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Your ex isn't confusing you but you were the one confusing yourself, someone that sees you has trash is the one you are hanging on I pity you

I hope none of these men know your parents?

Because they might cast aspersions on innocent people who tried their best.

oz4real83:
A guy will go for youth service and manage with the small allowee and still save something without cheating on his babe he left at home, but a girl will go and almost date\sleep with all the guys in the camp and during service just to "meet her needs'' . Guys should please explain the " magic" to ladies so that they can stop cheating on their guys as if it was a normal thing

Most women have an insatiable appetite for the good things of life. There's no helping them

Prostitues

Nigeria girls must men give you girls money before you girls will eat ?
Why can’t you girls be independent like other countries women?

Can’t you girls date without putting money attached to it , go outside Nigeria and see women sharing bills with their men ,

they make relationship to be sweet, why the women in Nigeria depends on the man to take care of her and her family. And they will say everything will are doing today was coping from the white .

Just hear yourself depending on toasters before you can eat , maybe not give me a daughter like you.

A graduate serving still depends on men before she can get her basic needs. Is like training some girl child in school is waste of money.

Just hear yourself, go and learn something and be useful to yourself and those that trained you in school.

Just go through some of your posts on Nairaland maybe it fabricating from you , because it always be an ex taking care of you.


Sorry to say this to you if this is true, you are useless

Damn!

Can't believe I spent time going through all of that.

I hope I'm able to forgive myself for that.

Focus on your life, look for what to do you can survive without any man.
The man u are collecting money from I'm sure he is not reaching to Mary you but to chop and the one that can Marry you is broke and you are broke too
Advice is leave them both, work on yourself get something doing and learn to be an industrious wife.
God will help you

Doolove:
My ex boyfriend broke up with me shortly before I went for service, citing irreconcilable differences. It coincided with a period that he had a setback in business that made him lose a huge amount of money and left him in debt, I tried my best to support him but he still accused me of lack of empathy towards his situation because of a comment that I made.

It has not been easy for me since I left for camp, and I'm still suffering, most times I feed from the goodwill of toasters. I've been receiving a huge amount of attention from men in Abuja though I haven't given in to any because I think I'm still in love with my ex. I miss him a lot and I haven't found someone that I can share that kind of bond with.

I've been communicating constantly with my ex since we broke up, in fact I still tell him everything that goes on in my life including about my numerous toasters. He's been supportive although not financially. He tells me that he misses me too but unfortunately he can't sustain a relationship now because he can barely feed at the moment. He once told me that we're just casual friends and it hurt me to the extent that I nearly had sex with one of my toasters just to forget him but couldn't stand any guy touching me.

There's a man that has been on my neck for a while now, he's been helping me financially but I'm not attracted to him and I don't think I can date him. All my attempts to put him off has failed so far. He took me out for breakfast this morning when my ex called, he noticed I was with someone and insisted that I was in the guys place, I suggested a video call in order to convince him but the man wouldn't let me make the call. He got angry and almost caused a scene insisting I must tell him who he is to me, I was recording the conversation and forwarding to my ex who told me to stop playing games. He told me to either date the man if I want to or tell him plainly that I'm not interested.

I couldn't give the man an answer because I still need his help for the main time. My ex got angry and called me a confused and self centered person, he said I should go on and date the man just because he's my meal ticket just because I told him that the man has been the one feeding me.

The man on the other hand told me to tell my ex to stop disturbing me since we are no longer dating, he was visibly angry and wanted to call my ex to threaten him to hands off me. He still ended up giving me a modest amount of money after the whole fracas.

Now I don't know how to handle my ex, he hasn't told me that he wants me back and even if he does it might not work because he's broke at the moment and I will have to keep talking to other men which he doesn't like. I don't get intimate with any of them, I just friend zone them till they eventually give up and leave.

I need ideas on how to go about this issue please.

My dear I read your post and shook my head. Seeing what is becoming of ladies these days.

Don't you have family or parents you can be depending on. Even if you don't have family what is stopping you from looking for something little to do.

See enh when I was in uni, I used to go to tutorial centres to lecture and that helped.

You cannot just rely on men.

Do you ever think of falling into the hands of ritualist? Pls look for something to do and stop building your life around men. It's because you do no your self- worth that is why you keep depending on people.

Op you don't need love, it's help that you need

Doolove:
My ex boyfriend broke up with me shortly before I went for service, citing irreconcilable differences. It coincided with a period that he had a setback in business that made him lose a huge amount of money and left him in debt, I tried my best to support him but he still accused me of lack of empathy towards his situation because of a comment that I made.

It has not been easy for me since I left for camp, and I'm still suffering, most times I feed from the goodwill of toasters. I've been receiving a huge amount of attention from men in Abuja though I haven't given in to any because I think I'm still in love with my ex. I miss him a lot and I haven't found someone that I can share that kind of bond with.

