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I'm going to explain in a simple to understand language.

If you can’t allow me access to your phone whenever I want as your man because you consider it private—thanks to destructive Western culture—then I advise you not to also allow me access to your private parts, as they are even more private and sacred than your phone.

The woke generation thinks it’s good to obey Western culture but disobey moral culture.

By denying me access to your phone, you’re hiding one of these three things:

1. You’re into illicit or illegal activities, or there’s a sickness you have but don’t want me to know about because the details are in your phone's diary. I might stumble upon them and be devastated. A clear conscience fears nothing.

2. You’re protecting somebody or a group of people, and you don’t want me to know. As I mentioned earlier, a clear conscience fears nothing.

3. You’re cheating on me or soon to (your option A) with your option B, C, D, E or F. Or perhaps you’re cheating on someone (your option A) with me (your option B, C, D, E, or F), and you don’t want me to know. A clear conscience fears no privacy with their partners.

With all these said, let's just remain friends or friends with benefits and I’ll never worry about having access to your phone. Otherwise, I must have access whenever I want.

If the Chinese police accuse you of being a drug dealer and they come to search your house, you wouldn’t panic unless you're guilty.

If you are, you’ll panic and scream, "You're invading my privacy!" When you talk about privacy, it’s not because they’re invading it, it's because you’re scared of being exposed.

One more time: a clear conscience fears no privacy, except when it comes to exposing private parts.

If those police say, "We’re searching your room," you won’t be bothered because there’s nothing incriminating. But if they say, "Take off everything you’re wearing," then you’ll surely panic, because that’s an invasion of a sacred private place.

Some men play the "Mr. Alpha male" role and say, "I’ll never check my woman’s phone; it’s a sign of insecurity and lack of trust."

Yes, you’re right—but soon, you’ll be wrong. If you love a bird, don’t cage it, allow it to fly. But if you love your spouse, cage her or else she’ll fly. Caging in this regard means ensuring she submits to your requests. This is not SIMPing or acting overprotective.

When she was a child, her disciplinary father never allowed her to stay outside past 9 PM. This same father always checked her notebooks and she never acted stubborn.

He was the man, the head, who paid the bills, took care of her and protected her. Today, her phone is her notebook, but she doesn’t want to submit it to you—the head, the man taking care of her bills, caring for her, and protecting her.

If criminals come into the house, she’d hide and expect you to fight and protect her, just as her father used to.

If a woman sees her phone as her privacy, friendzone her or turn her into a friend-with-benefits.

It’s unfortunate that some men fall in love (which a man isn’t supposed to), and this takes away their reasoning, making them to start SIMPing and sharing the masculine power God gave them as the leader of the house with a feminine creature. Yes, men are women's slave, but you're still the leader as the head.

Some "oversabi" feminists will say, "It must be 50/50."

Yes, if the man is irresponsible, poor, and lazy, it should be 50/50. But if he’s rich and responsible, it’s 99/1 or 95/5. Regina Daniels can’t ask Ned to see his phone, but Ned can ask to see hers. Why? Rich and responsible.

Conversely, if Mr. Eazi was poor, irresponsible, and lazy, he wouldn’t have the power Ned has over Regina in his relationship with Temi Otedola.

But if rich and responsible Ned had married Temi Otedola, he’d still have the same rights he has with Regina. If Temi doesn’t like it, let her find a poor, irresponsible and lazy man to marry, so she can use woke Western culture to control him like the bread seller girl that year controlled her husband.

A real man MUST have access to his woman’s phone, (girlfriend or wife). He must be a provider, a disciplinarian, and a protector—without being abusive—even though women love abusive men and the drama they bring more than the calm and peaceful men.

Don’t let Western culture turn you into a SIMP, allowing your falcon (woman) to fly freely whenever she wants. One day, you’ll discover that on one of her journeys, a vulture slept with her, and now she’s carrying the rejected bird’s baby.

She’ll still blame you for everything— not being man enough, not paying attention to her, not satisfying her in bed, being boring, not providing, etc.

If it’s in the U.S., you’ll still lose 50% of all you own, suffer a mental breakdown and be held responsible for your woke-ness, while still paying child support for a vulture’s child.

This is why African men should NEVER embrace Western woke culture. If she doesn’t bring home a vulture’s child, she’d at least bring a vulture’s infection because falcons and vultures always go skin-to-skin.

