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I just closed from work because my manager and her boyfriend won't allow me be although it's not yet time for me to close.

While I am trying to get over them, I stopped them from entering my office if they are not coming for Official business. It has been so for some months. They've been meeting and having their discussion in the manager's office all this while. I do entertain the guy in the office from time to time but, he's always outside in his department.

The Manager came begging that we should be the friends that we used to be. Now, each time this guy sees me and the manager, he intensify his chase at her and she'll avoid me for some period. In fact, she has been singing "I've falling in love with you, I have made up my mind for you o" for the past two months each and every day this guy is at work.

I was okay and never paid much attention to their act all this while.

She has been applying for other organizations as she is no more comfortable in our company, at least, that's what she told me. I am also waiting for an interview for a position in another company.

Today, she barely entered my office when the other guy hasn't resumed. But as soon as the guy resumed work and was resting in my office, she was just moving in and out, acting like a baby. Shouting and smiling.

I just sat there pressing my phone. She left after using books on my desk to throw at the guy. About 5 minutes later, she came back, sat at the visitors chair at the front of my table, and was throwing books at me and looking at the guy, smiling.

I just walked out without saying a word leaving both of them there.

I was pissed up. I've told her that she's matured enough to do what ever she wants to do but that she should get out of my back.

Just yesterday, I was advising her to be submissive to her husband after she told me that she hasn't allowed her husband to touch her for 6 months now.

Her husband is not working for now and she throws all manner of insult to him.

I was even perplexed when she told me she threw the laptop her husband was using because he wasn't answering her when she was asking to know why he didn't do a task for her in the house. I know certainly that the manner she used was the reason for his silence.

But you see how she's all over this guy at work. Lord... According him with respect and love.

While was leaving the office, the guy said something and both of them were laughing at me.

It pained me and I don't really know what to do again.

I would have resigned if my side gigs were doing well.

So, what do you want us to do?

Is she the only lady at work? Make her feel jealous by befriending other female colleagues na.
She sef get problem,

Wait...wetin be the challenge gan gan

You like the girl but she no like you ...U just hate the fact say she like the other guy
Or
You dey pity her husband...

Which one

Are you a man or a woman?
You seem like a man but typing like a woman

Hello, e no concern anybody
Tpain is 3 times daily

Starz825:
Wait...wetin be the challenge gan gan

You like the girl but she no like you ...U just hate the fact say she like the other guy
Or
You dey pity her husband...

Which one

I was attracted to her before the guy came into the picture. I am gradually learning how to get rid of her from my mind. I don't hate the fact that she likes the other guy, but they shouldn't be doing their stuff in my office.

Rexymania:
Are you a man or a woman?
You seem like a man but typing like a woman

Hello, e no concern anybody
Tpain is 3 times daily

Bloody man.
How can you tell that it's a girl typing.

Bruno3000:
Is she the only lady at work? Make her feel jealous by befriending other female colleagues na.
She sef get problem,

She almost sacked a girl she is accusing me of dating, always monitoring me.

You don't invest your emotions into a shameless married woman who openly disrespect her husband by cheating on him without remorse.

marksonrick:
I was attracted to her before the guy came into the picture. I am gradually learning how to get rid of her from my mind. I don't hate the fact that she likes the other guy, but they shouldn't be doing their stuff in my office.





Bloody man.
How can you tell that it's a girl typing.




She almost sacked a girl she is accusing me of dating, always monitoring me.

What's her business if Ur dating anyone. Be like U sef nor know urself or U never sabi set boundaries for woman
Tell her what U will not accept from her... All these useless married okpo sef. Guy if not for fear of God I for say make U blast the idiot one time for that office table. She never see who hang her well na why she dey jump upandan like small bird 🐦 it's like that other colleague no dey knack her well. Na the husband I just dey pity sha. Make God expose the whorè so he can focus better on himself and future without her rotten energy

marksonrick:
I was attracted to her before the guy came into the picture. I am gradually learning how to get rid of her from my mind. I don't hate the fact that she likes the other guy, but they shouldn't be doing their stuff in my office.





Bloody man.
How can you tell that it's a girl typing.




She almost sacked a girl she is accusing me of dating, always monitoring me.

U were attracted to another man's wife?? Eehn fine boy?

What about ur own wife at home?

TheFreshVanilla:
You don't invest your emotions into a shameless married woman who openly disrespect her husband by cheating on him without remorse.

I know it's entirely my fault bro. See, I am introvert. Other girls in the office were not into me. She and I were just like friends. I never had the intentions of doing anything with her. But when this guy came and started hunting her, there I realized I have feelings for her.
I be man, but e hurts when them do am for my front. If na outside my office, I no dey too reason am.

dkidd:
What's her business if Ur dating anyone. Be like U sef nor know urself or U never sabi set boundaries for woman

She sings it like chorus, letting everyone know that you are getting close to a girl.

Even when I angrily left work today, and returned to shut down my portal, she still accused me of going to sleep with the girl she wanted sacking. When I told her that she has started again, that after all, she was with her boyfriend. She told me that I can say whatever I like to say.

The lady is too petty.

na man be this abi na woman self

which kind emotional tampoon u be self... u no fit hide ur emotions at all self. another man's wife for that matter

What did I just read

God abeg, don't let me be this useless to myself

Foolish man,stop her from coming to your office

Look for a hotter girl outside of work, invite her to your working place and watch how you gain maximum respect. This life no too hard.

marksonrick:
I was attracted to her before the guy came into the picture. I am gradually learning how to get rid of her from my mind. I don't hate the fact that she likes the other guy, but they shouldn't be doing their stuff in my office.





Bloody man.
How can you tell that it's a girl typing.




She almost sacked a girl she is accusing me of dating, always monitoring me.

If you continue this way, you'll loose you job. Cos women can be very manipulative in nature.

Focus on your job and stop getting all worked up over a married woman.