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Nowar:
Bros, left to these girls, which one should I choose, tbh I’ve dated a lot of girls before I narrowed down my options to this .

Nowar:
Good morning bosses.
I’m an old member of this forum ..
I need your advice on something. Pls it’s going to be a very long post. Luminous , jeshal007, dontrulee and others, pls I need you to read this.
I have been in relationship with this girl for 4 years, she’s a graduate and a 100/10 beauty wise .. when I
say beauty wise, Omo ehn she’ll be regarded as one of the most beautiful and attractive woman you’ll ever come across, , . Lol..
her cooking is 8/10..
respect 5/10..
Intelligence generally 5/10
Exposure 4/10( most of her exposure na wetin she dey read on phone lol)
Intelligence bookwise 4/10
A graduate .
Beautiful is honestly speaking 1000/10( imagine a Beyoncé and nenji put together )..
Age 23
Wealth - nil
She barely talks outside , infact people would say she’s proud lol.. but inside she can talk ehn,

Now here’s the thing, her mom has divorced twice , and she doesn’t have a good or bad relationship with her dad. Her dad married 4 women. And from little I’ve known, her dad is present in her life , sometimes they visit their dad during festive times..
When we met, I was not doing bad , although was still living with my parents, but from all indications , I was doing well by my age …


During the course of this four years , I have progressed tremendously , she among others influenced my decisions of going for my degree and moving out of my parents house. I had NATIONAL DIPLOMA when we met and was living in a room inside my parent house. she was running her degree then) . up till now, she barely knows net worth, I’ve always given her the impression that I am average money wise. In all honesty and to be fair , she’s not that money freak, but she’s stubborn.,


Due to her background, there has been many things off about her which I’ve been able to correct some. Before, during argument, she’ would talk back at me or go home or start crying .. I’ve been able to correct this after years… she’s the kind of person that’ll give you the impression that you can’t control her.. but the moment you start vexing or looking at her, she’ll adjust .. I’m yet to catch her cheating ( generally I don’t trust women) but tbh, I have not , sometimes I sneak around her phone and all that, but I stopped recently cos it makes me feel desperate and obsessive.

She’s caught me cheating once , and that was when we had issues, we didn’t see for like 3 weeks it was then i met one sweet nairaland babe lol.., my girl discovered and cried bitterly , she went to report me to my family ( my mom really really loves her ehn), they scolded me and she fell sick for like two weeks cos of this . She said something which I hold dear to my heart since then, she said ‘ even though she saw the evidence of cheating on my phone , that she’s still not going to believe if not that I confirmed it with my mouth’ she said was willing to die that I didn’t do it.,’

I learnt that even if a woman catches u live and direct doing something bad, baba still deny am o. lol



She’s open to me financially wise, infact she keeps her money with me and won’t take any decision concerning money without my knowledge. Shes stubborn o , except u change it for her, she no go hear word easily .. her mom and brothers really love me, especially her immediate brother … she’s currently doing her service and would travel every 2 weeks to meet me, infact she’ll lie at the school and visit me unannounced at my place ..


Let me put it like this, I make around 30-100k daily average na 60k most time sha ,
And I spend around 15-30k on her monthly .. the highest money I have spent on her at ago was 120k and 50k .. she’s spent on me too but it’s very little compared to mine.. highest she’s spent on me was 40k at a go, I’m 28 years.

Now this is the problem , I discovered that when she gained admission to school, she’s slept with an older man. And she’s had abortion for her ex. That was like two years before we met.. I narrowed down my search and discovered she’s no more in communication with them. She’s 23 years of age. And tbh, I love her but anytime I think of those things e Dey always pain me in silent …









..

When I was running my NG program, I knew this girl as a friend sister, she was around 16 or so then,she added me up and we would and jokes on Facebook.. she’ll subtly profess her love for me but I Dey always body shame her that she’s below my standard, she ended up blocking me and years later , she texted me on Facebook and we started talking .. she’s 21 now , look and appearance wise, she’s 2/10.. also her cooking is 1/10 tbh she’s not my type appearance wise , she studied nursing in school and she came visiting sometimes last year..