Yes, some SIMPs and some alphas will say, "No matter how much you police her, she'll still do what she wants."

I 100% agree with you, but at least, have access to her current "notebook" (her phone), just as her father used to have access to her notebooks. Do this without being needy and pushy, but if she refused, you don't need more red flags.

When she goes out, clear your mind and don’t bother. Let the loyalty she claims to have for you—or her secret loyalty to her personal pleasure—guide her decisions.

It’s her choice to decide whose loyalty is more important at that moment—yours as her provider or her secret sexual satisfaction from a vulture. You've done your part as a man, so leave the rest to her conscience.

Remember: Secret gay men and lesbian women in power sponsor the feminist movement to destroy heterosexual relationships within a year.

When a heterosexual relationship collapses due to financial strain, a desperate man will easily fall for rich gay billionaires who will lure him with a watery financial offer in exchange for his ass and the girl will do the same with wealthy lesbians.

In this situation, two heterosexuals ended up compromising their values for survival.

Gays and lesbians in power are pushing straight women to demand equality as a way to destroy women first and then men.

Even up-and-coming musicians, actors, etc., bend to the will of these billionaires before they can find success in their industries. It’s the desperation they've created to make humanity fall for their games.

As long as these powerful secret LGBTQ+ billionaires continue to sponsor feminists to drag men into equality debates and destroy patriarchy, heterosexual relationships will continue to fail and women will become more loose and easily accessible with money. 

The Devil won’t rest until he wins. This is the game real men are up against, and it's not easy to win unless you're rich, a strong leader and a stubborn "bad boy" who doesn’t tolerate disrespect or manipulation.

Also, it's good to know that these powerful billionaires control 90% of everything—politics, social media, schools, Churches, Mosques, the Illuminati, etc. They have their people everywhere.

Their agenda is to destroy heterosexual relationships and silence or weaken men who call themselves alphas. These men try to educate the new generation of men how to remain gallant and uncompromising to bending like women to their fellow men.

Have you noticed something?

If a pro-feminist woman creates a video encouraging women to hurt men and never settle for poor or short men, and a man, let's call him Andrew Quincy creates a video telling men not to settle for disloyal, overweight or women over 26...

Andrew's video will be taken down immediately from all social media platforms like a co-ordinated attack and he might even be arrested by the powerful LGBTQ+ gang in power. But that woman’s video won't be taken down. Why?

These powerful evil figures want every woman to be a rebellious, disobedient, "woke" woman, so heterosexual relationships won't last. This benefits their agenda, the self-service di,*do companies, don't want relationships to last. A woman destroys anything that involves emotions faster than a man can.

HERE IS THE TRUTH:

As a man, yes, your a woman's slave, at the same time the leader of the house, but make money, lead, have access to her phone and provide 80% of your food by farming.

Control 80% of your money through digital currency, and make sure you have at least 80% or more decision power in every relationship. If not, leave or turn her into a friend with benefits.

Having decision power doesn’t mean you can’t be understanding. Always listen to her side before making a final decision.

She’s human, so let her speak, but ensure the final decision is yours. If not, you’re a failure, a SIMP, and you deserve to be in the same prison as P Diddy, where he can handle you like the sissy that you truly are.

Download the image below and have it on your phone. It's important.

Tokskob2008:
Private part these days aren't private anymore especially for the ladies but their phones are full of private escapades so they tend to guard it with all their might..

iLegendd:
You make your phone private, but your private part is handed to me and other men you're cheating with. Continue, Mrs. Private Investor.

budaatum:
Would I have equal access to your private phone too, or is this a one way thing?

iLegendd:
All my girls have access to my phone and ATM pins. I can hide something in a phone and no living thing will see it.

budaatum:
So, you hide things in your phone that I can not see, but think you have the right to see what I hide in my phone, and you think I'm too dumb and can not hide things in my phone that you can not see?

Seriously, I'm glad you think I'm dumb. For while it makes it easy to swindle you, your arrogance (insult not intended) helps me justify my action.

And please note, you are benefits. I treat my friends a lot better.

iLegendd:
If my crypto accounts that I'm protecting is the issue, I'll show you as my girl, cuz I have nothing to hide. I put it there because of police.

