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Re: My Life Is Finished by Baldwretch: 10:44pm On Oct 27, 2024

jibsiddy456:
U see dat football betting...it sweet pass forex if u sabi am. I know wat im talking about

Nothing like if you sabi am. Dem no dey "sabi" predictions.

You need more than human knowledge to sabi am. In fact, you need foreknowledge to sabi am.

Na only God get foreknowledge.

If dem dey sabi am ni, all of us suppose dem sabi am na. grin

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Re: My Life Is Finished by MrJames007: 10:47pm On Oct 27, 2024

Mrwhite09:
I am addicted to porn, masturbation and football betting. its over for me. with these 2 destructive habits its crystal clear that I am not gonna achieve anything in this life.

I work like a slave and put everything to the bookies account and use porn and masturbation to calm myself down after losing my hard earned money. the juju that my village people casted on me must be very strong. I know all the negative consequencies of my actions but i kept engaging in it.

I work a hard labour job, working from 8am to 7pm but I still have nothing. To eat its a war for me talkless of buying other things, a phone I cannot afford, good clothes I cant afford even a decent shoe to wear I cant buy, but I kept staking everyday, chasing imaginary money, while enriching the cruel bookies with my hard earned money.

I watched my mates excell in life while I smell of cum truly I am a useless person. there is no hope for a 30 year old me.

Please don't amuse me. grin

As for d betting things, na small small o. Not a bad thing IMO

Re: My Life Is Finished by Kingzjayzee: 11:01pm On Oct 27, 2024

koladata:
just go to bank , tell them you want to open an account that you can't withdraw money from but that you can save, most bank usually have 3 to 6month plans, before betting , save the once you can save.

As for the porn , enjoy yourself. As long as you are doing something during the day, just go out and work then yank yourself at night , no issue.

frequent ejaculation can cause watery sperm. I thought I should Inform you 😁

Re: My Life Is Finished by Kingzjayzee: 11:02pm On Oct 27, 2024

Usmanovic95:
You lack discipline bro. That's the harsh truth. Betting or porn is not your problem, your main problem Is indiscipline.

true

Re: My Life Is Finished by Kingzjayzee: 11:03pm On Oct 27, 2024

Oluwabucci:
get a girlfriend

the guy dey try run from one problem, you dey push am enter another one.

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Re: My Life Is Finished by Kingzjayzee: 11:08pm On Oct 27, 2024

dreamworld:
correct it before 40 because a fool at 40 is a fool forever

Re: My Life Is Finished by Goddyrichie(m): 11:10pm On Oct 27, 2024

Mrwhite09:
I am addicted to porn, masturbation and football betting. its over for me. with these 2 destructive habits its crystal clear that I am not gonna achieve anything in this life.

I work like a slave and put everything to the bookies account and use porn and masturbation to calm myself down after losing my hard earned money. the juju that my village people casted on me must be very strong. I know all the negative consequencies of my actions but i kept engaging in it.

I work a hard labour job, working from 8am to 7pm but I still have nothing. To eat its a war for me talkless of buying other things, a phone I cannot afford, good clothes I cant afford even a decent shoe to wear I cant buy, but I kept staking everyday, chasing imaginary money, while enriching the cruel bookies with my hard earned money.

I watched my mates excell in life while I smell of cum truly I am a useless person. there is no hope for a 30 year old me.

is like u dey follow me all d time cuz how do you know that I do this always

Re: My Life Is Finished by Xinjin: 11:11pm On Oct 27, 2024

Mrwhite09:
i am more concerned with the porn addiction

Since you realize all these, that means You've already quited, just give yourself some brains. Again sadly you don't know you should stop the betting first 😭

Re: My Life Is Finished by WriterX(m): 11:18pm On Oct 27, 2024

Where do I start to advice you on Porn Addiction and Masturbation.. Wow

What is happening is this, there are specific triggers for addiction. What's more. You have alot of time on your hand.

My advice for you is this, professional wise you need a total make over in life.