Beauty is 2/10
Cooking is 1/10
Respect 5/10
Intelligence bookwise 10/10
Intelligence generally 5/10
Bsc( nurse).
Age 21
Exposure 3/10
Wealth nil
She can talk anywhere.
I discovered that she’s a virgin , she won’t allow me to penetrate, she was asking me to make a promise that if I do it, I must marry her, bro no be say I get bad intentions towards her o but I no fit Dey promise woman cos of sex, she’s very small in stature and she also has daddy issues. Her mom has remarried she’s living with her stepdad,,, she said so many bad things about her dad and her stepdad, I tried to mediate and reconnect her to her dad but it didn’t work out.. my relationship with her is a long distance type but I LIKE HER TOO.. and she likes me a lots ehn..






the nairaland girl I met said she has 6 body counts ( she agreed to) but from my calculations and research, e go reach 17 ( no jokes).. said shes aborted twice for diff men.
she’s rich though and the smartest of them all, she’s very beautiful too, her beauty is 8/10.. she’s super extremely smart , business wise, mentally and emotionally. Infact she’s better than me at the emboldened.. she’s 25. All of dem are ready to say yes, if I Dey ready. Her mom has divorced too, but remarried ..

Beauty 8/10
Exposure 10/10
Cooking 100/10
Respect( 5/10)
Intelligence bookwise (4/10)
Intelligence generally Omo 1000/10
She has hnd
Age 25
She can talk anyhow and dress anyhow too.. not so modest but she’s willing to address that..
Wealth ( she’s doing very good, I mean very very good) she lives alone. Shes into business , atleast from what I know..
Non of these girls are really demanding financial wise( or let me say their demands no really mean anything to my finance tbh)..
Note, in the past four years I’ve dated atleast 30 girls , but these 3 made it to Final.. lol,
I live in north central ..

I won’t lie to you, Im tired, I’m looking forward to settle down anytime soon , I have the money…




Bros, left to these girls, which one should I choose, tbh I’ve dated a lot of girls before I narrowed down my options to this .

jayAjoku:
[b] anything you see them rant about online just know that the moment they drop their phones they’ll do the exact opposite. If she says she does not date broke boys online , she’s fucking them offline, if she says she cannot date a man without a car online , she’s dating multiple men without cars offline , if she says she has certain standards online, i can assure you she doesn’t have those standards offline.
Women are not concrete or stable people that’s why they seek that stability in men, so I wonder why some of you are not laughing when you see what these women are demanding online, I know of multiple girls demanding One thing online and acquiescing to the opposite offline. I know of many girls who say they hate Fûck boys online and are still fûcking those same Fûck boys offline . Don’t take what she says seriously she’s only talking in the moment. Most of you don’t know how much nonsense a womans emotions will make her say and do 🤣, you’d be shocked 🤣😂 , girl done ever come Bleep you because she hate you before ? 🤣😂 Wake up boys stop allowing their social media posts deceive you bro they’re not that happy or fly in real life

Streak47:
I keep learning the redpill from my religion every day. 'The most blessed marriage is the one that is of least expense'.

Nowar:
Good morning bosses.
I’m an old member of this forum ..
I need your advice on something. Pls it’s going to be a very long post. Luminous , jeshal007, dontrulee and others, pls I need you to read this.
I have been in relationship with this girl for 4 years, she’s a graduate and a 100/10 beauty wise .. when I
say beauty wise, Omo ehn she’ll be regarded as one of the most beautiful and attractive woman you’ll ever come across, , . Lol..
her cooking is 8/10..
respect 5/10..
Intelligence generally 5/10
Exposure 4/10( most of her exposure na wetin she dey read on phone lol)
Intelligence bookwise 4/10
A graduate .
Beautiful is honestly speaking 1000/10( imagine a Beyoncé and nenji put together )..
Age 23
Wealth - nil
She barely talks outside , infact people would say she’s proud lol.. but inside she can talk ehn,

Now here’s the thing, her mom has divorced twice , and she doesn’t have a good or bad relationship with her dad. Her dad married 4 women. And from little I’ve known, her dad is present in her life , sometimes they visit their dad during festive times..
When we met, I was not doing bad , although was still living with my parents, but from all indications , I was doing well by my age …


During the course of this four years , I have progressed tremendously , she among others influenced my decisions of going for my degree and moving out of my parents house. I had NATIONAL DIPLOMA when we met and was living in a room inside my parent house. she was running her degree then) . up till now, she barely knows net worth, I’ve always given her the impression that I am average money wise. In all honesty and to be fair , she’s not that money freak, but she’s ft to these girls, which one should I choose, tbh I’ve dated a lot of girls before I narrowed down my options to this .

