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| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by pocohantas(f): 8:39am On Oct 12, 2024 |
bukatyne:Indeed they do. It is how they think they have achieved the level of wealth to live out these delusions. All this hubris on top crypto. Naija women dey really see something o. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by skylane: 8:40am On Oct 12, 2024 |
iLegendd:God bless you with knowledge and word kai |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 8:41am On Oct 12, 2024 |
dkidd:But rebellion helps men a little abi? I should stop what exactly? If the cap fits..... |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Bobbynobobby: 8:42am On Oct 12, 2024 |
iLegendd:"fear of losing you or fear of you finding out" These are words of wisdom |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 8:44am On Oct 12, 2024 |
pocohantas:Well it is Naija women that would deliver themselves. 'Nigerian' men have audacity sha. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iamtoofan: 8:45am On Oct 12, 2024 |
budaatum:i guess you are one of those ladies that believe they fell from the sky then cos, asides the bible xplanation, the scientist have no xplanation as to how women came into being, so what other version is left. women are not suppose to be strong, whats the point ![]() |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by greypencils: 8:46am On Oct 12, 2024 |
I agree with all that you've said except one thing, as long as you want to have access to her phone at all times, she should have access to yours. It is indeed 50:50. That example you gave about Temi Otedola, Eazi, Regina Daniels etc is trash. You want her to come clean, you come clean too. You want her to love you, you love her too. Until then, you are indeed NOT READY for a serious relationship. Do you know what the red pill does? It tells you, you are superior to the woman. And to remain superior, you keep dating inferior low lives. As men, your superiority is in form of leadership where which you ask your followers to do as I do, NOT do as I say. Anyone with an autocratic do as I say attitude is gonna crash and burn maritally. You would keep dating/marrying women with no values. They would keep leaving you. What example would you be laying for your children? Your girl child especially? You want to have daughters right? Would you want your daughter's spouse or fiance to treat her as an inferior human being, to be seen & not to be heard? Do you think Ngozi Okonjo Iweala is married to a man who 'cages' her with your red pill ideology? Sometimes make una dey reason well sometimes. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Nobody: 8:46am On Oct 12, 2024 |
bukatyne:Lol it's alright |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by pocohantas(f): 8:49am On Oct 12, 2024 |
bukatyne:Painfully so. What kind of head doesn't lead by example? Even in a workplace, if the unit head is sleeping around and demanding energy he isn't giving - what happens? I would have thought this is common sense. But to them it is feminism. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Greenfusion: 8:51am On Oct 12, 2024*. Modified: 9:16am On Oct 12, 2024 |
While i agree with some points, i also disagree with a lot. I think most men overrate themselves, we actually think having access to a woman's phone make us the head or safe. Point to note, women are very SMART, and i would tell u that they are smarter than we Men. I have accepted this truth, so with that acceptance I have crafted my ingenuity on how to deal with them. My thought is, a woman that would cheat, would cheat irrespective of how you try to cage or constrain her, although some measures can frustrate her truly. But truthfully, Don't make her too free to the point of disrespect, exert authority at some point, but don't overdo it, else her strategy would be upgraded to evade yours. Privacy is important at some point, not everybody refuses access to phone is bad, or has bad skeletons. Conversations with other persons should truly be private, people confide in us and i believe our spouses must not know everything. For me, i really don't want to know everything, your private conversations should be private, don't tell me, im not interested. But let me tell u, I observe and analyze everything you do, when u least expect, I would enter your private space without your knowledge and investigate. Im good at information handling, even if i see men toasting u, i may not ask u, u wouldn't know i have already seen it, until i have my full proof of cheating, im not reactive. The truth is you cannot really catch women through their phones in this era of IT sophistication. A phone can be wide open but several hidden things are there going on. But in conclusion, use strong eye for your woman, else, she might go loose, they are weaker vessels. You have to guide and protect her, and also teach her how to protect herself and emotions in your absence. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by pocohantas(f): 8:52am On Oct 12, 2024 |
