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JovialJune:
Usual gibberish to justify the usual nonsense nairaland halfwits are fond of spewing, nothing in most of your brain except sex, sex and more sex, the so called logical gender that refuses to make use of their thinking faculty to better their country

Take a look at leaders of tomorrow typing long epistle because of 9 months deprivation of sèx as if it's a lifetime, a pity but expected from the breed of Nigerian men circulating the earth lately.

If this post were from a woman complaining that her husband doesn’t want to touch her because she’s pregnant, you would be the first to attack the man, emphasizing the importance of intimacy for a pregnant woman, etc.

You wouldn’t tell the woman to remain faithful until she’s 'beautiful' again, right? No, because she’s a woman, and she must be satisfied.

We’ve been here long enough to recognize a dim-witted hypocritical wench when we encounter one.

JovialJune:
Usual gibberish to justify the usual nonsense nairaland halfwits are fond of spewing, nothing in most of your brain except sex, sex and more sex, the so called logical gender that refuses to make use of their thinking faculty to better their country

Take a look at leaders of tomorrow typing long epistle because of 9 months deprivation of sèx as if it's a lifetime, a pity but expected from the breed of Nigerian men circulating the earth lately.

why do you contradict your moniker?
Jovial by name but harsh and Rude in reality?
Are you this callous and insensitive to your husband at home?

Tallesty1:
If this post were from a woman complaining that her husband doesn’t want to touch her because she’s pregnant, you would be the first to attack the man, emphasizing the importance of intimacy for a pregnant woman, etc.

You wouldn’t tell the woman to remain faithful until she’s 'beautiful' again, right? No, because she’s a woman, and she must be satisfied.

We’ve been here long enough to recognize a dim-witted hypocritical wench when we encounter one.

Sèx is living in your brain, nothing else

Get busy with your life, alot of fun things abound to make you fulfilled apart from sex.

JovialJune:
Sèx is living I'm your brain, nothing else,

Get busy with your life, alot of fun things abound to make you fulfilled apart from sex.

People that their advise is worth anything do not give it freely

Ketamine9000mg:
Good morning Nairalanders.
I am got married February this year and by April, my wife got pregnant.

Since the pregnancy, sex have become a no-go area for my wife. She has no medical condition suggesting sex is unsafe. She is always tired. Note: I do all the domestic works for this reason. I understand pregnancy can be tough, so I try as much as I can to make things easier for her.

It is however so worst to the extent that we can't cuddle because her whole body aches and her tummy is dragging her. We sleep as far as possible from each other, so as not to make her uncomfortable or cause more pain.

I love my wife(she is an amazing woman) and extramarital affair is not an option.

Now, it looks more like my sexual urge has amplified(you see set up) and looks like this will continue till delivery.


Please, I need your advice.
If you have experienced this or have a suggestion on how to navigate this, help a brother.

Learn to control yourself. Sex is not food. You won't die if you abstain for a short time.

Ketamine9000mg:
Thanks for your contribution. However, she is around 4½-5months already. I hope things get better though.

From what I've read, things will not always be that way throughout the duration of the pregnancy. You might even start running away from her at some point.
Just exercise some patience.

So why can't men like you forget about having children so that you can be having $ex monthly without complain? I always wonder.

Tallesty1:
The problem with you and others like you is selfishness and wickedness. It's always about what women want and how they should be treated.

During their period, women want men to understand their hormones. While pregnant, they expect him to stay celibate because she doesn’t want sex due to hormones and mood swings. Men should respect a woman's hormones, but a man's own hormones, such as horniness, should be disregarded and forgotten for nine months.

If she can't give him sex, then she should give him a pass to get it elsewhere. I pity the guy who is even waiting on her.

Nonsense and potential thunder victims.

Tallesty1:
People that their advise is worth anything do not give it freely

Rest!!!

LilMissFavvy:
So why can't men like you forget about having children so that you can be having $ex monthly without complain? I always wonder.

Because the two are not mutually exclusive sweetling.
Because it's not illegal
Because it's my life
Because it's none of your business.


😂 😂 😂 😂

No daughter of second Timothy will deny me sex for nine months and I go dey somewhere dey wait for am. Chukwu Aju.

