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I got this gist from a friend, and he needs help understanding this scenario as this lady had gone blank.

You ran into a beautiful girl while driving, you parked, chatted her up and exchanged contacts.

This guy was very much interested in having her a serious girlfriend.

Few days later, he tried chatting her up but no response or interest from this said lady. Though, he tried so many times without success.

Then, this guy switched up the game to being naughty, cocky and always teasing her he would like to have fun and get down with her, the lady started responding to his chat immediately.

Fortunately, they both agreed and fixed a date, the lady ask the guy to pick her up at close of work at her company's gate.

Guy drove to the company's gate, parked, waited for her, she arrived and hoped into the Car.

They drove down to a nice Lounge in GRA, both wined, dined and joked together. Also, telling him how come he is so bold to tell her what he wants

Later on, guy asked how far? Can we go ahead to book the room as agreed.

The lady affirmed, guy said this lady made love to him as if they had both been dating for years, she kissed him passionately, gave him head, rode him and did everything to make themselves happy.

Lady was happy with the session without any monetary compensation and started calling the guy 'her love'

There was spontaneous communication, chatting and voice note from this lady for the next 2 days and then the lady blanked thereafter.

She is no longer pick her calls nor seldomly reply to his chat like before.

The guy is worried what might have gone wrong?

One part of my brain tells me you are the guy

The other part tells me ... They have used your guy

Whichever way... That lady is the winner here

Simple...

Guy went back to default setting of wanting a real/serious relationship.

He stopped being naughty and raunchy which for some strangely weird reason turns the lady on.

It's not guys fault... It's the lady, who appears to be disfunctionally unstable.

Or how else do you describe a lady that just wants to be objectified sexually?

The world Is full of weirdos... Guy should move on!

brain54:
Simple...

Guy went back to default setting of wanting a real/serious relationship.

He stopped being naughty and raunchy which for some strangely weird reason turns the lady on.

It's not guys fault... It's the lady, who appears to be disfunctionally unstable!

Makes sense

See set up and see how the fornicating children jack and john fell down and broke their crowns

Dtruthspeaker:
See set up and see how the fornicating children jack and john fell down and broke their crowns

Guy, this is romance section.

You can choose to navigate your way to Religion section, or do I provide you with a compass lol?

Tell your guy to go for test, seems the lady has given him his own portion of STD.

SilentEmma:
One part of my brain tells me you are the guy

The other part tells me ... They have used your guy

Whichever way... That lady is the winner here

LOL

Attack the post and leave the messenger alone

phorget:
Tell your guy to go for test, seems the lady has given him his own portion of STD.

The guy understands the importance of condom, not everyone is dull like you LOL!!

Dat gal get serious date currently she just use ur guy de catch cruise.... Whenever she needs beta knacking again she will switch on automatically. Make ur guy just use her de catch cruise also and find another gal dat is serious

The whole thing is weird, he should go for STI and STD test.
Hope he paid the lady o, cause they can't do any harm if you pay them well.

Anabosee:
The whole thing is weird, he should go for STI and STD test.
Hope he paid the lady o, cause they can't do any harm if you pay them well.

Sorry, he used CD!!

No monetary compensation.

She is a lady of 26 years old who works in a MNC.

Not every lady you come across is an Olosho.

Delimadaddy:
Dat gal get serious date currently she just use ur guy de catch cruise.... Whenever she needs beta knacking again she will switch on automatically. Make ur guy just use her de catch cruise also and find another gal dat is serious

Exactly my thought, I told the friend she has a serious relationship somewhere!

Deeegbee:
The guy understands the importance of condom, not everyone is dull like you LOL!!

I don't sleep around like dawgs, your guy must be one bingo that like sleeping around.

Deeegbee:
Sorry, he used CD!!

No monetary compensation.

She is a lady of 26 years old who works in a MNC.

Not every lady you come across is an Olosho.

If she's not olosho, wetin she come be? A nun?

Zonefree:
If she's not olosho, wetin she come be? A nun?

