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How Can I Stop Living In Fantasy by ucheagu(op): 9:16pm On Nov 10, 2024
Well there is no other way to say this but to say am tire of living only in my head. Growing up I had no friends so I fantasize about things but now it is eating me up I literally chase people around me away just to be alone and talk and laugh and sometimes angry.. I just want to stop but I can't
Re: How Can I Stop Living In Fantasy by Pochettino(f): 9:38pm On Nov 10, 2024
We women need to help this man out before he runs into the market
Re: How Can I Stop Living In Fantasy by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 9:54pm On Nov 10, 2024
Pochettino:
We women need to help this man out before he runs into the market
Ha'yam not Honda standing undecided huh
Re: How Can I Stop Living In Fantasy by DOUBLEBARREL(m): 10:22pm On Nov 10, 2024
You have become too attached to your mind... And the mind plays illusion and tricks on you. You can create a buffer zone between your mind( who u think u are) and ur consciousness (ur operating system) thought meditation. Sit still ...close it eyes, draw deep breath, and still you mind( think nothing )
Re: How Can I Stop Living In Fantasy by Bizmind95: 10:19am On Nov 11, 2024
ucheagu:
Well there is no other way to say this but to say am tire of living only in my head. Growing up I had no friends so I fantasize about things but now it is eating me up I literally chase people around me away just to be alone and talk and laugh and sometimes angry.. I just want to stop but I can't
Nothing is wrong with you bro... you're just an introvert like billions of other people worldwide...what you term as living in fantasy is just how your mind help you to cope with your solitude...Solitude is very addictive...once you find out how peaceful it is...you won't wanna interact with humans anymore...and that's just exactly what is happening to you...but do you really have a choice? When you will definitely be hurt, disrespected, insulted, angered, heartbroken and what have you if you go out to interact with people....so you have to make a choice here between enjoying your own solitude and living in what you call fantasy or going out there to interact with people and getting hurt and disrespected in the process...
Re: How Can I Stop Living In Fantasy by tobby20: 10:59am On Nov 11, 2024
DOUBLEBARREL:
You have become too attached to your mind... And the mind plays illusion and tricks on you. You can create a buffer zone between your mind( who u think u are) and ur consciousness (ur operating system) thought meditation. Sit still ...close it eyes, draw deep breath, and still you mind( think nothing )
This stuff meditation just off me
Na the breathing part off me part
So I have to exhale with mouth
What if I'm too tired to exhale with mouth
Re: How Can I Stop Living In Fantasy by DOUBLEBARREL(m): 11:43am On Nov 12, 2024
tobby20:
This stuff meditation just off me
Na the breathing part off me part
So I have to exhale with mouth
What if I'm too tired to exhale with mouth
download( joy app and serenity app) on play store they would how to meditate
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