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Magnoliaa:
Ko iranu lo jo.

K.

😟

CaveAdullam:
This is a response to this thread:https://www.nairaland.com/7934513/been-meeting-wrong-ladies-it

My first response: https://www.nairaland.com/7934513/been-meeting-wrong-ladies-it/1#127376013

Surprise. Surprise: This thread has a bonus point.

All (Nigerian) men have experienced this phenomenon. Except those that are strictly introverted or haven't requested a date.

There are plenty of factors underlying the unresponsiveness of women. Factors can emanate from you or them.

1. Women are more open and emotional to men closer to them. Proximity is how you get the better side of women + become aware of their dark sides.

Before a woman can travel from point A to point B to see you through a long distance you must have first created that emotional attachment.

But why do women travel long distances to meet strangers?

This is based on economies. They do it because of money. A prostitute can't become emotionally attached to her client. If there exists any, it is a facade. By the way, prostitutes have men they love genuinely + freely fvck them.

The evolutionary background: women by nature are weak. They need strong men to provide for them and protect them. A stranger can't be trustworthy. Only men in their community will they submit to because they've known over time.

Sex to women is more of security than pleasure. Sex for men is more of pleasures and ego - the boast of a harem.

So prostitutes are because of the money. Because if there is an availability of men to pay their bills and fulfill all their sincere and nonsensical fantasies, prostitution will be non-existent.

Therefore, in rich and developed nations, women engaged in romance for the sake of romance, love, and emotional attachment.
While in poor and underdeveloped nations women leverage romance to upgrade their socio-economic status and creep out of poverty and deprivation.

2. She might be in a relationship.

3. She's in a tarrying bad mood. And can't willingly share with you because you are a stranger. With time she may. But as a man, you'll become impatient because by nature you're not programmed to wait and beg for sex. You just want to hit and move to the next.

4. She doesn't like you. Every woman has a man they like or fantasize about. If you are not up to that standard they will ignore you.

5. Appearance. Your looks may not be ranked as acceptable. Using that metric, they set you aside and wouldn't want you to bother them.

6. Absence of flamboyance at first meet.

Women are emotional. So they can easily be cajoled by the presence of flashiness. This again is due to their desire for security. That's why celebrities can score many women + have multiple baby mamas at will.

If you don't express or show flamboyance women won't take you seriously.

Only well-trained women who are self-conscious and disciplined follow a man due to his ambitions, character, and intelligence. These women are the outliers.

7. It's a mind game. Women don't want to appear cheap. So they'll play the delayed and boring game till they know if you are genuine or not. They don't want to feel cheap.

8. Other men are on the radar. Some of these men are 10 times better than you. Some of these men you are 10 times better than.

This trooping of men of all ages and categories is the pleasure of all women. Some of the men are making bidding you can't or haven't. They fill her with hopes and promises. Her DM and privacy are a cluster of men persuading her into a romantic relationship.

Don't expect her to leave them for you easily. You are not the first. And more are behind you.

9. They want a long stream of persuasions and promises before they accept your proposal. Until you do this they will continue to remain boring.

10. Even though the average woman is slightly more intelligent than the average man, one can observe that women don't bother themselves with meaningful topics or engage in mentally stimulating discourse.

Because women dwell on the material and emotional realm. Like the average person, gratification must be instant and easy.

These women are boring because they lack exposure. What they know comprises of media gossip and frivolous demands of men.

Women are more concerned about sexual and relationship talks because that's where their power resides.

From the above factors, the only one you have control over is your appearance. So, before you step out look good, smell nice, and talk well. Be happy and jovial. Be humorous and social. Whether they accept or reject you becomes none of your business. Just do your part.

Getting women is a game of numbers. The more you step out and interact, the more women you'll encounter and get hooked by a number of them.

Meanwhile, as a man, you must go for a woman who likes you genuinely. These women you don't need to cajole or convince. They just like you + want to be in love with you. They will make you wish and pray for an eternal romantic relationship.

Have you seen secondary and university lovers? That's what I'm talking about. Genuine love.

Thanks.

No woman wants a broke man

Whilst that is true, it is also important to note that...

Women don't always travel to meet strangers because of money

They could do it because they feel some degree of connection with the guy that is absent in their life.

A successful woman wants a strong successful man who can maintain frame.


If she finds such a man, she will be willing to travel long distance to meet him.

luminouz:
Baba Cave, I dey gallant o.