I've been communicating constantly with my ex since we broke up, in fact I still tell him everything that goes on in my life including about my numerous toasters. He's been supportive although not financially. He tells me that he misses me too but unfortunately he can't sustain a relationship now because he can barely feed at the moment. He once told me that we're just casual friends and it hurt me to the extent that I nearly had sex with one of my toasters just to forget him but couldn't stand any guy touching me.

There's a man that has been on my neck for a while now, he's been helping me financially but I'm not attracted to him and I don't think I can date him. All my attempts to put him off has failed so far. He took me out for breakfast this morning when my ex called, he noticed I was with someone and insisted that I was in the guys place, I suggested a video call in order to convince him but the man wouldn't let me make the call. He got angry and almost caused a scene insisting I must tell him who he is to me, I was recording the conversation and forwarding to my ex who told me to stop playing games. He told me to either date the man if I want to or tell him plainly that I'm not interested.

I couldn't give the man an answer because I still need his help for the main time. My ex got angry and called me a confused and self centered person, he said I should go on and date the man just because he's my meal ticket just because I told him that the man has been the one feeding me.

The man on the other hand told me to tell my ex to stop disturbing me since we are no longer dating, he was visibly angry and wanted to call my ex to threaten him to hands off me. He still ended up giving me a modest amount of money after the whole fracas.

Now I don't know how to handle my ex, he hasn't told me that he wants me back and even if he does it might not work because he's broke at the moment and I will have to keep talking to other men which he doesn't like. I don't get intimate with any of them, I just friend zone them till they eventually give up and leave.

I need ideas on how to go about this issue please.

Liabilities, probably the ex sustained you in school, now you work your NYSc to abuja to meet Abuja men. Now they are sustaining you, your ex understand the message, please let the innocent boy be, move on with your caring toasters

Georgekyrian:
Liabilities, probably the ex sustained you in school, now you work your NYSc to abuja to meet Abuja men. Now they are sustaining you, your ex understand the message, please let the innocent boy be, move on with your caring toasters

Na the boy suppose let her be. He broke up with her and he is still jealous.. That guy need slap

Doolove:
My ex boyfriend broke up with me shortly before I went for service, citing irreconcilable differences. It coincided with a period that he had a setback in business that made him lose a huge amount of money and left him in debt, I tried my best to support him but he still accused me of lack of empathy towards his situation because of a comment that I made.

It has not been easy for me since I left for camp, and I'm still suffering, most times I feed from the goodwill of toasters. I've been receiving a huge amount of attention from men in Abuja though I haven't given in to any because I think I'm still in love with my ex. I miss him a lot and I haven't found someone that I can share that kind of bond with.

I've been communicating constantly with my ex since we broke up, in fact I still tell him everything that goes on in my life including about my numerous toasters. He's been supportive although not financially. He tells me that he misses me too but unfortunately he can't sustain a relationship now because he can barely feed at the moment. He once told me that we're just casual friends and it hurt me to the extent that I nearly had sex with one of my toasters just to forget him but couldn't stand any guy touching me.

There's a man that has been on my neck for a while now, he's been helping me financially but I'm not attracted to him and I don't think I can date him. All my attempts to put him off has failed so far. He took me out for breakfast this morning when my ex called, he noticed I was with someone and insisted that I was in the guys place, I suggested a video call in order to convince him but the man wouldn't let me make the call. He got angry and almost caused a scene insisting I must tell him who he is to me, I was recording the conversation and forwarding to my ex who told me to stop playing games. He told me to either date the man if I want to or tell him plainly that I'm not interested.

I couldn't give the man an answer because I still need his help for the main time. My ex got angry and called me a confused and self centered person, he said I should go on and date the man just because he's my meal ticket just because I told him that the man has been the one feeding me.

The man on the other hand told me to tell my ex to stop disturbing me since we are no longer dating, he was visibly angry and wanted to call my ex to threaten him to hands off me. He still ended up giving me a modest amount of money after the whole fracas.

Now I don't know how to handle my ex, he hasn't told me that he wants me back and even if he does it might not work because he's broke at the moment and I will have to keep talking to other men which he doesn't like. I don't get intimate with any of them, I just friend zone them till they eventually give up and leave.

I need ideas on how to go about this issue please.

So if man doesn’t give you money you won’t eat? Tueh!
Your ex should kneel and thank his God for this situation that befell him because God is probably showing the kind of leech he had as girlfriend.

Is like Something is wrong with you, your ex and your present boyfriend even your incoming boilfriends them sev.. Leaveusalone with your yeye life ahhh

Down2earth101:


What kinda confusing post is this...

At the bolded.
Long story short, she needs an excuse to dump her Ex..... Give her one!

Because you ex is not financially secure at the moment you have rub it in his face by going out with numerous men in the name of feeding.. lemme tell you those men are sleeping with you so stop lying that you friend zone them. Abi you be friend with benefits? Lastly save your ex the emotional trauma your putting him through you either go back to him and be faithful or Lucy of from him and spread your olosho wings and fly.