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I'm about to date a single mom
She's trying to fend for herself and daughter though she has the hustling spirit
Does it make sense to as a struggling guy just starting life

Any advise for me

holarmylekan:
I'm about to date a single mom
She's trying to fend for herself and daughter though she has the hustling spirit
Does it make sense to as a struggling guy just starting life

Any advise for me

Do not do it if you are planning to marrying her or staying for a long term relationship. If it is for short time dating only, then go ahead.
Instead find you a single woman with no kids to date. A single mum should date a single dad- the equation is balance

atoliman:
Do not do it if you are planning to marrying her or staying for a long term relationship. If it is for short time dating only, then go ahead.
Instead find you a single woman with no kids to date. A single mum should date a single dad- the equation is balance

God bless you

holarmylekan:
I'm about to date a single mom
She's trying to fend for herself and daughter though she has the hustling spirit
Does it make sense to as a struggling guy just starting life

Any advise for me

I pity your innocent family. I want to believe they have other sons they can look up to cos you're gone already.

atoliman:
Do not do it if you are planning to marrying her or staying for a long term relationship. If it is for short time dating only, then go ahead.
Instead find you a single woman with no kids to date. A single mum should date a single dad- the equation is balance

That's it o. Don't even date her

All hands are not equal
Dating her might bring you fortune and you might be unfortunate dating her as well
What matters are,the behavior and characters she has
Be good to her if she is good to you
Don't come here complaining she is not good when you are not any better

Abort mission if you don't want to grow older that your age.

Game never start Dem don dey lead you 1-0

Tips kho, clues ni

Sorry, no advice for you.

holarmylekan:
I'm about to date a single mom
She's trying to fend for herself and daughter though she has the hustling spirit
Does it make sense to as a struggling guy just starting life

Any advise for me

Depends on your age and level of maturity. You are probably just starting life

portacabin:
Depends on your age and level of maturity. You are probably just starting life

Yes sir though employed as a public servant

First she will force you to take the child as your own. your existence is already threatened

Solofresh2:
All hands are not equal
Dating her might bring you fortune and you might be unfortunate dating her as well
What matters are,the behavior and characters she has
Be good to her if she is good to you
Don't come here complaining she is not good when you are not any better

Ok sir

Zonefree:
I pity your innocent family. I want to believe they have other sons they can look up to cos you're gone already.

I'm the only son

Nicepoker:
First she will force you to take the child as your own. your existence is already threatened

That's my issue
I'm not sure I can take in the child if we get married
She seems nice

holarmylekan:
I'm the only son

That's a huge tragedy.

Zonefree:
That's a huge tragedy.

😀😀😀
Oga mhi you're making look like a death sentence....

holarmylekan:
That's my issue
I'm not sure I can take in the child if we get married
She seems nice

Tell her to send the child to the dad. If she insists on keeping the child with her. Abort mission. She is not nice she is only looking for a retirement home.

Zonefree:
That's a huge tragedy.

Guy you no nice at all

Nicepoker:
Tell her to send the child to the dad. If she insists on keeping the child with her. Abort mission. She is not nice she is only looking for a retirement home.

Hmmm 😎
90% she won't but I will try to set boundaries....

holarmylekan:
😀😀😀
Oga mhi you're making look like a death sentence....

Dem no dey tell deaf person say war don start.

holarmylekan:
Hmmm 😎
90% she won't but I will try to set boundaries....

Abort that mission. Don't put yourself in a catch 22 situation.

holarmylekan:
I'm about to date a single mom
She's trying to fend for herself and daughter though she has the hustling spirit
Does it make sense to as a struggling guy just starting life

Any advise for me

same here brother.
She's currently serving and will be completing her nysc soon and we just started going out recently but realized she already has a daughter and said she's scared I'll leave her..

holarmylekan:
That's my issue
I'm not sure I can take in the child if we get married
She seems nice

Since you can't accept her daughter it's best for you to just end this relationship

Zonefree:
Dem no dey tell deaf person say war don start.

true

Once the deaf man see people running

E go follow miaa

Ebenezer2021:
same here brother.
She's currently serving and will be completing her nysc soon and we just started going out recently but realized she already has a daughter and said she's scared I'll leave her..

she is only manipulating u if she is not a virgin leave her alone and let her be SIMPle man

TheBreastSucker:
Since you can't accept her daughter it's best for you to just end this relationship

I meant I'm not sure that I bring the daughter in to live together still considering it very much sir

My only advice for dating single mothers is ;

PUMP AND DUMP

Error, Error, Error.. don't date a struggling single mother.

holarmylekan:
That's my issue
I'm not sure I can take in the child if we get married
She seems nice

The first law in keeping a single mum loyal is, love her daughter more than her

All problems with single mom on relationship starts with the thinking of alienating the daughter from the relationship

holarmylekan:
I'm the only son

A minute of silence then.

holarmylekan:
That's my issue
I'm not sure I can take in the child if we get married
She seems nice

..They are all nice......The niceness is a smoke screen..I dont blame them though ....It's not easy for them to find husband....they cannot add too much shakara into the mix.....

See ehn... single mothers date for one primary purpose...to bankroll her and her kid's expense....love and companionship is 50/50.. again i don't blame them..it's a survival mechanism

So understand u are in a love triangle where the child comes first, her second, and u last...

the survival of the relationship largely rest on u taking care of her, her kid and loving the kid even more than her ......
..if baby daddy is still is around....it's a love rectangle.....where the kid comes first, her second, the baby daddy next, then you last...

...this is standard....once u know the above u can manage wateva comes including the baby daddy sleeping with your woman.....u go dey alright if u get plenty money