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Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Nicoddemus(m): 7:19am On Oct 12, 2024
Adasun:
Lols, I just dey nod through the write up...no woman that loves me ever hide her phone. U dey craze? They even willing drop it for me to hold for them self.


I also noticed,they like keeping there money with me too.
We didn't ask you to advertise yourself idiot
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Fujiyama: 7:21am On Oct 12, 2024
cheesy

Strange thread.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by budaatum: 7:30am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
Men, invest o! Any little cash, invest. Don't go drinking Guinness of 10k. 2 = 20k. That is about $12 which you can use to learn crypto trading. Use YouTube — all the info are there for free.
Me at my level should invest $12, lol. And when I make a handsome 10% on that investment, a mere $1.20, I should forget myself and be making mouth like you the man with your 2k friends with benefits, shey? Guess you think everyone must be at the level you're at I suppose, but that's not my beef with you this wonderful glorious good morning.

Tell. Why the fuq did you not wake me up like I commanded you to huh
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Mcslize: 7:30am On Oct 12, 2024
EndRape2:
Rubbish write up, if you access her phone , she must access your phone , even if you are a billionaire.
Say no to insubordination. We men see insubordinate and no submissive ladies as men like us. When you act unsubmissive as a lady, it kills your feminine aura. It will make you appear disgusting.

We men love women that exhume submissive aura. It turns us on like mad. But if you start acting all manly around and clamouring for power tussle, Oooooops, we will trash you in the dust bin. Ladies who clamour for power tussle have no place in a man's life.

That's why the s*x toy industry is booming today cuz women that think can do without men are the major patronisers.

If you don't want to end up a baby mama as a lady, it's high time you started learning to be submissive to the leadership of a man. Two men can't take up leadership in the same house. There will be a terrible clash.

Take this advice now or be ready to be a baby mama that is if you're not already.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 7:35am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
Would I have equal access to your private phone too, or is this a one way thing?
You did not read that only poor men does 50/50 I.e. access to phones cheesy
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by budaatum: 7:36am On Oct 12, 2024
Mcslize:
This is what we are saying. Some of you bunches of women are quite vindictive. You want to use ObalendeCMS as a second option just to spite a man you're dieing for who doesn't give a fvck about you? If this isn't stupidity, tell me what it is.
Dying for iLegendd, the breathe that I breath, the sugar in my tea, the heart of my soul, the one whom I wake up early in the morning to torment?

Guess you've told yourself what it is, you and your bunches of ObalendeCMS logic.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 7:37am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
If my crypto accounts that I'm protecting is the issue, I'll show you as my girl, cuz I have nothing to hide. I put it there because of police.

You sound like an arrogant feminist from a broken home. (No insult intended). Any woman brought up by good dad and mom won't argue with me. Yes, sure you're dumb because you're an emotional creature and your emotions will always expose you. Trust me. (No insult intended, dear).


The moment I notice you're already playing a hide-and-seek "arrogant feminist" game with me, you're already a sex object to me. I'll even encourage you to call your man when I'm banging you. You're just there for my pleasure and nothing more. Once again, no insult intended — I'm just being real.

Referring to your quote, we don't need strong women, we want a feminine woman who is submissive so that we can slave our lives to provide and protect her.
You think having no self respect by spilling your seed with someone you don't value is a flex.

Toor!
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Fiscus105(m):
iLegendd:
Lemme give you a tiny gist about myself.

Damn, me that pushes people away, even my siblings, if they misbehave wants to be your friend? All my childhood, I have only had 1 friend till this day.

I left Nigeria, came back years later, it was still him. He left my house a year or two ago to Spain for his second masters and PhD, and he's still the only friend. He's begging me to come over, but I told him abroad no dey move me again — I don enjoy before you, no nothing new. Even with the supposed hardship in Nigeria, wise people are making a killing without paying tax unlike abroad that wanted to kill me with tax.

This guy is way smarter than me. You think it's easy to find people that are way smarter than me? I'm not saying I'm the smartest, but damn.

The best in class in Nigeria and abroad. Humility is the reason I control my bragging. Dey play.

So, even if you draw close to me, I'll be the one to approve the friendship, not you because I have way more to offer, but sadly, I'll decline as I have always done all my life.