Healthcare wise :

1.Avoid sugary drinks or anything high sugar go for water always.

2. Go sign up for gym or download an app and start exercising morning and night before you go to bed.

3. Avoid most excessive nuts eating.

4. If you use a laptop, you can change your position to somewhere public, and install anti porn apps
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5. Eat more vegetables and fruits.

6. You need God in your life at this point. It's important for you to anchor your spiritual existence to the creator.

7. Set small goals. Target the withdrawal days. Usually 2-3 days. Set small goals.

8. Find someone to hold you accountable, I need you to talk to someone close to you. When you mess up, let them know. That feeling you get after you tell them it will help you to in the long run.

9. Ensure you exercise daily to help you use up those energy daily. If the body is too tired to get things going it won't be bother you for this mess.

10. Ensure you reduce your carbohydrates, eat healthy, avoid all sugar if you can.

11. Never stay alone. Get the super appetite drugs to help relax your nerves. This is also important to help calm down your body when it gets into a frenzy.

12. Cut your data usage from monthly to daily say 200mb or 100mb. Set data restrictions.

13. Unlock your phone. Sin grows well in privacy. Kept your phone unlocked if possible.

14. Read books, reduce your time on line. Personally you can choose to go off the grid for a while. It won't kill.

15. Master discipline, try fasting. Avoid over eating.

16. Buddy, take control of your mind. The battle of addiction is in your mind. Don't let those thoughts whether from what you see or watch or hear. Go rent free in your head. Capture them and surrender them to God. Rebuke them bro, addiction is not a battle, it's a war in the mind. Don't let anyone fool you to think you are okay.

17. Stay away from movies and movie scenes. Personally if you are a movie lover, go fr Indian or Korean or Philippines.

18. Set a time for yourself on your device, get a phone screen lock app find KEEP ME OUT ON ANDROID playstore. It will lock you out of your phone automatically.

19. The rush you feel during the stage to mess up doesn't last up to an 1hr. If you feel it immediately engage yourself, you can walk away or join people.

The addiction is not the problem, find the root cause of it. Deal with it and you won't harm to deal with porn addiction ever.

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Re: My Life Is Finished by GenFunction: 11:23pm On Oct 27, 2024

Mrwhite09:
if you know about a strategy to quit these killer habits, dont bother to tell me because there is nothing which I have not tried.

you are not ready

Re: My Life Is Finished by WriterX(m): 11:30pm On Oct 27, 2024

Mrwhite09:
I am addicted to porn, masturbation and football betting. its over for me. with these 2 destructive habits its crystal clear that I am not gonna achieve anything in this life.

I work like a slave and put everything to the bookies account and use porn and masturbation to calm myself down after losing my hard earned money. the juju that my village people casted on me must be very strong. I know all the negative consequencies of my actions but i kept engaging in it.

I work a hard labour job, working from 8am to 7pm but I still have nothing. To eat its a war for me talkless of buying other things, a phone I cannot afford, good clothes I cant afford even a decent shoe to wear I cant buy, but I kept staking everyday, chasing imaginary money, while enriching the cruel bookies with my hard earned money.

I watched my mates excell in life while I smell of cum truly I am a useless person. there is no hope for a 30 year old me.

Read my message, I got someone who suffered porn addiction for 40 years. If you feel you are done. Then truly no one can help you. Not even God will override your will. My advice to you?

Turn this mess around, you can do it. All you want to achieve is possible. Porn addiction can be broken. Get the mindset that there is a version of you who is free in the near future. Visualize that everyday and thank God for it.

Just so you know there is a spiritual symbolism to this type of sin. Great ad powerful people to be suffer this.

Porn addiction is meant to trap you from fulfilling purpose. The spirit here is lust.
David, Samson in the Bible. Don't let porn steal now years from your life. IT'S TIME TO SAY ENOUGH.

GET A BOOK WRITE THEM OUT AND BURN THAT BOOK. WATCH IT BURN AND CELEBRATE IT.