I will get my needs sorted. Heck, I can even marry two more on the same day just because I can 😂

Tell me why I should settle for a plate of soup when I can have the whole pot?

D111:
Same thing applicable to me,my brother relax pregnancy is not easy as you think, please be patience with your wife, tough times never last

Thanks very much for that encouragement.

TheWinterBird:
Continue to exercise patience and discipline. Congratulations in advance, Daddy.

Thank you.

Baronthecelebri:
If your wife deny you sex,go ashawo quarter. Foolish man

It's ok. However, is not foolishness not to patronize "ashawo quarter".

jesmond3945:
welcome to marriage. I know you thought it would be back to back. Let me tell you it would get worse, not that she would not give you sex but the frequency would drop. Tell her to suck your dick or your nipples so that you cum thats the best you can do for now till she delivers.

I hope it doesn't. Thanks.

Dogalmighty17:
You poor summer child. This is your first pregnancy encounter.
I can tell you it is very normal. Her hormones are going haywire. She may not crave sex now and a few weeks later, she will demand more from you than you can give her. Na so e be.

All you need to do is to be supportive of her this period. It will pass. Na the belle dey cause am.

That said, e be like say your wife no carry her belle disturb you. That's why you have the time to be bothering about sex. When your woman tells you repeatedly every evening around 11pm that she wants you to take her to trailer park so she can sniff trailer exhaust and smell of diesel as the truck is firing(my experience), then you will know sex is the last thing that will cross your mind.

Give your wife allowance. Dem no dey dey too normal this period.

Trust me, I face such disturbances. I work more at home now than in the office.

ecolime:
All the comments here got me 🤣

OP, all I can say is it is well with you.

Amen O.

Myrrhis:
From what I've read, things will not always be that way throughout the duration of the pregnancy. You might even start running away from her at some point.
Just exercise some patience.

Thank you plenty. I really hope it works out that way.

We4all:
Learn to control yourself. Sex is not food. You won't die if you abstain for a short time.

Actually sex is an essential human need. Psychology put it in the same group as need for food, water and air.

So it is very important.

Ketamine9000mg:
Actually sex is an essential human need. Psychology put it in the same group as need for food, water and air.

So it is very important.

So, I guess people who are not sexually active are on the brink of dying. Remember to introduce your kids to early sex since it's very important.

Singles, number 1 criteria you should look for in your spouse is KINDNESS. If both of you are kind, many issues will be resolved amicably in marriage; in short many things will not be issues at all.

We4all:
So, I guess people who are not sexually active are on the brink of dying. Remember to introduce your kids to early sex since it's very important.

No two human have same hormonal imbalance, i can't work my arse out taking care of people i call family and they become insensitive during my time of need. Maybe everyone will feed and Carter for their needs for 9months too.


Fhoolish people talking about 9months as if after delivery,the man won't wait for another 6 to 7months.

Some stupid people on this forum is just to come into people's post and talk like they left their senses in labor room during birth.

ekene101:
No two human have same hormonal imbalance, i can't work my arse out taking care of people i call family and they become insensitive during my time of need. Maybe everyone will feed and Carter for their needs for 9months too.


Fhoolish people talking about 9months as if after delivery,the man won't wait for another 6 to 7months.

Some stupid people on this forum is just to come into people's post and talk like they left their senses in labor room during birth.

Your time of need? Considering it's the woman at risk during pregnancy and labor, then I think it's time to reevaluate your needs.

Ketamine9000mg:
Good morning Nairalanders.
I am got married February this year and by April, my wife got pregnant.

Since the pregnancy, sex have become a no-go area for my wife. She has no medical condition suggesting sex is unsafe. She is always tired. Note: I do all the domestic works for this reason. I understand pregnancy can be tough, so I try as much as I can to make things easier for her.

It is however so worst to the extent that we can't cuddle because her whole body aches and her tummy is dragging her. We sleep as far as possible from each other, so as not to make her uncomfortable or cause more pain.

I love my wife(she is an amazing woman) and extramarital affair is not an option.

Now, it looks more like my sexual urge has amplified(you see set up) and looks like this will continue till delivery.


Please, I need your advice.
If you have experienced this or have a suggestion on how to navigate this, help a brother.

