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What do you think is causing the rise in single men uninterested in relationships over the past few years?

When you're old enough to date you will know.

Why waste 2-3 months wooing a girl when you can sleep with her for 10k or less??

fund to settle down and run life after settling down

Economy.

Nigerian women have turned relationship in employement

The Girls dont really know what a life time union is

Magnetic010:
Nigerian women have turned relationship in employement

Like you all are employed

Oowel:
The Girls dont really know what a life time union is

Eyah... Sorry

Do you know?

Simply put poverty. (90% of single guys)

Proserpina:
Like you all are employed

You just agreed with him 😂.

It's like saying men avoid relationships because they are unemployed and can't afford them.

today most men can get all the perks from women, without having to date nor marry them, so why should they waste time? also, r/ships are complicated and stressful to many, and they'd rather be single and play the field than settle with ONE woman.

if dating a babe brings more stress/worries/pressures in your life (than alleviate your mind/life) then this is the wrong union for you

Proserpina:
Like you all are employed

I hope you're not one of those ladies that quote guys here and start a full on battle of the sexes with them....my answer is purely based on what majority of guys especially young guys think about Nigerian girls....The financial expectations most Nigerian ladies have going in a relationship is beyond what most average nigerian guys can fulfill expect them yahoo boys and a few well paid guys and they are just not enough of them especially given the hard economic reality

Tallesty1:
You just agreed with him 😂.

It's like saying men avoid relationships because they are unemployed and can't afford them.

If all Nigerian women see relationship as employment what do we say of the average university guy with more than one girlfriends? The unemployed guy with a supportive fiancee, the unemployed husband with more than a kid? Retired senior citizens with functioning homes.

Even the average jigolo who prostitute himself for a living will come online to type nonsense.

Hmmm

Stephen2324:
What do you think is causing the rise in single men uninterested in relationships over the past few years?

Men love ego, as the head and authority to be respected while he provides for the home. but nowadays women has proof severally that they can't be submissive as they too want to be in charge. Oya now, so men just they watch as Thier age expires.

Proserpina:
If all Nigerian women see relationship as employment what do we say of the average university guy with more than one girlfriends? The unemployed guy with a supportive fiancee, the unemployed husband with more than a kid? Retired senior citizens with functioning homes.

Even the average jigolo who prostitute himself for a living will come online to type nonsense.

I 'm not sure where you got the idea that this applies to all Nigerian women. It’s definitely not from my comment or the original post.

Everything doesn’t have to be a gender war. It’s just a fact that many ladies see relationships as a form of financial support system, and a lot of Nigerian guys are simply too broke to afford them. A lady once told me straight up, during my tough days, to forget about women and focus on making money—she ended things that night.

Does she speak for all Nigerian women? No. Is she the only one who thinks that way? Absolutely not.

These are just realities.

And don’t tell me about students who date broke students. In most of those cases, even the broke male students still give up their garri, indomie, and provisions just to keep the relationship going.

Unemployed guy with supportive fiance? LMAO like we don't know that some ladies invest in man's future with their feelings 😂.

How long is she gonna be there if he is not fast in becoming who she thinks he will be?

Most times, these ladies legit invest a guy's potentials with nothing but feelings. If things go according to their prediction, they will claim to be there for him when he had nothing, if it doesn't they will port because he is lazy.

As the economy bites harders, these lazy girls became more entitled and lazier.

Secondly, I no fit dey find money, dey find love at the same time.

Thirdly, paternity fraud has become very rampant

Fourthly, many men have come to the conclusion, marriage doesn't favour men one but, what do you stand to gain from it exactly don't you don't enjoy as a single man... Aside child bearing

Magnetic010:
Nigerian women have turned relationship in employement

Billing. Billing Billing Billing



Dem go rebel you!

It cheaper and easier to carry Hookupian than to maintain a relationship with person wey no get work! Money for even toiletries na on top your head.

Guess What

You and 10 other guys Dey share am

MackIV:
Billing. Billing Billing Billing



Dem go rebel you!

