₦airaland Forum

Nawao.. Not a good moves as a Nigerian mother..you shouldn't allow UK go

She thought she's in Nigeria where human life is cheap especially under tinubu

etrouble:
This one resemble criminal. But she go dey get sad that her baby die. Na money to take care of the baby she go find. She go regret the death, but no correction

What a careless and silly woman.
Where is the dad? If the dad was there, he would’ve taken care of the baby while she go out to cover her shift.

The little brain Nurses must have claimed custody of the child from the father with child support sef.

Only to leave the baby for 8 hours unattended to.

This is cruelty.

Violence against children and house helps is highly predominant among women but the government kept coving it and blaming men for everything.

Pinkyposh:
Not 8 years but 8 months old, that was too heartless of her

This is not all her fault, it is a reflection of the failure of Black community or Nigerian Community at large.


We are community for mouth not action.

With our population, are u telling me that one person cannot be looking after that baby and collecting money?



She no fit come nairaland ask for help and somebody avialable help?


All u need to do is vet them and interview and tell them what you dont want plus have cameras and make sure you pay them.

Nigerians are the most hypocritical people on earth
Whatever happened to
He who is without sin let him cast the first stone

Or

Judge not lest ye be judged

Jobless online idiots spend their time ruthlessly passing judgement on others

If you have not walked in her shoes don't sit on your lazy ass talking crap

These are the same entitled idiots sitting in Nigeria crying

sister send me money for school fees

immortalcrown:
Sentiment aside, the mother was heartless, irrational and careless, no matter her desperation for money. Who is that adult that will leave an eight-year-old baby alone for 8 hours? Her jail term is too small.

The baby was 10 week old not an 8 year old kid.

sentence is too light

Anybody advising you to go to a civilized country without your spouse is your enemy. Because, if the child father has been there, he could have taken care of the child.

We are not maturing as Blacks.

Certain things, don pass to blame individual, the question is what provisions do we have as a community?

Eniolohunda:
Anybody advising you to go to a civilized country without your spouse is your enemy. Because, if the child father has been there, he could have taken care of the child.

You are stupid
You just open your mouth wah
Like a fool
Do you know if the child's dather is dead or in prison or that he is actually NOT THERE.?

You know nothing about her so shut up

pocohantas:
Nawa. Are we sure her head is okay? Who leaves a newborn alone for hours. Was she really hoping to come meet the child alive? 3 yrs in prison is small for this. Abroad is not designed for 1 person with kids. Very hard. Even harder for a struggling immigrant. She should have joined a Nigerian community. A church or something. I heard they have such and help each other babysit for a token.

There is a guy on the thread where a baby was attacked in a school who celebrated his mother leaving 3 year Olds unattended

Afonjeezy:
She thinks it's Tinubu's regime where death is normal.

I guess Tinubu has consumed you and you can’t think straight anymore. I bet you are even fantasizing with the man at night. Lack of sense and sensibility is bothering you and those zombies clicking “likes”

Even all those Redeem church all over the world are just completely useless?

This si the kind of place they suppose help.

I'm sure their is a Redeem Church close to her house.


I will not blame only her but the entire nation.


Nigeria and Black at large, we failed both mother and child.


Also, we need to do more to hold baby daddy or single father to account.

mohbadliveson:
It's not by force to live in UK. If it's Nigeria, she will have someone to keep the baby with

Nigeria has it false due to the idiots at Aso Rock, but you always have family or community support.

aribisala0:
Nigerians are the most hypocritical people on earth
Whatever happened to
He who is without sin let him cast the first stone

Or

Judge not lest ye be judged

Jobless online idiots spend their time ruthlessly passing judgement on others

If you have not walked in her shoes don't sit on your lazy ass talking crap

These are the same entitled idiots sitting in Nigeria crying sister send me money for school fees

Baby was 10 week old sir…left unattended for 8 hours.

Who does that and you are talking about judge not lest you be judged.

10 weeks, not even up to 3 months left unattended by his biological mother and you are criticising those who are horrified by her action.

