value as a man so that you can have a better life. This is how life was designed to be.
The life of a man is not easy but if he can conquer, the world is his to gain.

…and how much you can conquer is how much you can have. This why man in the general sense is placed above woman. Your life is about conquering through pain and toiling. Break the code and suffer the consequences, just as if women break the feminine code they suffer the consequences too.

are you of the opinion a man should go through these toil and pain all for a woman or for a higher purpose?

optm:
are you of the opinion a man should go through these toil and pain all for a woman or for a higher purpose?

it is for a higher purpose
…and the woman is a part of that higher purpose, so as your children and your linage to come after you. A man who successfully conquers the masculine race in his lifetime lives forever and his generations to come will be proud to come from him, that’s the blessing of God himself tied to the masculine conquest. As a man you are born a King who needs to show himself worthy of his crown through the difficulties of life, for with that life changing process is the only way you can be equipped with the right knowledge, wisdom and abilities through which you, and the coming generations after you will sustain and expand your legacy.
Never see a woman as your equal or feel cheated by nature. You serve a higher purpose with a higher reward and this is why your path is much harder… if you don’t want it, you’ll have to live beneath and serve those that accept their fate and conquer, not just you, but those after you, until someone, somewhere in the generational tree decides to take on the burden.

AndrewTate:
it is for a higher purpose
…and the woman is a part of that higher purpose, so as your children and your linage to come after you. A man who successfully conquers the masculine race in his lifetime lives forever and his generations to come will be proud to come from him, that’s the blessing of God himself tied to the masculine conquest. As a man you are born a King who needs to show himself worthy of his crown through the difficulties of life, for with that life changing process is the only way you can be equipped with the right knowledge, wisdom and abilities through which you, and the coming generations after you will sustain and expand your legacy.
Never see a woman as your equal or feel cheated by nature. You serve a higher purpose with a higher reward and this is why your path is much harder… if you don’t want it, you’ll have to live beneath and serve those that accept their fate and conquer, not just you, but those after you, until someone, somewhere in the generational tree decides to take on the burden.

how does a man benefit from a legacy after death ?

optm:
how does a man benefit from a legacy after death ?

I stated that multiple times already…

AndrewTate:
I stated that multiple times already…

let me rephrase . How does a man that's dead benefit from what happens on earth or from what he acquired while on earth but had to leave behind at death or legacies he left behind?

optm:
let me rephrase . How does a man that's dead benefit from what happens on earth or from what he acquired while on earth but had to leave behind at death or legacies he left behind?

I understood the first time… but I talked about this multiple times throughout my response to you. I’m sure if you read properly you’ll easily find the answers you’re looking for

AndrewTate:
I understood the first time… but I talked about this multiple times throughout my response to you. I’m sure if you read properly you’ll easily find the answers you’re looking for

I really did not find it in your post. From what you wrote, i could only deduce that generations would be proud to come from him and expand on his legacy . This doesn't in anyway benefit the dead in my understanding

optm:
I really did not find it in your post. From what you wrote, i could only deduce that generations would be proud to come from him and expand on his legacy . This doesn't in anyway benefit the dead in my understanding

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Wise man..I love the conversation...

I wonder why a man should go through all these for the sake of a woman or kids..

I mean if a man should ever go through all these pains,it should be for his ego or himself..

Man should live for himself since no one truly loves him,he should love no one..

An eye for an eye👌

Nyascobar1414:
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Wise man..I love the conversation...

I wonder why a man should go through all these for the sake of a woman or kids..

I mean if a man should ever go through all these pains,it should be for his ego or himself..

Man should live for himself since no one truly loves him,he should love no one..

An eye for an eye👌

lolz.... I do not subscribe to the life of selfishness or in anyways encourage that though. I just want to subject this perspective of his to logical reasoning

Rapmoney:
I have just checked your posts and I see how you move from thread to thread insulting people with nothing meaningful to add to discussions. That's how you identify uneducated people.

your papa. Waka!

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optm:
. I guess you are a Christian ..... What were the enumerated qualities of prov 31 woman? Nothing stops the woman to contribute in running the home and having her source of income.

I am not against a woman having a source of income, or contributing in running the home. My point is men should not demand 50/50. As a man set up a business for your wife and watch her contribute without you ever having to ask her to do so. I don't know any woman who doesn't like to make her own money and spend it on their family. Just like the proverb 31 woman

Firefly2017:
I am not against a woman having a source of income, or contributing in running the home. My point is men should not demand 50/50. As a man set up a business for your wife and watch her contribute without you ever having to ask her to do so. I don't know any woman who doesn't like to make her own money and spend it on their family. Just like the proverb 31 woman

Why should the woman wait for the man to set up a business for her? And if he doesn't set her up, does it mean she cannot be productive on her own?
There are women that make money but would hardly contribute to their home. The man bears all the burden and is put under pressure in meeting up with financial responsibility.

Firefly2017:
When I saw your name I smiled and said no wonderful. Very well said my brother.

Some people will just think of an idea from only one angle, and decide to go public with it.
The reason why there is so much broken marriages/homes is because the world has decided to go against the natural order of things, like the almighty Creator intended.

Men have become lazy and so afraid of hard work and ambitiousness, constantly worrying about why they should cater financially for their wives and family, and are continually demanding for the so called nonsensical 50/50
idealogy. Forgetting the role each gender has
to play in the family. Men have only ONE job, Provide/protect!! The hulkulian task of raising decent human beings and being a soul supporter for both the Man and the rest of the family has been so minimized that women don't pioritize it anymore cuz they are out in the jungle chasing money to bring to the table.

What a wretched state of affairs. We live in a failing world I tell you

Yet, your ilk advocate for gender equality, women emancipation and all whatnots, forgetting that the role of women is in their husbands' kitchens. Why should both gender enjoy equal opportunities in employment while only the man is expected to cater for the family? How does that make sense to you

Until we go back to the old natural order where women stayed back home while men worked and won all the bread, women must be ready to bring out their own money to fund the family. Stop citing biblical injunctions and natural order only where it suits your gender biases.

Sososo:
Seconded

But there are women that marry men of lower financial standing to them.

Veekee James

are you one of such?

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.

If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.

Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.

Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.

You can imagine. Yet another Nigerian guy asked his intended to quit her high paying job cos of ring.
Make Una dey continue.
Exchange rate na around 1800 to dollars. God help us

ICTspecialist:
are you one of such?

If you ask me,na who I go ask

In my own case I believe both parties
should bring something to the table cause recently wants and needs are getting out of hand.

Sososo:
If you ask me,na who I go ask

In my own case I believe both parties
should bring something to the table cause recently wants and needs are getting out of hand.

if you're a female.
Let's talk and get to know each other