When our fathers says polygamy is to the rescue of men, una say their mouth dey smell..

Abeg, share from the consequences of the actions of you new generation men jare..

Enjoy in peace

SensualMan1:
Don't mind em. Let em keep enabling rubbish. I didn't know pregnancy was an Ailment.

leave them ooh...you just dey look..

God forbid but I am patiently waiting for their divorce rantings here late next year..

I am not wishing them bad, but I am sure the wife won't change even after pregnancy..

Tallesty1:
The problem with you and others like you is selfishness and wickedness. It's always about what women want and how they should be treated.

During their period, women want men to understand their hormones. While pregnant, they expect him to stay celibate because she doesn’t want sex due to hormones and mood swings. Men should respect a woman's hormones, but a man's own hormones, such as horniness, should be disregarded and forgotten for nine months.

If she can't give him sex, then she should give him a pass to get it elsewhere. I pity the guy who is even waiting on her.

Nonsense and potential thunder victims.

Urnlast line make me laff

Baba leave them alone, me I am patently waiting for the divorce rantings here late next year

But before then, allow the guy to suffer in silence small.

If thunder wan bless him, let him go use konji mistakenly ræpe a minor, na peel dem go peel hin preeq, and na the wife go first blame him

But in anyway sha. I am happy he's dying in silence

JovialJune:
I want to believe you have a mother at home or perhaps elderly women in your family, maybe you should ask them what pregnancy entails and the different effects it has on women since you are too docile and slow to reason properly

Now imagine that for all those times your mother gave birth to you and your siblings, your father had to go out there to service himself because he couldn't hold himself for 9 months, and this is me hoping he was faithful to your mother, because from your baseless counter comments, it's either you grew up without your parents, or your father was/is a community diicking man that's why you think it's a norm, it can also be that you grew up in a dysfunctional home where your mother had to go through hell during pregnancy cos all of you in that house think that carrying another human for 9 months, with the side effects and all, is seen as nothing, pregnancy that has to do with life and death of either the mother and child, or both

But no, 9 months is too much for a useless husband to wait till his pregnant wife put to birth safely, 9 months is like a life time out of the remaining years of his marriage where he can sèx his existence away, the man must be the priority no be so, to a magnificently deficit human with the brain of a snail.

Nonsense and stupidity to the mentality of nairaland boys that reason like a one year old.

U re talking like birds...this is just normal jargons

TrustNone:
why do you contradict your moniker?
Jovial by name but harsh and Rude in reality?
Are you this callous and insensitive to your husband at home?

na single mother of four...born for 2 diff men u dy follow talk oh

Tallesty1:
Because the two are not mutually exclusive sweetling.
Because it's not illegal
Because it's my life
Because it's none of your business.


😂 😂 😂 😂

No daughter of second Timothy will deny me sex for nine months and I go dey somewhere dey wait for am. Chukwu Aju.

I will get my needs sorted. Heck, I can even marry two more on the same day just because I can 😂

Tell me why I should settle for a plate of soup when I can have the whole pot?

Baba u dey motivate me aje...

These vultures are all single mothers at ages 45 to 48..

Na pepper body dey dey use reply you..but guess what?? Na like so dem go kpain

We4all:
So, I guess people who are not sexually active are on the brink of dying. Remember to introduce your kids to early sex since it's very important.

must u talk like a fu.ul....very incoherent reply..

An!mas even talks better

OlawaleBammie:
When our fathers says polygamy is to the rescue of men, una say their mouth dey smell..

Abeg, share from the consequences of the actions of you new generation men jare..

Enjoy in peace

Polygamy is not without its own challenges. During the time of our fathers, men who practised monogamy existed too.

OlawaleBammie:
leave them ooh...you just dey look..

God forbid but I am patiently waiting for their divorce rantings here late next year..

I am not wishing them bad, but I am sure the wife won't change even after pregnancy..

Believe me, you will wait for a very long time(a life time).

OlawaleBammie:
U re talking like birds...this is just normal jargons

Same way your mother talks.

JovialJune:
Same way your mother talks.

So how come parent enter this ??

Na so Yr mama dey disrespect her elders?? No wonder she no tey for husband house, na her footsteps u dey follow so