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Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Ashirioluwa: 12:03am On Nov 17, 2024
Treat your husband the way you want your son to be treated
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by WeirdAlien: 1:08am On Nov 17, 2024
If you treat your wife badly your daughter will go one of two ways -
1. Believe it's normal for women to be treated unfairly and she would end up and stay in an abusive marriage.
2. Believe all men are scum and in the effort to keep her head up, become a problem for any man that comes her way.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Goddyrichie(m): 1:51am On Nov 17, 2024
Fiscus105:
I like to hear from my fellow guy/men, why they always fume and showing resentment, whenever they hear/ read this clause. " TREAT YOUR TREAT YOUR WIFE THE WAY YOU WANT YOUR SON-IN- LAWS TO TREAT YOUR OWN DAUGHTER.

.....they say they want just society and beautiful marriage, but they would only be happy, wen you only talk down on women but keep mute on man, even if it's obvious that it's the man that goes wrong.

How is it possible, wen you treat wife like rags and expected to be treated like king in return.


Some would say they cherish to sleep with uncountable girls, yet would still be the one advocating for Virgin as a bride.

Where is correlation and logic in that school of thought?
where d guy wey dey post if ur wife is not a virgin don’t marry her like say he papa marry he mama as a virgin leave ham like that even in Moses days I’m not sure they is a lot of virgin talk less of now that everything have been worse just pray for a good woman that’s all I hv to say
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by smallsmall: 3:13am On Nov 17, 2024
Fiscus105:
I like to hear from my fellow guy/men, why they always fume and showing resentment, whenever they hear/ read this clause. " TREAT YOUR TREAT YOUR WIFE THE WAY YOU WANT YOUR SON-IN- LAWS TO TREAT YOUR OWN DAUGHTER.

.....they say they want just society and beautiful marriage, but they would only be happy, wen you only talk down on women but keep mute on man, even if it's obvious that it's the man that goes wrong.

How is it possible, wen you treat wife like rags and expected to be treated like king in return.


Some would say they cherish to sleep with uncountable girls, yet would still be the one advocating for Virgin as a bride.

Where is correlation and logic in that school of thought?
In addition, Wives should treat their Mother-in-Law, the way they want to be treated by their Son's Wife.
Wives should treat their Husband, the way they want their daughter-in-Law to treat their Son and the way they want their Son-in-Law to treat their Daughter.

Your Daughters are watching the way you treat their Father, they are watching your "escapades" with other Men, when he is not around and you think they are not learning from you?

Issorite.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Newton1045: 4:51am On Nov 17, 2024
Truly.

A very powerful statement.

All men have women in their live, even the callous wicked one.

U do general nacking for somebody Dota, ur Dota, sister or niece may go through same
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Hussein035: 5:15am On Nov 17, 2024
incogni2o:
OP and Nigerian feminists always looking for ways to excuse garbage character and bad attitude of Naija Women.

Why not train your daughter to be a good wife husband is happy to come home to meet after the day's hustle.

Anyways, Husbands, Love your Wife, and Wives be submissive to your Husbands.
I perceived that YOU and some people who have been complaining about this thread, all of you going against it never treat girlfriends/wife with any form of fear of God or even ever put them in the shoe of your daughter

My own is any family where the spouse beats each other even once in their history, my unborn children will never have my consent to marry in such family
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by SAMBARRY: 5:55am On Nov 17, 2024
Free2Fly:
Your yeye thread makes it look like men are always the problem.
It's like you haven't been around in Nigeria to notice that women are responsible for most of the marital problems in the country huh
This thread will only encourage them to persevere in the path of stupidity and arrogance they've already chosen.

And with the way you champion women issues, I'm sure you're a woman who decided to parade herself as a man.
If you're a man, that would be very unfortunate, because you would be the greatest simp that ever lived.
na them.by their opinions you shall recognise them. So identify what the op said that was wrong

I'm sure you wanted to read beat your wife,starve her of affection,be selfish, unreasonable and narcissistic.