FORGIVE YOURSELF AND FREE YOURSELF FROM THE GUILT. GOD IS WILLING TO FORGIVE YOU AND DIRECT YOU THROUGH THIS.

Re: My Life Is Finished by WriterX(m): 11:38pm On Oct 27, 2024

Mrwhite09:
I am addicted to porn, masturbation and football betting. its over for me. with these 2 destructive habits its crystal clear that I am not gonna achieve anything in this life.

I work like a slave and put everything to the bookies account and use porn and masturbation to calm myself down after losing my hard earned money. the juju that my village people casted on me must be very strong. I know all the negative consequencies of my actions but i kept engaging in it.

I work a hard labour job, working from 8am to 7pm but I still have nothing. To eat its a war for me talkless of buying other things, a phone I cannot afford, good clothes I cant afford even a decent shoe to wear I cant buy, but I kept staking everyday, chasing imaginary money, while enriching the cruel bookies with my hard earned money.

I watched my mates excell in life while I smell of cum truly I am a useless person. there is no hope for a 30 year old me.

I got out of mine addiction at 31, so let me encourage you to go do your best. Don't let the devil win this battle.

Re: My Life Is Finished by Benrosaria(m): 11:42pm On Oct 27, 2024

Hey my man. You don't write and sound smart. Smart ones know how to fix their problems without letting another man know

Re: My Life Is Finished by Lanre1st(m): 12:04am On Oct 28, 2024

Wearetheugliest:
Smash your pee pee

Yeeeh

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Re: My Life Is Finished by AlbertNewton: 12:10am On Oct 28, 2024

Usmanovic95:
You lack discipline bro. That's the harsh truth. Betting or porn is not your problem, your main problem Is indiscipline.

The absolute truth!
What strategy would you recommend for cultivating discipline ? What actions should I take if I want to be more disciplined ? Are there particular way of thinking or outlook on life that that can make one to be less disciplined ? In short, what is the solution to indiscipline?
I'm hoping you will have some insightful answers to those questions sir.

Re: My Life Is Finished by hohafrank(m): 12:45am On Oct 28, 2024

JobAndVacancies:
wrong.
He's a northerner and a Muslim so this advice of yours should be restructured

Not wrong anyway.He can convert and follow those steps.

Re: My Life Is Finished by Caseless: 1:02am On Oct 28, 2024

Mrwhite09:
i am more concerned with the porn addiction

stop it before you lose all the muscle strength on your d1ck.

I don't know how you guys do it, but It's not to be abused.

Re: My Life Is Finished by Hailstone: 1:17am On Oct 28, 2024

Mrwhite09:
I am addicted to porn, masturbation and football betting. its over for me. with these 2 destructive habits its crystal clear that I am not gonna achieve anything in this life.

I work like a slave and put everything to the bookies account and use porn and masturbation to calm myself down after losing my hard earned money. the juju that my village people casted on me must be very strong. I know all the negative consequencies of my actions but i kept engaging in it.

I work a hard labour job, working from 8am to 7pm but I still have nothing. To eat its a war for me talkless of buying other things, a phone I cannot afford, good clothes I cant afford even a decent shoe to wear I cant buy, but I kept staking everyday, chasing imaginary money, while enriching the cruel bookies with my hard earned money.

I watched my mates excell in life while I smell of cum truly I am a useless person. there is no hope for a 30 year old me.

