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What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Afonja101(op):
I wanted to open a new account to post this but i realized there's not need since i haven't done anything, i'm just looking for help/advice.

I have an 18years old niece staying with me right from when she was 8years because she losed her both parent. Her mother is my cousin whom we were extremely close when she was alive.... I've been taking care of her to the best of my ability without showing any difference with my kids. This days i noticed that i'm becoming sexually attracted to her. This is something that has never crossed my mind because i see her as my daughter. Please what is the best way to handle this because everyday the temptation keep increasing and becoming so strong. Please help me, i don't want to fall for the temptation the devil is laying into my heart. She is very respectful and so hardworking.

Now i understand the kind of temptation that led people to sleeping with their this and that... Which they were not able to overcome the temptation.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by JASONjnr(m): 6:48am On Oct 07, 2024
Hmmmmmm🤔


How can you be sexually attractive to your own sister's child?

A child that grew under your nose.....

This is not temptation, this is greedy and evil.

The little child will start distrusting men and probably go out there to LovePeddler around because a man who was supposed to protect her wants to eat her.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Afonja101(op): 6:54am On Oct 07, 2024
JASONjnr:
Hmmmmmm🤔


How can you be sexually attractive to your own sister's child?

A child that grew under your nose.....

This is not temptation, this is greedy and evil.

The little child will start distrusting men and probably go out there to LovePeddler around because a man who was supposed to protect her wants to eat her.
please don't judge me, i've not done anything to her. I've never had this thought toward her. Its not even up to two weeks that the temptation started coming and it's becoming so deep. I've been trying my best to fight it though but the more i try the more it becomes strong. I just need advice on how to defeat the temptation completely.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by JASONjnr(m): 6:58am On Oct 07, 2024
Afonja101:
please don't judge me, i've not done anything to her. I swear to God I've never had this thought toward her. Its not up to two weeks not that the temptation started coming and it's becoming so deep. I've been trying my best to fight it though. I just need more advice on how to defeat the temptation completely.
You don't need advice to have self-control.

You claim you haven't done anything to her, but you're nurturing the thought and it's getting deep.

You should be listening to yourself.

I just hope you don't end up in prison for it or losing your wife and children in the process.

And I pray your wife takes her children away from you as you might start sleeping with your own daughters...
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Lonestar124: 6:58am On Oct 07, 2024
Afonja101:
please don't judge me, i've not done anything to her. I swear to God I've never had this thought toward her. Its not up to two weeks not that the temptation started coming and it's becoming so deep. I've been trying my best to fight it though. I just need more advice on how to defeat the temptation completely.
Refrain from such thought..
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 9:34am On Oct 07, 2024
Na wa o.pls see her as your daughter.abeg.haaaa.my sisters have children and I see them as mine.i dont even think of that.they are my kids also
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Everydaylove: 9:45am On Oct 07, 2024
Whoa , bro please have self control or let her go . Don't do anything stupid with her.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by emsco(m): 9:59am On Oct 07, 2024
Last last, you will have your forcefully becos an 18 years old relative will never agree to such thing. Karma will soon catch up with you evil mind.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by galantjoe(m): 10:26am On Oct 07, 2024
What kind advice do you want from. Let me say it as it is.

1. If you go ahead with sexx advance and she accepted, you will put your family into turmoil because definitely your wife will get to know your escapedes with her which will put her in disadvantaged situation like your wife will sack her from your house

2. If he doesn't agree with you, you will sack her from your house.

3. It is morally wrong for a dog to eat a bone hang on his neck
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Eseka22: 11:49am On Oct 07, 2024
No matter how a family member looks or someone taken as family living with you for quite a long time, under normal circumstances the brain usually disable that sense of attraction. Something doesn't seem right, give her space if you could
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by okoroemeka(m): 11:54am On Oct 07, 2024
Afonja101:
I wanted to open a new account to post this but i realized there's not need since i haven't done anything, i'm just looking for help/advice.

I have an 18years old niece staying with me right from when she was 8years because she losed her both parent. Her mother is my cousin whom we were extremely close when she was alive.... I've been taking care of her to the best of my ability without showing any difference with my kids. This days i noticed that i'm becoming sexually attracted to her. This is something that has never crossed my mind because i see her as my daughter. Please what is the best way to handle this because everyday the temptation keep increasing and becoming so strong. Please help me, i don't want to fall for the temptation the devil is laying into my heart. She is very respectful and so hardworking.

