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Post his picture let's help you drag him.

Avoid premarital sex, you do yourself a lot of good.

saphiere:
I have never seen irresponsible beings like this gender before. My business with them was over years ago.

BTW: Any lady that loves and supports VDM is very useless and lack self-esteem.

Kum again 🤣

JovialJune:
How can a lady hook him with pregnancy when they both had unprotected sex?

This is the 21st century, adult men should be thinking maturely and logically not this type of daft statement.

Just speculating... Their grandfather did not accept them may be because his son swear he used condom but didn't flush it (after announcing visa has been approved).

His own blood no accept the children (including brother who was once sympathetic).

It was her fault. I didn’t see anywhere “Meobizy forced said female’s legs apart in order for the boyfriend to inseminate her.” Make she carry her cross.

faceland:
Just speculating... Their grandfather did not accept them may be because his son swear he used condom but didn't flush it (after announcing visa has been approved).

Learn to read, it will do you a whole lot of good if you read statements to the end.

Hmmmmm 🤔

JovialJune:
Learn to read, it will do you a whole lot of good if you read statements to the end.

I don't know, may be you teach me how to read. What are you reading that am not seeing?

dre11:
https://punchng.com/how-my-edo-poly-lecturer-left-me-with-twin-pregnancy-to-japa/?amp

The man is just wicked. You know you don’t want to be a father, why not zip up? But No you will be having unprotected sex and expect the lady to risk her life via abortion

Close Your Legs To Irresponsible Boys And Men, They Would Not Listen: See Your Life Now

He clearly told you he wasn't interested, I'm sure before you took in you had that convo but you thought you were smarter than him. I have no pity for you

Majority of Nigerians are compassionate people, regardless of what we read on this forum.
They're always willing to help the helpless, and they hardly ignore the cry of a woman/mother.

Tomorrow, if he's Barren or face challenges, they would start accusing the wife..What men brings to themselves en..

faceland:
It seems she tried to hook him with pregnancy.

Exactly

Foolish woman. He told you he wasn't ready to be a father, yet you got pregnant and went ahead with the pregnancy with zero plans of raising a child. Now you want to force him to be a father, same thing he warned you about. Madam, go and take care of your children biko.

Godwin4444:
A fool looking for sympathy, someone already tell him your plans n he made it clear he doesn't need a baby but ur long throat made u feel u can tie him down

I don't pity people like this

[quote author=…. post=132209588]When I told him about the pregnancy, he said he wouldn’t advise me to keep it because he was traveling and wasn’t ready to be a father,” she recounted.[/quote]Bruh women and playing victim are 5 & 6. She knew exactly what she was doing.

She had better carter to those children cuz her greed led her here. She has gotten N5 million already right, she thinks think care of children is a sprint. She better double her hustle and find work or her suffering no go be here. Poor kids coming to the world cuz of their stupid mother’s poor judgment

Because they are dating does not mean he will marry her, she was in haste to get married to him, she shouldn't have opened her legs for him.

The beginning of every man's problem is who he ends up getting married to.


As a young man, marry a lady that share similar goals with you.


As a single lady, on no condition should you sleep with any man without condom.


Insist he must use condom.

Condom will protect you from HIV, HB1 and HB2, Syphilis and other deadly sexually transmitted diseases.


You can still enjoy sex with condom. Stop believing that sex with condom is not sweet, it's not true. You will enjoy sex with condom if both of you put your emotion and mind to it. It is your mindset and emotion towards the person you are having sex with that makes you enjoy the sex, not necessarily the friction.


Guys don't sleep with any lady without condom if you cherish your future to avoid entering into a generational poverty.

See the way you just analyze everything. Have you not seen men telling women of their travelling plan with the intention to sleep with the gullible ones?

dkidd:
First of
all the Op must u emphasize on the state or ethnicity of the guy? Meanwhile for the lady looking for sympathizers, a guy told u his dreams and plans to make a better man out of himself and all u could come up with is the old trick of trapping a nigga down with babies Really Even though the idiot refused to use protection were u thinking he was hustling visa for both of u? Oh u definitely had plans of tagging along but then guess the guy was too focused on the mission ahead. It's only sad because u have involved innocent lives into this mix and please when u talk about about their daddy to them in future which u most likely will, also explain to them how their daddy had big dreams and plans and actually worked towards achieving them and how u single handedly tried to ruin it for him but he had to leave to pursue his dreams. Pray for him to be better and he will surely come back for u except no be him get those kids. For him to tell u at all of his traveling plans shows he rates u and had nothing to hide but I guess ur the one with a sinister motive and if him want release akamu u go dey use legs dey trap am inside like crab when hold food... see the result now?