I have a question for you. At what time do you do these things? During work , after work or in both places? A thing with addictive habits is that they are not easy to break. You must want freedom from addiction so bad, that you’ll take drastic measures no matter how tough they might be.
1. Our way of breaking free from addiction is by replacing the addictive habit, with a new habit. If you have a lot of free time after work, why don’t you join the gym, take a class or take up a task that will make you tired , that you’ll just long to get home & sleep?
2. Why don’t you stop using a smart phone for now & use an old model with no internet capability?
3. Does your job pay cash or check? Why don’t you use a trusted person like your mom or dad? Open a joint account with them. You know they can’t withdraw in your absence as the bank would require both signatories to be present for withdrawal. Go to your place of work & change your deposit information so that half of your pay goes into your account & the other half into your joint account which will act as your savings account?
4. Get an addiction counselor to help you navigate through your current struggles. It won’t be easy. You’ll fall at times, but you’ll get up & walk the journey again.
5. The doctors can give a low dose of antidepressants to reduce your libido. It’s not a permanent thing & you can always get it back when you need it.
Fight these evil habits now that you are 30. If you don’t break them, they can make you to forever live in poverty, guilt, shame & depression. Goodluck!

Re: My Life Is Finished by Gabangel(m): 2:42am On Oct 28, 2024

FuckYeyeMods:
Forget about trying to mitigate your loss or trying to double what you have now to pay off debts from your previous loss.
I loss millions to online dealings (not betting though), I just tell myself the truth and quit.
Though you might be a dumb or mumu but I will advice you to start taking lesson in Data Analyst.
Use the anger of all your losses in betting to commit yourself to Data Analyst and make sure you succeed.
Werey want to become rich by just ticking some numbers on a piece of paper.
Those that design football betting are not some dumb asshole like you.
You loss in betting, use Data to watch Porn, rush to washroom and ejaculate..... that is stupidity.
Develop yourself... don't be stupid.. when the time natural call, you will marry.Start having children. The decision you make now will determine whatsup when that time comes.
Stop telling yourself you're addicted and start thinking of how to be useful to yourself and unborn children.
Nonsense and senseless behaviour. You're losing but you keep going back.
With Data Science knowledge, you can analyse odds and make better decisions. You can design app that make decisions for you.
Asshole! Go get usefully for yourself.
If you work remotely and start earning in USD, if you like remove your small dick during masturbation, you have the means to do surgery. If you masturbate while you're earning good money, you'll buy and eat good protein food to replenish.
Go get useful asshole.

This thing touch me o. And is not like someone does not know where to get things to do become a data analyst, na the discipline. But you see that online work, e be like say the thing na grace.

Re: My Life Is Finished by DKINGS100: 4:38am On Oct 28, 2024

Porn is such a sinister bro.

Porn weakens your overall willpower.
With porn you can never quit betting.
Porn and masturbation goes together, thus the acronym (PMO). Porn, Masturbation, orgasm.

It's such a a vicious circle

Try going for a week without porn and masturbation, then a month etc
don't worry about betting.

Once you eradicate porn and masturbation, watch your willpower strengthen and betting will be a walk over.

Good luck 👏

Re: My Life Is Finished by nasbiafra(m): 4:45am On Oct 28, 2024

most especially mr banks and ekiti pikin

GambaOsaka:
1st advice : delete twitter app from your phone.
All those guys that drop Sportybet codes will ruin you. They have ways of making sports betting look attractive by flaunting winning tickets. They wouldn’t show you how much they’re losing.

all those people wan wound me.

Re: My Life Is Finished by nasbiafra(m): 4:49am On Oct 28, 2024

i am in the same shoes as you but i dont think my life is wasting,how can you stop watching porn,you probably do not want to have a smart phone because no matter how hard you try,you must check xvideos,about betting,i am a core loser but you see gambling,be willing to lose and be willing to win,quitters dont win and winners dont quit,about masturbation for konji to kill person or say person go rape,na to jerk yourself if banny no dey

mr op no go kill yourself life goes on,

Re: My Life Is Finished by koladata(m): 5:06am On Oct 28, 2024*

doctor show me your license, no go dey feel yourself say you know everything o, go and read about sperm bank, if you release today , its not even the sperm you just produced today , it is the one in your sperm bank weeks ago. A man is designed to release sperm at least twice a day either through normal sex or masturbation because we generate millions of sperm per second.

