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We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.

Post this in romance section now

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Originally the thread was posted in politics section hence the above comment

Good on the moderators for moving it to the appropriate section.

Mumu,, play girl is using your head and you've already fell for it.
So under one week you're already loving a girl that you can't live without her.
See you see heartbreak

Flee now that it's early and too much emotions haven't been involved

Pay her nah,
Shebi nah you wan love.

Is she your staff?

Sharon wan dey collect salary for been in a relationship with you. E be like say dating you na full time job abi na poverty alleviating program. One thing about ladies is they will flash you that red light, so it's up to you to follow either your head or your heart.

She said she will do the same and you rushed to ask her if she will also placed you on monthly allowance? 😀😀😀 Wehrey boy.


One thing I told guys is to never start anything they won't sustain.

If you know that you can't sustain giving her monthly allowance, then it's better you tell her and if she can't deal with it, then let her get a job as she clearly stated that she's not working.

If she's schooling and she's from a poor home, you can support her but not with hopes to marry her and if you can't support her willingly then don't put yourself in a situation she will ask you in the future if she forced you to do anything for her.

Don't spend on any woman because you love her... Spend on a woman because she's your wife.

*Love wan tin tin*
Somebody better whooze u resounding slap to wake u up.U meet somebody not too long and u are in love already . U dnt want to lose her ?


Drop ur mama number. E get whyn

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We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me


OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

Is she working for you or what? Why will she be asking for salary just because you're both in a relationship? Things dey happen sha

Flee from her and thank us later

Give her money

E no easy this period

[b["He should always give me money" [/b]
Anytime you don't have, she will jump to another guy that has money

[s][s][b][b]We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me
[/b][/b][/s][/s] you see it all but you do not want to use your brain not months just a week oooo she see you as the only mumu in the group of guys she date am very sure that she will take from you and gv to others guy who she loves more than you

She was daft when she texted she will do the same for you.
Some people are unstable

Paying someone to love you. Smh

Typical Nigerian banny for you...

You gat to run for your dear life bruh..

"I'm I working"


Dump her for not knowing the difference between "am" and "I'm".

She's likely an olodo. You don't need olodo in your life.

Relationship now be like contract

Nothing bad bro give her 75% to 80% of your monthly income because failure to do so another guy will take your place, do not loose that girl because she is a very good girl

Best trap

person wey done dey give her already. but bros as you put her for salary, put you also place your mum and sister (if you have a sister) on salary also

Someone that doesn’t know when to use Am and I’m doesn’t deserve anything. What she needs is an English tutor.

Pay her monthly for being your girlfriend. Gift her always even when she don't ask.

Only run now ooh, That is not too late.

Thru that chat. Na Babe wey u still dey toast, u dey calll ur new girlfriend abi.

Some Boys ehn

Foolish son of Man

Pay her now since you've shown yourself to be a simp

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We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me


OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

With this confused mindset you’ve lost the war. Anyways can you afford it? Asides from just loving her already is she worth the trouble ? What if you pay the monthly’s and another guy bids higher would that hurt your feelings ? Paying monthly’s doesn’t guarantee her staying, what would you do or how would you feel if things eventually don’t work out as planned? Your money your rules but do a swot analysis on her. She has just become a business venture with her request and two things happen to businesses, they either succeed or fail. Next

There's no amount of money or things you will do for ashawo, she will still disrespect you, abuse publicly and ultimately break your heart. You wanna learn the hard way🤒

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We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me


OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

In a relationship the desperate party will be exploited and humiliated. That person will accept every rubbish thrown at him or her. The desperate party in this context is the party that feels he has no option and has everything to loose. Don't put ya self in that situation

You are asking a Nigerian girl characters she need from a man. you be werey I swear