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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by NoToPile: 11:12am On Nov 12, 2024

Loool and loool.

Abeg I have laughed well this morning.

Kati Kati.

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by idahme(m): 11:13am On Nov 12, 2024

BItt:
This is perhaps the easiest money to get back... Simply speak to some of your friends in the police force if you have any. Or even walk up to and explain everything without hiding anything...
Let her explain herself...
What she played on you is obviously a romance scam.
She nursed you to the extent of sending upkeep and flight billing... My nigga no be only Oyinbo Dem dey bill for flight

It's a romance scammer, 80% of Nigerian ladies are romance scammers but we ain't ready for that discussion, if a man does it it's bad but we give excuses for the women

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by LordReed(m): 11:13am On Nov 12, 2024

Veetee:
If this was me I would gladly tell u , and nothing would happen. what is the point for me to lie, it will never be traced to me so why would i lie about it?

Dude it doesn't matter just accept you goofed. See this:

advanceDNA:
I know naaa..it showed later in story when he address himself instead of the so called friend.... He wrote that the babe was no longer interested in seeing "me" instead of "my friend"

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Germi9: 11:17am On Nov 12, 2024

advanceDNA:
I know naaa..it showed later in story when he address himself instead of the so called friend.... He wrote that the babe was no longer interested in seeing "me" instead of "my friend"

You are a wise man

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by DiskJokeyManic: 11:19am On Nov 12, 2024

Veetee:
He I actually thought of that. but you see it was a thing of ego. he I was trying to impress her, she too on her part didnt act desperate for the money so he i just sent her the money

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Omalicious1: 11:20am On Nov 12, 2024

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

What did I just read? To me, this is just a case of a Poverty Alleviation Program that has ran its course. The guy was the benefactor and the lady was the beneficiary. When they tell guys to avoid mentally broke ladies, they won't listen. Hence we have many noodle-back men today.

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Makapounse(m): 11:22am On Nov 12, 2024

So We still have MUMU guys these days sending money to ladies online ? No one will tell you to stop before you learn.
My candid coclusion after many years of experience on d field is
*Be dating beautifull ladies arround your vicinity , if the courage is not there , find someone you trust to help you
*Tell your Imam or your Pastor to help you look for lady among their members. These men of God wil gladly do it , only if you have pure mind (even for second or third wivws).
I'll be back to continue, let me drink water

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by advanceDNA: 11:22am On Nov 12, 2024

IamMobisola:
What has a married man looking for loyalty from another woman got to do with the epistle you just wrote? Hmm, foolishness at its peak. No wonder lots of women are involved in DNA sagas. Y'all deserve each other and whatever you get.

The problem with you is that u are talking out of your emotions and just throwing insult that means nothing.. you don't talk based on existing realities......u shouldn't be asking me this question....Ask your gender why they share other pples husband and even birth kids why they do it...
I mentioned earlier that not every woman has the luxury of having her own man ..and thats the fact ..some pple settle for sharing by being the mistress outside because it's the closest thing to marriage they will get.....

U are talking of .paternity fraud ....that's ur gender's normal behavior naaaaa weda married or single or side chic..even the women legally married at home commits paternity fraud so what's ur point??

..we have even seen many cases that the children the legal wife at home birthed are all paternity product but its the side mistress that birthed his biological kid....

See madam u nor get point...na insult u get

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by boxypane: 11:24am On Nov 12, 2024

randymirrors:
Why would you believe he got the money back? You're wiser than this naa.

Bros, doesn't he have the right to? Abi na UNICEF him be?

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by chidiokay: 11:24am On Nov 12, 2024

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket,. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

Going my your story and your conclusion is not "True" cos from your narrative someone that can send "320k to babe he as not met before is rich

Money is not the problem here, even the Yahoo boiz you so much reverred naa 1st impression, they spend to get to the lady pant after dat its one story or the other, infact the babe fit turn client, borrow me 100k i wan buy log in,e.t.c is coming cash out

i think the babe no just really dey into your guy, the interest no dey naa your Guy just dey force things, i see guys do these a lot, "force". if a babe wants you she will so much express it, women dont know how to hide feelings except the one wey no dey

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Nobody: 11:27am On Nov 12, 2024

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

serves him right

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by boxypane: 11:27am On Nov 12, 2024

IamMobisola:
Go and collect the full investment from her on his behalf na investor 🙄🙄

Na una set they shout what about the sex we had? Madam make she make full refund.

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by yomi531(m): 11:27am On Nov 12, 2024

advanceDNA:
So ..baba did u get ur money back or u just simp for nothing??

😅😅

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by chidiokay: 11:34am On Nov 12, 2024

phorget:
Imagine what a side chick is making your friend go through, sending 320k + 100k for a side chicks flight while millions are out there in need of supports. I really wish men could prioritize giving to the needy instead of wasting money on some side chicks.

lolz! very true ... that guy will have friends that will need money not up to 100k, he go tell dem country hard, business down

But if you hear amount men waste on fornication, sidechick, olosho n whatever ... i have a friend back in school i needed his help to balance my tution he say e no get naa woman i use collect the money from the idiot .. the babe send 200k u can imagine

Just pray God blesses you, dont need anybody

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by TemmyT002(m): 11:36am On Nov 12, 2024

It is irritating the way men spend so much on women just because of sex. Saḿe sex that other guys get for free from the same women.

