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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by JustPowerApps(m): 10:54am On Nov 12, 2024
That dude is a certified werey cheesy You dey give Nigerian girl in Uni money grin Why she no go flex herself on a cool vacay.

250 from 10 guys is 2.5M cool
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Veetee(op): 10:54am On Nov 12, 2024
boxypane:
Did he get all his money back. I mean full investment?
No she only refunded the 320k that was meant for her flight ticket from calabar to lagos and back
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by torqque7(m): 10:54am On Nov 12, 2024
seguno2:
Did this one of last year also return your money huh
Don't mind the mugu..he knows he is an embarrassment that is why he is giving his own story and lying that it's a story of his friend..imagine this simp still no learn after the interior decor scam yet he still go de send money give student..some guys brains you wonder Watin dey inside..just wait for sometime the mugu will come here again after some months to tell us another stupidity he did again as SIMPson general wey him be.. angry
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by mrjoeblinks: 10:55am On Nov 12, 2024
zed7:
Cheating isn't really worth it, especially when you're married. The girl will always misbehave because she thinks she's doing you a favour. She knows all she'll get from the relationship is money and she'll bill you like mad. She'll always threaten to leave, especially if she's beautiful.

If you must cheat as a married man, get a mature girl who's in her 30's and has lost hope of marriage or a single mother. Those are the type that will be happy to have a man and will show some form of loyalty.

If you ask me, cheating is a waste of energy, money and emotions. It depletes you spiritually, physically, financially and emotionally. Avoid it!.
Walahi
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Veetee(op): 10:56am On Nov 12, 2024
elasticlala:
Your friend Bleep up.
That money he spent on one useless girl is enough to sustain at least 3 steady dedicated chicks on every arrival in Nigeria.
He claimed he doesn’t like to be playing to Bleep yet he spent a lot for the ‘untuck’…🥹🥹🥹

If he needs reasonable babes, he should contact me; I get extra
You are right, but the issue is he has a high taste of girls. He likes extremely beautiful girls with a bit of flesh, and girls who live luxury lives
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by travelzcruix: 10:57am On Nov 12, 2024
We the made men are aware there is fierce competition out there. We levelled up, Personally, I don't do money relationship again. How much do I have compared to a keyboard bandit/criminal in the first place. My d*ck scarce pass Uranium. At my age, what I need from a relationship isn't companionship or s*x, so why should I even pay a dime for it. My theory is simple, if you want to date me, go ahead, with time we will know where we are going in the relationship.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Odunayaw(m): 10:57am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.
You and your friends make up an unenviable company of fools.

Runs girls? Beautiful girl?

Instead make una focus on self control and the finer things of life
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by anonimi: 10:58am On Nov 12, 2024
Smartjob1:
And if the wife does the same, he will start shouting up and down? Just look at your phulish friend cheating on his wife and disgracing his family and all you could come to say online is that this nonsense!

Sense.less posts and OP!
My own concern about this is not with the wife. It’s about how a grown ass man in this T-Pain ebilokan continuity of APC shege will be wasting money on such bottomless pit of women.

What happened to all the hungry people fighting for Asiwaju’s palliative bread? Can’t he help them huh

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by sylve11: 10:58am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me..
Good to know you later changed all the "he, his, and him" to "me".

Now back to the story. Guy, use that money she returned to you give to any orphanage home.

I have done it before and it was an amazing experience. Today I still see that same girl who tried to play the nonsense game with me. The last time I saw her I was like "ope Oluwa". See person wey I be wan waste my hard earned money on. shocked cool
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Germi9: 10:58am On Nov 12, 2024
advanceDNA:
So ..baba did u get ur money back or u just simp for nothing??
Na him the thing happen to , no mind the simp
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Veetee(op): 10:59am On Nov 12, 2024
[quote author=LordReed post=132842369]Guy you goofed, this story isn't about your friend, it's about you. You are married and still looking for side chics and runs girl, something is wrong with you.[/quote

If this was me I would gladly tell u , and nothing would happen. what is the point for me to lie, it will never be traced to me so why would i lie about it?
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Mariangeles(f): 10:59am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
She sent the money back bro, she sent it. I have nothing to gain by telling you she didnt send the money, it would have even made the gist sweet. I didnt even believe she would send back the money but she did. My friend told her to send the money to his travel agent, but the account he gave her was that of his chef. he didnt want to act like he desperately wanted a refund, The girl too is arrogant, i guess because she is very pretty. she too was trying to proof a point that she is not after his money.
So, the point of this whole story, the fuss gangan is that she called his bluff and sent back his money?
Shouldn't he be glad?
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by portacabin: 11:00am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story. How can this make front page

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.
How can this make front page
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by randymirrors(f): 11:00am On Nov 12, 2024
boxypane:
Did he get all his money back. I mean full investment?
Why would you believe he got the money back? You're wiser than this naa.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by advanceDNA: 11:01am On Nov 12, 2024
IamMobisola:
Did you say "loyal to you"? A married man looking for loyalty from another woman not his wife? Lmao. Foolish men everywhere
Lol.. grin grin ..u women pretend alot, living in delusion and denial....so u have not seen side chic/mistress gladly sharing another woman's husband...u think every woman has the luxury of having her own rich husband??

So all these women, dating and birthing kids for married men nko??

Or U have not seen men with wife abroad and mistress in Nigeria, with apartment and kids??