Streak47:
I keep learning the redpill from my religion every day. 'The most blessed marriage is the one that is of least expense'.

jayAjoku:
The sad thing is most of you are still taking what women say and post online seriously 🤣😂😂 . And the fact that you are taking it seriously shows you don’t know that women will always say one thing online and do another thing offline. It’s sad sha cuz most of you are not learning from the thread you’re only here to validate your hate and disdain for women 🤣😂. Don’t regard whatever these bitches say online, they’re only saying those things to trigger Simps and catch new customers

JESHAL007:
@Martinez39s
Kai, the truth is that most men are not emotionally prepared for relationship, they have an over idealised expectation of their woman, as if they are not human beings and can't succumb to temptations and weaknesses, it is very painful seeing your wife treated like a common whorre in the bush, redpill is not saying this won't happen to you because you Sabi game, redpill is just exposing the dirty linen of society, hidden secrets, hidden truths, I wish her husband would recover from the heartbreak, marriage destroyed

Every man always thinks his babe is different, the exception to the rule, NAWALT, Kai it's because they are in love and they have to trust her to invest in her, so they have an unrealistic idealised expectation from her

Typical chronic onetitis

Nowar:
Good morning bosses.
I’m an old member of this forum ..
I need your advice on something. Pls it’s going to be a very long post. Luminous , jeshal007, dontrulee and others, pls I need you to read this.
I have been in relationship with this girl for 4 years, she’s a graduate and a 100/10 beauty wise .. when I
say

dontrulee:
You're very right.
Most of the sex I have had with ladies were unexpected and unplanned even to myself. For example, we could have a disagreement that would make the lady extremely angry and she may even block me off social media but when I visit or meet in person, we eventually end up on the bed. This has personally happened to me more than ten times and I've come to understand the psychology behind it. Ladies are emotional beings and their emotions lead them more than their reasoning does. Ladies say one thing and do another. There's one of my platonic friends who was very religious but celibate who condemned me for sleeping with various ladies and cohabiting with some of them, the funny thing was that after some weeks of condemning cohabitation she herself was later cohabiting with a guy. I just laughed and said women! I played my game well and this girl that swore that she'll never have sex with me was the one later begging for my dick . That's one of the reasons I don't really take women serious, especially when they talk or make promises. If I as a man make promises and barely keep them, why should I trust the words of a woman.

MetalJigsaw:
You still dey here??😮

Nowar:
Good morning bosses.
I’m an old member of this forum ..
I need your advice on something. Pls it’s going to be a very long post. Luminous , jeshal007, dontrulee and others, pls I need you to read this.
I have been in relationship with this girl for 4 years, she’s a graduate and a 100/10 beauty wise .. when I
say beauty wise, Omo ehn she’ll be regarded as one of the most beautiful and attractive woman you’ll ever come across, , . Lol..
her cooking is 8/10..
respect 5/10..
Intelligence generally 5/10
Exposure 4/10( most of her exposure na wetin she dey read on phone lol)
Intelligence bookwise 4/10
A graduate .
Beautiful is honestly speaking 1000/10( imagine a Beyoncé and nenji put together )..
Age 23
Wealth - nil
She barely talks outside , infact people would say she’s proud lol.. but inside she can talk ehn,

Now here’s the thing, her mom has divorced twice , and she doesn’t have a good or bad relationship with her dad. Her dad married 4 women. And from little I’ve known, her dad is present in her life , sometimes they visit their dad during festive times..
When we met, I was not doing bad , although was still living with my parents, but from all indications , I was doing well by my age …


During the course of this four years , I have progressed tremendously , she among others influenced my decisions of going for my degree and moving out of my parents house. I had NATIONAL DIPLOMA when we met and was living in a room inside my parent house. she was running her degree then) . up till now, she barely knows net worth, I’ve always given her the impression that I am average money wise. In all honesty and to be fair , she’s not that money freak, but she’s stubborn.,


Due to her background, there has been many things off about her which I’ve been able to correct some. Before, during argument, she’ would talk back at me or go home or start crying .. I’ve been able to correct this after years… she’s the kind of person that’ll give you the impression that you can’t control her.. but the moment you start vexing or looking at her, she’ll adjust .. I’m yet to catch her cheating ( generally I don’t trust women) but tbh, I have not , sometimes I sneak around her phone and all that, but I stopped recently cos it makes me feel desperate and obsessive.

