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| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by GloriousGbola: 1:10pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
Zooposki:where have i seen this before? oh yes this same brand of pseudo science https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vpZdrR_wpXQ which leads us here “If you can convince the lowest white man he's better than the best colored man, he won't notice you're picking his pocket. Hell, give him somebody to look down on, and he'll empty his pockets for you.” |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by xtianchris(m): 1:10pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
Chetas81:Hahaha My guy .Na so oo .I love ❤️Nairaland.. I de Laugh steadily... Very Informative though.. Cruise everywhere....It's all good... |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iamtoofan: 1:12pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
greypencils:As much as i agree with somethings you said, i believe the ideology of 50:50 is an anomaly to Life, in relationship there is nothing like 50:50 consciously or sub consciously one part is giving or investing more financially or care wise. 2ndly, i realize i am superior to a woman since i was a kid cos, 1.my physic says it 2. induced from expectations 3. men as to be superior cos 98% of leaders i knew as a child were men when red pill come out some of us have being living our lives as God encode us.In life every genders got role to pay, i dont see why anyone should feel inferior playing gender role ... caging is debateable, caging from what ?? as a woman your freedom can only concieve honor or disgrace on the family so i get why men can be sometimes men |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Zooposki(f): 1:21pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
GloriousGbola:lol, can you as a rich African say you better than the poor whyte man?
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| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by GloriousGbola: 1:24pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
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| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by GloriousGbola: 1:25pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
Zooposki:i see - if some poor uneducated white trash is better than you and you accept that - thats on you. small wonder i can see 10 year old white kids call you boy and you dropping to your knees - yes massa - and then going home to beat your wife who is carrying the household |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Mcslize: 1:27pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
pocohantas:Poco, I am very glad you've finally submitted to the leadership of a man in your life. That's the most important thing. Where I have issue with you is the lots of you that keep on deceiving the younger generations, deceiving them to put up a rebellious spirit against the men in their lives, whereas you are doing everything possible to keep your man. You dare not misbehave if not, you and I know he will dump your sorry àss straight up. Please, I want you to do me a favour. Stop imparting in our young girls a rebellious spirit. It is pure wickedness to fight against men while still doing everything possible to keep one with you at home. Poco, that's pure hypocrisy I must tell you. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by pocohantas(f): 1:31pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
Mcslize:Please shut up. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by greypencils: 1:33pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
iamtoofan:So if you have female children, will you tell them they are inferior to their male classmates? Will you tell them not to aspire to be great in life because whatsoever they do, whatsoever career they decide to pursue, men will always be superior? Is that the ideology you will pass on to your female children? |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by greypencils: 1:34pm On Oct 12, 2024*. Modified: 3:48pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
iamtoofan:So if you have female children, will you tell them they are inferior to their male classmates? Will you tell them not to aspire to be great in life because whatsoever they do, whatsoever career they decide to pursue, men will always be superior even if such a man is poor & an illiterate? Is that the ideology you will pass on to your female children? Will you tell your female child to remain in an abusive relationship where she is being battered by a man with your thinking, a man who believes his wife shouldn't be bigger than him? Will you agree if that man with your thinking asks her to throw away that university degree you are so proud of as her father and go stay in a shop he wants to open for her because God forbids, she earns money and becomes somebody of substance with her 9-5? Think carefully before you answer me. Your female child will have a husband just like you with your same ideology, I promise you. As a man, I repeat, You are to DICTATE the moral code to your girlfriend/fiancee/wife. Tell them what you want, INSIST on it and SHOW them by being that person FIRST. If they won't toe that line, DROP THEM. But you be that person you want them to be FIRST. SHOW them what you expect of them NOT TELL them. You want faithfulness from your wife, BE FAITHFUL. You want openness from your wife, BE OPEN. That is your leadership & superiority as a man. A bit of myself once again. Before I got married, my girlfriend now my wife knew my ATM & phone password. I knew hers too. Till date, we operate on that same level. Right now, my wife transfers her salary to my account because she believes I am more frugal with expenses than she is. I didn't ask her to do so. She is doing so of her free will. That is what being open gets you. I will use examples of two very successful men, Elon Musk and Barrack Obama. Elon has no respect for women hence his women don't stay with him. Neither do his children who all declare that he is a shitty father. Is he successful? Yes. Is he happy his children don't want to have anything to do with him? I promise you, HE IS NOT. THAT IS WHAT THE RED PILL GETS YOU. Obama on the other hand does house chores & through it, He enjoys the companionship and partnership of his wife. The same house chores that red pillers have refused to do as 'house chores demeans them'. Who do you think is truly happy between both men? |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Zooposki(f): 1:41pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
GloriousGbola:Well, that uneducated poor white thrash will receive better treatment than you anywhere you go. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by dipsx(m): 1:46pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