Now i understand the kind of temptation that led people to sleeping with their this and that... Which they were not able to overcome the temptation.
so long she is staying with you,it is invietable that such will happen and she will not resist you,just send har away to another place or just plan how to relocated her from your house, nothing on this earth can stop you from misbehaving if that girl still stays with you,infact her sensors have already detected your lust towards her and she is mentally encouraging you to make a move,flee before it is too late,this is how my wife's younger sister seduced me in my own house and before I know it BOOM, pregnancy and double wahalla
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Pussyisgud: 1:00pm On Oct 07, 2024
2 things are at play here.
Your indisciplined mind.
And her exposed flesh.
Now, nobody is perfect, i know but you really need to work on your mind to see her like your own daughter - a forbidden fruit. Imediately the thought comes to your mind stop it, change your reasoning, do anything, think of something else, think of your next meal, the economy, tinubu or something, think about your wife, your kids if they found out you slept with your 18 year old neice how will they feel.
Work on your mind, e better to go nack olosho than that your neice wey dey under your care, it's child abuse and incest even God can't forgive you.

Now, i know all these gen z they love to expose their body, skimpy skirt, crop top, cleavage, no bra, no pant, spaghetti hand, flay skirt, bum short, sleeveless.
U better gather all those nonsense clothes and burn them and chatter Mary amaka for her, if she protests then you use cane to flog marine spirit out of her.
It's better to be safe than sorry, abeg no chop that pikin o .
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Pussyisgud: 1:01pm On Oct 07, 2024
JASONjnr:
Hmmmmmm🤔


How can you be sexually attractive to your own sister's child?

A child that grew under your nose.....

This is not temptation, this is greedy and evil.

The little child will start distrusting men and probably go out there to LovePeddler around because a man who was supposed to protect her wants to eat her.
Nobody is perfect
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Pussyisgud: 1:05pm On Oct 07, 2024
okoroemeka:
This is how my wife's younger sister seduced me in my own house and before I know it BOOM, pregnancy and double wahalla
🤣🤣🤣
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Dtruthspeaker: 1:08pm On Oct 07, 2024
Afonja101:
I wanted to open a new account to post this but i realized there's not need since i haven't done anything, i'm just looking for help/advice.

I have an 18years old niece staying with me right from when she was 8years because she losed her both parent. Her mother is my cousin whom we were extremely close when she was alive.... I've been taking care of her to the best of my ability without showing any difference with my kids. This days i noticed that i'm becoming sexually attracted to her. [b]This is something that has never crossed my mind [/b]because i see her as my daughter. Please what is the best way to handle this because everyday the temptation keep increasing and becoming so strong. Please help me, i don't want to fall for the temptation the devil is laying into my heart. She is very respectful and so hardworking.

Now i understand the kind of temptation that led people to sleeping with their this and that... Which they were not able to overcome the temptation.
Don't mind these devils here abusing you, they have even bleeped their sisters, cousins and all.

it is not you at fault. IT IS THE LITTLE BITCH WHO IS SEX INDUCING YOU with her evil spirit

You did not have it mind but it is she who is putting on it in there.

That is how women get men to Bleep dem and this is always the set up. And it is a set up to always make you the guilty one whereas, she is the one who started your engine.

So its a set up because they know that those signs are the very signs you look out for to see if a girl likes you since women pretend that they do not like men and sex.

My niece, did it to me when she came to stay in my house for youth service and this one i carried her from the hospital when she was born, but i have been noticing this rubbish since i was in secondary school so i have been studying it.

If you fall you would know that women and satan are truly 5 and 6 and that every woman knows oo and they are watching and silently waiting for you to fall, and when you do, all of them will climb ontop of you blaming you that it is your fault.

Whereas, they all knew because women have been fucking their fathers, brothers, cousins, uncles since Eve and that is why many women are not virgins and they will not tell you the truth about who was the first and second to Bleep them.

So, just know Satan has marked you and sent her to destroy your life. Use style to.destroy her life first
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by kTea: 1:36pm On Oct 07, 2024
Gosh!!!!
This is really irritating.
Better cast that devil out from your mind, your niece, is your daughter too, why not get that into your head undecided
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Dtruthspeaker: 1:38pm On Oct 07, 2024
Pussyisgud:
2 things are at play here.
Your indisciplined mind.
And her exposed flesh.
Now, nobody is perfect, i know but you really need to work on your mind to see her like your own daughter - a forbidden fruit. Imediately the thought comes to your mind stop it, change your reasoning, do anything, think of something else, think of your next meal, the economy, tinubu or something, think about your wife, your kids if they found out you slept with your 18 year old neice how will they feel.
Work on your mind, e better to go nack olosho than that your neice wey dey under your care, it's child abuse and incest even God can't forgive you.
You people should stop saying this rubbish. The mere fact that a man has been able to stay faithful for years means he is disciplined.