She’s caught me cheating once , and that was when we had issues, we didn’t see for like 3 weeks it was then i met one sweet nairaland babe lol.., my girl discovered and cried bitterly , she went to report me to my family ( my mom really really loves her ehn), they scolded me and she fell sick for like two weeks cos of this . She said something which I hold dear to my heart since then, she said ‘ even though she saw the evidence of cheating on my phone , that she’s still not going to believe if not that I confirmed it with my mouth’ she said was willing to die that I didn’t do it.,’

I learnt that even if a woman catches u live and direct doing something bad, baba still deny am o. lol



She’s open to me financially wise, infact she keeps her money with me and won’t take any decision concerning money without my knowledge. Shes stubborn o , except u change it for her, she no go hear word easily .. her mom and brothers really love me, especially her immediate brother … she’s currently doing her service and would travel every 2 weeks to meet me, infact she’ll lie at the school and visit me unannounced at my place ..


Let me put it like this, I make around 30-100k daily average na 60k most time sha ,
And I spend around 15-30k on her monthly .. the highest money I have spent on her at ago was 120k and 50k .. she’s spent on me too but it’s very little compared to mine.. highest she’s spent on me was 40k at a go, I’m 28 years.

Now this is the problem , I discovered that when she gained admission to school, she’s slept with an older man. And she’s had abortion for her ex. That was like two years before we met.. I narrowed down my search and discovered she’s no more in communication with them. She’s 23 years of age. And tbh, I love her but anytime I think of those things e Dey always pain me in silent …









..

When I was running my NG program, I knew this girl as a friend sister, she was around 16 or so then,she added me up and we would and jokes on Facebook.. she’ll subtly profess her love for me but I Dey always body shame her that she’s below my standard, she ended up blocking me and years later , she texted me on Facebook and we started talking .. she’s 21 now , look and appearance wise, she’s 2/10.. also her cooking is 1/10 tbh she’s not my type appearance wise , she studied nursing in school and she came visiting sometimes last year..

Beauty is 2/10
Cooking is 1/10
Respect 5/10
Intelligence bookwise 10/10
Intelligence generally 5/10
Bsc( nurse).
Age 21
Exposure 3/10
Wealth nil
She can talk anywhere.
I discovered that she’s a virgin , she won’t allow me to penetrate, she was asking me to make a promise that if I do it, I must marry her, bro no be say I get bad intentions towards her o but I no fit Dey promise woman cos of sex, she’s very small in stature and she also has daddy issues. Her mom has remarried she’s living with her stepdad,,, she said so many bad things about her dad and her stepdad, I tried to mediate and reconnect her to her dad but it didn’t work out.. my relationship with her is a long distance type but I LIKE HER TOO.. and she likes me a lots ehn..






the nairaland girl I met said she has 6 body counts ( she agreed to) but from my calculations and research, e go reach 17 ( no jokes).. said shes aborted twice for diff men.
she’s rich though and the smartest of them all, she’s very beautiful too, her beauty is 8/10.. she’s super extremely smart , business wise, mentally and emotionally. Infact she’s better than me at the emboldened.. she’s 25. All of dem are ready to say yes, if I Dey ready. Her mom has divorced too, but remarried ..

Beauty 8/10
Exposure 10/10
Cooking 100/10
Respect( 5/10)
Intelligence bookwise (4/10)
Intelligence generally Omo 1000/10
She has hnd
Age 25
She can talk anyhow and dress anyhow too.. not so modest but she’s willing to address that..
Wealth ( she’s doing very good, I mean very very good) she lives alone. Shes into business , atleast from what I know..
Non of these girls are really demanding financial wise( or let me say their demands no really mean anything to my finance tbh)..
Note, in the past four years I’ve dated atleast 30 girls , but these 3 made it to Final.. lol,
I live in north central ..