No grow up you here,be calling reasonable men that are better and wiser than you Simpson because you have character issues that you failed to admit
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by HausaIgboYoruba: 6:08am On Nov 17, 2024
Free2Fly:
Your yeye thread makes it look like men are always the problem.
It's like you haven't been around in Nigeria to notice that women are responsible for most of the marital problems in the country huh
This thread will only encourage them to persevere in the path of stupidity and arrogance they've already chosen.

And with the way you champion women issues, I'm sure you're a woman who decided to parade herself as a man.
If you're a man, that would be very unfortunate, because you would be the greatest simp that ever lived.
bitte, stop gaslighting the op.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Fryx:
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Nnamdipapa(m): 7:00am On Nov 17, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
You cannot sleep with many girls, including your wife and have the respect and power to treat her well.

How much worse when the same pig still went as far as having sex with her father/uncle/cousin and the father too had sex with her.
Are you on drugs, wtf are you yapping about?
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by WeddingParol: 7:09am On Nov 17, 2024
Mindlog:
Some mentally disordered folks here on Nairaland are so messed up with such cognitive dissonance, with an added layer of value dissonance......they would be wobbling around threads, flying the "advocacy" while at the same time see nothing out of place with their own hypersexualized lives. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Is that enough reason to open your legs for every man that comes your way?


The fact that prostitution is a trend should not add any woman with virtues and self respect to the league. Same for men
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Mindlog: 7:24am On Nov 17, 2024
WeddingParol:
Is that enough reason to open your legs for every man that comes your way?


The fact that prostitution is a trend should not add any woman with virtues and self respect to the league. Same for men
Have you asked yourself why it is okay for you to be a satyromaniac, thirsting to insert yourself inside every woman that passes your way?
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by NamelessOGBENI(m): 7:40am On Nov 17, 2024
While I understand your POV, I've never seen a wild animal avoid you because you're a vegatarian.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by aswani(m): 8:09am On Nov 17, 2024
Fiscus105:
TREAT YOUR TREAT YOUR WIFE THE WAY YOU WANT YOUR SON-IN- LAWS TO TREAT YOUR OWN DAUGHTER.

Where is correlation and logic in that school of thought?
I am going to change this slightly:

Bring up your daughter in the way you wish your wife were brought up.

Some women were brought up in an environment that results in them being toxic and lacking decorum (as were some men too) and no matter how well they are treated, that attribute will manifest itself.

If you, as a father, can ensure the apple falls far from the tree and bring up your own daughter(s) in a way that they display little or none of your wife's traits described above, you would have done well.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by WeddingParol: 8:09am On Nov 17, 2024
Mindlog:
Have you asked yourself why it is okay for you to be a satyromaniac, thirsting to insert yourself inside every woman that passes your way?
Not everyman is a dog and likewise not every woman is a bitch.

There are values divinely placed on every woman that demand decency from the women.

If a woman did not consent to a sexual relationship, it is regarded as rape which the entire society is geared to fight all around the world. When most women decide to close their legs, most men will have no choice than to comport themselves. Anything outside that could land the man in jail.

Why do you think the social vices promoters target women?

Why do you think the devil went for Eve first ?


Women are the pillars of every home, a well trained woman is a well trained society.

Take away the decency of a woman and have the society become what we have today.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Mindlog: 8:27am On Nov 17, 2024
WeddingParol:
Not everyman is a dog and likewise not every woman is a bitch.

There are values divinely placed on every woman that demand decency from the women.

If a woman did not consent to a sexual relationship, it is regarded as rape which the entire society is geared to fight all around the world. When most women decide to close their legs, most men will have no choice than to comport themselves. Anything outside that could land the man in jail.

Why do you think the social vices promoters target women?

Why do you think the devil went for Eve first ?


Women are the pillars of every home, a well trained woman is a well trained society.

Take away the decency of a woman and have the society become what we have today.
How a man's self control around sex is tied to a woman's refusal, is a wonderment!

So if a woman throws herself at you for sex, you owe yourself no obligation to say NO?

