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I like to hear from my fellow guy/men, why they always fume and showing resentment, whenever they hear/ read this clause. " TREAT YOUR TREAT YOUR WIFE THE WAY YOU WANT YOUR SON-IN- LAWS TO TREAT YOUR OWN DAUGHTER.

.....they say they want just society and beautiful marriage, but they would only be happy, wen you only talk down on women but keep mute on man, even if it's obvious that it's the man that goes wrong.

How is it possible, wen you treat wife like rags and expected to be treated like king in return.


Some would say they cherish to sleep with uncountable girls, yet would still be the one advocating for Virgin as a bride.

Where is correlation and logic in that school of thought?

Fiscus105:
Some would say they cherish to sleep with uncountable girls, yet would still be the one advocating for Virgin as a bride.

Where is correlation and logic in that school of thought?

Some mentally disordered folks here on Nairaland are so messed up with such cognitive dissonance, with an added layer of value dissonance......they would be wobbling around threads, flying the "advocacy" while at the same time see nothing out of place with their own hypersexualized lives.

Fiscus105:
I like to hear from my fellow guy/men, why they always fume and showing resentment, whenever they hear/ read this clause. " TREAT YOUR TREAT YOUR WIFE THE WAY YOU WANT YOUR SON-IN- LAWS TO TREAT YOUR OWN DAUGHTER.

.....they say they want just society and beautiful marriage, but they would only be happy, wen you only talk down on women but keep mute on man, even if it's obvious that it's the man that goes wrong.

How is it possible, wen you treat wife like rags and expected to be treated like king in return.


Some would say they cherish to sleep with uncountable girls, yet would still be the one advocating for Virgin as a bride.

Where is correlation and logic in that school of thought?

You cannot sleep with many girls, including your wife and have the respect and power to treat her well.

How much worse when the same pig still went as far as having sex with her father/uncle/cousin and the father too had sex with her.

Fiscus105:
I like to hear from my fellow guy/men, why they always fume and showing resentment, whenever they hear/ read this clause. " TREAT YOUR TREAT YOUR WIFE THE WAY YOU WANT YOUR SON-IN- LAWS TO TREAT YOUR OWN DAUGHTER.

.....they say they want just society and beautiful marriage, but they would only be happy, wen you only talk down on women but keep mute on man, even if it's obvious that it's the man that goes wrong.

How is it possible, wen you treat wife like rags and expected to be treated like king in retu
Some would say they cherish to sleep with uncountable girls, yet would still be the one advocating for Virgin as a bride.

Where is correlation and logic in that school of thought?

Your yeye thread makes it look like men are always the problem.
It's like you haven't been around in Nigeria to notice that women are responsible for most of the marital problems in the country
This thread will only encourage them to persevere in the path of stupidity and arrogance they've already chosen.

And with the way you champion women issues, I'm sure you're a woman who decided to parade herself as a man.
If you're a man, that would be very unfortunate, because you would be the greatest simp that ever lived.

Dtruthspeaker:
You cannot sleep with many girls, including your wife and have the respect and power to treat her well.

How much worse when the same filthyrich pig still went as far as having sex with her father/uncle/cousin and the father too had sex with her.

But ur fellow men, are advocating for that, and for few of us who trying to be neutral, ur fellow guys, nicknamed us SIMP

Fiscus105:
But ur fellow men, are advocating for that, and for few of us who trying to be neutral, ur fellow guys, nicknamed us SIMP

Don't mind them

Free2Fly:
Your yeye thread makes it look like men are always the problem.
It's like you haven't been around in Nigeria to notice that women are responsible for most of the marital problems in the country
This thread will only encourage them to persevere in the path of stupidity and arrogance they've already chosen.

And with the way you champion women issues, I'm sure you're a woman who decided to parade herself as a man.
If you're a man, that would be very unfortunate, because you would be the greatest simp that ever lived.

You men too are also a contributory. This is where you see its their past sins that is dealing with him.

@Free2Fly:



Someone says:
1. Treat your wife the way you want your son-in-law to treat your daughter and you go on a rant.

2. You can't treat your wife like a slave and expect to be treated like a king.

3. You can't advocate happy marriages yet be mute when the man is wrong and become a bulldog when the woman is wrong.

4. You can't sleep around with women and demand virgin women especially if a lot of men in your society think like you.

And what is your response?

The quote below:

Free2Fly:
Your yeye thread makes it look like men are always the problem.
It's like you haven't been around in Nigeria to notice that women are responsible for most of the marital problems in the country
This thread will only encourage them to persevere in the path of stupidity and arrogance they've already chosen.

And with the way you champion women issues, I'm sure you're a woman who decided to parade herself as a man.
If you're a man, that would be very unfortunate, because you would be the greatest simp that ever lived.

At no point did he infer that men cause more problems in marriages or that women are saints.

His tread can be summarised as: if you claim to be an advocate of good, happy marriages, you need to treat women fairly.

Na wetin dey give you headache so.

Are you anti good, happy marriages? You don't want o treat your wife well? You want to always blame women for martial issues even when a man is the problem in that situation? You want to sow promiscuity and reap purity?

Or what is your issue with the thread?