It cheaper and easier to carry Hookupian than to maintain a relationship with person wey no get work! Money for even toiletries na on top your head.

Guess What

You and 10 other guys Dey share am

My babe landlord dey para for am after an altercation they had na me dey try beg both parties na so she talk say, why you dey bring diferent men come house. And this was a house i paid 80% of the rent for amongst other things.


I couldn't look at her the same again.

jorion:
Why waste 2-3 months wooing a girl when you can sleep with her for 10k or less??

God bless you my G

Women are something else, I don't need anybody drama

Cost of maintaining relationship is high due to the current economic crisis.

Proserpina:
Like you all are employed

And there is your crude quote to your answer.
If you see a man who intend to woo a girl as jobless and the start of the relationship as a job. Isn’t it wiser for him to continue looking for an handsome paying job for him to settle down with

I’d rather use my money to better my life ,than to spend it on anybody that would not appreciate my efforts,cos I work really hard.


After my investment on myself pays off,since I’m playing the long haul ,then I can get as many girls for myself….

Even the beautiful girls are not yet born my guy,relax the babes no Dey finish 😝

Aside the economy challenges, guys are already tired of these current crop of Nigerian girls.

They only want to smash & pass!

TOPCRUISE:
And there is your crude quote to your answer.
If you see a man who intend to woo a girl as jobless and the start of the relationship as a job. Isn’t it wiser for him to continue looking for a handsome job for him to settle down with

Why would you go through the struggles of getting a high paying JOB just so you can be with A WOMAN

I just don't understand Nigerian men...

Do you know the stress that comes with a high paying job??

Are you willing to sacrifice your mental, physical, psychological and spritual health, and time doing a stressful job just so you can settle down with a woman who wouldn't give a F about you if you didn't have the money

THINK ABOUT YOUR LIFE

jorion:
Why would you go through the struggles of getting a high paying JOB just so you can be with A WOMAN

I just don't understand Nigerian men...

Do you know the stress that comes with a high paying job??

Are you willing to sacrifice your mental, physical, psychological and spritual health, and time doing a stressful job just so you can settle down with a woman who wouldn't give a F about you if you didn't have the money

THINK ABOUT YOUR LIFE

Sorry. But I will never support or reason with someone who is jobless to get married or someone with a meagre salary that can’t take care of the home and his family to get married and settle down with a woman. I know the saying of he who finds a wife finds a good thing is an advice to both the jobless man and the non jobless man. But I will not encourage the former to go ahead in this Tinubu economy even though most ladies advise on that. That is my take

The economy will make you rethink

jorion:
Why would you go through the struggles of getting a high paying JOB just so you can be with A WOMAN

I just don't understand Nigerian men...

Do you know the stress that comes with a high paying job??

Are you willing to sacrifice your mental, physical, psychological and spritual health, and time doing a stressful job just so you can settle down with a woman who wouldn't give a F about you if you didn't have the money

THINK ABOUT YOUR LIFE

Thank you my brother. The thing just tire me no be small!

In this time and age when men and women now have equal opportunities in virtually all sectors, they still tell the man to get a high paying job just so he can marry a woman!
Rationalizing the above is even enough to discourage any smart-thinking guy from venturing into such slavery.

If it were the time men had the upper hand at the labor market, it'll be a different kettle of fish, but now? No no

Stephen2324:
What do you think is causing the rise in single men uninterested in relationships over the past few years?

1) economy
2) women have made the baby mama thing rampant some link it to economy
3) increase in the level of fast money among irresponsible boys.
4) ladies now open their legs to the highest bidder
5) now I can look for a beautiful lady book her for a week..pay her for a week to stay in the hotel I book..order food to be served for that week and visit the room anytime I like for the week so inadvertently I have rented a wife for a week..and bang the hell out of her for that period next week I pick a new lady..so how can such a man be serious with life how can such a lady be serious when she gets paid what many can't even get in a month for 1 week. How do u expect such a man to not look for fast money that might end up killing him in his prime

suckprick:
Simply put poverty. (90% of single guys)

Yeah it is poverty