greypencils:Nothing to add. I guess that is why they still haven't been able to show me this special woman they are with. It is always "Cambodian ex", "Togolese ex"...blablabla. Regina that is drawing tattoo all over her body is who they think Ned caged? Okay na. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by greypencils: 9:00am On Oct 12, 2024 |
pocohantas:I tire for my men sometimes. We keep acting like we don't have sisters, mothers, aunts, female cousins. It is stupid at this point and that's the truth. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Bobbynobobby: 9:01am On Oct 12, 2024 |
iLegendd:"I have a journal where I write everybody's offences down no matter how little it is" This one is toxic o |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by pocohantas(f): 9:01am On Oct 12, 2024 |
greypencils:Their sisters and mothers would somehow be treated differently. Meaning they know there is something wrong with their takes. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by lovediehatelive(m): 9:03am On Oct 12, 2024 |
Starboytwo:True true bro. Man needs set boundaries or else she'll go astray and still blame you. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Caleycash(m): 9:05am On Oct 12, 2024 |
budaatum:A real strong woman should be fighting in wars, should be doing hard jobs to make money, should be providing for the home in terms of support, but guess what you're delusional, you can never be a equal to a man, saying you're strong merely doesn't mean you're strong in reality, you're just a messed up soul rejecting your true nature as a woman, you'll live a tumultuous life till you leave earth. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by evictor305: 9:10am On Oct 12, 2024 |
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| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Caleycash(m): 9:11am On Oct 12, 2024 |
Starboytwo:See you see paternity fraud, if you can't access her social media handles don't marry her! |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by musicwriter(m): 9:16am On Oct 12, 2024 |
iLegendd:What you called "Western culture" is actually African. It's adoption by the West is relatively recent. Women even ruled nations in ancient Africa. Yes, there were women Queens in Africa before you heard of anything like that in Western culture. Women weren't considered as human beings in Western culture and weren't allowed to participate in anything. You see that in your Bible.....in the new testament. Up to 1920, women weren't allowed to vote in Britain, the US, etc. Not allowing someone to read your phone messages is a matter of privacy, which African women enjoyed from time immemorial. Nothing was introduced into this world by white people until recently. It's just a question of them adopting something - like gay couple and imposing it on others....even when a country like Saudi Arabia and Malaysia had been pro-gay before the West. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by greypencils: 9:16am On Oct 12, 2024*. Modified: 9:36am On Oct 12, 2024 |
pocohantas:I don't like revealing details about myself but I would in this case to misguided young men who would read this. I am a married man with two daughters and I treat my wife the exact way I would want my daughters to be treated by their future husbands, with respect. When you cheat on your wife/fiancee or you beat her, you are not treating her with respect and like it or not, your children are noticing all these. They would end up rejecting the idea of being married. All we do are seeds being sown into the future which your children will reap terribly. As men, your red pill is going to lead you to success in all things except marital bliss. If you are satisfied with marrying a low IQ woman who allows herself to be treated with disrespect, good luck to you. As a man, the standard is for you to set an example for your wife and children by telling them to do as you do, not do as you say. It is pretty simple. Do good, be good and good will come to you. Having a good home starts with that 'serious' relationship. To think you can have a serious relationship in which one party (your woman) is open and faithful to you and you as a man you are not, isn't that delusional? I repeat, as men, make una dey think well sometimes. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by bukatyne(f): 9:21am On Oct 12, 2024 |
pocohantas:One of the major problems is that in our society, leadership or headship is the ability to misbehave without accountability while demanding higher standards from others without shame or bating an eyelid. That's why when they hear equality, they go in seizures; in their heads, it means 'this woman wants 'the right' to give the same shit I give without consequences' then they throw in the foolish money card and when you ask 'if it is OK for a woman to misbehave or commit paternity fraud if she would fund the baby' then they go mute. The solution is with 'their women'; stop taking shit and the men would adjust. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iamtoofan: 9:26am On Oct 12, 2024 |
