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| Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by EmekaBlue(op): 5:55pm On Sep 11, 2024*. Modified: 6:41pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Please forgive my grammatical errors. I would like to hear/read your take on this topic.Recently I noticed some of my married male friends are the ones who go to buy things in the market for the kitchen. Please don't call me a woman wrapper or a simp. I really don't fancy men going to the market to buy food stuff even to the extent of buying leaves and those local things for soup. Right from time I'm not a kitchen person so maybe this is a reason but I don't think it's nice to take over that woman's department because you feel she might be adding more money or you just want to keep account of your expenditure... If she wants to chop there abeg leave her and maybe try only to minimize her gains by letting her know you have idea of the prices but not carrying your masculine body to the market to be pricing ugwu leaves ogbono and kpomo. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by correctyourself(m): 6:05pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Anybody amongs them that is available can do it, it's a way of helping your family. i do it for my family. Mostly when I'm close to the market i just enter the market instead of asking someone far from market at that moment to start coming. 10 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Nobody: 6:28pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
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| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Magnoliaa(f): 6:30pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Nawa oo. Some people too do o. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Magnoliaa(f): 6:34pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
It is right sha. It very, very right, and it is the order of things. By nature and culture. For example, pansophist excels in that department. He does it diligently and happily. My only concern and duty is with the other room. So, yes, the man cooks; the woman satisfies him sexually, and the home is peaceful and healthy. Any other arrangement different from this is a recipe for disaster. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Magnoliaa(f): 6:39pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Una get time shaaaa. Still be doing man do this; woman do this shenanigans for this Tinubunomics period wey we dey so. 🤣 Well done. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Wawelexy(m): 6:49pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
EmekaBlue:Oga there's nothing wrong in doing that especially if she doesn't complain.... I'm a good cook, I prefer cooking than eating out... If I have been doing this myself now that I'm single, nothing will stop me when I finally get married, except I have a busy schedule 4 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by folake4u: 6:56pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
EmekaBlue:Lol, I don't see it as big deal. Growing up, my father has ALWAYS been the one going to the market for all heavy shopping. My mother only goes for petty market runs (when she's chanced). It is really not a big deal especially if the couple understand the dynamics of their relationship. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by pocohantas(f): 7:02pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
EmekaBlue:It isn't right or wrong. It depends on what model and arrangement works best for the family. It has been happening in some homes, but since you said it is recent, I guess it is deliberate to have these men see firsthand how expensive things are. Sometimes men think you are exaggerating or stealing money. That could have worked Pre-Buhari, but not in 2024. Tell them to follow you and they will refuse. They rather stay home and scold you for not using 5k to cook in a week. Wives have advised themselves to allow men go to the market small. So they can understand women are not lying. Please let your friends do the market run. 7 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by GloriousGbola: 7:05pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
EmekaBlue:When the missus was pregnant I bought a lot stuff in the market. I dont do market runs today, but I can tell the best stores place to buy any household items from toilet roll to soap to toothpaste to detergent I buy practically all the home items. Also the store sold noodles and semovita and cooking oil and Maggi and seasoning. I don't like market because they will always try to rip me off 4 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Proserpina: 7:30pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
It's not right!!! It's an abomination! Any man that does that has lost his manhood!! Aaaagbedo! ka maa ri!!! Only simps does that! That's why as a male you must marry as a foetus so you do not at any point in life do a "woman's duty" ! 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by folake4u: 7:37pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Proserpina:Pina please. 😂😂😂😂 Some won't understand sarcasm and label you "pick me". 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by eepeepook: 7:47pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Marry your own wife and run the household however you want. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Nazgul: 8:29pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Proserpina: 1 Like
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| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Tallesty1(m): 8:43pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
All wives should find means to get their husbands to do it, at least once a month. Make them know how the price of things be. Some men go drop 5-10k and expect to woman to cook with it for two days. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Tallesty1(m): 8:45pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Proserpina: 4 Likes
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| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by pansophist(m): 9:18pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Magnoliaa:Depends though. If she is a feminist, I won't buy it. It's her duty. But if na trad woman, then of course. Ill cook for her sef. Everything for her. She be ally not an opponent.  8 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Proserpina: 10:05pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
folake4u:Naz and Tall are giving me bombastic side eye already... Please what do men want self Lol @Pick me... On Nl? Okay I dey come 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by minasu190: 10:24pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Go UK,or US make you see as some men they run errands for their wives, nothing wrong in helping your partner,na Africa here they carry culture for head,na naija husband go dey help im wife wash plates or clothes, you go hear you don use juju for the man 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Proserpina: 10:35pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Nazgul:I speak on behalf of Alfa mails and not simps like you 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Sapasenator: 10:39pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Is the man jobless? 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Tallesty1(m): 10:49pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Proserpina: 1 Like
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| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Magnoliaa(f): 11:12pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
pansophist:I'm saying something is by divine design, you're bringing in feminism. Just continue deceiving young boys online ehn? When you log off from here, you'll go home to be a dutiful husband to your wife- feminist or not. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Nazgul: 11:37pm On Sep 11, 2024 |
Proserpina: 1 Like
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| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Kk4(m): 2:29am On Sep 12, 2024 |
I don't understand some of my fellow Nigeria men. Food wey you go follow chop! But it's okay to buy it if you live with your friend but not for the woman you love, your wife or the mother of your kids. You wonder why your relationship no dey work na because you no dey put effort. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by idahme(m): 2:56am On Sep 12, 2024 |
Magnoliaa:U no go beg am to remove u from the streets? Him fit consider you be humble 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Yankee101: 5:02am On Sep 12, 2024 |
It’s the economy Men think the women are taking some money for themselves Allow the woman to control the house keeping budget 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by folake4u: 6:15am On Sep 12, 2024 |
Proserpina:Toh! You don see am now oh. Those two men fit drag you till thy kingdom come. Hahaha oh well. They want a God fearing Sister Mary with Nicki Minaj vibes and Cardi B body. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Mikespecialone(m): 6:44am On Sep 12, 2024 |
Magnoliaa:So the man should be cooking while you keep satisfying sexually ? No b see finish b dat  1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by GloriousGbola: 7:52am On Sep 12, 2024 |
folake4u:Naz is like. They have come again. In this Tinubu economy. They will buy vibrator for over 100k.use n1200 per litre petrol to charge it,when all that is required is a nice n900 CR dinner to charge the battery and your man will ride you and grind you for free. For tallesty - these silly women and their nonsense emancipation rubbish. Because someone told them they should never be under a man in any circumstances - even in the ozaroom. Oversabi third wave Feminazi. Modern men have no problem with you riding us - you will get there faster, after all You will not replace us  1 Like 1 Share
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| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:54am On Sep 12, 2024 |
I don't see anything wrong with it. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For The Man To Do The Buying Of Cooking Things In The Market? by folake4u: 9:00am On Sep 12, 2024 |
GloriousGbola:Lmaooooooooo you know them so well. 1 Like |
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