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Glory018:
Was this a good reason to end a relationship?

So this is the continuation of the chat.
Who do you think is wrong?

Proserpina:
This one see girl ready to invest financially in a relationship with him but sex is his problem.

Later they will say Nigerian girls have nothing to offer than sex.

Mumu people

Juliearth:
If I say what's on my mind, I would get a ban. This is what you get when you date a boy with mucus-filled brain. Relationships are not an avenue for quelling raging hormones or for financial largesse (as seen in some cases).

Proserpina:
This one see girl ready to invest financially in a relationship with him but sex is his problem.

Later they will say Nigerian girls have nothing to offer than sex.

Mumu people

shortgun:
The first sign of a simp is to allow a girl make rules for you in a relationship or marriage

malaria:
Obviously they are not on the same page ..The want different things ..

idahme:
If 20% of Nigerian girls behave like this girl do you think people will chastise you all? Accountability is most times alien to most women, it has become a big issue holding people accountable for their bad behaviors? Unlike women men don't support a man that isn't doing the right thing.

I would have said the dude is right if all the only thing the lady offers is sex and nothing else but it seems she is not like you so the dude is wrong to look her that way. I have always said a lady who doesn't want to do sex shouldn't also do money in the relationship both parties should only talk and know themselves but no spending and no sex should come together.

The dude messed up if she is willing to share finances after putting no sex relationship.

Tallesty1:
Quotes from broke people sha.

galadima77:
She said "you only have sexual urge but no financial urge".
That one off me...hahahahahahaha

Juliearth:
If I say what's on my mind, I would get a ban. This is what you get when you date a boy with mucus-filled brain. Relationships are not an avenue for quelling raging hormones or for financial largesse (as seen in some cases).

Tallesty1:
Total no pass 50k.


Still no reach to be called an investment.


It is even possible that she wanted him to take her out and he was low on cash and she was like "make I give you so that you go pay when you get" 😂 😂 😂

iamtoofan:
if relationship is not an avenue for quelling raging hormones ...
what do we want to do that "just friends" wont cover ..

Verydarkhearted:
that’s how you girls mess with a guys self esteem and ego.. you deny a guy sex cause his jobless and broke.. how do you expect him to feel confident to stand amongst other guys or even go out to seek a job. Why didn’t she use that sex as a motivator for him. By telling babe I’m giving you this just this time if you don’t get a job you will not see it again..

Juliearth:
If at this age, you are not privy to why people go into relationship/court, then I truly cannot help you.

iamtoofan:
You don hear money it as clouded your reasoning, poverty as dealt with us

There are situations you wont understand until you find yourself in that situation .... i have dated a gurl for one year, we romance get nake but she will never allow me penetrate ... i cant explain the torture except you witness it


To make matter worst she be law student ... i had to be me in my best behaviour, i scatter the r/ship laslas b4 she pity me 🤣
shola god will judge you i suffered

jaksmillioniar:
can u sware shes not getting sex from anoda guy

iamtoofan:
age wey no pass two digit @ least i know people go to court to divorce but why people will go into r/ship without sexual needs big is what i cant fathom.



If coitus is your primary concern, then there isn't a need to venture into a relationship. Find a few ***** to run shifts per your urge. When two people decide to date, it's mostly borne out of the need for completeness, synergy and so on. The whole idea is to find someone who completes you and whose strength(s) compliment(s) your weakness and vice versa. At some point intimacy is factored in, but believe me, it isn't the primary drive for relationship.

You need a complete mental overhaul. Maybe that would come to fruition when you attain adulthood. All the best!

Juliearth:
Honestly I blame the girl for trying it out with a No-Prospect. It is okay to date a broke guy, but it is never okay to date a lazy man with no prospect.

iamtoofan:
age wey no pass two digit @ least i know people go to court to divorce but why people will go into r/ship without sexual needs big is what i cant fathom.

Proserpina:
Lol if I start writing on the lady,ehn... She's just as unserious as the boyfriend. The only difference is the dude knows what he wants, the lady doesn't No sex dey send nudes wetin she dey expect? If this guy use her nudes against her someday she will start crying. Lol

They will be alright! They should both get out

Juliearth:
If coitus is your primary concern, then there isn't a need to venture into a relationship. Find a few ***** to run shifts per your urge. When two people decide to date, it's mostly borne out of the need for completeness, synergy and so on. The whole idea is to find someone who completes you and whose strength(s) compliment(s) your weakness and vice versa. At some point intimacy is factored in, but believe me, it isn't the primary drive for relationship.

You need a complete mental overhaul. Maybe that would come to fruition when you attain adulthood. All the best!

Proserpina:
Original follow come clowns who want to eat their cake and have it.

iamtoofan:
Forget we are on NL, i'm an african man, what the essence of r/ship or marriage if sex is not primary concern

There is not a woman nd a man cant achieve independently except for sex.

So whats your primary concern ... is it money, career, property or foood

Go to magistrate court n hear cases of divorce you will be shocked at cases filed by women ... sex is primary never contemplate that

No matter how you nd a guy connect ... if their is no iota of sexual attraction to begin with it the r/ship cant work.

stop living in ur head nd take a vacation to the real world sis

Juliearth:
Did you really read (to understand) what I penned down above? I'll simply leave you to your ways. To each, his own.

iamtoofan:
is it any difficult to understand women will guilty trip a guy where ever sex is mentioned .... "a man in love will never think of sex" red flag
how long did it take jack nd rose on titantic to have sex romeo and juliet no be sex at 1st sight yet these are the pioneers nd icons of true love

i am not concern about your ways, just setting the matter straight...
any r/ship sexual attraction no dey that is a No No,

So if i have Msc in harvard + super rich, houses, cars, i cook, can even mentor you BuT i am impotent, you will date me, right ?? sex is not primary 🤭🤭

have a nice day

Juliearth:
Let me speak for myself. I can date an impotent man who is super intelligent, a polymath as a matter of fact. Whose wealth of knowledge, I can always scoop and scoop from. Who is an authority in his field and is relevant therein. Who offers me unrelenting friendship and peace of mind. Who compliments me in any form and pushes me to be the best version of myself.... sex sex sex as if it's some sort of medicine. I don't expect you to understand because as an INTJ-E, people rarely relate with my kind.

Proserpina:
What's my own to "sware"? I don't know these people to start with.

iamtoofan:
i respect that, but as the logical gender here, what will that r/ship do for you that friendship cant do thats my ?? ... i can assure you all those things you listed can be found within the ambience of friendship.
i dont wana question your personality, but if you think you can undermine sex my dear you dont know your "being" enough
i have seen a gurlz that believed she doesnt like sex but today she can't even keep her hands to herself🤣 ... lets just say you havent met that guy that will make you feel like a stranger to yoursef 🤭🤭

Do your friends not compliment you, look out for you, support and push for your success boya ko change your friends
simi and falz is a classical example , what gave adekunle ranking is the "intimacy" on the table
what you need is Friendship you have no business being in r/ship or marriage if sex is not on the table.