No woman has ever dumped me—I'm the one who's never interested as they beg me to give them a chance. So, for your mind, I'll give someone like you a chance? A female Nairalander for that matter? Lol.
First, your original post is grossly bias but, ignored until I got to this very one.(even thou, I strongly biliv that, husband should have access to his wife phone and social media accounts)
Nevertheless,
I will advise you to go and see clinical psychologist "if and only if" you want to leave a peaceful life, also, if you don't want to.....die like lonely single/single father and by extension leave a life of embittered old man in future .

You can see, its reflecting alot in your day to day life and gradually pushing you to state of loneliness. (one man mopol).

Moreso, it has started turning you to frustrated and attack dog that is angry with, not only female gender but also his own gender.

Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Mcslize: 7:42am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
I value you! And the reason I value you is you value yourself immensely.

My hope is, more men will be like you instead of the pigs most seem to want to be.
Women will always value foolish men they can control that can give them freedom to mess around and won't say pim, no doubt about that.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by seanwilliam(m): 7:51am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
You don't read to comprehend, you read to reply. There is no way ever since you started using a phone that you haven't asked a man, woman or family member for card or urgent 2k. I haven't. I didn't say you asked me — I'm refering to women in general.

I don't consider you a woman anymore — you're a man like us, a strong man for that matter. Bobrisky saw the hardship men face and ran away but you want chook head. cheesy

Talking about the price of what you're drinking, you get money pass me na. grin You na big man.

All my money has been invested. Also, with the rise of fake products causing kidney problems, I have stopped consuming 95% of things that have gone through a factory — soft drink, alcohol, energy drink, etc. I hardly take them in the first place, but I have total stopped or 99.99% stopped.

I mostly exercise and consume home-made beverages. If I want to get high like you, I'll get fresh marijuana and slice them into my meal. It's a vegetable and it's medicinal.

For your girlfriends? Hmmm. 90% of women have lesbian tendencies and girl-to-girl always turn them on. Speaking from experience. But since you want to be a man, I trust you, you won't do anything to your "girlfriends" after getting high. 🙄

You're bragging about clubbing, drinking and spending 50-100k. Wow! You're a big girl o. I lost almost a million in crypto some days ago and I wasn't even bothered. Though, I have made the money back.

While I'm busy focusing on multiplying my money, you're busy spending. You know why? The bills is always on a man, us, so we have to invest more than we spend. There are even nice guys in that club that'll be ready to pay for you girls, but I had to carry my own weight.

When I was a student, I used to spend lavishly too and club's gate fee wat $50-$100 for the men and if you want to enter VIP section, you pay thousands of $. This $50 (85k) is just for entrance and not the drinks I'll buy.

You're being abusive towards the end. Don't go there, please, I'm violent with words.

Now, let's talk about how you made that money you spent. Can you tell us? You can lie about it if you want to, but I'd love if you're sincere.

See woman dey brag about clubbing and alcohol—not to talk of the substances she'll smoke or inhale in that place. We're doomed—the female gender is gone. America, look at what you've done to our women. And you want us to take you seriously? You're already a man like us, so allow us look for feminine women.

They want to do what men do, but when fight broke out between Ukraine and Russia, the Ukrainian government said all women and children should be moved to safety and all the men forward for war and not a single Ukrainian feminist said, "Objection my Lord, all the women must join the men in this this war." 98% of these women ran to safety in other countries and 98% of the men refused to run—just to defend their country.


You see? So, how did you make the money you spent? Is it legit? The company you work for, is it owned by a man or a woman? Be honest and not abusive.
the problem is , she’ll deliberately leave this part out… grin feminists to me are frustrated and heartbroken females
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by budaatum: 7:52am On Oct 12, 2024
Mcslize:
When you act unsubmissive as a lady, it kills your feminine aura. It will make you appear disgusting.
The only thing an unsubmissive lady kills is your tiny already dying ego, and that's because you are a boy.

Men don't mind women who are unsubmissive and equal to them because they know that 1 plus a half is one and a half, while 1 plus 1 equals 2.

Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Mcslize: 7:52am On Oct 12, 2024
pocohantas:
Simple... grin grin
I know I must see Ishilove and Poco in this thread. Poco is one of the die hard feminists on Nairaland.

