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EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.

I'm not sure you have a serious business that pre-occupy your mind because if you do, that will just be the game changer

Good afternoon to you...... you've not done anything bad,just your mind ill treating you..... there's remedy to that challenge and it a replacement method......drop a message for me 07018687270 if you truly want to recover yourself from this habit....Stay Positive.

God, I'm truly special Cuz I'm not like most people, how can your sister be attractive in your eyes, how can you even think of sex and sister in same thought, me wey see my sister in her inner wear I feel embarrassed and annoyed, not like I hate them but I see them same way I see a fellow guy, this is very abnormal I'm shocked you even have the guts to say it publicly.

Your preek go peel . On a serious note just reduce the frequency and be more productive everybody masturbates.

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

And what makes you all think Masturbation is a bad thing

First you have to have this mind set that Masturbation is not a bad thing
You know the funny thing when you begin to see Masturbation as a normal thing that is when you start limiting it without knowing

Unfortunately, this is the truth. It is a natural thing. That said I will also add that having your sisters panties for that is sick. That’s insane and abnormal.

Fake story

Think of what to engage yourself fully from sports to online streaming of preachers like DrD. K. Olukoya and avoid being alone most times, then learn to bind the spirit of lost in your life whenever the urges comes, speak aloud against , you surely testify, in Jesus name . Be strong don't go into self condemnation.

Guy I too am into this trap before,God save me but at times this bad thinking will come that I should just try it once that at least it been a long time I masturbate that didn't I missed the pleasure again.

And what make me stops this masturbation is by cursing myself if I do such things should happen and I pray towards it whenever I want to so.that instinct will just come that don't forget the covenant u have made then will stop the process of jerking my dick

This masturbation is an evil spirit work of Satan, especially affected those who are career pple and like to plan for their future,instead of them thinking their plan they schedule for their life,the evil spirit will bring out the idea of masturbating.

Let me tell you no pastor,or Alfa or counselor can help this out 🙏,even if u dey see steady sex.ur thinking will still go to how a go masturbate wen am done with this sex..

It's only God that can save ,let me tell u d fact the percentage of women who masturbate is more than men who soapy as well.

Don't let them deceive you,no one can preach to u or counsel u to stop.. it's u can do it urself.this is a very strong addiction.even worst than betting..because u only need to look for money to bet,but to masturbate it's in u and easier to do without any stress

I think this stuff Ends the very moment u say I do? So married niggas dey do Soapie too? Na wa oo

EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.

Guy I too am into this trap before,God save me but at times this bad thinking will come that I should just try it once that at least it been a long time I masturbate that didn't I missed the pleasure again.

And what make me stops this masturbation is by cursing myself if I do such things should happen and I pray towards it whenever I want to so.that instinct will just come that don't forget the covenant u have made then will stop the process of jerking my dick

This masturbation is an evil spirit work of Satan, especially affected those who are career pple and like to plan for their future,instead of them thinking their plan they schedule for their life,the evil spirit will bring out the idea of masturbating.

Let me tell you no pastor,or Alfa or counselor can help this out 🙏,even if u dey see steady sex.ur thinking will still go to how a go masturbate wen am done with this sex..

It's only God that can save ,let me tell u d fact the percentage of women who masturbate is more than men who soapy as well.

Don't let them deceive you,no one can preach to u or counsel u to stop.. it's u can do it urself.this is a very strong addiction.even worst than betting..because u only need to look for money to bet,but to masturbate it's in u and easier to do without any stress

EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.

Op,there's nothing wrong with masturbation ,all you need to do is ,just try to limit it to at least once in a day,them you are good to go,don't let anybody deceive you.masturbation has been helping the sons of men since from the day of Adam and eve,in fact even Jesus basturbate when he was on earth then who are u to say masturbation is bad ?

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

And what makes you all think Masturbation is a bad thing

First you have to have this mind set that Masturbation is not a bad thing
You know the funny thing when you begin to see Masturbation as a normal thing that is when you start limiting it without knowing

Many times when I read here on this platform about people who say they are addicted to masturbation, the "effects" I see mostly being said by advisers here is that it causes prematire ejaccuation, weak penis, infertility, energy drain, etc. But from what the OP posted he seems tobe doing just fine on those fronts....i mean he has kids, wife and loves and have the energy for sex ...so what do we belive

EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.

I wanted to say "go get married" until I realize you are married already.

All you need to do is pray to GOD. Call on the holy spirit and he will help you overcome.

Addiction of any kind is terrible.

Don't be discouraged. I was once in that shoe, but today Christ Jesus has set me free. Please read this again: You can never deliver yourself by yourself. In fact, every attempt to free yourself by yourself will make you sink the more in that quagmire of sin ( I hope you understand this). Your deliverance is in Christ Jesus. Set some times to seek God's Face for complete deliverance.ever. "If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed." (John 8:36)

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EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Masturbation is normal. In fact it should be encouraged.

Why?

Gryffindor:
Why?