Na you dey bother to reply them na. I don't bother to explain because they don't wanna learn but to just attack and rant. So I prod and goad them and BOOM, they yell and scream while I sit back and laugh my head off. It's entertaining really, you should try it.

You're very wicked.

Further response is for the sake of readers.

Left for me I can't argue with people whose IQ isn't more than the maximum hours of the day.

Well done, chief.

CaveAdullam:
You're very wicked.

Further response is for the sake of readers.

Left for me I can't argue with people whose IQ isn't more than the maximum hours of the day.

Well done, chief.

💯

luminouz:
Lmaoooo....yen yen yen.... Egyptian parrot.


I will mention you as I see fit. Come and kill me na!!!

Kunle get a life, it will help you.

Fountainofyouth:
Kunle get a life, it will help you.

I won't...

I live to torment you😘😘😘😘

Magnoliaa:
Awwwnn.

Would you look at one my fans here. I bet the picture made you hard, huh? Now I can partly see the source of your obsession with me.

Another reason must be your jealousy at the fact that even at my toddler age, my intelligence is x5 of yours. 😂

Withering bachelor.

VWW @last line

BRATISLAVA:
VWW @last line

Huh huh ?? ??

luminouz:
K

Magnoliaa

Congratulations Lumi. You guys should settle this matter in bed - like a one-off something. Revers C-girl

Magnoliaa:
Huh huh ?? ??

You'll remember it soon.

BRATISLAVA:


You'll remember it soon.

Ohhhhhhhhhh. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Magnoliaa:
Ohhhhhhhhhh. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

CaveAdullam:
This is a response to this thread:https://www.nairaland.com/7934513/been-meeting-wrong-ladies-it

My first response: https://www.nairaland.com/7934513/been-meeting-wrong-ladies-it/1#127376013

Surprise. Surprise: This thread has a bonus point.

All (Nigerian) men have experienced this phenomenon. Except those that are strictly introverted or haven't requested a date.

There are plenty of factors underlying the unresponsiveness of women. Factors can emanate from you or them.

1. Women are more open and emotional to men closer to them. Proximity is how you get the better side of women + become aware of their dark sides.

Before a woman can travel from point A to point B to see you through a long distance you must have first created that emotional attachment.

But why do women travel long distances to meet strangers?

This is based on economies. They do it because of money. A prostitute can't become emotionally attached to her client. If there exists any, it is a facade. By the way, prostitutes have men they love genuinely + freely fvck them.

The evolutionary background: women by nature are weak. They need strong men to provide for them and protect them. A stranger can't be trustworthy. Only men in their community will they submit to because they've known over time.

Sex to women is more of security than pleasure. Sex for men is more of pleasures and ego - the boast of a harem.

So prostitutes are because of the money. Because if there is an availability of men to pay their bills and fulfill all their sincere and nonsensical fantasies, prostitution will be non-existent.

Therefore, in rich and developed nations, women engaged in romance for the sake of romance, love, and emotional attachment.
While in poor and underdeveloped nations women leverage romance to upgrade their socio-economic status and creep out of poverty and deprivation.

2. She might be in a relationship.

3. She's in a tarrying bad mood. And can't willingly share with you because you are a stranger. With time she may. But as a man, you'll become impatient because by nature you're not programmed to wait and beg for sex. You just want to hit and move to the next.

4. She doesn't like you. Every woman has a man they like or fantasize about. If you are not up to that standard they will ignore you.

5. Appearance. Your looks may not be ranked as acceptable. Using that metric, they set you aside and wouldn't want you to bother them.

6. Absence of flamboyance at first meet.

Women are emotional. So they can easily be cajoled by the presence of flashiness. This again is due to their desire for security. That's why celebrities can score many women + have multiple baby mamas at will.

If you don't express or show flamboyance women won't take you seriously.

Only well-trained women who are self-conscious and disciplined follow a man due to his ambitions, character, and intelligence. These women are the outliers.

7. It's a mind game. Women don't want to appear cheap. So they'll play the delayed and boring game till they know if you are genuine or not. They don't want to feel cheap.

8. Other men are on the radar. Some of these men are 10 times better than you. Some of these men you are 10 times better than.

This trooping of men of all ages and categories is the pleasure of all women. Some of the men are making bidding you can't or haven't. They fill her with hopes and promises. Her DM and privacy are a cluster of men persuading her into a romantic relationship.