Please, guys let's hail the mama. Mama is in the building. She is the leading chairlady of all feminists here on Nairaland.

Mama, I hail you. But I put it to you and I tell you for free, las las, you can't still do without a man. Take this to the market, you will know it is what it is.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by budaatum: 8:01am On Oct 12, 2024
Mcslize:
Women will always value foolish men they can control that can give them freedom to mess around and won't say pim, no doubt about that.
Why would I go mess around when I got a king at home? Do people in your world go seeking brass when their home is full of gold? And no, I don't mean gold as in wealth, because I'm certain that's where you mind would go!

A smart king consults his queen and they rule their home with wisdom. And the children that come out of such kingdoms are princes and princesses and are definitely not for pigs.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 8:02am On Oct 12, 2024
Mcslize:
This is what we are saying. Some of you bunches of women are quite vindictive. You want to use ObalendeCMS as a second option just to spite a man you're dieing for who doesn't give a fvck about you? If this isn't stupidity, tell me what it is.
cheesy

Charcoal fire pit calling pot black.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 8:02am On Oct 12, 2024
Fujiyama:
cheesy

Strange thread.
cheesy
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 8:06am On Oct 12, 2024
Mcslize:
Say no to insubordination. We men see insubordinate and no submissive ladies as men like us. When you act unsubmissive as a lady, it kills your feminine aura. It will make you appear disgusting.

We men love women that exhume submissive aura. It turns us on like mad. But if you start acting all manly around and clamouring for power tussle, Oooooops, we will trash you in the dust bin. Ladies who clamour for power tussle have no place in a man's life.

That's why the s*x toy industry is booming today cuz women that think can do without men are the major patronisers.

If you don't want to end up a baby mama as a lady, it's high time you started learning to be submissive to the leadership of a man. Two men can't take up leadership in the same house. There will be a terrible clash.

Take this advice now or be ready to be a baby mama that is if you're not already.
grin

Interestingly, men like you want women submissive so you can break them.

And I honestly don’t know when you lots would realise that 'you used her and dumped her' is really a blessing in disguise because you are so corrosive and would kill every spirit you come in contact with.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Adasun(m): 8:08am On Oct 12, 2024
Nicoddemus:
We didn't ask you to advertise yourself idiot
k grin grin grin
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iamtoofan: 8:13am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
All my girls have access to my phone and ATM pins. I can hide something in a phone and no living thing will see it.

My phone is like a computer. Different operating systems: Window, iOS, Ubuntu, Linux, etc. You won't even see option to switch. If you do see, you're just way to good in IT. Even after that, how do you gain access with multiple authentications?

This is just to protect my crypto accounts from everything incase I'm travelling with my phone and I get into trouble with men in uniform. I'm not hiding a crime, just protecting my money from uniform criminals.
Dont know you, so i wont say i am disappointed, all that long epistle depict insecurity and maybe you shouldn't be thinking of a relationship until you're mature


Yeah ! whether private part or private possession it is "Personal" and should require Permission always.

Whether you belong to the traditional world or the woke world ... the fundament of life is "choice" ... nobody owes you access into what they classify as private, the choice is theirs, learn to know your place

God created human but yet he gave us freewill, the choice is yours whether to give your life to christ or not .... so why should a mere mortal feel so entitled to anothers life.

Monitoring and caging your spouse is the lamiest way to own anyone
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by UppaZakum(m): 8:15am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
Men, invest o! Any little cash, invest. Don't go drinking Guinness of 10k. 2 = 20k. That is about $12 which you can use to learn crypto trading. Use YouTube — all the info are there for free.

Some women have oil-wells in-between their legs and there are millions of SIMPs around the world who are eagerly waiting to pay for it. Even with all the money she has made from her oil-well, if you marry her, you'll still foot the bills. Not all women use their oil-wells for money, some have dignity, but most don't.

