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wonder233:
Bros one thing I can tell you for certain, is that she can't harm you. I received those threats too "how can you waste 6years of life and think you can go Scots free bla bla bla".. That was after fake tears and pleading... I still went ahead to leave and I've been the happiest man alive.
In retrospect, I got to realize, women who behave like this know that it would be highly difficult to see a man who would put up with their b.s, hence they fight to retain you, not because they love and can't do without you, but simply because they want a dumping ground for their b.s

wow... Exactly.. the way you speak, it's as if you know my outgoing wife. Whenever we quarrel I have to buy new clothes, new electronics, buy food again, cos she destroys ALL...in a fit of blinding rage. I have many audio recording of her threats to kill mé,or kill herself and label it on me She once swallowed Poison,and we had to rush her to the hospital,because I started packing her things out she has attempted to slit her wrists, which I collected the knife from her hands.

I don't mind her taking all the property as long as I get my freedom.

My brother wish me well o.

Send these evidences to both your family members. Then let her know everyone is aware of these evidences. With that, you have effectively shut down that aspect. She is doing all of that to blackmail you into staying and putting up with her toxicity.
Her family also knows she is no good, but they don't want her to be unmarried, hence will try to broker fake peace talks and plead with you to accept her, DON'T FALL FOR IT. they don't care about you, they are just looking for who to offload her to. You're not a dumping ground. You deserve someone better.

naijapikin2:
wow... Exactly.. the way you speak, it's as if you know my outgoing wife. Whenever we quarrel I have to buy new clothes, new electronics, buy food again, cos she destroys ALL...in a fit of blinding rage. I have many audio recording of her threats to kill mé,or kill herself and label it on me She once swallowed Poison,and we had to rush her to the hospital,because I started packing her things out she has attempted to slit her wrists, which I collected the knife from her hands.

I don't mind her taking all the property as long as I get my freedom.

My brother wish me well o.

this one na true oo

Graficient:
Hope this did not prevent rice from being shared

some mamas sha

RIDOO:
Years back,I saw something close to this at a friend's wedding in Lag.The mother of the groom gave him a dirty slap at the reception ground.
I can't imagine how the couple will be feeling for the rest of that day...even me that I was a guest felt embarrassed.. But thank God the groom just rub his cheeks and the party continued.


I never came to a conclusion of what could make a mother slap her son on his wedding day.People dey o.

Hope the fight nor affect the jollof rice

naijapikin2:
wow... Exactly.. the way you speak, it's as if you know my outgoing wife. Whenever we quarrel I have to buy new clothes, new electronics, buy food again, cos she destroys ALL...in a fit of blinding rage. I have many audio recording of her threats to kill mé,or kill herself and label it on me She once swallowed Poison,and we had to rush her to the hospital,because I started packing her things out she has attempted to slit her wrists, which I collected the knife from her hands.

I don't mind her taking all the property as long as I get my freedom.

My brother wish me well o.

Chairman, this your issue is terrible, but it's not anything new, women have been employing these manipulations and blackmailing since time immemorial for the men they call 'pushovers' in their mind. In fact, to show you all that "suicide" na just gragra next time don't stop her. Don't speak or act just fold hand & watch her with complete indifference. That's when you'll know she, too, like life (if not she would have done it quietly long ago).

The frame you set from the onset of the relationship with her is why she has ginger to do all this. To be honest, it's very likely too late to change frame in her eyes at this point in time - once a woman's disrespect starts it doesn't stop. You might pause it, but you can't stop it. That disrespect show that she has already classified your frame as a "weak man."

As that gentleman has said, arrange those recordings and share them with family and mutual friends so your hands are clean in that aspect. Then stop bringing up topic of divorce with her, it won't change anything and you're just pouring fuel into the fire. Let small time pass so she won't know your arrangements.
When you're ready to act there's several ways to do it. One of the easiest ways for you would be to wait for her to travel then pack every single possession of hers, get a pickup truck and use it to send her load to her people. If that's not possible then rent small storage and put it there then give the key to someone close to her.

https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature

https://www.nairaland.com/7753241/wahala-chaos-female-nature-volume

Baldwretch:
Who does that on their wedding day? You are kidding, right?

True story bro

[quote author=Dizzyyish post=132674577]Chairman, this your issue is terrible, but it's not anything new, women have been employing these manipulations and blackmailing since time immemorial for the men they call 'pushovers' in their mind. In fact, to show you all that "suicide" na just gragra next time don't stop her. Don't speak or act just fold hand & watch her with complete indifference. That's when you'll know she, too, like life (if not she would have done it quietly long ago).

The frame you set from the onset of the relationship with her is why she has ginger to do all this. To be honest, it's very likely too late to change frame in her eyes at this point in time - once a woman's disrespect starts it doesn't stop. You might pause it, but you can't stop it. That disrespect show that she has already classified your frame as a "weak man."

As that gentleman has said, arrange those recordings and share them with family and mutual friends so your hands are clean in that aspect. Then stop bringing up topic of divorce with her, it won't change anything and you're just pouring fuel into the fire. Let small time pass so she won't know your arrangements.
When you're ready to act there's several ways to do it. One of the easiest ways for you would be to wait for her to travel then pack every single possession of hers, get a pickup truck and use it to send her load to her people. If that's not possible then rent small storage and put it there then give the key to someone close to her.

https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature

https://www.nairaland.com/7753241/wahala-chaos-female-nature-volume[/quopte]my brother, right before my very eyes she swallowed Poison. Because I dared her. And ignored her. But you have given a deep insight on what to do. She undertakes a journey I move her things. Last time we had a fight she broke my head with a stone. What you've said is true, but she's really suicidal. She's working she has her money, I'm also working I have mine. No kids between us, so it'll be much easier... Hopefully o.

Thanks 🙏🙏🙏

naijapikin2:
my brother, right before my very eyes she swallowed Poison. Because I dared her. And ignored her. But you have given a deep insight on what to do. She undertakes a journey I move her things. Last time we had a fight she broke my head with a stone. What you've said is true, but she's really suicidal. She's working she has her money, I'm also working I have mine. No kids between us, so it'll be much easier... Hopefully o.

Thanks 🙏🙏🙏

No children? Brother, you're blessed. Many men are enduring something similar or worse and they can't leave because of children. From your comment, it seems you don't repay her acts of violence and she's really capitalizing on that fact. Untimely death is untimely for a reason oh...

Anyhow, I wish you all the best on your battle for peace of mind.

Shame to them