You're just an arrogant feminist from a broken home. Any woman brought up with good dad and mom won't argue with me. Yes, sure you're dumb because you're an emotional creature. Trust me.

Tokskob2008:
Private part these days aren't private anymore especially for the ladies but their phones are full of private escapades so they tend to guard it with all their might..

budaatum:
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iLegendd:
Calm down, I have modified the post. Re-quote me.

iLegendd:
Referring to your quote, we don't need strong women, we want a feminine woman who is submissive so that we can slave our lives to provide and protect her.

budaatum:
You don't know anything about me, yet you assert what I am. And worst, you ask me who knows who I am to trust you.

Please don't you bother trusting me. Our association, what else it might be, is definitely not based on trust, but on the evidence that is before us. And it is an obvious fact that you are not in a position to derive any benefits from me not to talk of being my friend, as there's far too many decent people who'd qualify long before I consider pigs.

iLegendd:
Lemme give you a tiny gist about myself.

Damn, me that pushes people away, even my siblings, if they misbehave wants to be your friend? All my childhood, I have only had 1 friend till this day.

I left Nigeria, came back years later, it was still him. He left my house a year or two ago to Spain for his second masters and PhD, and he's still the only friend. He's begging me to come over, but I told him abroad no dey move me again — I don enjoy before you, no nothing new. Even with the supposed hardship in Nigeria, wise people are making a killing without paying tax unlike abroad that wanted to kill me with tax.

This guy is way smarter than me. You think it's easy to find people that are way smarter than me? I'm not saying I'm the smartest, but damn.

The best in class in Nigeria and abroad. Humility is the reason I control my bragging. Dey play.

So, even if you draw close to me, I'll be the one to approve the friendship, not you because I have way more to offer, but sadly, I'll decline as I have always done all my life.

No woman has ever dumped me—I'm the one who's never interested as they beg me to give them a chance. So, for your mind, I'll give someone like you a chance? A female Nairalander for that matter? Lol.

iLegendd:
Lemme give you a tiny gist about myself.

budaatum:
To your "calm down", see below.



You don't need strong women. Weak men usually don't. And that's why I am simply not the woman for you.

Thankfully for you, there's lots of women out there for you to pick from. We after all live in a world where some women think they are a man's rib. I'm just not one of them.

budaatum:
You now sound like you are advertising yourself in hope you'd appeal to me, lol. Aren't you content with the women you already get that you now think you would appeal to me?

It's about trust you see. You don't trust me, so what makes you think I should trust you?

You are not my kind of smart, sorry. I'd even go as far as saying you are not smart enough to be my friend not to talk of one with any benefits. I definitely wouldn't bother being your friend going by the way you reason, because friendship, as far as I am concerned, is a relationship of mutual trust and benefit, and you haven't said anything to make me have either in you.

iLegendd:
E be like say I go ignore you before you push me into exposing my worth.

iLegendd:
Don't Take Her Seriously Except This Happens

SuperOnyi:



I feel sane when I remember there's billions out there who think like me "in default state." This is exactly what I did in my first 'situationship' with my boss's daughter. I let her believe she's in charge and also made sure she was the one to end the relationship due to distance. In reality, I already knew she was gone long before that.

Sir, with all of this woke culture, do you see yourself ever migrating permanently to the West? I notice how your perceptions of the West (although similar) has slowly shifted to the negative arrow.

iLegendd:
I prefer some Asian countries over the West. They uphold most of African values while being more developed organized and law abiding than Nigeria.

But, I love Nigeria for some reasons. You can evade tax easily here and I have access to real natural food. Coupled with the free light in my region, good weather and close to zero natural disaster except flooding and road accident.

We are blessed in Nigeria, na just leadership and lawlessness spoil everything.

budaatum:
But your worth is of no importance nor of any relevance to me. It's not as if I'm trying to sell myself to you now is it, and nor do I need to rely on you for my daily bread.

There's lots of starving girls out there for you to go derive benefits from. Girls who are very interested in your worth and would willingly sell their benefits to you.

What you are finding out is, not all girls are at your shallow level, but I'm certain you know that already, hence your thread where you pitch yourself at those at your own very low level.

Now, please go ahead and try hard to show us your worth by ignoring me. I bet you'd fail.

ObalendeCMS:
I won't be surprised if those two up there, going back & forth, end up smashing!