You're on your own. Even after you've made it, for 5-10 more years, act as if you haven't made it yet. E get why.
Hi bro..Thanks for your posts here. Only real men can relate. Let the simps continue to wallow in their ignorance...
Question: With the ban of crypto in Nigeria, what option is available out there to fund my wallet? Haven't been able to trade since the FG ban. I do more of stocks now..but that isn't rosy as well due to ridiculous charges from Bamboo..Made some profits though but the charges have significantly reduced the margins.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 8:19am On Oct 12, 2024
Interesting thread to start the weekend.

The OP contains a few nuggets; Yes, a woman's phone should be more accessible than her body, ditto a man and trust (both ways) is mandatory in a relationship.

Then it went downhill.

But again, what do I expect from a man who saw his father command his mother to sit at home after she dresses up from an event? As much as we hate to hear it because it is a wide net dragging a lot of people, family background matters a lot except we deliberately rise above it.

Write ups like the OP's thrive because a lot of women (by nature/nurture) lack self-worth, have a low self-esteem and/or self-respect.

When you know you are enough in yourself and derive your worth from God, you would naturally repel a number of men. And it is fine.... you only need 1 that your values align.

And while knowing your worth, get knowledge..... Ubun.ja's threads here are a great place to start. As you read, you notice the that traits you would have excused out of innocence are actually deliberate efforts to break your spirit and sap your core.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Nobody: 8:20am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
Would I have equal access to your private phone too, or is this a one way thing?
To choke U just dey hungry me. This is what we're talking about... Op never drink water drop cup U have come out guns blazing demanding equality. Just be submissive for once. U won't die undecided

Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Caleycash(m): 8:21am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
Would I have equal access to your private phone too, or is this a one way thing?
He's the one marrying you not the other way round!... are you paying his grooms price?, accommodating him? And taking care of the family?, it's a one way thing!, you're not equal to a man cus I'm very certain you won't settle for a financially struggling man!
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by pocohantas(f): 8:21am On Oct 12, 2024
Mcslize:
I know I must see Ishilove and Poco in this thread. Poco is one of the die hard feminists on Nairaland.

Please, guys let's hail the mama. Mama is in the building. She is the leading chairlady of all feminists here on Nairaland.

Mama, I hail you. But I put it to you and I tell you for free, las las, you can't still do without a man. Take this to the market, you will know it is what it is.
This is a VERY stale and slow take. I have never said I don't have or need a man, so I wonder why you keep quoting me with this retarded bullshit like you have something on me.

I do have one, thankfully he isn't on NL typing epistles on his supposed crypto and checking my phone.

If there is anything you should focus on, it is when you and your kind would hook these good women. I mean, when will you leave feminists and show us your good woman? How you treat her and how feminine/happy and kept she is. Pipe dream hah? I know right.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Nobody: 8:24am On Oct 12, 2024
bukatyne:
Interesting thread to start the weekend.

The OP contains a few nuggets; Yes, a woman's phone should be more accessible than her body, ditto a man and trust (both ways) is mandatory in a relationship.

Then it went downhill.

But again, what do I expect from a man who saw his father command his mother to sit at home after she dresses up from an event? As much as we hate to hear it because it is a wide net dragging a lot of people, family background matters a lot except we deliberately rise above it.

Write ups like the OP's thrive because a lot of women (by nature/nurture) lack self-worth, have a low self-esteem and/or self-respect.

When you know you are enough in yourself and derive your worth from God, you would naturally repel a number of men. And it is fine.... you only need 1 that your values align.

And while knowing your worth, get knowledge..... Ubun.ja's threads here are a great place to start. As you read, you notice the that traits you would have excused out of innocence are actually deliberate efforts to break your spirit and sap your core .
I still don't understand why a lot of U ladies always see it this way when all we mean is good for us?
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Caleycash(m): 8:25am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
So, you hide things in your phone that I can not see, but think you have the right to see what I hide in my phone, and you think I'm too dumb and can not hide things in my phone that you can not see?

Seriously, I'm glad you think I'm dumb. For while it makes it easy to swindle you, your arrogance (insult not intended) helps me justify my action.

And please note, you are benefits. I treat my friends a lot better.
Remain with your shitty feminism, don't even dare marry cus you'll make a horrible wife... you're not EQUAL to a man!!!
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 8:28am On Oct 12, 2024
dkidd:
I still don't understand why a lot of U ladies always see it this way when all we mean is good for us?
Of course, breaking a woman's spirit is to your benefit or how else would you request for values you don't bring to the table? Or do all sorts and get away with it?

