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Philosopher1979:
A post wall woman
1. Needs to beg her way into relationship.
2. Not complain if she has to share her man with other women.
She is not in the market anymore.
Now you are saying it is the other way round.
The way post wall women have turned the table in modern times is amazing. In traditional african culture that people say is primitive, a woman has to be a virgin before any man can take her serious. Now ex prostitutes and damaged women are been begged. Its phenomenal.
Maybe our forefathers knew something we didn't know.

Martinez39s:
From the early beginnings of human history to the time things got more comfortable and safe, and as things are getting more comfortable and safe, one of the games of women is clear:

(1) to continuously and increasingly absolve women from any responsibility or obligation to bring anything to the table in relationships while maintaining women's standard for men's performance. (and even increasing it and making it more one-side.) This is even made socially acceptable.

(2) to continuously increase the power of women in relationships/marriage, give them authority in relationships/marriage, and short change men even as the traditional standard for male performance and achievement is maintained,

(3) as it follows from (1), to make it okay and socially acceptable for women not to improve in character, manners and attitude, and not to seek to contribute in a relationship etc. Men are supposed to be satisfied with them just being females and consider themselves lucky to have a female as they (men) fulfill their traditional roles without the authority that comes with it; men are even supposed to provide 100% and even do the chores even if the wife is a stay-at-home wife. Any suggestions that the man must provide and protect is approved; but it considered misogynistic to suggest that stay-at-home wives with providing husbands should do the chores.

(4) While the standards men must meet before they are selected for a long-term relationship are maintained, and are even increasingly increased, that of women are dropping and are intended to be nonexistent eg. unlike before, a woman doesn't have to be a virgin to be considered for LTR; unlike before, many men are dating and marrying single mothers; unlike before, many men don't mind dating a woman older than them; unlike before, many men don't go for young, fresh women, they are having something serious with evening newspapers; unlike before, men are having no problem with a woman with high body counts; unlike before, men are assisting in house chores even as they pay 100%; unlike before, men are okay with a woman who is barren etc. However, broke men stand no chance, as it has been from the beginning.

(5) Women are supposed to have standards, but men are not. Men are supposed to accept anything, while women can pick and change their minds as they please.

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Skepticus:
The "Desperate for your commitment" part reminds me to inform men (who care to read/listen) that men who are on their purpose or indifferent to women and are getting choosing signals (Green Light) from women should be highly observant and try to understand the deep underlying reasons why women are choosing them.

Most men who are on their purpose, bettering themselves (making money, building status etc) give off "provider" vibes which attracts mostly women who are there to enjoy the "provision", not the man or his essence. In fact, most choosing signals (Green Light) from women are manipulative. Only a few, are genuine.

Like I said in some of my past comments on this thread, nothing bad in making your money or improving your status to attract women to you (though, there is a large segment of men who encourage minimalism/less flashiness or show off, when it comes to the red pill and it helps in sieving out manipulative gold diggers from "seriously-interested" women) but it is WISDOM to get what you want from her (especially if she is there to Gold Dig or giving Manipulative Green Lights) spending little or nothing. If you have to spend so much (Expensive Pusssy), you are in a transactional relationship/marriage (Packaged Prostitution) "overpaying" a pusssy that some other guy is getting for less or nothing. You might be better off wanking, going to a brothel or ordering for pusssy on tinder or instamessage in a more "realistic" deal. Not encouraging picking prostitutes or masturbation, though they serve a purpose. Nothing beats sexual control and discipline for a man.

Niggas, make una dey use una head above una dicks. #Focus

Philosopher1979:
Cold approach
1. Eliminates scarcity mentality. I mean when you k ow you can get ladies at anytime no lady can do shajara for you. You already have 15 girls on your WhatsApp you sex chat with or say high to.

2. With cold approach, you simply emanate confidence and sexusl energy. Ladies pick up your confidence and easily fall for you. I don't k ow maybe it's psychology or body language but the confidence you get from cold approach is infectious.

3. A lot is simos need cold approach to build up their confidence and end scarcity mentality. Scarcity mentality, lack of confidence and inability to assert themselves is the bane of simps. This is the disease cold approach cures.

JESHAL007:
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Smartb0y:
You both got a point lumi.

On the baseline,it depends on why she's with you in the first place.
Quite alright,we understand women want a provider, someone that'll do all the hardwork while they get the glory.
However, even cases when the man doesn't lose his wealth but ends up losing the woman is due to a very common factor.
"That which got her attracted to him is no more there" , there's no mystery, nothing left to discover about the guy.
When advertisy comes, it's a test of a man's strength and seeing a man be a man in the face of adversity turns her hot.
She would be very curious hence on the long stay the course while he's trying to pick himself back up.

A woman doesn't want and most definitely doesn't need another woman in a relationship with her.
She wants to feel like a woman,she wants a man she can throw all her baggages at and he won't shake.

On this forms the baseline as regards attraction on a natural scale.

Attraction born out of power/money is almost always superficial.
It never last,why because nothing beats natural.
Nature is a bitch,you can't cheat her, instead learn to fuvk her well so you can have your way(referring to nature )

All in all,if the man uses money to keep the relationship going or attract her,it won't last.
If it was born out of something natural, there's a possibility it might stand the test of time.

As usual, choose your poison wisely.

Perfectskills01:
Girls can have sex with a guy they ain't dating . How you approach her matters . That is why if you want just the sex , you must approach from the right angle .

Let's see how 5 guys approached one girl and they all end up having sex with her, although they approached from different angles .