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by malaria(f): 11:38am On Nov 12, 2024

A cheat must be cheated , a chaser must be insulted . Money wey you suppose use better your kit and kin .

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Talkisneeded(m): 11:41am On Nov 12, 2024

naturefellow:
cunning (for next time)

I'm actually very correct my bro...

I sell herbs sha

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Snowx: 11:43am On Nov 12, 2024

Any guy that send money to an online chick is very very stupid...thats real definition of simp.

Many of them in Tinder.na so one dey remind make I send her money to eat..as if she register on tinder to beg

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Talkisneeded(m): 12:01pm On Nov 12, 2024

AngelicBeing:
Lol at your last sentence, that is regardless of the bulshit story, you still sell your herbs for sexual enhancement, Haha 😂

Everyone with their primary concerns

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Bullhari: 12:03pm On Nov 12, 2024

Veetee:
She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me
.

Them done run my guy street.

You are your friend and there is no Canada in your life, neither did you send any 250k or 320k to anyone.

Na your small money for bus she done chop.

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by Chetas81(m): 12:10pm On Nov 12, 2024

DATE NIGERIAN GIRLS AT YOUR OWN RISK, BINGOS every corner of nigeria, looking for who to destroy

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by durentboi: 12:13pm On Nov 12, 2024

Reverseng:
Like attract like, opposite repels

You attract what you are not what you deserve and what you are is a product of all your current and past lives you've lived so far.

which one be current and past lives for here now?

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by poweredcom(m): 12:18pm On Nov 12, 2024

Savedday2:
Who know that NL Op wey want marry that girl, make e tell am to listen to advise B4 him life go turn upside down.

9ja girls are not marriage able. They are good for use and dump.

Baba you are back , keep preaching the sermon thread to thread

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by tunize(m): 12:22pm On Nov 12, 2024*

Girl when one bobo dey wire without spending shi shi e reach baba turn baba begin do Tf anyhow what a pity. No matter how expensive or whatever yeye level you think some girls have, there’s always one or two niggas banging without spending a dime. Simple rule make she like you nor be money be everything!

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by tunize(m): 12:27pm On Nov 12, 2024

Savedday2:
Who know that NL Op wey want marry that girl, make e tell am to listen to advise B4 him life go turn upside down.

9ja girls are not marriage able. They are good for use and dump.

Baba calm down use the word some abi you nor get sister for family? Are they not marriageable? Bad and good ppl dey everywhere. Las las na 9ja girl u go still marry 😂😂

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by IbeOkehie: 12:28pm On Nov 12, 2024

advanceDNA:
She should go to hell naaaa.....So all the other money nko?? Otilor?? Sigh!!

Btw..why u just sending money anyhow to a girl u met online and hasn't proven to valuable or loyal to you....u just opening urself to easy exploitation..... Do u just feel u have to pay a woman to make them think u are serious...? Paying makes them think u are mugú

Make a women like u first, see that she's really into you, before u start being nice with your urgent 5K

Heeeey, kini?

It's urgent 2K.

Let's all fight inflation...together.

Remember Nigeria is still a better place to live than US & UK. Ask the Anti-Jakpa Crew!!!

Good Luck to Nigeria

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by HollyKing001(m): 12:30pm On Nov 12, 2024

Veetee:
She sent back the money and said she isnt interested in seeing him anymore

With all due respect that's a lie. No 9ja girl go fit send that kind money no evidence.

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Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by IbeOkehie: 12:34pm On Nov 12, 2024

GloriousGbola:
all these silly made up stories for clicks and outrage

na oyibo dey give money to instagram or streaming on OF thot

nigerians will expect to see the person in person

more so when it is a standard yahoo scam of catfishing men

bull shit story.

You're right. I knew it was a tall tale when he wrote URGENT 5K. 😄 It's not that expensive in Nigeria abeg.

HollyKing001:
With all due respect that's a lie. No 9ja girl go fit send that kind money no evidence.

Exactly!

Good Luck to Nigerians

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by HollyKing001(m): 12:34pm On Nov 12, 2024

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

This your nigga deserve sanctions. How much him fit give you for this T-painous era wer him go the send to a bitch? Wetin man do man man self no know.

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by nairayouthcom(m): 12:35pm On Nov 12, 2024

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

To me, I prefer knacking those hookup than to have extra marital affairs

It saves a lot if you reason the matter deeply

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by stacyadams: 12:51pm On Nov 12, 2024

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

Male ur friend continue dashing hermoney grin

and should further train her to do masters and PhD join grin

Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by DigitB: 12:53pm On Nov 12, 2024

Simpanzees both you and your friend.

An indisciplined fọol your friends is.

He deserves everything the girl did to him.

Let him focus on his wife.

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