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He is right

Less than one week after I met her, she's already telling me she wants to move to a new place, "should I send my account"

That one particular question weak men.

Dating now is a whole lot of stress and exhausting... You fit dey think about your life make she dey wait for you to text first or accuse you of not posting her online or making done silly demands.

To Nigerian girls, giving is a love language, but they don't know how to give, always take, take and take more.

Men are really easy to pleased, you do t have to get him expensive things, but the intention behind you getting something as basic as shirts, foot wears, wrist watches etc will endear you to him more

True, because immediately you start dating them, they'll start billing you as if they don't have parents

Fiscus105:
Engaging in argument with mad boy? I think before you reply any comments, you have to start with his/her moniker.

Not until you realise that more than 70% of Nigeria teenage boys are on Colorado,and that 90% tenage boys here are frustrated and sexuially staved, you won't stop engaging them in needless argument, this one you just replied now, I'm very sure he would happy that female replief him to point of ejaculation today.

This is funny but quite true ; thank you.

goran3310:
I understand you. You are right here. But you have to know that a huge number of women are unsuccessful. The law of hypergamy is ruthless. As a worker, no matter how well I earn, I cannot date a woman who earns the same. I cannot date a woman who earns more than me. I felt that very painfully. Also. Women who earn money. They no longer have femininity. They become men with female Instruments. That is very unattractive to any man worth anything. Successful women have a big problem finding a man for themselves. They will not date men below their level and there are few men above them. . Also. That small number of men will not date successful women because they need a woman and not a man with female Instruments. Feminism is represented both among women who are poor and among successful women. Poor women use us as an ATM, and successful women will not use us. Personally, it's easier for me to reach a poor 21-year-old girl than a successful 30-40-year-old woman. I don't know. I'm tired of everything. And I'm not the only one.
I'm a normal man. I'm not a bum. Certainly there are some here. But I tell you that the situation in male-female relations has never been worse and it is global.

Okay,! I do think you should be more open minded though. Some women who earn a great deal are pretty humble. focus on knowing the woman instead of how much she earns. You might get a good one.

goran3310:
I understand you. You are right here. But you have to know that a huge number of women are unsuccessful. The law of hypergamy is ruthless. As a worker, no matter how well I earn, I cannot date a woman who earns the same. I cannot date a woman who earns more than me. I felt that very painfully. Also. Women who earn money. They no longer have femininity. They become men with female Instruments. That is very unattractive to any man worth anything. Successful women have a big problem finding a man for themselves. They will not date men below their level and there are few men above them. . Also. That small number of men will not date successful women because they need a woman and not a man with female Instruments. Feminism is represented both among women who are poor and among successful women. Poor women use us as an ATM, and successful women will not use us. Personally, it's easier for me to reach a poor 21-year-old girl than a successful 30-40-year-old woman. I don't know. I'm tired of everything. And I'm not the only one.
I'm a normal man. I'm not a bum. Certainly there are some here. But I tell you that the situation in male-female relations has never been worse and it is global.

You are talking as if men don't use to be parasites as well.

Go to joint and see number of guys that are there in other for people to buy for them, and they are doing it daily without thinking to buy back for men like them that have been buying drink for them for several times.

Will I now say every guy is a leech?

goran3310:
My money is my money and your money is our money. That is one of the main reasons why my marriage failed. One of the reasons.

So, you are now using your own yardstick to measure all women, because u failed everyone is failed too, what a myopic way of reasoning?

For my wife, she gave me her ATM password less than 1 month that we started relationship and till today, I knew all her passwords, ATMs and social media accounts. It's not up to 2 years that she knew my ATM password, even wen marriage is more than 10 years, yet she never for once take my money, either bank or at home, without authorisation.

you guys would be foolishly following wrong person to date, and wen marriage collapses, you would run to social media to castigate all women.


Let me tell you story of my close friend, .....wen he wanted to buy car, 7 years ago, he got loan from state government, in which the money doesn't even near the half of money to buy car, wen he told his wife about the scenario, it was the wife that empty her account for my friend to get the car,.......the girl doest know how to drive car till today oooo.


Wen you are unfortunate, you beg ur God to change ur unfortunately head and not to start blaming all women.

goran3310:
I understand you. You are right here. But you have to know that a huge number of women are unsuccessful. The law of hypergamy is ruthless. As a worker, no matter how well I earn, I cannot date a woman who earns the same. I cannot date a woman who earns more than me. I felt that very painfully. Also. Women who earn money. They no longer have femininity. They become men with female Instruments. That is very unattractive to any man worth anything. Successful women have a big problem finding a man for themselves. They will not date men below their level and there are few men above them. . Also. That small number of men will not date successful women because they need a woman and not a man with female Instruments. Feminism is represented both among women who are poor and among successful women. Poor women use us as an ATM, and successful women will not use us. Personally, it's easier for me to reach a poor 21-year-old girl than a successful 30-40-year-old woman. I don't know. I'm tired of everything. And I'm not the only one.
I'm a normal man. I'm not a bum. Certainly there are some here. But I tell you that the situation in male-female relations has never been worse and it is global.

