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I don't have any friends
Not in a relationship
I have addictions.
I always buy fake things with big money more like I am always cheated.

I don't have good cloths even with the fact that I spend a lot on clothes.
When I try my best to get a good cloth they don't fit. Or the tailor will make an oversized cloth or under sized cloth.
My shoes don't last 1 months before they start chopping off at the sole.

I buy things that end looking like a waste I.e they
spoil quickly or get faded... Even when I don't have enough money

I am skinny even when I try my best to eat a lot so I can add just a little weight.
Not the most attractive
I don't do things perfectly.
I make mistakes.

I

I am just tired of all this.

Omo, i think many people are in this same predicament too. But you just have to ponder it in your heart. No one cares!

OP, since 2019, i have never bought new clothes.

Rearealki:
I don't have any friends
Not in a relationship
I have addictions.
I always buy fake things with big money more like I am always cheated.

I don't have good cloths even with the fact that I spend a lot on clothes.
When I try my best to get a good cloth they don't fit. Or the tailor will make an oversized cloth or under sized cloth.
My shoes don't last 1 months before they start chopping off at the sole.

I buy things that end looking like a waste I.e they
spoil quickly or get faded... Even when I don't have enough money

I am skinny even when I try my best to eat a lot so I can add just a little weight.
Not the most attractive
I don't do things perfectly.
I make mistakes.

I

I am just tired of all this.

Rearealki:
I don't have any friends
Not in a relationship
I have addictions.
I always buy fake things with big money more like I am always cheated.

I don't have good cloths even with the fact that I spend a lot on clothes.
When I try my best to get a good cloth they don't fit. Or the tailor will make an oversized cloth or under sized cloth.
My shoes don't last 1 months before they start chopping off at the sole.

I buy things that end looking like a waste I.e they
spoil quickly or get faded... Even when I don't have enough money

I am skinny even when I try my best to eat a lot so I can add just a little weight.
Not the most attractive
I don't do things perfectly.
I make mistakes.

I

I am just tired of all this.

You have filled your life with negativities
You have become the negativities

So you don’t see anything good about yourself?
The way you carry and see yourself is the reason you don’t have friends, no one wants a person that has negativities as his/her lifestyle

Why no see the good about you and change your own perception about yourself.
What you wrote up there is worrisome, I’m sure your self esteem is 0.

If you desire change, first purge your mind and rid it off all those nonsense you wrote.

ukaface:
You have filled your life with negativities
You have become the negativities

So you don’t see anything good about yourself?
The way you carry and see yourself is the reason you don’t have friends, no one wants a person that has negativities as his/her lifestyle

Why no see the good about you and change your own perception about yourself.
What you wrote up there is worrisome, I’m sure your self esteem is 0.

If you desire change, first purge your mind and rid it off all those nonsense you wrote.

Maybe....

ukaface:
If you desire change, first purge your mind and rid it off all those nonsense you wrote.

this your response shows why you can not be a good counsellor or a leader. If your own brother or work colleague comes to you with such real life issues, this is how you will address it.

AllBlack:
this your response shows why you can not be a good counsellor or a leader. If your own brother or work colleague comes to you with such real life issues, this is how you will address it.

Eiyaaa( make I no just talk Wetin Dey my mind)
You wey be the good leader and counsellor , what is your advice?

ukaface:
You have filled your life with negativities
You have become the negativities

So you don’t see anything good about yourself?
The way you carry and see yourself is the reason you don’t have friends, no one wants a person that has negativities as his/her lifestyle

Why no see the good about you and change your own perception about yourself.
What you wrote up there is worrisome, I’m sure your self esteem is 0.

If you desire change, first purge your mind and rid it off all those nonsense you wrote.

Well I know this my self esteem is cooked...
But!!!!?