budaatum:Well we are not perfect but I believe in being the person u desire in the other. First self-respect, my word is my bond. If I have committed to u then I do everything within my power to ensure I am not the one defaulting. Secondly You need to get a trust-worthy person ready and open to learning, this is largely dependent on how honest u are as a person as in step1. I am that honest to telling my wife I just wanted friends with benefits at the beginning cos I was planning to marry my tribe then. My wife is the 3rd woman I have shared my passwords with even though the 1st two didn't work, trust was never the issue. Presently we are just 3yrs in marriage and far from perfection too but trust issues are almost entirely absent. She has the history of almost all the ladies but not exes I have long calls with. Na me no dey remember her ATM pin cos money no dey too dey there. My cards are in her possession but she has never withdrawn in my absence without asking me first. Because of this openness I can tell you that my wife doesn't at any point in time know my balance or salary, she care less about those details knowing and believing that I am not spending frivolously. We both need some privacy to account balance or how each person spends cos I can't take permission from her to help F&F. I am a very prudent person as well as I no get person to look up to most times. We don't have joint accounts at the moment but with how we living that is almost what is happening. The more u try to hide the more U induce others to probe. Openness is by far d easiest way to hide things as usual there is often nothing to hide. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by HIbreed(m): 1:47pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
tete7000:For males and females, learning and figuring out the opposite sex (for me, learning about women) whom you meet and interact with daily is a must for you to survive earth or else, doom awaits you no matter who you are! |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by HIbreed(m): 1:50pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
Filmdirect:Not true. People are different!! |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by GloriousGbola: 1:50pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
Zooposki:Found the maga |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Chykes403: 1:51pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
Who else just scrolled down without reading all these? ![]() |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Zooposki(f): 1:52pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
GloriousGbola:It is what it is. Que sera sera. You guys should man up and make the African continent great again. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Haydens: 1:52pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
See the way evening newspapers are wailing. 😭😭😭😂😂 Their tears go bitter to drink. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by GloriousGbola: 1:54pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
Zooposki:Now get off my mentions and go and hop on a Florida metheads dik. ![]() |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Haydens: 1:54pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
If you want to make women's both pvssy and eyes wet bring out a topic or talks that makes them emotional. Them more emotional the topic the wetter their pvssy and eyes. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by tete7000(m): 1:56pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
HIbreed:You occupy your minds with worthless issues. You don't learn about women focusing on negativities carved out around them. What you end up with is needless aversion for women. All you people want to tell yourself and assure yourself with is notions of women are whores, women are cheats, etc. No intelligent discussion about womanhood. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by HIbreed(m): 2:00pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
Mcslize:You see very clearly their thought pattern. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by HIbreed(m): 2:03pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
tete7000:I don't care what you are on but my delivery is simple; study the opposite sex, and it encompasses every spheres. Namaste. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by HIbreed(m): 2:30pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
greypencils:Good point. To each their own. I prioritise financial opulence over marital bliss, though. Seing as the world richest men's wives dey leave them despite their wealth is enough reminder and conviction for me prioritise the papers. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 2:35pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
With the number of quotes I got, trying to read them and reply everyone will take hours of my time, so I won't even dare. Thank you all for your contributions—be it negative or positive. Whatever you said, you're right. I no gree na him dey tear shirt, but the summary is, men, keep her only as friend with benefit if she's hiding her phone from you. There is something she's hiding and it's dangerous. If you have access to her phone, on her WhatsApp chat bar, search for the words: abortion, sex, visit, infection, travel, hotel, boyfriend, love, hate, 2k, hospital, sugar daddy, etc. These words will lead you straight to conversations where those keywords were said. Or go straight to her chat with her bestie. Even i If you catch her or she refuses to make her phone available, it's better to still have her around as your free ashawo instead of wasting money whenever konji calls on call-girls. This is why you need to handle the dating world with zero emotions and always be ready to lose what seems like the best you found. Since she's hiding something, she's cheating, so encourage her to double date because it's good to have options. Whine her and tell her to be free when any of these guys that like her calls her. Tell her she can visit them whenever she wants, but she needs to take permission. She'll feel free with you and call you a real man— man who isn't insecure. A time will come when you'll just end up as her bestie-in-sex and you'll know her main guy and all her side guys. For the main guy mind, him don get girlfriend. At this point, you're not the side guys who gets all the benefits of a main guys without spending except on TP and food when she comes to visit. So, don't chase her away, keep her as a bestie. Used great sex to hold her down while the other guys do the spending. As long as you're good in bed and never desperate, never easily available, you won't spend on a woman — she'll be the one always trying to see you. Sweet commodity wey scarce is always in high demand. Speaking from experience. So, that's my last speech—let men who have ears hear. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by HIbreed(m): 2:40pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
TheFinesseKid:Na mumu man. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by greypencils: 2:48pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
HIbreed:Indeed! To each his own. Just remember, your children with improper upbringing will be the victims here. |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by HIbreed(m): 2:52pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
greypencils:Improper upbringing . So you telling me that those Yahoo boys and sex workers all over the world came from a broken homes? |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by greypencils: 2:56pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
HIbreed:Are you telling me you will raise a balanced child with which you have no relationship with the mother? |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by Adasun(m): 3:08pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
iamtoofan:Lols, forget it... If anything goes wrong, my awareness is always up. Yes they are those that are quite manipulative but i have m Not met one |
| Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by GOOOGLE504(m): 4:48pm On Oct 12, 2024 |
budaatum:Lols I just dey laff for these ur mumu quotes . This one is even attributed to ‘Strong woman’ E go soon clear for your eyes |
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some of us have being living our lives as God encode us.
so i get why men can be sometimes men
. So you telling me that those Yahoo boys and sex workers all over the world came from a broken homes?
men like ilegend their eyes always up wont see his nose