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If she meets a time waster on her path to finding true love, then there's a chance that she will reach or exceed that age before meeting her life partner.

Some men do contribute to this. Leading a woman on and later dump her for someone else Some guys will waste a woman's time and she will end up reaching 30 with no husband.. You want to tell me such woman is not marriable? Ta gbafuo there.
In addition, as the economy is, alot of good single ladies will reach 30 no husband because guys that supposed to marry them aren't financially ready for marriage.

Do u know most ppl unmarried at 30 actually had a long term relationship that lasted for about 6 to 7yrs hoping for it to turn out well but it didn't??

Never say never until u hear some stories.
Why aren't you a billionaire yet? Despite all your hustles.

Why haven't you made it to the top richest man in African, or does dangote and the rest hustle more than you do?

The earlier we understand that certain things in life doesn't come by effort but destiny and sometimes individual luck. We limit the way we pressure ourselves and others.

If all the married women are that good and perfect? Why is the case of divorce on the increase, or does it mean that men are all at fault?

You've forgotten that some people are not just lucky when it comes to relationship. Some have invested everything they've gat, only to be jilted again and again. Some are victims of one sided love, and before they realize it, it's late as their mental and emotional health had been ruined.

If your name haven't made it to forbe record despite your hard work. You have no right to mock ladies who are unmarried at 30.
Marriage at early or late age doesn't define the person's character.
Everyone has personal reasons to choose either to marry early or late. The only thing that matters is making the right choice.

Is a journey when entered, is hard to retrieve from.

May God bless and protect whoever is about to start this journey and also pave way for new and old couples

So many good women out there who are scared of being with a demon call a man...

I pray they find a good man that will give them peace of mind 🙏

If she meets a time waster on her path to finding true love, then there's a chance that she will reach or exceed that age before meeting her life partner.

Some men do contribute to this. Leading a woman on and later dump her for someone else.

You can still marry the bad ones at their 20s and get divorced or separated after a week or months.

Good character isn’t by age,even still those in their 30s are the submissive ones, because they’ve experienced and understood what relationships and life entails and are equipped for marriage..

This is one of the reasons why we have plenty weddings today but very few marriages.

The society has succeeded marriage of women between '18 to 25 yrs' and so any lady above these ages and haven't married, you see them being desperate and go into any man they see and so regret at the end.

There are many reasons why a woman will be single at age 30years or above;

She might be focusing on career and education.

She might want to be financially independent before getting married

She might have set goals she wants to achieve before getting married

She may have standards for her partner and haven't found someone who meets them.

She may have fears of committing to marriage or one particular person for rest of her life

She might have health issues to

All this story because you're now looking for a husband

m..

That's why I pity any lady who stays in relationship more than six months without head. Some are even in a Methuselah kind of relationship only to start crying later.

As a lady you should learn to love and work with time and your head.

Nigerians dey believe say woman get expiration date.
They think any woman under 25 years don expire.

@OP
although you may be right, let me just say that.... if a woman was all that, then she wouldnt be on the market for so long. just because she looks good doesnt mean she "is" good. many women are just plain FUKCED UP MENTALLY, and this is the reason why nobody wants to wife them. if one man doesnt want to marry a good woman, that could be an error, but if ALL men doesnt want to marry you, then the problem is YOU

EreluRoz:
That's why I pity any lady who stays in relationship more than six months without head. Some are even in a Methuselah kind of relationship only to start crying later.

As a lady you should learn to love and work with time and your head.

sista, as much as 99% of women want to get married, not all of them will. some will remain single til eternity, unless they trick a man into marriage. same with men. some people out there are useless/worthless as a spouse.

In this economy?

Na how to make 100 million before month end dey bother me like this.

Proserpina:
In this economy?

Na how to make 100 million before month end dey bother me like this.

Tell us how you wan take make 100 million before the end of the month.

I just want to know why they care.

If marriage is skewed to favour women, they should see a single woman in her 30s and be happy.

Everyday247:
Tell us how you wan take make 100 million before the end of the month.

Na that answer me self dey find

thesicilian:
All this story because you're now looking for a husband

Is like you don smoke your colos abi,sheeh you saw female under my profile?🙄

Quite true but the question is, if she's got all those qualities you highlighted, why would any sane man ditch them? Men are not stupid, especially the high valued ones. If a man decards you, you are just not for keeps cos if you are, he'd go to any extent to keep you. Even if he's going to chase other girls, he'd still keep you or at least you'd occupy a space in his heart no matter how promiscuous he is.

Putting that aside, while men age like wine ( the older they get, they better they become), women age like milk ( the older they they get, their value begin to diminish). Over 30 especially if she was experienced,

1. biologically, fertility and other complications begin to set in.
2. Physically, her beauty starts fading
3. Sexually, she looses it, the tightness and grip plus slack breats and all
4. Emotionally, break ups, truama, bad experiences from prior relationships mess her up.

Regardless of good character and all... these are baggages that come as a woman gets older especially if she had an experienced youthful life. Baggages that will come to haunt her present or future life sooner or later so why would a sane man leave a young girl in her prime for an old hag?

Personally, I don't have any problem dating a lady at any age provided she's an adult but when it comes being serious, settling down and getting married, it's between 18 to 23, at most 25 when she's in her prime.

EreluRoz:
That's why I pity any lady who stays in relationship more than six months without head. Some are even in a Methuselah kind of relationship only to start crying later.

As a lady you should learn to love and work with time and your head.

coming from an inexperience single ...

EreluRoz:
That's why I pity any lady who stays in relationship more than six months without head. Some are even in a Methuselah kind of relationship only to start crying later.

As a lady you should learn to love and work with time and your head.

Meaning every 6 months they should be changing relationships and later you go blame men after having 25 relationships at 30 years say men no green but deep down it's 100 percent your fault.

The main reason why some women are in this boat is choice issue, they leave people who will stand with them and run to someone already with six girlfriends and has plethora of options because he has a little change to throw out. Men who have refused to throw out money for these set of thieves but has insisted in showing character traits but in addition have plenty money will tell you the bitter experience of these two situations.

Women are their own problems, when you are delusional and seek out what you can't ever do for yourself, this is what you get for been lazy and delusional

I don't want to judge anybody, but most of this girls are not fit for marriage.