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| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by lavida001: 12:46am On Sep 19, 2024 |
giselle237:You forgot to add the part where she and her family can be kidnapped for living in affluence or driving a nice car. Hanty uk is better than that hell home for now. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by lavida001: 12:49am On Sep 19, 2024 |
ehizario2012:Where is komburu 😂😂 |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by wonlasewonimi: 1:24am On Sep 19, 2024 |
ehizario2012:LMAO |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by OgbeniOptional(m): 2:00am On Sep 19, 2024 |
NurseGrace:I hope i get to see this kind of offer one day. I will leave Uk straight up. You want to be happy or you want to work like horse? |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by giselle237: 4:14am On Sep 19, 2024*. Modified: 7:38am On Sep 19, 2024 |
lavida001:You also haven't completely escaped the insecurity and threat of kidnapping as long as your parents and siblings are living there. It’s not just the drivers of ‘nice cars’ who are unsafe; everyone is at risk. So, why is this such a highlight for her and her 5 million? As I mentioned before, I strongly encourage her to take the £2,000 job. I’m also very open to look into finding a replacement for her position—she could earn 1.5-2 million every month with that option. Signing out. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by 080bjaked(m): 10:32am On Sep 19, 2024 |
justwise:It's interesting how this argument has "evolved" sha. I recalled it used to be "200k job in NG or relocating to Canada" around 2013 or so later it became, "if I earn 500k in NG, I have no business relocating" then "Bank Mgrs relocating are fools" blah blah then the benchmark moved to 1m, 2m......now 5m I'm not advising anyone please (the question seems hypothetical to me at best) but if in a bid to keep the trend logical, the NGN salary moved from 200k to 5m in less than 15years, I wouldn't bank on it when deciding my future. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by justwise(mod): 3:21pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
claremont:1. What is your definition of a good quality of life? N500.00 is about £230, so what quality of life will that afford you in a county where you have unrealisable power supply, unmotorable roads, no free health care, no security, abysmal educational system and the govt that is desperately corrupt 2 . She can't afford that even with 2yrs savings while living in Nigeria., how much do you think she needs to save to be able to pay her kids school fees here, rent, bills, feeding, accommodation and someone who will look after them considering their ages and still pay her rent and bills in Nigeria? The only reason many of us moved out of Nigeria was because we are looking for a better future right? So after living abroad for 3,4,5 yrs what stops you from moving back to Nigeria since Nigeria is a better choice? Please don't tell me that you are waiting to get a job that pays 5M, or you want to get your citizenship here first, no you don't need it, all you need is your Nigerian passport, work experiences and education you have acquired here. How many times here have you bribed the police to do their job? How many times here have paid for NHS treatment first before receiving treatment even as a visitor ? Yes we all pay NL and taxes but workers in Nigeria pay taxes as well but get nothing out of it. Moving abroad is not just about money, its about peace of mind, security and a better future. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by justwise(mod): 3:26pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
080bjaked:I think that figure is made-up but i'm not thinking heavily on that to make my points. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by eyesaswide: 3:28pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
Please how can one verify if their cos is real/fake. Asking for a friend. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by cashmyles: 4:50pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
lavida001:Hopefully in the UK, enjoying his dream life😁 |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by ukay2: 5:11pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
justwise:Well said.... |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by descarado: 5:22pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
If I get that offer, I will stay in Nigeria. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by descarado: 5:25pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
justwise:The possibility of losing her pin is there. Blacks lose pin cos of flimsy reasons. I know so many that have lost theirs. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by descarado: 5:37pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