Before u start calling pple foolish...mayb u should look at the mirror
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by TOPCRUISE(m): 11:01am On Nov 12, 2024
I don’t know the difference between a girl like this and a fraudster. And I don’t know the difference between an adulterer and this irresponsible married man who not only lavish money on prostitutes and sleeps around with runs girls but also see no shame reporting himself
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by poweredcom(m): 11:01am On Nov 12, 2024
If this story is truth....then the guy is big MUGU and a Simpson family member hahaha

Thank god i spotted @Savedday2 he is back to warn us about these demons called nigerian gals
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Sonofgod1990(m): 11:01am On Nov 12, 2024
Same thing happened to me when I was in Nigeria before I traveled to Canada. I met a girl online along the line we agreed that she will come down from Australia to Nigeria for us to see. And I spent about 7million for her flight ticket. And dis girl no show up. Girl I no see money I no see. Dis life sha
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by PROPHETmichael: 11:02am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
She sent back the money and said she isnt interested in seeing him anymore
Tell that young man to use that money and isiewulize his stomach alongside, big stouting, suyaing and peppersouping.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 11:02am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.
Focus on God and steady dey hustle,... You're on your own and all alone.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Veetee(op): 11:02am On Nov 12, 2024
pharoah:
He should have bought the ticket himself and sent to the lady.
If she dosen't now use it or eventually uses it when he must have returned, then she will explain
He actually thought of that. but you see it was a thing of ego. he was trying to impress her, she too on her part didnt act desperate for the money so he just sent her the money
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by torqque7(m): 11:03am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
She sent back the money and said she isnt interested in seeing him anymore
You are really dumb man..na your type de ignore him parents and even family to be washing pant for a girl who will be fvcking her bf while you wait outside her apartment that you paid for doing her pant laundry..mugu,you think NLanders are as dumb as you?we know you are talking about yourself and so that imaginary friend of yours isn't flying..bloody Simp..
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by DiskJokeyManic: 11:03am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.
There is no any ""Friend"" here sir,,, u are the "My friend"" you're referring to in ur post sir.... Stop fooling urself......😂😂😂😂😂

People like u wil be on dis Nairaland nd every part of social media claiming "Alpha male"""" but see as small girl wey fit no reach 20yrs use u dey do yeye.....😹😹😹😹 ""If u are a young guy doing legit huste I will advise you to focus on your hustle"" yenyenyen.....😂😂 As de small girl humble am,,,, e turn motivational speaker by force🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂

Alpha male online,,,,, mighty simp offline😹😹😂😂😂😂

Na pple wey dey carry deir marital affairs come here for una to advice Dem I pity pass😹😹

Minister of simp Defence😹😹😹😹😁

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by mrkings84(m): 11:04am On Nov 12, 2024
ONLY ME AND THE OP KNOWS THAT THIS STORY IS NOT TRUE.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by advanceDNA: 11:05am On Nov 12, 2024
Germi9:
Na him the thing happen to , no mind the simp
I know naaa..it showed later in story when he address himself instead of the so called friend.... He wrote that the babe was no longer interested in seeing "me" instead of "my friend"
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by elasticlala: 11:05am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
You are right, but the issue is he has a high taste of girls. He likes extremely beautiful girls with a bit of flesh, and girls who live luxury lives
Oh! That kind thing?
Such people are usually associated with this kind of attitude. They aren’t always loyal.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Veetee(op): 11:06am On Nov 12, 2024
torqque7:
Don't mind the mugu..he knows he is an embarrassment that is why he is giving his own story and lying that it's a story of his friend..imagine this simp still no learn after the interior decor scam yet he still go de send money give student..some guys brains you wonder Watin dey inside..just wait for sometime the mugu will come here again after some months to tell us another stupidity he did again as SIMPson general wey him be.. angry
Bro leave all these you are saying, it didnt happen to me, yes several girls have scammed me even of recent, but i didnt put up the story here

Any body can fall to scam, even if u arent into women, there are things u like and trust me u cant get scammed with it.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by AngelicBeing: 11:07am On Nov 12, 2024
Talkisneeded:
Your married friend?? We should start from there first...
Cheating on his woman and expecting truthfulness from his side-chick..
Corny man die, corny man bury am...

I sell herbs for sexual enhancement tho
Lol at your last sentence, that is regardless of the bulshit story, you still sell your herbs for sexual enhancement, Haha 😂
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Akalia(m): 11:08am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.
Your assertion is not quite accurate. That girl is wayward and she is not even into your guy.
Albeit I am married but there are single ladies who are so into me falling over heels for me. Always at my beck and call They would do anything to please me and I am not even a rich nigga, not yet.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by IamMobisola(f): 11:09am On Nov 12, 2024
advanceDNA:
Lol.. grin grin ..u women pretend alot, living in delusion and denial....so u have not seen side chic/mistress gladly sharing another woman's husband...u think every woman has the luxury of having her own rich husband??

So all these women, dating and birthing kids for married men nko??

Or U have not seen men with wife abroad and mistress in Nigeria, with apartment and kids??

Before u start calling pple foolish...mayb u should look at the mirror
What has a married man looking for loyalty from another woman got to do with the epistle you just wrote? Hmm, foolishness at its peak. No wonder lots of women are involved in DNA sagas. Y'all deserve each other and whatever you get.
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by advanceDNA: 11:10am On Nov 12, 2024
mrkings84:
ONLY ME AND THE OP KNOWS THAT THIS STORY IS NOT TRUE.
because Stvpid guys like that don't exist?? Or girls are kind and holy and will never do that to a guy??
Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Mariangeles(f): 11:11am On Nov 12, 2024
Veetee:
He actually thought of that. but you see it was a thing of ego. he was trying to impress her, she too on her part didnt act desperate for the money so he just sent her the money
So, he's beginning to question his self worth; what he has to offer asides money.
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