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Lovelife433:
All they offer is there smelling over smash gutter. Go and learn how to cook evening newspaper.

Honestly, all this hate isn't necessary. Ijs tho

Wow

Fahvvy:
Women: go and learn how to cook and stop picking offense when someone points out your inadequacies ...

Men: learn to protect the integrity of your woman, especially in public ...

U are full with wisdom

I love the way you aportion blame to both parties

God bless you man.


More wisdom to you bro

Eduadolero:
She did no wrong. I believe this isn't the first time

U can't say if she did no wrong since u were not there

The guy also did wrong by embarrassing his woman in d presence of his family 👪 🐘

Between. you look beautiful at ur profile

BabbanBura:
Que sera sera, nice caption on ya profile!

The babe sense. No be lie. Unlike @toopretty who feels she is too beautiful

Fuckyoumod:
My friend go learn how to cook and stop disturbing us with you childishness.

At 26 you can't make good meal, but you want to marry. Shame!

You don't get it. The point is not the cooking, but running her down in front of his family. What if he visits her own family and she talks of Eg how the guy is lacking in one thing or the other Eg how his is not a go getter as her father or her brothers seated at the dinner. How one bro is a doctor, the other an engineer, both earning million, how when the father was the boy friends age he already owned 5 houses, had a family and was well off. How will the bf feel? Will he sit there like a dummy or excuse himself?
Truth of the matter is that some women will be natural good cooks, some will learn but will still cook crap. Some you give them 1m for a pot of soup yet give another 2k and she will make a sweeter meal.
That one that can cook might not be good in bed or may not be ambitious, may not contribute a dime to the family, might even be dirty, while the other lady may be neat, a master in "za oda room".
Bottomline is to find the good part important to you which you feel you can live with, having in mind the spouse also has to make a compromise on you too.

Nonexisting1:
You're just an ordinary girlfriend but you're already dragging cooking rights with his mother and had the nerve to walk out on his family. You'll last longer in the marriage market than hardship lasts longer in this country.

...So because of marriage women should take derogatory remarks from there spouse.

Nonexisting1:
You're just an ordinary girlfriend but you're already dragging cooking rights with his mother and had the nerve to walk out on his family. You'll last longer in the marriage market than hardship lasts longer in this country.

In this life we have to apply wisdom in some certain things,I understand her point but walking out of d family dinner is a no no

Kinzo0000:
U are full with wisdom

I love the way you aportion blame to both parties

God bless you man.


More wisdom to you bro

Nonsense talk, you marry a woman for love and companionship not to be a chef, we are in the 21st century.

"Wow, where do all these misogynistic ideas come from? Do you not have any women in your family? You're so quick to make it seem like it's a privilege for women to be with men. It takes two to make a relationship work—just like yin and yang, night and day, male and female. If dating someone is so 'ordinary' to you, why not just skip it and marry straight away? Honestly, I feel sorry for any girl crushing on you. A man who disrespects his girlfriend is also disrespecting his mother, grandmother, and all the women who came before him. Period. Called her "Ordinary Girlfriend". You too Ordinary Boy Friend.

Nonexisting1:
You're just an ordinary girlfriend but you're already dragging cooking rights with his mother and had the nerve to walk out on his family. You'll last longer in the marriage market than hardship lasts longer in this country.

What makes her ordinary?. Because she refused to be ridiculed by a poorly raised mummy's boy?.

Nonexisting1:
You're just an ordinary girlfriend but you're already dragging cooking rights with his mother and had the nerve to walk out on his family. You'll last longer in the marriage market than hardship lasts longer in this country.

Wow, where do all these misogynistic ideas come from? Do you not have any women in your family? You're so quick to make it seem like it's a privilege for women to be with men. It takes two to make a relationship work—just like yin and yang, night and day, male and female. If dating someone is so 'ordinary' to you, why not just skip it and marry straight away? Honestly, I feel sorry for any girl crushing on you. A man who disrespects his girlfriend is also disrespecting his mother, grandmother, and all the women who came before him. Period. Called her "Ordinary Girlfriend". You too Ordinary Boy Friend.

Zonefree:
The two fornicators are not compatible for marriage. Nature used the family's dinner to avert a great catastrophe.

You and peace in same sentence is a crime

Send her to a 6 months catering school. That is what I did. And the problem was solved.

Nonexisting1:
You're just an ordinary girlfriend but you're already dragging cooking rights with his mother and had the nerve to walk out on his family. You'll last longer in the marriage market than hardship lasts longer in this country.

