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Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by LivingSage: 12:57pm On Nov 07, 2024
Ereluroz, where are you? Let's talk.

Hope you read this? Wetin your age group do you
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by verifiablefacts: 1:20pm On Nov 07, 2024
xpressionx:
Just make money.
One Alhaji for Kano just dey marry sweet virgin teenage girls wey e senior with 50yrs because he get small money,after few years e go marry 2 others join them, nobody complain, nobody dey shout paedophile

Em go don reach 10 or more wives now.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by ofuonyebi: 1:25pm On Nov 07, 2024
WELL...There is no any advantage in this Bleep up join-together
it was just a matter of youthful blindness either for money, property etc
but definitely not for real love!

when you finish deceiving yasef..then pay the price
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 1:29pm On Nov 07, 2024
Houseofglam7:
To each their own!
Adulthood is hard enough!
🤕
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 1:29pm On Nov 07, 2024
allen113:
Who knows how Reginal they cope?
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Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 1:31pm On Nov 07, 2024
Negroid001:
Age is just a number. Attitude is everything.
🤔

Attitude 🤔
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by GoodGovernance: 1:39pm On Nov 07, 2024
Trash!

What has happy married life got to do with age difference?


50 years Older or younger, same age or little difference, please marry for your happiness!
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by Iko5000: 1:42pm On Nov 07, 2024
Ebang has left the thread
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by VaginaAcademic: 1:51pm On Nov 07, 2024
This man is the solution

Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by Coronavirus1: 2:07pm On Nov 07, 2024
Regina Daniel married grand father but he treats her well so age is nothing

Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by nwirinedu(m): 2:17pm On Nov 07, 2024
The only reason they marry men 40+ is because of money. At that age the man is stable and established, the one at 20 is still struggling trying to get a footing. Marry a man and grow with him, dont wait for him to cross the finish line, you were not part of his struggles and will be treated as an acquisition rather than a partner.

I don talk my own.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by hkidola00(m): 2:17pm On Nov 07, 2024
thubs up
Gadafii:
Women no send to marry a man few seconds to his grave as long as he has money..

Women have always desired older men, back in secondary our girls were already rolling with university boys and some corpers or at times teachers, while neglecting us.

They thought we were not match for the type of experience they wanted, no wan.

When boys became men and started going for younger girls, these same girls whom have had their youthfulness messed up by the type of men they hanged with then turned around to ask why are older men going for younger girls, no be juju be that.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by nwirinedu(m): 2:18pm On Nov 07, 2024
Coronavirus1:
Regina Daniel married grand father but he treats her well so age is nothing
She married him for money not love, she is a trophy, when pops gets tired of his trophy he will put it on a shelf and get another one.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by trium: 2:21pm On Nov 07, 2024
ppogba:
You mean Regina that is using social media postings here and there to conceal her inner pains?

If a girl of 22-23 married to a man of 60+ tells you she is happily married, just take it that she is likely related to Lie Mohammed.
What do you as a young man bring to the table outside sexhuh Can you afford her lifestyle cost?

It is your mind that wants to make sure she is not enjoying her marriage even if she does. Once your mind is corrupted, you can only see through broken glasses.

Let's assume she is unfaithful to her husband. Aren't you as a man bruised on your ego when she has to hide you in the toilet or meet you in the hotelhuh

Don't you worry that she still has sense to protect her assets and you are just a disposable wipehuh

You can't have her with your open chest and you call that one a man. That looks like anumanu
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by t2luv1: 2:30pm On Nov 07, 2024
This is my theory, and I have vested it. Always marry someone with whom you have something in common. Two crackheads and weed smokers have been married for over 29 years with no problem. A non-church going man married to a woman who goes to church every Sunday she even go the Wednesday bible study. The marriage didn't last one year.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by Pennilessword1: 2:42pm On Nov 07, 2024
This one just wants to keep men at their toes because they themselves expire at 28...


I say to this nonsense... whatever
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by Fiscus105(m):
seunoladele:
BEFORE YOU MARRY A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER...

You have to take note of the high disparity and see if you can cope.