justwise:A nurse in an oil company has loads of untapped possibilities outside Nigeria courtesy of the oil company. She is better of with the oil company. How much is nhs offering her? Depending on the department, she might not start off well. And cos it's a contract, she will stay in that department for 5 yrs b4 thinking of changing. Also,nhs always look for nurses that will work in units where home nurses run away from cos of pin problems and court cases. As a jjc, she don't know the system and the bottlenecks therein. Most start off and end up with private companies or agencies. E get why. Unless there is no offer like what she had, she can go for nhs. Working in oil company, she also has access to free medicals for all her house members invluding servants as long as they are registered under her and free schools for her kids. The kids can school anywhere in the world courtesy of the help and connections of the oil company for tertiary education. She wanna relocate her family,she will be helped from buying house to settling down for her family She want to work in Canada or wherever tomorrow, it's easy. And she is sure of promotion. You can be in band 5 for10 yrs receiving peanuts. Nigeria is bad yet loads of people are still surviving there. I can see that many people here do not actually know what one gains while working with major oil companies in Nigeria. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by descarado: 5:44pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
giselle237:A career working with council earns more than that. If I should break it down, she is going to end up in those anyhow units. 2k for a month as a nurse. That's a joke. In fact, a career that did few overtime earn what some band 6 nurses earn in nhs especially those working with the council. Nurses are fleeing cos pay is very low. Drs is even worst. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by justwise(mod): 6:14pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
descarado:Example of one of those flimsy reasons please |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by justwise(mod): 6:21pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
descarado:I have two family members working in oil and gas in Nigerian for more than 20yrs now, their families are all abroad but they paid out of pocket for that, yes they are doing well with houses and investments in Nigeria but relocating their families abroad was a personal project, so i don't know where you are getting all these benefits available to oil and gas workers and their families |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Peerielass: 6:23pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
justwise:I think the argument is that N5,000,000 when converted to GBP is about £2,300 per month which would likely be her net income on the NHS job. However she would have more disposable income with the N5m in Nigeria than in UK so could afford a reasonably good quality of life which could be comparable to living in the UK. Having said that, money shouldn’t be the only consideration for such a move. Peace of mind, good work/life balance, a working system, access to good education and a good support system/family network are all important factors to be considered before making the final decision. One thing to bear in mind is that your kids are young and will need after school care so you will need to factor in childcare costs, alternately hubby’s career may be sacrificed for the common good of the family, OP, both options have their pros and cons. Your family unit needs to think about this carefully before making a choice. Good luck with whatever you decide. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Krys1: 7:00pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
Please what is the deposit percentage rate of getting a mortgage after I have lived for 3years in the UK? |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Goodenoch: 7:02pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
Krys1:You should be able to get a 10% mortgage easily assuming other things are not problematic e.g. affordbility, credit history, length of time left on your visa etc. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by giselle237: 7:06pm On Sep 19, 2024*. Modified: 7:29pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
Of course, I’m aware of this and I’m tired of discussing it. When there are no jobs for hundreds of GPs with CCT who are fleeing to Canada, I then wonder how the goal post is now £2000 single/lone salary against 5 million naira in Nigeria for a woman… I’ve moved on from that conversation. I honestly don’t want to be tagged anymore… (if I didn’t respond to my other tags, pls forgive me- just genuinely tired of the fabricated story as it was said)Now, I want her to come so I can negotiate the job she plans to leave for someone else(if it is a real job). Hopefully she comes into my DM soon. Cheers descarado: |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by descarado: 7:45pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
justwise:I am not gonna share the website you will get that from nor tell you more than I said. Internet is not anonymous and this is against my job ethics. But I talk as an insider. As per your family working for oil company for the past 20yrs. Oil company or oil servicing company get levels. A driver working with an oil company don't get the same benefits as a health worker or an engineer. Even engineers get levels. But as a health worker, all I said applied to her. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Joyglo: 8:04pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