Well, it was a banter but it hit her. That's where emotional intelligence comes in... No prospective in-laws Will see you as a bad person if you tried to prepare are lasagna once and failed. She might probably know how to prepare a taco/ Dorito and another person can't. She'd have just smiled through and voice out her concerns later on.

[quote author=FriendsAndFans post=132282148]What benefit is a woman who does not have the culinary skills to please a man.

I'm guessing you believe men should just marry female chefs.😂🤣😜

You even take excuse before you walk out, my dear, no wahala. He's an immature.

Sick Fvcking idiot.
What a irritating Dhead!
Don't look back. Dump him

Attitude remains number 1 problems of most women bcs men only want peace and not boobs or fine face. So how can this type of babe give peace of mind, any lady who does this is a big red Flag but the SIMP BF will go and still beg her "Baby I'm sorry that I let this happened, it's not what you think you know..." until he learn the hard way

Nonexisting1:
You're just an ordinary girlfriend but you're already dragging cooking rights with his mother and had the nerve to walk out on his family. You'll last longer in the marriage market than hardship lasts longer in this country.

Those applauding her many are not married

She should quit the relationship. If he can bring her down like that is a sign of terrible things to come. If he truly loves her he will at least try to defend her before his family.
Men and women should realize you cannot take your family into the family you are trying to build. This has ruined many relationships.

Eduadolero:
Thank you

You are welcome!

I will not do such thing. No man likes public disgrace too.

Man go and learn how to make money your broke ass is expecting much.

Learn to cook with her or you won’t be complaining.

Fahvvy:
Women: go and learn how to cook and stop picking offense when someone points out your inadequacies ...

Men: learn to protect the integrity of your woman, especially in public ...

Not knowing how to cook is not a sufficient reason not to marry a woman, as long as she is teachable and willing to learn.
Then get her to assist your mum a few times and most mothers I know will willingly teach their daughters-in-law. It also promotes bonding.
Cooking can be taught in as little as three months.

benqo01:
In this life we have to apply wisdom in some certain things,I understand her point but walking out of d family dinner is a no no

so how could she have handled the matter better?

Sit down and allow them ridicule her the more in the name of marriage?

Sit down there and be the butt of jokes and condescending remarks ? While she sits there and collects more embarrassment .

Sit down there and cry,throw tantrums or yell so una fit say she's mentally unstable.its even good as she stood up and walked out. It shows she has self respect and dignity.moreso

If he can do this in the presence of his family members nothing will stop him from embarrassing her in the presence of his friends in the middle of dinner or in a public event with friends. Tufiakwa

Anyway I don kuku see men embarrassing their wives for Public places so what am I even saying. Some dey slap their wife for Public,so.e dey remove gele from their wife head for party.if you go marry man wey lack self control he fit embarrass you for anywhere and he won't see anything wrong with it. The most common ones are the men shouting on their wives in public

Infact na connection you go take see woman whose mental health and self esteem is still intact in a marriage.


Even the family members sef are badly behaved.so none of them could stop the guy from embarrassing by stylishly ending the conversation or bringing up a new topic because I know that if it's a man who went to visit his girlfriends family and he was being undermined ot embarrassed for his flaws he will walk out. The family too themselves get emotional unintelligence

Juliearth:
Did you read to understand or you jumped on the train to brandish women bad as usual?

it's obvious that he didn't read the thread

Kemadealadire:
Well, women should focus on training theirale children more, a well trained female married to a badly raised male is going to be a disaster.

Train your male child with more energy than you expend on the female child.

You also need to train the females to know how to cook also so they don't feel embarrass when they are called out...

Fahvvy:
Women: go and learn how to cook and stop picking offense when someone points out your inadequacies ...

Men: learn to protect the integrity of your woman, especially in public ...

so that means both of them are wrong,I was reading a post were someone was asking how igbomen manage to teach their Russian wife's Igbo and make women like them,this is one of the reasons,there is an old Igbo saying that no one will ever critize the food prepared by his mother,the man should have kept his mouth shut

Nonexisting1:
You're just an ordinary girlfriend but you're already dragging cooking rights with his mother and had the nerve to walk out on his family. You'll last longer in the marriage market than hardship lasts longer in this country.

This your monkey gif don smoke weed Taya, hahaha 🤣

Don't mind him, he's an idiot.

Juliearth:
Did you read to understand or you jumped on the train to brandish women bad as usual?