This touched me. I’m quite successful but i can’t help but feel like a fool everytime i date below my level. I am well aware that thesame lady won’t touch me with a long stick if we reversed status. I feel like a fool everytime i fulfill a woman’s hypergamy. I hate being someone’s catch.

Then when i find someone on my status, their pride is something I can’t deal with and i end up deleting their numbers.

I hate modern day society

sweetrace:
My parents brought up wonderful kids. I’m sure it is obvious to you. We don’t go constantly insulting every member of a gender. Unlike you who insults all females because one person asked for your non existent money.

Don't waste your time on this. It's not worth it

sweetrace:
My parents worked!!! Besides, what happens in a marriage is private. There are marriages where one partner looses their job, but no one knows because they are mature enough to handle it. There are also marriage where one partner stays at home to take care of the kids. It is their decision. You need to work on yourself if you’re attracting only leeches. Maybe you’re one of those men who tries to attract a woman by flaunting your little money instead of getting to know her. Of course she’ll treat you like her cash cow.

Absolutely, some men do this then wonder why she keeps coming back with billing.

Tallesty1:
Don't waste your time on this. It's not worth it

Thanks for letting me know!

AI be this account. Just kidding.

Wiwwolt:
Dating in 2024 has evolved significantly, and Daddy Freeze’s analogy of it being like adopting an orphan resonates with many. It reflects the complexities and emotional investments involved in modern relationships. In today’s fast-paced world, dating often requires more than just attraction; it demands understanding, patience, and sometimes even a willingness to support someone through their past traumas. Just as adopting an orphan involves commitment and nurturing, dating someone may require a deep emotional connection and the ability to face challenges together. Moreover, the emphasis on mental health and personal growth means that partners often come with their own baggage, making the journey of dating both rewarding and challenging. Navigating this landscape requires empathy and a strong foundation of communication.

sweetrace:
Okay,! I do think you should be more open minded though. Some women who earn a great deal are pretty humble. focus on knowing the woman instead of how much she earns. You might get a good one.

Well, I'm focused on what kind of woman she is, not how much she earns. Read the post with understanding. You emphasize the story about money.. I'm focused on the woman she is, however, women with a higher status don't even want me to get to know them as they really are. Like what I said. Everything revolves around your money and status. The probability that I will, for example, give up on you and delete your number is 95% precisely because of your performance. Do you understand that I AM not focused on money and I don't need anyone's money.

Tallesty1:
Don't waste your time on this. It's not worth it

Oh, yes. Just stay alone like me. That's so good. Misery loves company.

sweetrace:
Thanks for letting me know!

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ElliotP:
True, because immediately you start dating them, they'll start billing you as if they don't have parents

example


Siofra

sweetrace:
When you happen to go to different organisations in this country , don’t you see females heading a number of divisions? Are the best banks not headed by females? I don’t have a single friend that goes around begging for anything. They have enough self respect. Why on earth do you think we work so diligently? The way some of you come to Nairaland with your ceaseless complaints is crazy. Perhaps, it simply tells the kind of men you are if you meet only females that beg.

sweeery i tink the problem will solve when women juss stop working and focus on coookin, cleanning, washn plate, stick to kitchen works and borning childrens......the competisions is too much. u agree??((no oofeincse))

Afonja44:
All those female bank managers have men that they are still billing.


Greed is in your blood.

They all got there by the grace of men. It is almost impossible for Nigerian women to achieve anything without men.

goran3310:
I understand you. You are right here. But you have to know that a huge number of women are unsuccessful. The law of hypergamy is ruthless. As a worker, no matter how well I earn, I cannot date a woman who earns the same. I cannot date a woman who earns more than me. I felt that very painfully. Also. Women who earn money. They no longer have femininity. They become men with female Instruments. That is very unattractive to any man worth anything. Successful women have a big problem finding a man for themselves. They will not date men below their level and there are few men above them. . Also. That small number of men will not date successful women because they need a woman and not a man with female Instruments. Feminism is represented both among women who are poor and among successful women. Poor women use us as an ATM, and successful women will not use us. Personally, it's easier for me to reach a poor 21-year-old girl than a successful 30-40-year-old woman. I don't know. I'm tired of everything. And I'm not the only one.
I'm a normal man. I'm not a bum. Certainly there are some here. But I tell you that the situation in male-female relations has never been worse and it is global.

I have given up on them too. The dynamics is sickening. I have noticed only very old women are kind and welcoming to the young average guy.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Exception isn't the rule.

Even working class ladies are still bent on this line of thought, you hear them saying men's money is sweet to spend, it's your responsibility to foot my bills, your money is my money and mine is mine. There is nothing to defend, only a few have different perspectives and has nothing to do with working in top organizations but family orientation towards accountability and responsibility flas an adult.

Nice analysis

My happiness is that ashawo still dey collect 1k per nyuu and you can choose different varieties with better styles and moaning. Na mumu dey get hungry girlfriend