Kingzjayzee:
frequent ejaculation can cause watery sperm. I thought I should Inform you 😁

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Re: My Life Is Finished by Lino24: 5:39am On Oct 28, 2024

Try to get involved in an activity that you enjoy. Try as much as possible to be occupied with something. It could be movies, football, exercise, long calls, listening to music, taking a walk. So when those thoughts come in, just do any of these. Over time, you end up replacing those bad habits with good habits that are beneficial.

Re: My Life Is Finished by Sweeetheart(m): 6:35am On Oct 28, 2024

Jabez defeated a curse placed on him by his own mother but this one is attracting a curse to himself because of some addiction that only need a counsellor to help him out

Conflict of choice anyway

Re: My Life Is Finished by Igbokwechika101(m): 6:36am On Oct 28, 2024

My Brother enjoy your self, the shit wanna come over me and I'm trying so hard to stop that shit of watching porn.porn is fucking dangerous.i have always pray to God to help me so that I could get out from this shit Called porn.

Re: My Life Is Finished by Slurity(m): 6:42am On Oct 28, 2024

Mrwhite09:
I am addicted to porn, masturbation and football betting. its over for me. with these 2 destructive habits its crystal clear that I am not gonna achieve anything in this life.

I work like a slave and put everything to the bookies account and use porn and masturbation to calm myself down after losing my hard earned money. the juju that my village people casted on me must be very strong. I know all the negative consequencies of my actions but i kept engaging in it.

I work a hard labour job, working from 8am to 7pm but I still have nothing. To eat its a war for me talkless of buying other things, a phone I cannot afford, good clothes I cant afford even a decent shoe to wear I cant buy, but I kept staking everyday, chasing imaginary money, while enriching the cruel bookies with my hard earned money.

I watched my mates excell in life while I smell of cum truly I am a useless person. there is no hope for a 30 year old me.

it's as if you saying my story. I have exactly all the 3 problems you listed here but I am not as bad as you nor lost the hope of stopping.

Don't give up upon yourself.

Re: My Life Is Finished by Ewedegubbler: 7:01am On Oct 28, 2024

Don’t worry. Most of the guys in here are in the same boat.

And many don’t know that there’s a huge amount of bad luck that follows masturbation. Betting after masturbation = losses.

Re: My Life Is Finished by newoffer: 7:05am On Oct 28, 2024

Na data make u dey go check porn. Don't subscribe to data. Also get games on phone to take your mind off bad thing

Mrwhite09:
if you know about a strategy to quit these killer habits, dont bother to tell me because there is nothing which I have not tried.

Re: My Life Is Finished by newoffer: 7:07am On Oct 28, 2024

Idle mindset uote author=Usmanovic95 post=132609199]You lack discipline bro. That's the harsh truth. Betting or porn is not your problem, your main problem Is indiscipline.[/quote]

Re: My Life Is Finished by jibsiddy456: 7:13am On Oct 28, 2024

Baldwretch:
Nothing like if you sabi am. Dem no dey "sabi" predictions.

You need more than human knowledge to sabi am. In fact, you need foreknowledge to sabi am.

Na only God get foreknowledge.

If dem dey sabi am ni, all of us suppose dem usabi am na.

Toor. I said that few years back too

Re: My Life Is Finished by Hassanmaye(m): 7:16am On Oct 28, 2024

Mrwhite09:
I am addicted to porn, masturbation and football betting. its over for me. with these 2 destructive habits its crystal clear that I am not gonna achieve anything in this life.

I work like a slave and put everything to the bookies account and use porn and masturbation to calm myself down after losing my hard earned money. the juju that my village people casted on me must be very strong. I know all the negative consequencies of my actions but i kept engaging in it.

I work a hard labour job, working from 8am to 7pm but I still have nothing. To eat its a war for me talkless of buying other things, a phone I cannot afford, good clothes I cant afford even a decent shoe to wear I cant buy, but I kept staking everyday, chasing imaginary money, while enriching the cruel bookies with my hard earned money.

I watched my mates excell in life while I smell of cum truly I am a useless person. there is no hope for a 30 year old me.

My addiction is weed

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