Wow... I been no read am finish sha but the guy for no treat her like that though even if he's not sure of the paternity just do what u can. At least she didn't stop ur movement. That's sad. Lol some even see who stand by them but them dey mumu find how to run away with baby. Madam pray for mercy God will see u through if not for anything but for the sake of those two blessings. And she sounds like a good girl who made some wrong choices. Well what do I know she might be the tiger forming good because she needs help but even at that the guy no for deny her and the kids.

chukwuibuipob:
Some peepz deliberately spread their legs wide apart to collect yogurt and trap unprepared/jobless man.Some gave birth to sorrow.No wonder,you see touts disturbing our peace

I just pity that guy...
These are the type of decisions that destroy destiny....
He doesn't know he can go to UK...
Spend 10years....
And come back to Naija without a dime...
If he truly impregnate the girl..
He should take care of his children...

Orí ẹ ti burú, maybe we dey there when he dey spread your legs.

Some men don't deserve to be fathers. She should move on and figure out how to invest that 5Million so she can give her kids a better life. My concern is, in future the 'slowpoke dead beat' will reappear from no where and start wailing how his kids walked down the aisle or tied the knot withour his consent.

JovialJune:
So many evil men these days, later they will come up with one sob story when the twins are adults that it was their mother that bla bla bla,

Even if the idiot man cannot marry her, at least acknowledge the kids and let his family know them then take care of them, that's not too much to ask but no, even his siblings supported him and are evil to her,

Thanks to twitter folks that helped her, she got more than 5m yesterday, I'm so happy for her.

But the man already told the lady of hid plan. I think rhe lady use the pregnancy to hold the guym. Why getting pregnant when you already know thar the guy is traveling?

My dear, its your turn to suffer today, but believe me, he will crawl back to beg when nature start playing music for him. Thank God for the help you have gotten so far, pls be very prudent to utilise the money.

Krankhead:
But the man already told the lady of hid plan. I think rhe lady use the pregnancy to hold the guym. Why getting pregnant when you already know thar the guy is traveling?

Did she impregnate herself? Didn't the guy know he was traveling out before he had unprotected sex with her?

chukwuibuipob:
Some peepz deliberately spread their legs wide apart to collect yogurt and trap unprepared/jobless man.Some gave birth to sorrow.No wonder,you see touts disturbing our peace

Mumu. You ever think that madman may show face tomorrow?

Keep doing your best gurl. I'm sure God will pay him back someday ..🤔

Krankhead:
But the man already told the lady of hid plan. I think rhe lady use the pregnancy to hold the guym. Why getting pregnant when you already know thar the guy is traveling?

And he forgot to wear condom? He doesn't have to marry her but just give her what he could afford time to time to support the care for the babies. He is irresponsible.

You don't want kola nor relationships, what is what for Nigeria to take care of your babies which was your mistake and responsible, nawaoo....though I don't support what the guy did but how do you people have sex unprotected with test and all that,what's the hell is it

Young ladies be careful, na u go carry belle, d guy will keep chasing his dreams. If you become to careless to sleep with a man when you guys have not agreed on having kids, if the first thing he tells u is that you should abort the baby, please get proper medical attetntion and do the needful, especially if you do not have the financial means to raise a child alone. Dont assume he will be a responsible father.

When u tell ur impregnator u wont do abortion because u dont want to die, what do you expect him to tell u, he will definitely tell u no problem. Abi u want him to force u so that when u die ur people will say he killed u. The solution - stop spreading your legs for a man u are not married to, unprotected

Zooposki:
Women, hope you are paying attention o. Not one word of empathy and encouragement to the woman. All blaming and insulting her.

According to ur attached pic Jobs are lost and mothers are all but publicly shunned
The same u "most women nowadays have their own money/assets

What are u saying madam? Stay one place na? Stop letting ur hate for men confuse u.

Who am I to judge you.
The beauty of it is that God have given you a second chance.
Redirect your life.
Learn from your past.
Prepare for your future.
Give your life a meaning.
May God have Mercy on your shortcomings.
Stay Safe.