She even tried to get the childminder involved in something she knew nothing about. Oga, this lady is heartless and evil. She can do stuffs that will shock even you that’s defending her.

thorpido:
Is she well at all?
How do you leave a baby at home alone for that long?
To do that to a child of 8yrs is still considered a big offence not to talk of a baby.

I think that is what to consider here.

It looks more like a post partum depression case because she abandoned the baby and wants to get back to earn a living. She has not come to terms with her new realities. She wants to go back to caring for people instead of caring for a needy baby. I hope she gets the support she needs.

immortalcrown:
Sentiment aside, the mother was heartless, irrational and careless, no matter her desperation for money. Who is that adult that will leave an eight-year-old baby alone for 8 hours? Her jail term is too small.

The boy was not 8 years old he was 10 weeks old!

mohbadliveson:
Justice served

not a enough a hour was like one year without water, food and wrapped in one position

KosiGee:
Baby was 10 week old sir…left unattended for 8 hours.

Who does that and you are talking about judge not lest you be judged.

10 weeks, not even up to 3 months left unattended by his biological mother and you are criticising those who are horrified by her action.

She even tried to get the childminder involved in something she knew nothing about. Oga, this lady is heartless and evil. She can do stuffs that will shock even you that’s defending her.

Guy if you do dot gave anything to say just dey your dey
I talked about jobless idiots and you self identified. Did i call your name?
I have zero patience for idiots
I did not defend her though that is my right ,I did not
You are an illiterate fool
So just sray on your lane
Unless of course you want both of us to be banned and I will gladly obliged you

For all those who want to go abroad as a single mother or send your wife abroad with kids. No body to help you watch the children most times

For them to find out, u can imagine the type of Cry the baby would have cried.

It was heartless, even if she did not go to that work, the hospital can manage, they normally have more nurses than they actually need, sitting around in the reception gossiping.


This was a poor judgement call and Nigeria need to build a community where ever they go regardless of tribe.


The community should even grow to a Black Community, including non Nigerians.


We are old enough for it.

immortalcrown:
Sentiment aside, the mother was heartless, irrational and careless, no matter her desperation for money. Who is that adult that will leave an eight-year-old baby alone for 8 hours? Her jail term is too small.

Read the post again. The baby was 10-week old.

aribisala0:
You are stupid
You just open your mouth wah
Like a fool
Do you know if the child's dather is dead or in prison or that he is actually NOT THERE.?

You know nothing about her so shut up

Mumu, you better face front before you enter lagoon. I no even get any of your time

Trying to get on a plane on a one way ticket was suspicious and will increase your sentence

We should return to our roots and the believe that it takes a community to raise a child.


Clearly this case is confirmation that we need each other and together each achieve more.


I don talk finish, next na to open my community focused church world wide.

immortalcrown:
Sentiment aside, the mother was heartless, irrational and careless, no matter her desperation for money. Who is that adult that will leave an eight-year-old baby alone for 8 hours? Her jail term is too small.

Na money to take care of the baby she go look for ooooo. Some Oyinbos dey leave baby for house to go fucck their new boyfriends. This one leave baby for house to go look for money to take care of the baby.

She took a very bad risk. It's unfortunate it ended that way. She lost her baby, her job, and her freedom because she will be in jail. Already she is depressed, I hope she does not run mad while in jail. May GOD come to her aid

omoredia:
Nigerians are cursed by God himself. Spit

Your family you mean, not Nigerians

Bliss4Lyfe:
We should return to our roots and the believe that it takes a community to raise a child.


Clearly this case is confirmation that we need each other and together each achieve more.

NL will not allow me post a picture because of the daily limits. There is a picture on this post that explains what you wrote here. We need to adjust what we think is modernism, it is not helping society at all.

papyjaypaul:
Women should learn that we need each other

U can guess where she went

Bliss4Lyfe:
This is not all her fault, it is a reflection of the failure of Black community or Nigerian Community at large. .

But madam....What do u mean by it's not her fault?? How are u able to blame someone else for a mother locking her child in the house for 8 hrs......
As in, r u women allergic to being responsible?y'all must find someone else or something else to blame for all ur evil and BS