Secondly, he knew something changed, which such filthy thoughts was never in his mind, that is yesterday and backwards, nothing, then he wakes up today and now something is moving him in the chest. it is not even a thought but a powerful force pushing him to do something and even a thing he did not plan to do.

And the per swaytion of that force is that this is how it also pushes us to do something good, but here, it is now pushing him to something wrong.

And this is why it is True that Satan moved people to do evil for this is the same way God pushes us to something good and we say "thank God o, something push me o"

So here is a clear example of when Satan puahes a person to that which he never planned or even thought of doing.

And you all know this, so stop being a devil heaping more burden whereas from immemorial, it has never ever worked and it was God who helped all those who escaped it to escape by making something bad happen to the evil girl.

So, op, pray the bitch has a very bad accident and see how the evil spirit will leave you.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Dtruthspeaker: 1:38pm On Oct 07, 2024
kTea:
Gosh!!!!
This is really irritating.
Better cast that devil out from your mind, your niece, is your daughter too, why not get that into your head undecided
is he the one that put the devil in his mind?
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Dtruthspeaker: 1:39pm On Oct 07, 2024
Now all the devils will come out and make it your fault
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Dtruthspeaker: 1:47pm On Oct 07, 2024
This thread shows you how devils operate

Re: My Deep Understanding About Women. Men Are The Victim. by clarocuzioo(m): 4:42am On Oct 05
Dizzyyish:
For the same reason that a girl who wants to f*ck right now would act offended if the guy told her "Let's go and f&ck." Saying it out loud makes her look like a slut in this instance. Women don't like hearing about their true nature---because they're naturally amoral the next best thing they can do is act moral. They don't like that straightforward honesty because[b] it clashes with plausible deniability.

Plausible deniability[/b] and being disingenuous goes hand-in-hand. If she acknowledges your f&ck proposal then she's accountable for her actions afterwards, but if she follows you and "One thing just leads to another..." then she'll use that as an excuse to deceive others and convince herself that her actions were not of her doing.
If you tell her to "date other men so you can find the best that’s good for you," it's like saying "I see through you." She can't fully finesse you like she would a lover boy, so unless y'all are friends with benefits she go vex.

Always remember that women won't do anything that doesn't benefit them.

Clariocuzoo
Nnaaa you are very correct. Na so one big aunty for my area called me today while passing[b]. It was obvious she needed some touching. I entered her shop and immediately got the signs.[/b] Grabbed her bobby and fingered her.
Aunty quickly locked her slide glass and bent over for me on the desk in her shop. I gave her the dicking of her life in her shop. She was moaning loud that
I have to increase the volume of the television to highest.
When were were done, I was shocked aunty looked at me and ask me "WHAT DID U JUST DO?
xxxxxxxxxxxx

And you see, uncle entered the trap!

YOUR NIECE IS TRYING TO KILL YOU OF COURSE NOT PHYSICALLY. SO KILL HER FIRST AND OF COURSE NOT PHYSICALLY TOO.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by CyrusVI(m): 2:08pm On Oct 07, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
My niece, did it to me when she came to stay in my house for youth service and this one i carried her from the hospital when she was born, but i have been noticing this rubbish since i was in secondary school so i have been studying it.

I f you fall you would know that women and satan are truly 5 and 6 and that every woman knows oo and they are watching and silently waiting for you to fall, and when you do, all of them will climb ontop of you blaming you that it is your fault.

Whereas, they all knew because women have been fucking their fathers, brothers, cousins, uncles since Eve and that is why many women are not virgins and they will not tell you the truth about who was the first and second to Bleep them.

So, just know Satan has marked you and sent her to destroy your life. Use style to.destroy her life first
cheesy

I laughed out reading the bolded

But how did you conquer the flesh in the case of your Niece

NYSC na one year...you must be living in hell with while you have her around
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by eazzzy1(m): 2:29pm On Oct 07, 2024
1. Confide in your wife let her find a solution.

2. Talk to a therapist, this isn’t normal behaviour.

3. Relocate the girl. Let her go live with another relative or let her get her own place.

4. Help yourself. Paint a vivid picture of how this may end. Create a mental image of the shame you will feel when people find out. Replay this image in your mind whenever you lust after her.