How else would you get her to breed the next generation of men to be menaces to her daughters?
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by pocohantas(f): 8:29am On Oct 12, 2024
bukatyne:
Of course, breaking a woman's spirit is to your benefit or how else would you request for values you don't bring to the table? Or do all sorts and get away with it?

How else would you get her to breed the next generation of men to be menaces to her daughters?
Nawa. This one loud o. grin grin grin
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iamtoofan:
iLegendd:
If my crypto accounts that I'm protecting is the issue, I'll show you as my girl, cuz I have nothing to hide. I put it there because of police.

You sound like an arrogant feminist from a broken home. (No insult intended). Any woman brought up by good dad and mom won't argue with me. Yes, sure you're dumb because you're an emotional creature and your emotions will always expose you. Trust me. (No insult intended, dear).

The moment I notice you're already playing a hide-and-seek "arrogant feminist" game with me, you're already a sex object to me. I'll even encourage you to call your man when I'm banging you. You're just there for my pleasure and nothing more. Once again, no insult intended — I'm just being real.

Referring to your quote, we don't need strong women, we want a feminine woman who is submissive so that we can slave our lives to provide and protect her.
As what, 🤣🤣 maybe you record nd listen to yourself more often, your mentality no just follow, tew much immaturity.
Even my old man till he died never ask my mom for her phone how much us the new school,

Yoruba adage says " friend wey you go dey suspect every minute of the journey .... no kuku follow am waka undecided
A woman you cant trust no kuku marry her naw. if you cant trust stay out of r/ship

Make i say my head no correct naw, make i go carry pocohantas of all gurlz undecided ... then every meal she serves me i throw few spoons to chicken nd dog wait 30min before i can eat undecided
what kind of life is that, bro some of us cherish peace/rest of mind, oga oo!
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by GloriousGbola: 8:33am On Oct 12, 2024
cococandy:
What if she had a crypto account that she’s protecting too?

Wait before you answer. Are women allowed to invest in crypto? Or does she need your permission to do that too?
The problem with these clowns is they want to eat their cake and have it. The humble submissive women who will take all this shit from them and more exist, but the women are typically local, raz and not particularly attractive

These Clowns want to eat their cake and have it. They want fly head turning chicks that they can boss around

The guy is also a dyed in the wool hypocrite who admits that he thinks all women are tech illiterates who do not know about password apps, fake calculator apps, app logins, hiding conversations.

Because from his posts he will hide info on his phone when making it available. In his own words 'my girls'. Not my girl.

The fantasizer claims to have multiple girlfriends but expects fidelity.
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Nobody: 8:35am On Oct 12, 2024
bukatyne:
Of course, breaking a woman's spirit is to your benefit or how else would you request for values you don't bring to the table? Or do all sorts and get away with it?

How else would you get her to breed the next generation of men to be menaces to her daughters?
How can breaking another person's spirit be beneficial to me? Stop all these. It's not even making sense. Values U don't bring to the table? Leadership is by example and U are even sounding like U know me when U don't. U ladies should try and chill sometimes. Everything is already broken the way it is. Being rebellious helps no one, especially women
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by pocohantas(f): 8:38am On Oct 12, 2024
GloriousGbola:
The problem with these clowns is they want to eat their cake and have it. The humble submissive women who will take all this shit from them and more exist, but the women are typically local, raz and not particularly attractive

These Clowns want to eat their cake and have it. They want fly head turning chicks that they can boss around

The guy is also a dyed in the wool hypocrite who admits that he thinks all women are tech illiterates who do not know about password apps, fake calculator apps, app logins, hiding conversations.

Because from his posts he will hide info on his phone when making it available. In his own words 'my girls'. Not my girl.

The fantasizer claims to have multiple girlfriends but expects fidelity.
Which tech does he even know? Let's bring out the main NL techbros so he can go head on head with them.

Yet they somehow think they are blessings to womanhood and we are missing out on something by not being their faves. Delulu!
Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 8:38am On Oct 12, 2024
pocohantas:
Nawa. This one loud o. grin grin grin
Before nko?

They need to keep the barracks moving.
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