I won’t lie to you, Im tired, I’m looking forward to settle down anytime soon , I have the money…




Bros, left to these girls, which one should I choose, tbh I’ve dated a lot of girls before I narrowed down my options to this .

jayAjoku:
Did you miss me ?

jayAjoku:
A woman is a tool waiting to be used, The Bible calls her a Help meet. Now I’m not religious but I love wisdom and the bible contains a lot of it as well as other books. A woman is supposed to be brought into your life to help you achieve the things you want to achieve, this is a deep thing, A Man offers a woman the opportunity to fulfill her purpose if she’s not helping you she’s helping someone else, she has to constantly be put to good use , think about it her purpose is to be useful, She is a tool in your hands if you know how the tool in your hands operates.

Streak47:
We can learn a lot from nature and as well objectively from religion and religious text.

When we go back to the story of the first man Adam, peace be upon him by Abrahamic religious books. So God created Adam; and Adam had his Purpose.

So we can say there was a deep relationship between Adam and God. And Satan was envious.

Now God created woman(Eve) as a companion for Adam to help his Purpose.

I believe somehow Adam might have lost focus on God and his Purpose focusing more on Eve and Satan got to Adam using Eve.

Isn't this a RedPill**. And this scenario keeps repeating from one son of man to another.

If you see yourself Simping just go back to your primary purpose. To serve God and your Purpose. Women will automatically submit to you when they sense this aura that you aren't pedestalizing her. I believe every man has his purpose on earth and women can sense if you aren't pursuing your purpose but pursuing them.

Nowar:
Good morning bosses.
I’m an old member of this forum ..
I need your advice on something. Pls it’s going to be a very long post. Luminous , jeshal007, dontrulee and others, pls I need you to read this.
I have been in relationship with this girl for 4 years, she’s a graduate and a 100/10 beauty wise .. when I
say beauty wise, Omo ehn she’ll be regarded as one of the most beautiful and attractive woman you’ll ever come across, , . Lol..
her cooking is 8/10..
respect 5/10..
Intelligence generally 5/10
Exposure 4/10( most of her exposure na wetin she dey read on phone lol)
Intelligence bookwise 4/10
A graduate .
Beautiful is honestly speaking 1000/10( imagine a Beyoncé and nenji put together )..
Age 23
Wealth - nil
She barely talks outside , infact people would say she’s proud lol.. but inside she can talk ehn,

Now here’s the thing, her mom has divorced twice , and she doesn’t have a good or bad relationship with her dad. Her dad married 4 women. And from little I’ve known, her dad is present in her life , sometimes they visit their dad during festive times..
When we met, I was not doing bad , although was still living with my parents, but from all indications , I was doing well by my age …


During the course of this four years , I have progressed tremendously , she among others influenced my decisions of going for my degree and moving out of my parents house. I had NATIONAL DIPLOMA when we met and was living in a room inside my parent house. she was running her degree then) . up till now, she barely knows net worth, I’ve always given her the impression that I am average money wise. In all honesty and to be fair , she’s not that money freak, but she’s stubborn.,


Due to her background, there has been many things off about her which I’ve been able to correct some. Before, during argument, she’ would talk back at me or go home or start crying .. I’ve been able to correct this after years… she’s the kind of person that’ll give you the impression that you can’t control her.. but the moment you start vexing or looking at her, she’ll adjust .. I’m yet to catch her cheating ( generally I don’t trust women) but tbh, I have not , sometimes I sneak around her phone and all that, but I stopped recently cos it makes me feel desperate and obsessive.

She’s caught me cheating once , and that was when we had issues, we didn’t see for like 3 weeks it was then i met one sweet nairaland babe lol.., my girl discovered and cried bitterly , she went to report me to my family ( my mom really really loves her ehn), they scolded me and she fell sick for like two weeks cos of this . She said something which I hold dear to my heart since then, she said ‘ even though she saw the evidence of cheating on my phone , that she’s still not going to believe if not that I confirmed it with my mouth’ she said was willing to die that I didn’t do it.,’

I learnt that even if a woman catches u live and direct doing something bad, baba still deny am o. lol



She’s open to me financially wise, infact she keeps her money with me and won’t take any decision concerning money without my knowledge. Shes stubborn o , except u change it for her, she no go hear word easily .. her mom and brothers really love me, especially her immediate brother … she’s currently doing her service and would travel every 2 weeks to meet me, infact she’ll lie at the school and visit me unannounced at my place ..