1) Zero risk of contacting STDs.
2)
Reduce rape cases in the society.
3) Good for population control especially in a country where the citizens are giving birth to children they cannot train.
4) Improve your financial status. Money you will give to hook up babes, pay for hotel accommodation, buy food and pay for Uber. You will now invest it.
5) Zero risk of getting emotional heart break especially from girlfriends.

Hi EagleMenage

I believe this is what you need. I've been there and I know how it feels.

Science can't explain it all. The spiritual controls the physical.


Follow THE STEPS OUTLINED IN THE LINKED TOPIC. I wish you good luck

https://www.nairaland.com/6497657/addiction-easy-steps-yourself


I used the logic in the link up there to create this

https://www.nairaland.com/7939213/one-guide-end-addiction

we have discussed extensively on this act.F8nd girl take home to mama and FIRE as u like.Nah u go tire last

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
1) Zero risk of contacting STDs.
2)
Reduce rape cases in the society.
3) Good for population control especially in a country where the citizens are giving birth to children they cannot train.
4) Improve your financial status. Money you will give to hook up babes, pay for hotel accommodation, buy food and pay for Uber. You will now invest it.
5) Zero risk of getting emotional heart break especially from girlfriends.

I rebuke the devil in you, useless riddance to evil

From your narration, the act has gone on for too long and it has deteriorated beyond the physical. And things of the spirit can only be handled spiritually. I guess you are a Christian, if yes, pls sincerely go to God in prayers and I believe he will deliver you.
I will also recommend that you join Dunamis daily commanding the day / midnight prayers. God will surely come to your rescue. Shalom and be blessed.

IconsConnect:
There are 3 layers to Masturbation.

— Physical effect.
— Mental addiction
— Spiritual subjugation

Masturbation begins as casual fun on the physical level. At this level, you see it as a mere activity that leaves you tired.

You gradually get hooked at the mental level. This is the point where you can no longer resist your cravings. You become addicted.

Subconsciously, this addiction establishes a connection to your spiritual being. You become spiritually rooted and enslaved to this addiction. At this stage, each ejaculation leaves you physically and spiritually weak. (You get to a point where you can barely remember your spiritual activities once you gain physical consciousness. This is a topic for another day.)

To quit masturbation, you need to, firstly attack it at the spiritual level.

You start with self awareness, then self discipline and finally self-intuition on your spiritual life.

pls explain the spiritual subjugation

@op
I wish I could help
But , I think the decision and will to stop needs to come from you
And also fight the urge to do the act


But on a lighter note, why you add female panties to the write up? It cracked me up

That you did it while you were single is not really the concern for me but the fact that after getting married and with all the burden of marriage you still have strong appetite for s*x and mas**rbation is surprising to me.
Well... You just need to work more on your mind, shift your focus to your business more, the lives of your kids and your wife are important than your urge.
Life is no more about you alone, you got lovely people who depend and look up to you for their well-being. You can't afford to fail them.
Keep yourself busy with other things. Life is more than sex and I know that as you age the urge will also reduce drastically. At 28yrs, you are still very young anyway and you have achieved some important things for yourself make you no spoil everything with your hands.
I got married at the age of 34 before I started having kids, now almost in mid-forties.
Well... I hope you get my point, the help you seek lies withing you, you just have to seek it out.
God bless you and your family and you will overcome it. It's just one of those challenges of life. Don't let it define you or conquer you.

Your sister asked you to have sex with her and you refused? OP you're very wicked.





Fairly used vibrator for sell
The owner wan marry.
Indicate if u are interested.

Mryacks:
Many times when I read here on this platform about people who say they are addicted to masturbation, the "effects" I see mostly being said by advisers here is that it causes prematire ejaccuation, weak penis, infertility, energy drain, etc. But from what the OP posted he seems tobe doing just fine on those fronts....i mean he has kids, wife and loves and have the energy for sex ...so what do we belive

I was also thinking about this

I think you have a high sex drive and probably inherited the genes from your parents as you stated that your sister also masturbates

You need to direct your high sexual energy to more productive activities/hobbies like football or tennis

My Bro I have the same problem too but I don't have any shit feelings for ma sis......and Posting doe's pants ain't necessary.....mine ain't everyday.sometimes I will say I won't do it again but evil spirit going make me do same shit....HK life ain't easy.8 months you never see pussy chop. I'm trying so hard to desist from such act.we pray to help his children.

faebenezer5star:
First you will start using touch light phone first then Start fasting 6-3pm everyday for one month,but in each day you break your fast eat only fruit and water on the next day after fasting then eat food like that. You eat after every one day then contact me after 15days into it. Don't forget to pray one hour every night from 2am to 3am .

why eat only fruit and water the first day?

Masturbation is normal. Leave those people attaching spirituality to it. All u need is to reduce it. You are addicted that is only the problem. Don't force yourself to stop it once. Just reduce the times you do it for now and gradually u will stop.
I repeat there is nothing spiritual there.

People who allow their different gender children to share a room are breeding unnecessary dangers. Sorry, I no get anything else to say.