Opposite of olosho according to you is nun

If your sister/wife/daughter is not a nun, then your sister/wife/daughter is what??
Ans: olosho, ryt??

The lady just wants to have fun, not serious. Take the hint

The guy should first go for test
*Hepatitis B
*HiV

Or go check spiritual if his destiny is still intact

jorion:
The lady just wants to have fun, not serious. Take the hint

Exactly... however two things dey involve

1. Either she's not psychologically stable due to break ups💔
2. Or she is not just into relationship for now due to past experience.
3. Then she can also be a nymph...would always turn up when she's Hot....


People have got different psychology in this world....

No be everyone normal. Very common with ladies.

The lady may already have a serious guy, like abroad guys or the ones always traveling. Just wanted real knacking with no strings attached. That na y she nor bill ur guy anything.v

Or

Make ur guy try do small test too ooo, maybe something fishy has happened. But he knows her place of work na and her closing time. Y not just stick around and confront her one on one.

She had a misunderstanding with her man so he used bros to keep body oiled. They have settled and she's gone back to him. It's that simple.

ukaface:
Opposite of olosho according to you is nun

If your sister/wife/daughter is not a nun, then your sister/wife/daughter is what??
Ans: olosho, ryt??

You shouldn't have schooled him.

Not everyone is intelligent on NL.

Rexymania:
The guy should first go for test
*Hepatitis B
*HiV

Or go check spiritual if his destiny is still intact

Why is that you guys choose not to read well?

How can you get infected from protective sex?

Haba!!

Deeegbee:
Why is that you guys choose not to read well?

How can you get infected from protective sex?

Haba!!

Oga reader, didn't you read where he said "they kissed passionately"

Hepatitis B can transmit through fluid

Rexymania:
Oga reader, didn't you read where he said "they kissed passionately"

Hepatitis B can transmit through fluid

I meant for HIV.

For Hepatitis B, you can't contract it when fully vaccinated.

You are protected for life after vaccination.

Deeegbee:
Why is that you guys choose not to read well?

How can you get infected from protective sex?

Haba!!

Several STIs can validly be passed on, even with a properly strapped-on, 'functional' latex piece.

A 'helmet' does little if the 'crash' is 'severe' enough!

Deeegbee:
I meant for HIV.

For Hepatitis B, you can't contract it when fully vaccinated.

You are protected for life after vaccination.

If you have something to spare kindly help a struggling family man

She may be married or in a serious relationship

Deeegbee:
I got this gist from a friend, and he needs help understanding this scenario as this lady had gone blank.

You ran into a beautiful girl while driving, you parked, chatted her up and exchanged contacts.

This guy was very much interested in having her a serious girlfriend.

Few days later, he tried chatting her up but no response or interest from this said lady. Though, he tried so many times without success.

Then, this guy switched up the game to being naughty, cocky and always teasing her he would like to have fun and get down with her, the lady started responding to his chat immediately.

Fortunately, they both agreed and fixed a date, the lady ask the guy to pick her up at close of work at her company's gate.

Guy drove to the company's gate, parked, waited for her, she arrived and hoped into the Car.

They drove down to a nice Lounge in GRA, both wined, dined and joked together. Also, telling him how come he is so bold to tell her what he wants

Later on, guy asked how far? Can we go ahead to book the room as agreed.

The lady affirmed, guy said this lady made love to him as if they had both been dating for years, she kissed him passionately, gave him head, rode him and did everything to make themselves happy.

Lady was happy with the session without any monetary compensation and started calling the guy 'her love'

There was spontaneous communication, chatting and voice note from this lady for the next 2 days and then the lady blanked thereafter.

She is no longer pick her calls nor seldomly reply to his chat like before.

The guy is worried what might have gone wrong?

No free sexxx. She either has collected or transferred something to him through that sex. Hopefully, the guy has not been used.

The guy should move on

Deeegbee:
Guy, this is romance section.

You can choose to navigate your way to Religion section, or do I provide you with a compass lol?

Fornication is romance. but i get it, you get my point but you love fornicating romancing but you don't want to get romanced.