Good evening to you all. I need your guidance please oooh I just concluded my study and my graduation is in January 2025. I am planning on applying a visit visa for my younger sister to enable her attend my graduation party. She finished her undergraduate degree in the year 2022 and also pass out Nysc July 2023. She’s doing nothing at the moment but myself and my brothers do send her stipend from time to time. I would like to know what sort of documents do I need to show from my end and from her end in order to apply for visa for her she is 25yrs old. Please help me out . Thank you so much |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by justwise(mod): 9:02pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
descarado:There is no need for any of that, just tell me one of those flimsy excuses you talked about, why bring it into the conversation if you are not willing to back it up? |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by justwise(mod): 9:05pm On Sep 19, 2024 |
Joyglo:That will be a tall order as she got nothing to bring her back to Nigeria if given a visa considering her age. As she is not working or doing business it will be difficult for her to provide any document |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Abuja1914: 5:38am On Sep 20, 2024 |
[quote author=Goodenoch post=132074758]You should be able to get a 10% mortgage easily assuming other things are not problematic e.g. affordbility, credit history, length of time left on your visa etc. What is the chance of someone left with about 14 months or a year getting mortgage before the renewal of his visa? |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by ehizario2012: 9:28am On Sep 20, 2024 |
lavida001:This is the biggest reason not to take that 5M job. My former colleagues can't even flex like "proper bankers" anymore. The risk is too high. If you drive two cars now, you're a big target even in places like Ibadan. It's scary. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by ehizario2012: 9:36am On Sep 20, 2024 |
080bjaked:Excellent comment. The goalposts keep moving! Everybody should count their teeth with their tongue. Case closed. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by giselle237: 9:49am On Sep 20, 2024*. Modified: 10:16am On Sep 20, 2024 |
ehizario2012:The medical students from Benue university were driving big cars? The 61 passengers on the Abuja-Kaduna train were ‘flexing’ on the train? The 160 people taken from a village in Niger state in one sitting were earning 5 million naira? Your family all live in the UK? - not one walks the streets of Nigeria? Pray tell. Please who is NOT at risk?…. I do not thrive by scaremongering when the statistics and the numbers prove beyond reasonable doubts that anyone could be a victim of the kidnapping and insecurity going on there. Whether she collects the job or not, she is at risk. Don’t press the thriving insecurity on the job- All die na die. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by revived2: 11:43am On Sep 20, 2024*. Modified: 8:14pm On Sep 20, 2024 |
giselle237:Why haven't you comeback to Nigeria to stay sir/ma😐😐 giselle237:Okay😐😐 |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by jedisco(m): 12:04pm On Sep 20, 2024 |
080bjaked:Valid point. The best part is that this was raised here rather than general NL. The last decade has been economically devastating for many Nigerians mainly fuelled by collapse of the currency. I however believe we are approaching a pivotal point in our nation and with our size and significance, we mainly need to get a few critical bits right to reposition ourselves and let that momentum do the rest. There are examples of nations that have gone from where we are to developed within a generation and that presented tremendous amount of wealth generating opportunities and create value fulfillingly. If this happens, very few would be better suited than ourselves. Working in the NHS on that pay with a family to support can be really stressful. What's also not factored in is that this is a person in an elevated position back home moving to a band 5 role in the UK which puts one at the forefront of a well entitled populace. Despite varied opinions, the consensus seems to be that in the current future her quality of life would be much higher in Nigeria but longterm, if the decline back home continues and also considering the socual safety nets in the UK, emigrating should pay. Yes there is the mention of infrastructure, security, health e.t.c which are all valid but let's also remember that when compared to western nations, relatively few Nigerians have emigrated- and overwhelming majority of Nigerians have never left Nigeria. A while back I met an Indian surgeon who has been here for several years and regretted moving over. He said most of his mates were earning much better with good QOL back home. Unfortunately, he was stuck. A number of such have moved back to India. If their economy maintains its current growth trajectory, it's only a matter of time before an increasing number of established ones return and emigration would be for the low-middle class, adventurous or super wealthy. Aside dring covid, I have visited Nigeria every year since I left. I still know a few Nigerian medics looking to return with some in the process of buying or building facilities. After securing some financial security, certain life aspirations (manytimes non-monetary) begin to matter more. |
| Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by ehizario2012: 12:08pm On Sep 20, 2024 |
giselle237:This only reinforced my point. |
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