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We've not seen in 6 months cause she's a student in school and now she's coming back but she wants to bring 2 of her friends (alongside herself) to live with me for 3 days before they go to their various homes. Is this cool?

I've not met the friends in person before but we've spoken over the phone from time to time, and she didn't ask me before making the decision to travel down with them.

LazyNaijaYouth:
We've not seen in 6 months cause she's a student in school and now she's coming back but she wants to bring 2 of her friends (alongside herself) to live with me for 3 days before they go to their various homes. Is this cool?

I've not met the friends in person before but we've spoken over the phone from time to time, and she didn't ask me before making the decision to travel down with them.

Na no no be that

almarthins:
Na no no be that

Baba I'm tired but I don't want to look or sound insecure or controlling my telling her she's doing wrong. I hate drama and the aftermath.

LazyNaijaYouth:
Baba I'm tired but I don't want to look or sound insecure or controlling my telling her she's doing wrong. I hate drama and the aftermath.

No start wetin you no fit finish. No be all girls be woman o. Economy hard No let one person daughter help you reach 6ft quickly. If na for that drama part, pata pata she go tell you I no dey do again.

People like us will take this chance and run with it..

OP, are you still a gentleman in this economy?
Dey there nah

that your girlfriend wants to set you up. i dont know her plans though but its a set up. any girl that loves you and wants you alone will never allow any girl near you.. becareful dealing with u , if possible forget women for now and focus on chasing people , Gf is distracting you .

Here you go Chief (if u no be slow guy oo)

Tell her that her feeding, including the 3 gals will be on her...

And u won't be around till after 5days, but u'll drop keys for them to provide shelter. If she agrees - which i knw she wont)

Pack out all ur food and what not. Dont drop a dime even if she ask.. If u have cable TV, remove decoder asap, anything valuable to them even in ur absence. Swarve everything. Follow one of ur homeboi discuss ur plans 10%, (homeboi wey sharp, wey fit allow u stay 2days at all at all

Watch how things will unfold. And see the person u r calling a girlfriend, u'll see a new definition of entitled, lazy ass mo'f*cker.

mmadu4:
that your girlfriend wants to set you up. i dont know her plans though but its a set up. any girl that loves you and wants you alone will never allow any girl near you.. becareful dealing with u , if possible forget women for now and focus on chasing people , Gf is distracting you .

Thanks G.

LazyNaijaYouth:
We've not seen in 6 months cause she's a student in school and now she's coming back but she wants to bring 2 of her friends (alongside herself) to live with me for 3 days before they go to their various homes. Is this cool?

I've not met the friends in person before but we've spoken over the phone from time to time, and she didn't ask me before making the decision to travel down with them.

A) thats the highest form of undercover cokc blocking
B) why dont you just say:"i cant allow all of you to stay at my place"
C) unless of course you are looking for some 0rgy thingz...

Those her gfs no get house ni ?.is your house a hotel or do you offer free accommodation. That's how thy carry their bags from.one place to the other. If that girl values you , she would not dare bring up such discussions with you . I.hope you are not the only one in that relationship.though . I.mean.you could be dating yourself and feel.you have a girl friend.

Bleep one of them make everything scatter
Trust me, she won't leave you for fear of losing you to her friend.

Is your gf into three*some? Asking for a friend?

Natbrowny:
Here you go Chief (if u no be slow guy oo)

Tell her that her feeding, including the 3 gals will be on her...

And u won't be around till after 5days, but u'll drop keys for them to provide shelter. If she agrees - which i knw she wont)

Pack out all ur food and what not. Dont drop a dime even if she ask.. If u have cable TV, remove decoder asap, anything valuable to them even in ur absence. Swarve everything. Follow one of ur homeboi discuss ur plans 10%, (homeboi wey sharp, wey fit allow u stay 2days at all at all

Watch how things will unfold. And see the person u r calling a girlfriend, u'll see a new definition of entitled, lazy ass mo'f*cker.

Poor man mentality...

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LazyNaijaYouth:
We've not seen in 6 months cause she's a student in school and now she's coming back but she wants to bring 2 of her friends (alongside herself) to live with me for 3 days before they go to their various homes. Is this cool?

I've not met the friends in person before but we've spoken over the phone from time to time, and she didn't ask me before making the decision to travel down with them.

Nothing wrong with that if you have the space to accommodate them.
It possible they have somewhere to go to o function to attend before going to their respective homes.
You are overthinking it

If it is convenient for you, go and accept it but if otherwise, reject it openly.
You sound like one who die in pain while trying to please another

Na u dey go date student nah...

LazyNaijaYouth:
Baba I'm tired but I don't want to look or sound insecure or controlling my telling her she's doing wrong. I hate drama and the aftermath.