Adasun:I dont know it all though, Women are sarcastic beings, if the women in your life willing drop there phone with you, esp. money .... oooooin ! 😄 Bro its got nothing to do with trust, its a decoy for something, that gender are not wired to be "direct ![]() sometimes what you don't want a man to see hide it under his nose, men like ilegend their eyes always up wont see his nose |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by GloriousGbola: 9:26am On Oct 12, 2024 |
pocohantas:I took a look see at the ops profile. A real tech guru right there. The other day I told my guy to tell his son who wants a career in it to follow qtg on this platform. What ambitious person is going to follow a clown whose entire identity is red pill? Can you imagine having a person like this in real life working for you? Every day every minute faffing to everyone else about how he controls his women, while not actually getting anything done? The Andrew tate they are all cloning still achieved something small before becoming a YouTube grifter. These ones think they can somehow hammer on vibes and stories. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by pocohantas(f): 9:32am On Oct 12, 2024 |
greypencils:The problem is when married men like you speak, they call them simps. I wouldn't know why the idea of treating their wives with fairness and respect rubs them off in a wrong way. How did he convince himself a good woman wouldn't mind submitting her phone while you hide yours and cheat. Like you have rightly said, it has to be a woman with low IQ One whose self-esteem has been badly damaged. That is not a good woman. She is a woman who needs therapy. A woman whose hands are tied - most likely by lack or fear. There are levels of love and intentionality you wouldn't experience if you don't treat your partner fairly. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by cococandy(f): 9:32am On Oct 12, 2024*. Modified: 11:32am On Oct 12, 2024 |
Isn’t that how they all are? A dime a dozen bunch of low IQ niqqas who think they’re about to say something new. Meanwhile it’s just another regurgitation of the BS another guy with a microphone just said. Not one original thought amongst the lot of them GloriousGbola: |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by cococandy(f): 9:36am On Oct 12, 2024 |
Pls loud it. The ones that adopt old western culture formed by terrible western ideals now want to claim it’s African culture and anyone who rejects it is woke and too westernized. Oh the irony musicwriter: |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by cococandy(f): 9:38am On Oct 12, 2024 |
You see this terrible headline and it didn’t occur to you the problem is men. Older men sleeping with children. But somehow the kids being sexually assaulted by older men are the problem? Okay iLegendd: |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Caleycash(m): 9:45am On Oct 12, 2024 |
budaatum:Which value??, how many women in reality adds any value to a man??, Even the working class ladies are still seeking out wealthy men, you're plainly delusional! |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Nairatool: 9:45am On Oct 12, 2024*. Modified: 10:01am On Oct 12, 2024 |
iLegendd:Bluffing. So women don't work in phone making industries. Marie Curie a female French physicist and chemist, was a pioneer in radioactivity. Women should be subjective but doesn't mean men are superior humans of a different breed. Strength wise (physically), men are stronger. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Allisgud: 9:46am On Oct 12, 2024 |
iLegendd:I will put it in my WhatsApp status now self u dey,u dey wyn |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Allisgud: 9:46am On Oct 12, 2024 |
iLegendd:I will put it in my WhatsApp status now self u dey,u dey wyne |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by pocohantas(f): 9:47am On Oct 12, 2024 |
bukatyne:I have never thought of it this way. But reading your opening paragraph, you perfectly captured it. Na them be this @ attached pic.
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For me, I like women and will always treat them well, massage them, cook for them when I'm happy, f*ck them like no one ever would, pamper them, fight with them, reconcile, f*ck them again, spend what I'm willing to lose, etc., but don't ever insult me directly or indirectly or my mom or even any of my siblings — I don't forgive or forget. I have a journal where I write everybody's offences down no matter how little it is.
men like ilegend their eyes always up wont see his nose