This should be interesting

Just be a good person generally, it’s not too much to ask

Hmmm…

Also treat your husband the way you want your daughter to treat her husband.

Good.


ALSO, TREAT YOUR HUSBAND THE WAY YOU'LL WANT YOUR SON TO BE TREATED.

DON'T LIVE A WAYWARD LIFE SLEEPING AROUND IN YOUR PRIME, AND NOW EXPECT YOUR HUSBAND TO RESPECT YOU WHEN YOU GET MARRIED AFTER HE FINDS OUT....
If you want a loyal and committed husband, you too be loyal and committed during courtship...

MOST OF YOU ARE ONLY SUFF IN YOUR MARRIAGE DUE TO WHAT YOU'VE DONE BEFORE MARRIAGE...

RESPECT YOURSELF

RESPECT WHO PASS YOU

RESPECT YOUR HUSBAND

COMRADES, nice piece of advice, women beaters hope you have taken note

This post is not for girls with numerous ex before marriage...

This post is not for cheats

This post is not for oloshos

This post is not for girls who don't respect their husband

THIS POST IS NOT FOR GIRLS THAT HAVE DATED MARRIED MEN BEFORE MARRIAGE.

IF YOU DIDN'T RESPECT SOMEONE'S MARRIAGE BEFORE GETTING MARRIED, YOUR OWN MARRIAGE WILL NOT BE RESPECTED TOO.

YOU CAN'T LIVE A WAYWARD LIFE BEFORE MARRIAGE AND NOW EXPECT YOUR HUSBAND TO BE LOYAL AND COMMITTED TO YOU NOW...

WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND.

What if God blesses me with boys only? Ask them women same pls

Wife too, have the fear of God so that Ogun no go kee you. Most women are vagabonds.

The OP is mentally unstable

That's if she treats me the way she'll want her brother's wives to treat her brothers

this useless fiscus who is a female parading as a male....useless idiot....looking fr innocent men to prey on


Why don't u also treat ur husband the same way u want ur sons to be treated....animal

Rubbish, so naa only man go dey treat woman well every time

Ijaya123:
Hmmm…

Also treat your husband the way you want your daughter to treat her husband.

No it's women should treat their husband the way they want their daughter inlaw to treat their own sons

This statement is why a lot of people and not just men are in a dire situation. That's not how life works. You don't be good because you expect it from others, you are good because you can and want to. Also, "what goes around comes around" and "what goes up must come down" is a huge lie. It may never come around and the latter is for gravity.

This thread is only for those who have female daughters. Not for us who are very okay with our male sons I'm out!

Orlu13:
this useless fiscus who is a female parading as a male....useless idiot....looking fr innocent men to prey on


Why don't u also treat ur husband the same way u want ur sons to be treated....animal

You dey mind the Tomboy?

Your thread says "Treat your wife as you want your daughter to be treated" and u are talking about logic

Sir, your subject is not logical, nor is it a product of school of thought. No, no critical thinking will make u create such thread

You should have wrote "Treat ur spouse as you want ur child to be treated"

Do women treat their husbands as they wish their sons be treated?

Think about plants nd defenseless animals, do u treat dem rightfully they way u profess ur human rights? Wishes and reality are never thesame
No mother will want her son to be killed even if he's a terrorist, nd also all mothers won't mind a terrorist close to their children being killed

So u see, ur question should be about hypocrisy in all humans nd not a gender issue

That is what critical thinking is about.

My prayer everyday is to never have a female child

OP and Nigerian feminists always looking for ways to excuse garbage character and bad attitude of Naija Women.

Why not train your daughter to be a good wife husband is happy to come home to meet after the day's hustle.

Anyways, Husbands, Love your Wife, and Wives be submissive to your Husbands.

We wey no get daughter nko?

Five sons still looking for daughter

Fiscus105:
I like to hear from my fellow guy/men, why they always fume and showing resentment, whenever they hear/ read this clause. " TREAT YOUR TREAT YOUR WIFE THE WAY YOU WANT YOUR SON-IN- LAWS TO TREAT YOUR OWN DAUGHTER.

.....they say they want just society and beautiful marriage, but they would only be happy, wen you only talk down on women but keep mute on man, even if it's obvious that it's the man that goes wrong.

How is it possible, wen you treat wife like rags and expected to be treated like king in return.


Some would say they cherish to sleep with uncountable girls, yet would still be the one advocating for Virgin as a bride.

Where is correlation and logic in that school of thought?

...

Google the meaning of " lack of peace of mind"...then come back to as me how you want a devil to be treated

bukatyne:
@Free2Fly:



At no point did he infer that men cause more problems in marriages or that women are saints.

His tread can be summarised as: if you claim to be an advocate of good, happy marriages, you need to treat women fairly.

Na wetin dey give you headache so.

Are you anti good, happy marriages? You don't want o treat your wife well? You want to always blame women for martial issues even when a man is the problem in that situation? You want to sow promiscuity and reap purity?

Or what is your issue with the thread?

That is exactly what he meant. Nd no one is against happy marriages, or don't you want to treat your husband well too?

And who says only men are d problem in marital situation? Even talking about promiscuity when the latest rate of gender cheat has 400 women to one man

Upstairs

Downstairs


Anywhere


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