Will he see you as a friend or a daughter who must always listen to his command and nothing more? Or he will put his age aside and be your best friend, gist mate and romantic partner? You need a young blood to enjoy your life with and age doesn't really determine the freshness of the blood. Attitude is, if you understand what I mean.

I have met guys who were just few years older than me and treated me like a kid with no thought of her own and I have met men far older who treat me like a buddy, some even say "Yes ma". You get it? Attitude basically matters not just the accumulation of numbers.

At forty, your sexual desire peaks and you want more sex like no man's business. At forty, his own sexual desire begins to decline talk less of when he is sixty years old! But with good diet, enough sleep, right attitude to work and a very young heart, the man can boost his libido, desire you like crazy, have sex 2 to 3 times a week and stay on top of his sexual games with you!

One lady separated from her elderly husband because she was starving sexually! There are young men less than thirty or a little over thirty who also starve their wife sex!

Attitude matters.

God's will matters most!

If God says at 25, you will marry a man who is 45, who are we to say NO?

When Jesus says YES, nobody can say NO my dear!

Do not box God!

Still, don't do what your power can't carry!

Not every lady can marry a man far older than she is.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

You will not mis-choose in Jesus' name!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele
Sexual activity of women peak at 25-30, stop misinforming people

Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by kay29000(m): 3:13pm On Nov 07, 2024
Creditalerts:
I'm 20 years older than her and she is my Joy giver ,gives me sex anyway,anytime and every where
She is my peace of mind I can never let her go
❤❤❤
Are you guys married or dating? If you're married, how long have you been married? And lastly, how did you meet? Thanks in advance.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by kay29000(m): 3:18pm On Nov 07, 2024
sirblend:
@op

At 40 a lot of men are still horses and destroyers in the other room...

Forget about hearsay.......Men's libido seem to drop because of financial burden and a high level of stress...
Exactly. I remember when I was in my late 20s, one girl was always telling me about one guy in his 40s that she was nacking...at the time, I used to think she was lying when she used to talk about how good the guy was. Now that I'm around that age, I just laugh at my younger self who was thinking men in their 40s can't perform in the bedroom.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by DigitB: 3:41pm On Nov 07, 2024
ppogba:
The social media paparazzi does not always tell the true story bro. Be careful with the word " blissful"
Every marriage has its challenges. Of course no one should wash their dirty linen in public.

It takes a man more mature than his wife to make a stable marriage.


I don't know why these old hoeish evening newspapers always try to confuse young women on social media with their shitty posts
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by kay29000(m): 3:41pm On Nov 07, 2024
Gadafii:
Women no send to marry a man few seconds to his grave as long as he has money..

Women have always desired older men, back in secondary our girls were already rolling with university boys and some corpers or at times teachers, while neglecting us.

They thought we were not match for the type of experience they wanted, no wan.

When boys became men and started going for younger girls, these same girls whom have had their youthfulness messed up by the type of men they hanged with then turned around to ask why are older men going for younger girls, no be juju be that.
LMAO!!! The thing always makes me laugh. Girls that slept with multiple married men when they were younger will be praying to God that their husbands don't sleep with younger girls. No be juju be that grin
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by kay29000(m): 3:46pm On Nov 07, 2024
Tradepunter2:
I am 7years older than my wife and we been together for 9yrs+..... Women I noticed love men they can look up too..... And trust me the maturity and age gap matches both energy.... If you going marry your age mate, do it in your twenties.... So that both energy will sync.... Because after that age, omooo you on your own.... A guy I know 37 married his wife 35, he's not finding peace...... From my observation both of their will power is strong by default
True...26 year old man marrying 24 year old is still cool...energies still match. But 36 marrying a 34 year old....omo! That woman's experience at that age is light years ahead of the man, especially if she was very outgoing before they met.
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Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by ChiefS(m): 4:00pm On Nov 07, 2024
bestman09:
Marriage is complex. I know someone who married his age mate and they are living happily while another buddy is always fighting with his wife because she doesn't respect him because they are the same age. However, it is always better for the man to be older than the wife with 5-10 years as the wife will give him more respect, all things being equal!

