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I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Rearealki(op): 11:21am On Oct 19, 2024
I have been single for a long period of time...
I observed that most responsible ladies are not single.

Just like 3 ladies I tried asking out.

I tried dating a lady that was into me(she likes me) she has some attitudes I can't tolerate... She is too aggressive and lack proper way of talking to someone.

What can I do at this point?
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Rearealki(op): 12:33pm On Oct 19, 2024
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Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Rearealki(op): 4:03pm On Oct 19, 2024
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Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by ATEAMS: 4:41pm On Oct 19, 2024
Wahala no de finish
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Nicepoker(m): 5:58pm On Oct 19, 2024
You don't know how lucky you are,
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Nazgul: 6:01pm On Oct 19, 2024
No lady is truly single. It's either you collect her from someone or someone collects her from you.
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Uchesis: 6:51pm On Oct 19, 2024
Nazgul:
No lady is truly single. It's either you collect her from someone or someone collects her from you.
Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you.

Word!
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Blitzking:
Rearealki:
I have been single for a long period of time...
I observed that most responsible ladies are not single.

Just like 3 ladies I tried asking out.

I tried dating a lady that was into me(she likes me) she has some attitudes I can't tolerate... She is too aggressive and lack proper way of talking to someone.

What can I do at this point?
Don't waste time around ladies... get to know each other and then boom state your intention...if she tells you NO back off immediately if she returns then she is forming hard to get become strict and ask her to make up her mind that you don't like indecision...if she insults you in front of ppl she doesn't regard you just move on...if she tells you to give her time let her be don't push it, if she says let's be friends please move she doesn't see you as a man equal to whoever she is currently dating...she wants a giver while not willing to give you wat u want..a leech...
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by revived2: 9:33pm On Oct 19, 2024
Blitzking:
Don't waste time around ladies, get to know each other and then boom state your intention:

1. If She tells you no back off immediately.

2. If she returns then she is forming hard to get, become strict and ask her to make up her mind that you don't like indecision.

3.If she insults you in public she doesn't regard you just move on.

4.If she tells you to give her time let her be don't push it.

5.If she says let's be friends please move she doesn't see you as a man equal to whoever she is currently dating because she wants a giver while not willing to give you what you want i.e a leech.
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Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Rearealki(op): 12:05pm On Oct 20, 2024
Blitzking:
Don't waste time around ladies... get to know each other and then boom state your intention...if she tells you know back off immediately if she returns then she is forming hard to get become strict and ask her to make up her mind that you don't like indecision...if she insults you in front of ppl she doesn't regard you just move on...if she tells you to give her time let her be don't push it, if she says let's be friends please move she doesn't see you as a man equal to whoever she is currently dating...she wants a giver while not willing to give you wat u want..a leech...
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Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Exceed15: 12:51pm On Oct 21, 2024
Most times they tell you they are not single to chase you away . A woman is not married until she is married.
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by G0Oodharddick: 6:30pm On Oct 21, 2024
What are you asking them out for?

Were you expecting them to say yes before?

Stop simping dude.
You invite a girl over to your house and knack her , after that dump her until whenever you feel like knacking her again
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by dauntless15(m): 6:44pm On Oct 21, 2024
Lol, I really can't understand the rationale behind this asking out stuff when it comes to Nigerian girls, we all know dating a Nigerian girl is like asking someone to come and spend your money, it's always like that when it comes to Nigerian girls, people whose mindset is wired to think that dating is a paid job with salary, so is it logical to overthink it when one of them say she's not single? You wan stress yourself by force? Rejoice and move on to the next, dating them is a herculean task, I won't be made to also chase them too, it's like telling wahala to come to you by force.
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Rearealki(op): 5:44pm On Oct 22, 2024
dauntless15:
Lol, I really can't understand the rationale behind this asking out stuff when it comes to Nigerian girls, we all know dating a Nigerian girl is like asking someone to come and spend your money, it's always like that when it comes to Nigerian girls, people whose mindset is wired to think that dating is a paid job with salary, so is it logical to overthink it when one of them say she's not single? You wan stress yourself by force? Rejoice and move on to the next, dating them is a herculean task, I won't be made to also chase them too, it's like telling wahala to come to you by force.
Hmm
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Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Ernesthugo(m): 5:48pm On Oct 22, 2024
FLASH MONEY
Rearealki:
I have been single for a long period of time...
I observed that most responsible ladies are not single.

Just like 3 ladies I tried asking out.

I tried dating a lady that was into me(she likes me) she has some attitudes I can't tolerate... She is too aggressive and lack proper way of talking to someone.

What can I do at this point?
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by helinues: 12:57am On Oct 23, 2024
Go and make money first and watch them rushing you
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by dungas30(m): 5:25am On Oct 23, 2024
G0Oodharddick:
What are you asking them out for?

Were you expecting them to say yes before?

Stop simping dude.
You invite a girl over to your house and knack her , after that dump her until whenever you feel like knacking her again
simple oooo guys are just fumbling
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Rearealki(op): 6:58am On Oct 23, 2024
dungas30:
simple oooo guys are just fumbling
Who says I don't have money?
Re: I Tried Asking A Lady Out And She Said She Is Not Single by Rearealki(op): 9:37am On Oct 25, 2024
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