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Found Love In Paris,all Ended As Soon As It Started Due To Distance. by SeaTrade(op): 11:57am On Nov 17, 2024
This is a beautiful story,I'm healing from it small small and trying to move on with my life.
Not long ago ,was headed to Europe for business.
Flew Airfrance,landed in Paris and due to the fact that I arrived Paris late,I missed my connecting flight and somehow all I could get was a 14hr layover to catch another flight undecided (story for another day).
Lazied around,smoke cigars,shayo,tried to get airport hotel(I no carry card cos I thought I didn't need it ),they declined cash shocked .Was tired,exhausted and felt filthy.
Anyways,boarding time reach and at the gate,I saw the most beautiful piece of black art I've ever seen in my life.
Dark,sweet,round bright eyes,short haired,active and smart looking French girl.
She had a catchy backpack on her and as I dey try get scope to toast am,the backpack says something that is in my line of work.
So with this,topic Don dey nau,
I rush block am,greeted,ask why her bag says that and she told me she works there,I did too in Africa,
Conversations continued,asked for her number,she gave me a code to scan to get her whatsapp number (I never see those pattern before undecided ) ,so I did but at this point, we'd already started descending to our gate so i was losing coverage on airport WiFi,
So I bone,told her I'd do it when we arrive our destination cos I'm still transiting so I'm not fully setup,she say no wahala. (Note that I was still indifferent about getting her or not at this point cos there's no connection yet.Throughout the flight,my eyes dey on her,As plane land I already hold my bag dey fly out so I don't lose her.
We reach PoE,she fly pass as EU citizen, mama weh dey counter dey ask me stupid questions, I dey boil,she sef dey gimme attitude, who send am?shior.I answer all her questions, she stamped me in,
If you see as I take fly go carousel eh,so that I go catch up with bag and I did.Thank god say bag boys be slow that day.
Connected to airport WiFi,got her whatsapp,offered her a ride cos my guys came to pick me in style,so I want use style show her say boy guide small grin ,she declined, asked me the part of the city I was going,told her and she said it wasn't her route bla bla bla...I asked her out to dinner the following day and she said we'll see...
We bade our goodbyes and went our separate ways.(I was still indifferent about her here cause I know women,e fit no come).
Omo after series of meetings,work and waka about ,headed back to my hotel,now I've met and reconvene with my guys,we've talked about a lot of things and about her too,
I texted her,she obliged and asked me if it was okay if she came with a friend?I said fantastic!
Omo you need to see as guys dey happy grin
Got there,she and her friend came ,was a lovely experience,before you know it,we started kissing deep passionate kisses right in front of everyone mehn,guys couldn't believe it.I mean French kiss and that girls lips soft like banana.
The friend come dey worry am say she want go,we went to see her off,she left and this time we continued again outside, bro I kiss this girl,press yarnsh, romance am ,all my preeq Don stand ,the girl Don dey already moan for kiss,I know say everywhere ripe.
She had already confided in me that she brought the friend so she won't make any bad decisions,
So not to come off as a user,I didn't push to take her to my hotel cos I thought there'd genuinely be a next time(big mistake).
So I took her to her bicycle and watch her ride into the night,
That'd be the last time I'd ever see her,
I don't even have a picture of us together cos I thought the dinner was just the beginning of a plethora to come,so guy man compose .
She only exists in my memory.
It was Halloween week,she told me she can't come to anymore outings with me cos she'd be welcoming someone for the season,
And I was to leave before end of Halloween back to 9ja,so no more chances with her.
Tried to keep things alive from a distance, mama deny say e no work for her right now.
I want die kai!!!
I be suppose carry that girl by fire by force,go hotel,show am say I be African stallion then pour everything in me inside and prays she falls pregnant,
The outcome would've been way different on God.
Well,I hope fate brings us together again,
Re: Found Love In Paris,all Ended As Soon As It Started Due To Distance. by Macktaob(m): 12:19pm On Nov 17, 2024
SeaTrade:
I want die kai!!!
I be suppose carry that girl by fire by force,go hotel,show am say I be African stallion then pour everything in me inside and prays she falls pregnant,
The outcome would've been way different on God.
Well,I hope fate brings us together again,
Quite enjoyable to read. cheesy SeaTrade dey claim “love”, be like he mix the spelling of “lust” up. grin

But on a serious note, I think this one mistake we men make or men’s natural faulty sense of judgement which is we thinking “being considerate to women’s desires/wants” is reasonable. We always forget that that gender is never reasonable and they hate taking responsibility. They prefer to claim they “got carried away”, “didn’t know what came over them”, “they got coerced into it or forced” rather than making it seem like they wanted it to.