It's your life but if something were to happen to any of them on the way to your place, during their stay or on their way to their houses after your stay, your own don finish patapata.
Even my guys when them say them wan come stay my house I dey cut them off immediately, talk less of some girls wey you no even know from Adam, if you know what's good for you, tell your babe that you don't want to accommodate them

Allow her, but everything will on her head, and use the opportunity to.

Just remembered my friend way come spend one week for my house. I came back from class to find her wearing my polo.
As a guy who no like too much talk and drama, I just collect her trouser wear Waka go watch mancity match.
She ended up as my babe sha.

Decline it,asap

She didn't consider you before making that decision is enough reason for you to decline and also considering how much you are going to spend to feed four mouths in three days, no start what you can't finish.

Extra fvck for you bro.
Fvck dem all.

brain54:
Poor man mentality...

that's the problem I have with you guys

That gentleman just dropped his own opinion

Now he's a poor man, when you have no idea what he's capable of doing

Na people like Una day marry girls with 50 body count or single mom with 3 children and still pay close to 1 million as bride price 😂😂

Olachase:
that's the problem I have with you guys

That gentleman just dropped his own opinion

Now he's a poor man, when you have no idea what he's capable of doing

I dropped my opinion...

Of his opinion. How can someone be thinking of going to hide pot of food under bed.

Is that not poor man's thinking?

LazyNaijaYouth:
We've not seen in 6 months cause she's a student in school and now she's coming back but she wants to bring 2 of her friends (alongside herself) to live with me for 3 days before they go to their various homes. Is this cool?

I've not met the friends in person before but we've spoken over the phone from time to time, and she didn't ask me before making the decision to travel down with them.

Oh boy, next time you want to go to rest room, make sure you come on Faceless forum to ask if it's good or bad.

Olachase:
that's the problem I have with you guys

That gentleman just dropped his own opinion

Now he's a poor man, when you have no idea what he's capable of doing

Na people like Una day marry girls with 50 body count or single mom with 3 children and still pay close to 1 million as bride price 😂😂

The bolded is out of point by the way...

What's wrong with marrying a lady with 3 children or body count of 50 if it's my choice and I am OK with the lady and I can afford the bride price? Or is it your money?

Out of point and irrelevant to what's been discussed boss!

brain54:
The bolded is out of point by the way...

What's wrong with marrying a lady with 3 children or body count of 50 if it's my choice and I am OK with the lady and I can afford the bride price? Or is it your money?

Out of point and irrelevant to what's been discussed boss!

hoo but when you call your fellow man a poor man you're on point continue

brain54:
I dropped my opinion...

Of his opinion. How can someone be thinking of going to hide pot of food under bed.

Is that not poor man's thinking?

I thought ur brain was brain54.

Na so info dey tek change direction.

Where u for see where i said HIDE POT OF FOOD under bed.

U obviously read my own view on Ops issue but didnt understand.

Olachase:
that's the problem I have with you guys

That gentleman just dropped his own opinion

Now he's a poor man, when you have no idea what he's capable of doing

Na people like Una day marry girls with 50 body count or single mom with 3 children and still borrowing from friends to pay close to 1 million as bride price because you don't want to be perceived as a poor man 😂😂

Good one from you.

Some people prefer impressing others at their own detriment, perhaps why he posted 'poor man mentality '.
There's likelihood the OP ain't cool with the arrangement financially or even security wise, cos if anything untoward happens, nobody here will be there to defend him.

LazyNaijaYouth:
We've not seen in 6 months cause she's a student in school and now she's coming back but she wants to bring 2 of her friends (alongside herself) to live with me.

The ULTIMATE version of SEE FINISH is doing press up for you.

1. these are small girls with unrealistic expectations. They want to see the kind of boyfriend their friend (your babe) has been bragging about and if they can't eat 10 times a day at your place, then you are a useless guy.

2. Hygiene. Staying with one small girl is enough headache. What if 2 out of 3 of them is on their period during the stay?

3. Do you know if any of them is a cleptomaniac? 2 weeks after they are gone and you start to look for small things like your shirt or wrist watch. You ask your babe and she childishly gets angry that you are accusing her angelic friends.

4. Spiritual angle. Before you agree to share space for days in the same place, you need to know the vibes of such person. Make person no carry destructive spirit contaminate your space then you begin to suffer for what could have been avoided.

5. Death. If anything should happen to any of them in that house, you go explain taya.

Opportunity for foursome don set

A good avenue to suck 3 pairs of breasts

Baba! At her age that's what's expected.... I know she means no harm. They just want to have fun but unfortunately on your pocket but that doesn't make her decision bad. Girls at that age are still the best option over evening News paper....but you have to put up with things like this.