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Good day house, pls I am an introvert seeking help with my relationship. I'm a quiet person by nature and I find it hard to engage in small talk .The girl I like also seems interested but I am very worried that my quiet attitude might make her lose interest. So pls is it possible for an quiet introvert to keep a relationship being himself or do I need to talk more?

victory36:
Good day house, pls I am an introvert seeking help with my relationship. I'm a quiet person by nature and I find it hard to engage in small talk .The girl I like also seems interested but I am very worried that my quiet attitude might make her lose interest. So pls is it possible for an quiet introvert to keep a relationship being himself or do I need to talk more?

Be comfortable in your own skin. If she loves you she will stay

If she doesn't, there are over 2 million single beautiful women in Nigeria alone that are same age range as you. Some of those women will like you as you are


It's if you keep fearing that she will sense you don't love yourself and this may cause her to want to go.

Attachment is suffering. Have a free mind in life, what's meant for you won't stress you

J2ff:
Be comfortable in your own skin. If she loves you she will stay

If she doesn't, there are over 2 million single beautiful women in Nigeria alone that are same age range as you. Some of those women will like you as you are


It's if you keep fearing that she will sense you don't love yourself and this may cause her to want to go.

Attachment is suffering. Have a free mind in life, what's meant for you won't stress you

thank you very much for your advice

victory36:
Good day house, pls I am an introvert seeking help with my relationship. I'm a quiet person by nature and I find it hard to engage in small talk .The girl I like also seems interested but I am very worried that my quiet attitude might make her lose interest. So pls is it possible for an quiet introvert to keep a relationship being himself or do I need to talk more?

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How old are you

Sirchiboy:
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How old are you

24years

victory36:
24years

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What do you do for a living!

Go for your type, your shyness would eventually merge

Those who are shy are somehow respectful

Sirchiboy:
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What do you do for a living!

i work as a cook at a restaurant

Be yourself! That is the first rule of success. Don't try to impress those that see things from different angles, your results will draw them to you. Fish can not compete on soil because it's not it strength, while lion can fly like eagles in the air.

I'm also a quite person that like privacy, even that's my strength. I always get good ideas, get things done, when I'm alone. (My phone is my best friend)

Though, work to improve on Interpersonal relationships, read books on that subject. Google about what you wish to do, like you want to attend events, how to behave in that event. I was also shying in toasting ladies ( but different stories on Nairaland.com help me to know better and do it easily)

I still like privacy (I was indoor since Thursday to today Monday) but now, once I'm out I play very much, and talk with facts because I use my privacy to read alot.

Mumu, if she loves you, she'll come.