Don't expect her to leave them for you easily. You are not the first. And more are behind you.

9. They want a long stream of persuasions and promises before they accept your proposal. Until you do this they will continue to remain boring.

10. Even though the average woman is slightly more intelligent than the average man, one can observe that women don't bother themselves with meaningful topics or engage in mentally stimulating discourse.

Because women dwell on the material and emotional realm. Like the average person, gratification must be instant and easy.

These women are boring because they lack exposure. What they know comprises of media gossip and frivolous demands of men.

Women are more concerned about sexual and relationship talks because that's where their power resides.

From the above factors, the only one you have control over is your appearance. So, before you step out look good, smell nice, and talk well. Be happy and jovial. Be humorous and social. Whether they accept or reject you becomes none of your business. Just do your part.

Getting women is a game of numbers. The more you step out and interact, the more women you'll encounter and get hooked by a number of them.

Meanwhile, as a man, you must go for a woman who likes you genuinely. These women you don't need to cajole or convince. They just like you + want to be in love with you. They will make you wish and pray for an eternal romantic relationship.

Have you seen secondary and university lovers? That's what I'm talking about. Genuine love.

Thanks.

Happy Sunday my brother
I want to give you a hug
Your writings are like medicine to me, keeping me sane, hopeful, happy.
I wonder how my life would be like without them, you are extremely intelligent, very wise, my prayer( sorry) desire for you is that you migrate to a society that values IQ, I learn new things everyday as I read and re-read your write ups, they are too real, rounding up my training to start sourcing jobs this week

Wish you the best as you start this new week

JESHAL007:
Happy Sunday my brother
I want to give you a hug
Your writings are like medicine to me, keeping me sane, hopeful, and happy.
I wonder what my life would be like without them, you are extremely intelligent, and very wise, and my prayer( sorry) desire for you is that you migrate to a society that values IQ, I learn new things everyday as I read and re-read your write ups, they are too real, rounding up my training to start sourcing jobs this week

Wish you the best as you start this new week

My oga at the top.

Thank you for your kind words. I do appreciate it.

PS: ironically, I do go to church. It's counterintuitive, right?

I go to church for community's sake. To bond with people. To make friends. They manage to tag me along with their religious activities and I just flow. Even though I don't buy into their religiosity.

It's unbelievable and weird kind of.

Problem with religious people and atheists alike is that where the former takes religion literally and worship it, the later sees it as fiction and discard it. Meanwhile, the undertone of religion is to position man toward transcendence - a metaphysical process.

Prayer is making good wishes for yourself or someone. However, since it's codified alongside religion, it is seen as a religious duty.

I don't care whether God exists or not.

However, the concept of God is relevant on both an individual and community scale. God is a representation of what man should become.

The atheist hates God because the attributes of God isn't real. Because there can't be someone like that.

The religious person due to his inability to operates in the realm of God, have to worship God so that God can take him to that realm.

The atheist wants to use his strength to reach that zenith. The religious person wants to leverage on God to reach that zenith.

Bottom line is that both the atheist and theist are aiming for the same goalpost albeit through different method.

Where the atheist disposed the illusion of it, the theist needs a continuous dose of it to reach that goal too.

Atheists saw those religious texts and threw it out because they are full of fables. The theist has formed a worship of God through those religious texts.

What both of them fail to understand is that religious texts are encoded lessons to be demystified for learning, knowledge, and wisdom. Belief or unbelief in God doesn't change that. And that's the whole essence of man on earth: to become as wise as God.

I am reading Harry Potter books at the moment. I know it's fiction. However, there are hundreds of lessons I have learned so far that can better my life and family. That's same thing with the Bible or Koran. You don't need to buy the stories. They are allegories and metaphors to teach us a lesson.

Going to church has also proved that religious people are just living a life of lies.

Because how can you tell me (an atheist) that God will use me for his kingdom when I don't even belief in a God in the first place.

At least if your so-called vision and prophecy is not due to your emotional oscillation and hysteria, the first thing God should have told you is that I don't believe in him. Just speculations and predictions.

You can go to church or mosque for the fun and friendship. Even if you don't believe in God. It's still the best place with a lot of good and mentally stable people overall. You will easily spot their nonsense and laugh about it and move on.

They will learn when they choose to learn. The truth will set them free.

Thanks.

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