Decency is not gender based, it is collective. When we have men and women who are well trained, we will have better homes and better trained society.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Solseal007: 9:35am On Nov 17, 2024
You can't give ppl what they don't deserve!
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by aswani(m): 9:55am On Nov 17, 2024
Solseal007:
You can't give ppl what they don't deserve!
Well said, another reason why I haven't allowed Obidients to frustrate me away from this place, it's little nuggets like this.

Some will blow grammar in two or three wordy paragraphs, you have just posted a line of less than ten words and made more sense.

Thank you.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Dtruthspeaker: 10:40am On Nov 17, 2024
Nnamdipapa:
Are you on drugs, wtf are you yapping about?
See you obviously are in primary school therefore you do not understand what is going on nor understand what i am talking about. And most importantly, my post was not addressed to you, so you are the one who jumping into what you do not understand.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Exceed15: 11:01am On Nov 17, 2024
If she's submissive and respectful.. absence of that I can even send her packing if she's frustrating my life.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by stasius: 12:16pm On Nov 17, 2024
WRONG!

Some people treat their daughters like animals.

It should be: TREAT YOUR WIFE THE WAY YOU WILL LIKE TO BE TREATED.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Sunmolar(m): 12:46pm On Nov 17, 2024
Most people don't know the terror of emotional treatment meted on husbands...a good girl attract a good boy.... The moment one of the two turns bad ...the soup get sour.... it's not always bird of roses... your strength will be tested over and over
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by aswani(m): 2:09pm On Nov 17, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
See you obviously are in primary school therefore you do not understand what is going on nor understand what i am talking about. And most importantly, my post was not addressed to you, so you are the one who jumping into what you do not understand.
I am not saying you are Believeintruth, however I find your writing mannerism quite similar.

This is the third moniker with the word "truth" in it that effectively quacks like a duck called Believeintruth.

Dey play oga.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by naijanaso: 3:04pm On Nov 17, 2024
Treat your husband the way you would also want another woman to treat your son
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Dtruthspeaker: 3:28pm On Nov 17, 2024
aswani:
I am not saying you are Believeintruth, however I find your writing mannerism quite similar.

This is the third moniker with the word "truth" in it that effectively quacks like a duck called Believeintruth.

Dey play oga.
So every moniker with "Truth" is that guy?
Clearly you are a silly child!
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by aswani(m): 4:52pm On Nov 17, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
So every moniker with "Truth" is that guy?
Clearly you are a silly child!
You are right and normally I should say my dear friend Believeintruth is not that stupid but....
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by bukatyne(f): 4:55pm On Nov 17, 2024
stasius:
WRONG!

Some people treat their daughters like animals.

It should be: TREAT YOUR WIFE THE WAY YOU WILL LIKE TO BE TREATED.
cheesy
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Believeintruth: 4:59pm On Nov 17, 2024
aswani:
You are right and normally I should say my dear friend Believeintruth is not that stupid but....
You are so scared that you want me to react. But trust me I will get you when I want to.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Nnamdipapa(m): 5:49pm On Nov 17, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
See you obviously are in primary school therefore you do not understand what is going on nor understand what i am talking about. And most importantly, my post was not addressed to you, so you are the one who jumping into what you do not understand.
A functional illiterate questioning the education acumen of his betters.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by incogni2o:
Hussein035:
I perceived that YOU and some people who have been complaining about this thread, all of you going against it never treat girlfriends/wife with any form of fear of God or even ever put them in the shoe of your daughter

My own is any family where the spouse beats each other even once in their history, my unborn children will never have my consent to marry in such family
Rather Pray for your unborn children to be well cultured and accept good home training.

Not be an emotional burden on thier partners due to the above
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Maeve7: 11:00pm On Nov 17, 2024
Solseal007:
You can't give ppl what they don't deserve!
Then choose a wife who is deserving or remain single.
Re: "Treat Your Wife The Way You Want Your daughter to be treated by Solseal007: 7:58am On Nov 18, 2024
Maeve7:
Then choose a wife who is deserving or remain single.
Physician heal thyself
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