Let me put it like this, I make around 30-100k daily average na 60k most time sha ,
And I spend around 15-30k on her monthly .. the highest money I have spent on her at ago was 120k and 50k .. she’s spent on me too but it’s very little compared to mine.. highest she’s spent on me was 40k at a go, I’m 28 years.

Now this is the problem , I discovered that when she gained admission to school, she’s slept with an older man. And she’s had abortion for her ex. That was like two years before we met.. I narrowed down my search and discovered she’s no more in communication with them. She’s 23 years of age. And tbh, I love her but anytime I think of those things e Dey always pain me in silent …









..

When I was running my NG program, I knew this girl as a friend sister, she was around 16 or so then,she added me up and we would and jokes on Facebook.. she’ll subtly profess her love for me but I Dey always body shame her that she’s below my standard, she ended up blocking me and years later , she texted me on Facebook and we started talking .. she’s 21 now , look and appearance wise, she’s 2/10.. also her cooking is 1/10 tbh she’s not my type appearance wise , she studied nursing in school and she came visiting sometimes last year..

Beauty is 2/10
Cooking is 1/10
Respect 5/10
Intelligence bookwise 10/10
Intelligence generally 5/10
Bsc( nurse).
Age 21
Exposure 3/10
Wealth nil
She can talk anywhere.
I discovered that she’s a virgin , she won’t allow me to penetrate, she was asking me to make a promise that if I do it, I must marry her, bro no be say I get bad intentions towards her o but I no fit Dey promise woman cos of sex, she’s very small in stature and she also has daddy issues. Her mom has remarried she’s living with her stepdad,,, she said so many bad things about her dad and her stepdad, I tried to mediate and reconnect her to her dad but it didn’t work out.. my relationship with her is a long distance type but I LIKE HER TOO.. and she likes me a lots ehn..






the nairaland girl I met said she has 6 body counts ( she agreed to) but from my calculations and research, e go reach 17 ( no jokes).. said shes aborted twice for diff men.
she’s rich though and the smartest of them all, she’s very beautiful too, her beauty is 8/10.. she’s super extremely smart , business wise, mentally and emotionally. Infact she’s better than me at the emboldened.. she’s 25. All of dem are ready to say yes, if I Dey ready. Her mom has divorced too, but remarried ..

Beauty 8/10
Exposure 10/10
Cooking 100/10
Respect( 5/10)
Intelligence bookwise (4/10)
Intelligence generally Omo 1000/10
She has hnd
Age 25
She can talk anyhow and dress anyhow too.. not so modest but she’s willing to address that..
Wealth ( she’s doing very good, I mean very very good) she lives alone. Shes into business , atleast from what I know..
Non of these girls are really demanding financial wise( or let me say their demands no really mean anything to my finance tbh)..
Note, in the past four years I’ve dated atleast 30 girls , but these 3 made it to Final.. lol,
I live in north central ..

I won’t lie to you, Im tired, I’m looking forward to settle down anytime soon , I have the money…




Bros, left to these girls, which one should I choose, tbh I’ve dated a lot of girls before I narrowed down my options to this .

Kingzjayzee:
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Somtie24: Pay attention to how your mother-in-law treats her husband-it could be a preview of how your wife might treat you.

Dean: Never marry a woman who doesn't speak good about her Dad.
Chances are high that you won't be able to please her as a man.

single stitch clothing: never marry the woman who doesn't want you to look good.

JESHAL007:
@Martinez39s
Kai, the truth is that most men are not emotionally prepared for relationship, they have an over idealised expectation of their woman, as if they are not human beings and can't succumb to temptations and weaknesses, it is very painful seeing your wife treated like a common whorre in the bush, redpill is not saying this won't happen to you because you Sabi game, redpill is just exposing the dirty linen of society, hidden secrets, hidden truths, I wish her husband would recover from the heartbreak, marriage destroyed

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