Just make sure you have lots of money as a man in NIGERIA and the wife will always respect you, no matter the age difference!
Which one be more respect? If a woman respects you she respects you. Being older by 5 or 10 years won't increase the respect. I know women who disrespect their husbands despite the 5 - 10 years age gap.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by Tradepunter2: 4:05pm On Nov 07, 2024
kay29000:
True...26 year old man marrying 24 year old is still cool...energies still match. But 36 marrying a 34 year old....omo! That woman's experience at that age is light years ahead of the man, especially if she was very outgoing before they met.
Very very true my guy.... Most men don't know this.... Those outgoing ones are the most difficult to change because their energy level is high.... Because they derive pleasure from it, so man dating them must have enough cash... Like me I never liked any churchy churchy woman.... Cuz my belief is that those types are mentally defective and void of rational thoughts... But when I met my wife the balance was there..... If we miss midweek service heaven won't fall and we engage scriptures randomly and can spend hrs discussing scriptures.... Outside devotional time.... She's the best thing in my life
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by Calitoscassius(m): 4:09pm On Nov 07, 2024
I only saw white people on the picture, please show us black marriages. Let's check something. undecided


The inferiority is apauling.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by trium: 5:29pm On Nov 07, 2024
nwirinedu:
The only reason they marry men 40+ is because of money. At that age the man is stable and established, the one at 20 is still struggling trying to get a footing. Marry a man and grow with him, dont wait for him to cross the finish line, you were not part of his struggles and will be treated as an acquisition rather than a partner.

I don talk my own.
People are different. Do you know that in the past, older women who were doing well married young men and let him have more wiveshuh This is because .marriage was about families and protecting the lineage. A woman who is that ambitious will let the other women compete for his attention while she minds her business and acts like a mom.

Now, there are women who want a father figure, some of them were close to their dads and some of them grew up with daddy issues. There is no one size cap that fits all. We all need to understand people's backgrounds. That's why I advise men to study the woman's family before falling in love
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by trium: 5:32pm On Nov 07, 2024
DigitB:
Every marriage has its challenges. Of course no one should wash their dirty linen in public.

It takes a man more mature than his wife to make a stable marriage.


I don't know why these old hoeish evening newspapers always try to confuse young women on social media with their shitty posts
Misery loves company.

Bad news sells faster.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by Obarofrederick(m): 6:37pm On Nov 07, 2024
Tradepunter2:
Very very true my guy.... Most men don't know this.... Those outgoing ones are the most difficult to change because their energy level is high.... Because they derive pleasure from it, so man dating them must have enough cash... Like me I never liked any churchy churchy woman.... Cuz my belief is that those types are mentally defective and void of rational thoughts... But when I met my wife the balance was there..... If we miss midweek service heaven won't fall and we engage scriptures randomly and can spend hrs discussing scriptures.... Outside devotional time.... She's the best thing in my life
The kind of woman one should desire, and that's what you have
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by randymirrors(f): 7:00pm On Nov 07, 2024
ppogba:
You mean Regina that is using social media postings here and there to conceal her inner pains?

If a girl of 22-23 married to a man of 60+ tells you she is happily married, just take it that she is likely related to Lie Mohammed.
She's deceiving the gullible. She can never be happy no matter how rich. I'm married to an older man, not even in the age range of Ned Nwoko and I'm far older than Regina. I regret this everyday of my life. It's better to be single for life than to be married to someone who doesn't match your vibe. No joy. I wish I could be single again. I regret everything. It's a pitiable state.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by randymirrors(f): 7:10pm On Nov 07, 2024
kay29000:
Exactly. I remember when I was in my late 20s, one girl was always telling me about one guy in his 40s that she was nacking...at the time, I used to think she was lying when she used to talk about how good the guy was. Now that I'm around that age, I just laugh at my younger self who was thinking men in their 40s can't perform in the bedroom.
My husband is a horse and doesn't stop. Never gets tired.
Re: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by kay29000(m): 7:19pm On Nov 07, 2024
randymirrors:
My husband is a horse and doesn't stop. Never gets tired.
How old is he?
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