Why was she all over you in public on the second day of meet, first day of proper meet/date, in the presence of others and her friend?! She even let her friend leave alone, didn’t they come together, wasn’t she there for a purpose, was the purpose fully achieved while she leaving?! No of course, meaning it’s all just to not take responsibility for that all night fantasizing she done get of SeaTrade’s black D over night if it eventually had come to reality.

But baba eff up, he go play gentleman. cheesy
Na to go listen to “Gentleman” and “Shakara” by Fela again. wink
Re: Found Love In Paris,all Ended As Soon As It Started Due To Distance. by SeaTrade(op): 12:31pm On Nov 17, 2024
Macktaob:
Quite enjoyable to read. cheesy SeaTrade dey claim “love”, be like he mix the spelling of “lust” up. grin

But on a serious note, I think this one mistake we men make or men’s natural faulty sense of judgement which is we thinking “being considerate to women’s desires/wants” is reasonable. We always forget that that gender is never reasonable and they hate taking responsibility. They prefer to claim they “got carried away”, “didn’t know what came over them”, “they got coerced into it or forced” rather than making it seem like they wanted it to.

Why was she all over you in public on the second day of meet, first day of proper meet/date, in the presence of others and her friend?! She even let her friend leave alone, didn’t they come together, wasn’t she there for a purpose, was the purpose fully achieved while she leaving?! No of course, meaning it’s all just to not take responsibility for that all night fantasizing she done get of SeaTrade’s black D over night if it eventually had come to reality.

But baba eff up, he go play gentleman. cheesy
Na to go listen to “Gentleman” and “Shakara” by Fela again
. wink
The signs were all there that she knew what she came for ,I got it to be honest.
But a lot happened during dinner.
First of all she held her conversations very well when we were talking business,likewise her friend.
She didn't act slutty,was respectful ,mannered and open to conversations with everyone on a friendly level,she naturally let me lead ,told people that wanted to "know her more" to get whatever knowledge they need of her from me,etc...omo,my head swell and I begin see future asap angry
I think her problem is that we will lead nowhere and she's 27.
She wanted the D for the night and a man to call her own in the real sense of the word,
To her ,all I could've offered was the former and I messed it up,so what's there to meet up on again?
Don't know what I was thinking honestly.
Nigerian in Nigeria dating a YOUNG girl in Europe from Nigeria,nah...chances are too slim.
Everything changed when she asked me at dinner when I'd be leaving and I said couple of days.
That was when she made up her mind to just have fun with me and move on ,then I blew it,fantasising over rubbish angry
Re: Found Love In Paris,all Ended As Soon As It Started Due To Distance. by Carndidlaydid(f): 12:42pm On Nov 17, 2024
May you never heal ijn... Wicked inconsiderate animals in human clothing...

Trying to cloud his lust with love... Bloody wolf.. you carried this your terrible habit from naija enter France...

After all your sexcapade on that thread you think you can find love? Never.. hopefully and ipray the day you find one will be the day you meet your demise...
Re: Found Love In Paris,all Ended As Soon As It Started Due To Distance. by Macktaob(m): 1:00pm On Nov 17, 2024
[quote author=Carndidlaydid post=132912723][/quote]@Rocktation
@dominique
@farano
Re: Found Love In Paris,all Ended As Soon As It Started Due To Distance. by Carndidlaydid(f): 2:41pm On Nov 17, 2024
Macktaob:
@Rock.tation
@domin.ique
@faran.o
So you could their attention to what exactly.... undecided undecided

Typical of you men
Re: Found Love In Paris,all Ended As Soon As It Started Due To Distance. by emyjapan(m): 2:47pm On Nov 17, 2024
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Re: Found Love In Paris,all Ended As Soon As It Started Due To Distance. by DonroxyII: 12:13am On Nov 19, 2024
SeaTrade:
The signs were all there that she knew what she came for ,I got it to be honest.
But a lot happened during dinner.
First of all she held her conversations very well when we were talking business,likewise her friend.
She didn't act slutty,was respectful ,mannered and open to conversations with everyone on a friendly level,she naturally let me lead ,told people that wanted to "know her more" to get whatever knowledge they need of her from me,etc...omo,my head swell and I begin see future asap angry
I think her problem is that we will lead nowhere and she's 27.
She wanted the D for the night and a man to call her own in the real sense of the word,
To her ,all I could've offered was the former and I messed it up,so what's there to meet up on again?
Don't know what I was thinking honestly.
Nigerian in Nigeria dating a YOUNG girl in Europe from Nigeria,nah...chances are too slim.
Everything changed when she asked me at dinner when I'd be leaving and I said couple of days.
That was when she made up her mind to just have fun with me and move on ,then I blew it,fantasising over rubbish angry
The Nigerian in You Failed The French In Her grin ...
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