1st guy approached by being just a friend , then it led to relationship and he ended up having sex with her . What you must consider about this first guy is that , he must have spent a lot of time , trying his best and buying stuffs , this might take months or years before he got laid .

2nd guy approached her because she has a problem of accommodation or financial issue . He used her presence issue to bargain sex with her and she gave it up

3rd guy approached with friend and benefit intention. She later succumbed as long as the guy keeps providing, she gave up her coochie to keep him providing

4th guy was chosen, he is her spec, she gets wet just by thinking of him . The guy got the chosen signal and approached , she put up little resistance and later gave up the coochie.

5th guy was a straight shooter. He approached with sexual intentions ( direct game ) . On making his sexual intentions known , at first she got angry and resisted him . With some persistence , she gave up the coochie.

What you need to understand here is that all the 5 guys approached her from different angles, although they got laid . All road leads to sex . It depends on the road you choose to follow.

How you want it to go is how you should start with her , if she doesn't accept immediately, with little persistence, she will succumb or run completely.

Maintain how you started. If you deviate you will spoil the game . For example, it's wrong to accept to date a girl when you have already started with friend with benefits, vice versa . If she doesn't agree with your starting, next her , don't settle for what you didn't start with .

And if you have started with indirect method, better maintain it till end , because if you now start going direct, vice versa, you will ruin the game and she will run away .

This is applicable to all of them. They can have sex with different guys who approach them from different angles. Know your angle, it matters .

Perfectskills01:
Cold approach is for newbies to build confidence, nothing more . If you expect to get girls that meets your expectations, then cold approach will ruin you . So I approve your cold approach ideology because you intend to focus on building confidence.

One of the best way to get girls genuinely interested in you is through social circles. What do I mean here. I mean that when you see a girl you find sexually attractive and you want her , don't cold approach her . Instead, use social circle to get to her . It is not the confidence you lack to cold approach her , you only obey the simple rule of the game .

Don't cold approach her if you are serious to get her

Once you see her , gather some information about her . Know her house , know where she works , know her friends, know the people she is close to etc . This information will go a long way to easily get her attracted to you without the chance of her manipulating you .

How to use social circle to get a girl

Those people close to her have much influence on her and decide what she does most of the time . Getting close to her social circle will make things easy to get close to her and strike conversation freely without her being on guard and defensive .

Cold approach will likely ruin your game because she will be on guard against strangers , she will hide many things for you and a stranger is a easy target . On cold approach, you are a complete stranger even if you have seen each other many times .

Most ruined relationships and dating for men are mostly started on cold approach. A rich guy with ride will easily get a girl , but these girls won't be genuinely interested in them because they cold approached these girls . Most of the girls that don't give us issues are often gotten through social circles, maybe your place of work , a friend of her introduced you, her sister linked her , your friend introduced you , you got her through your neighbor or from the church . This is social circle, it's much free from ladies manipulation and ungenuine of women's interest .

So a wise man with good game don't cold approach girls he seriously wants to get , instead he finds out the people close to her or events that can link them to talk like an old friends

It's not about the confidence you lack to cold approach is about obeying the simple rules of the game . Cold approach is fraught with too much manipulation and ungenuine love .


However, cold approach is useful for newbies to build confidence. Is like a baby step in the game . The game is deep beyond cold approach.

Fisher007:
My fellow redpill brother, they will learn. You see marriage is a scam no matter how you want to see or sell it to any logical and reasonable person.

The lady knows time is clicking . She senses the undefeated wall even if she can't understand what exactly is the wall. Her mum knows too that the attention and charades around her daughter is going down.

In Asia most women over 25 are leftovers women. Men don't care about them. In Pakistan you don't even exist at that age. Even the Muslim men here in Nigeria literally just marry the old one just to have an haram of ladies. In the US guys now pump and dump girls above that age. In Saudi Arabia/ UAE they just use them for fetish potty potty party. The reality is women brought this upon themselves.

Why marry? When you literally take responsibility of an entitled creature without rationale thinking. You pay for everything in most cases, you must provide and protect, you are basically growing a pet ( invincible- Omni man reference lol). All they do is form love to you after all their past years of riding the cock carousel. Then they bring more trauma and emotional baggage to your life.

I am happy for those Marrying Sha. There must be Adam ( the provider/ husband) and there must be the serpent ( the Uncle, ex boyfriend, just a friend, colleague, gym buddy, driver and red pill brothers). No wonder everyone especially the male attendee at the wedding says our wife. Lol

ubunja:
exactly. Go where you're celebrated. It's a simple enough concept, but the way guys struggle with it you would think it's rocket science.

Maybe many guys don't see themselves as loveable that they feel they have to force a girl or buy her love for her to love them. Any man can be an alpha if he seeks a woman who sees him as alpha. Simple ABCs. It's always about how a woman sees you. Plus women are turned on by the strangest things due to their upbringing and histories. So it's not even that you try to impress a woman, but something about you automatically impresses her before you even try. Many men will be surprised if they ask their GF, "what is it about me that you like". Cause the things they think impress are not the things that actually impressed.
I once talked to a girl I found was attracted to me. And I thought it was how I looked. Until she told me that everytime I mentioned the phrase "sex without condoms" her pussy dripped like a tap. She was a huge fan of raw sex. And here I was thinking entirely about the wrong thing. It wasn't about me per se. But About her. What turned her on.

Men must just deal with women who are turned on around them. Saves from so much heartache.

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JESHAL007:
This is why a lot of guys need the redpill, it saves lives. I’ve heard about men who take their own lives when their gf/partner leaves them out of scarcity mindset, simply because they feel they can not have a replacement, don’t be like them. Take the redpill everyday like your daily meal.

Faber:
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