5. Sleep with your wife whenever the thought comes. When you cum, you come to your senses.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Carazon:
The devil is not the the one that's pushing you o and neither your village people. Both the devil and your village people are innocent of the shame and disgrace that awaits you should you go ahead with this your lustful thought.

Please, relocate the girl, let her stay with another relative even if it warrants that you will be sending money for her upkeep, please do that and do it fast because you will SURELY SLEEP WITH HER no matter how hard you try to resist it. The thought and the feelings are there already.

Let you good not turn to evil
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Dtruthspeaker: 3:02pm On Oct 07, 2024
CyrusVI:
cheesy

I laughed out reading the bolded

But how did you conquer the flesh in the case of your Niece

NYSC na one year...you must be living in hell with while you have her around
Because I was aware, and thanks to my wife confirming and explaining women behaviors and signals, as soon as i felt that rubbish heat and warmth, which is how it always flows, i knew devil has come to destroy my sweet peace, So i sent the devil back to her, cursing her with every evil that could and would happen to me, while praying for her to enter my trap where i go beat am and wound am like thief.

She felt it and she stopped and na she choose to go stay for her father's cousins house which is farther for her but now she don see death koro-koro.

No be only women get fit use spiritual power aka witchy!

We men too have spirit (wiitchy) but we are only using it to get goods. We also need it to protect ourselves and counter attack too.

And it is only spirit that cancels spirit after all the sex inducement is 90% spirit and 10% physical that is clothes, breast , yansh and voice. If you slap am now her real voice go show and if you are sensitive enough and you did it correctly, you go see as the demon wey don enter you go waka comot from your body and your nose will pick a demonic smell which smells like burnt ash or charcoal and it makes you cough as your soull presses your body to exhale and breathe out the demon.

It is after this you will see that you are free and yourself and body will return to normal.

And see after that she would be avoiding you whereas you can still talk to her but you will see she would not like to say around you.

AND GUESS WHAT, EVERY WOMAN WHO SAW THE 2 OF YOU KNOWS WHAT HAPPENS!
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by kTea: 3:13pm On Oct 07, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
is he the one that put the devil in his mind?
He conceived it himself.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by Dtruthspeaker: 3:17pm On Oct 07, 2024
kTea:
He conceived it himself.
You are just a devil talking rubbish. i know you are a woman and you do this wickedness, so you are just here to ensure that men do not see and know that is you witches who stir up the feelings in men.

When a man has,it in mind he knows he is the one who births it, so you are the witches who sneak in and stimulate what he did not create nor plan to create..

If a man planned on fucking any girl, even before the girl comes, he is already ready to devour her, so stop being a devil and stop promoting evil.

Which is why you women pray a lot. You people are original Satan's seeds.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by ItisWell22(f): 3:40pm On Oct 07, 2024
Flee sir.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by kTea: 4:42pm On Oct 07, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
You are just a devil talking rubbish. i know you are a woman and you do this wickedness, so you are just here to ensure that men do not see and know that is you witches who stir up the feelings in men.

When a man has,it in mind he knows he is the one who births it, so you are the witches who sneak in and stimulate what he did not create nor plan to create..

If a man planned on fucking any girl, even before the girl comes, he is already ready to devour her, so stop being a devil and stop promoting evil.

Which is why you women pray a lot. You people are original Satan's seeds.
Work on your tenses... When you are done, I'll be able to comprehend your message.
No need throwing words on yourself.
Be good!!!
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by eniolorunfe: 5:07pm On Oct 07, 2024
Relocate her ASAP! You can also inform your wife if she’s reasonable. This will keep you accountable.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by EbenezerTriumph: 6:03pm On Oct 07, 2024
okoroemeka:
so long she is staying with you,it is invietable that such will happen and she will not resist you,just send har away to another place or just plan how to relocated her from your house, nothing on this earth can stop you from misbehaving if that girl still stays with you,infact her sensors have already detected your lust towards her and she is mentally encouraging you to make a move,flee before it is too late,this is how my wife's younger sister seduced me in my own house and before I know it BOOM, pregnancy and double wahalla
@your last sentence. Are you serious?
How did you solve the situation?
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by EbenezerTriumph: 6:05pm On Oct 07, 2024
I like the comments I'm seeing here.
No one cursed or verbally abused OP
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle This Situation? by KingNom(m): 12:34am On Oct 08, 2024
Flee from lusts
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