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Gadafii:
To that man that was asking what's the best country to send his wife to, he earns 1.5 million in Nigeria

This and many more are the stories we hear about Nigerian women on a daily, I am not saying you shouldn't develop your wife oo, but kele Keke oo

The point is that, just as all men are not the same, so also,all women are not.

Words carved in gold

Fahvvy:
Stories like this are becoming far too common in recent times to ignore ...

Before now, I advice men to build their woman to the highest possible standard, but with stories like this, I think its time to reconsider ...

Men, whatever level her father didn't take her to, it's not your responsibility to take her there ...

Most modern women are not worth your sacrifice at all! ...

It's better you rare pigs, than to build the average modern woman ...

Tallesty1:
A family joined hands together to send their son abroad so that when ground level for him, he will now take his sister. The guy got there and the first thing he did when ground level for am was to send for his girlfriend to join body with him there.


Men are stupid.

Conji na bastard

Tallesty1:
A family joined hands together to send their son abroad so that when ground level for him, he will now take his sister. The guy got there and the first thing he did when ground level for am was to send for his girlfriend to join body with him there.

Men are stupid.

Na girlfriend go satisfy his konji not his sister.Men should be careful when choosing a life partner,choose a kind amd loving woman not gold diggers,narcissists or self-centred people.Marry or date a woman who loves you unconditionally and vice versa.

Dawn91:
Stop lying failed blogger!!! It was his friends colleague!!! They werent friends and the person telling the story is npt Nigerian!!!

stop stealing content to create fake posts

You are right, but the victim (Mr Yusuf) is a Nigerian and I would suspect he's a Yoruba man too. I saved the video on my Instagram.

He has long torn his brotherhood membership card.

He could not even suffer for his mama. No wonder

idahme:
Stupid is an understatement,a woman can never do that never in this life, very pathetic

Women do that too.

Fahvvy:
Stories like this are becoming far too common in recent times to ignore ...

Before now, I advice men to build their woman to the highest possible standard, but with stories like this, I think its time to reconsider ...

Men, whatever level her father didn't take her to, it's not your responsibility to take her there ...

Most modern women are not worth your sacrifice at all! ...

It's better you rare pigs, than to build the average modern woman ...

You can now see reason why in Islam shari'ah we don't change our wives surname

This is because they have the right to divorce not to talk of ordinary acquaintance that we are calling girl friend. If a woman divorced up to 5 husband will she keep changing name?

Men must learn to understand their limits especially in those stupid woke countries where your wife will cheat and you must because not to provoke her anger 🤬

Sparrk007:
The only way to build a woman is to give her belle then keep her for house as housewife

I swear it brother man. You be real G. Once woman wey you dey feed skin fresh pass your own she go dey find who him skin fresh pass her own .

Nahunger:
Poor girls should marry poor men, rich men should marry rich girls.

Stay in your class, no more handouts for Nigerian girls.

It's still you men that change this narrative

spiceadole:
It's still you men that change this narrative

I'm responsible for my actions, I'm not responsible for what every black adult male does.

Am me, not you men...

DyshApp:
A man recounts how his Nigerian colleague, Yusuf, got dumped by his wife whose law degree he had been working 24 hours every day to sponsor.

The man shared this while advising people not to build up a lady, especially when she is below you.

He noted that at the place he used to work, he had a Nigerian colleague who was always working round the clock without stop.

According to him, he had to ask him on a particular day, why he was always working long and hard, taking extra shifts.

The Nigerian man told him that he was doing it all for his family whose needs he was trying to fulfill.

The man revealed that he came to work on a certain day and couldn’t find Yusuf.

When he asked what had happened, they recounted how his wife had left him after securing her law degree.

It was said that the wife told him that she is no longer on same level with him now that she has her law degree, and is a lawyer, and he, a common man.

He revealed that the Nigerian man lost his wits, taking to alcohol.

I am not justifying her actions, but men also do similar thing. And the truth is that the woman will still take the blame.

Tayorshd87:
May God bless you and your experience.

Many men do see red flags but u see that thing call Love 💕 ehn 🤔 he go make Dem no look or take d red flag serious until some will borrow millions to do elaborated wedding after a year he go crash 🤔

Same thing sending them abroad all in the name of love ..


Self development is d best because people can change with time .

I can already tell you are a man with a sense of focus, most men settle for less, it’s only a female that would have literally nothing, have the mindset of a pauper but would still expect a King as a partner, men should stop dating women who are not in the same social class as them, if she doesn’t have or cannot offer on the same level, she would ruin you, this is someone who would train your kids, she doesn’t have the knowledge you have to build this kids…I laugh at men who would be in a committed relationship and start cutting off other females, the moment a woman knows she’s the only option, she would ride you especially if you didn’t make her earn that spot, im not saying you should be sleeping with other females but have other options, whether female friends and potentials, you would be surprised that there are other females out there who have the qualities you are trying to build in that your own woman…stop settling for less, women don’t settle for less!!! Stop dating broke women who have nothing to offer!!! They would ruin your mental health and feed your kids ignorance

ChangedMan1999:
Associate Professor Hagler, in our 100lv told a story like this. After a man trained his wife in the university and law school the woman did not divorce him but sued him to court.



It seems like God created woman just to keep man in check, from attaining a godlike asset or features.

The christian bible tells us how God created so many languages to so the men building the Babel tower won't reason alike, and continue with their mighty project.

So, if you ask me I will tell you that God knows the capability of man, and just like the bible says God is a jealous God, he created women so to slow men down from

abegggii make we hear word. Men gave been giving women different types of breakfast in relationships the sky didn't fall down,now this small ordinary breakfast he wan run mad

When wome collect breakfast and they warn other younger women to be careful you call them bitter feminist for recruiting and canvassing for other women to be like them.so should we now call this one a bitter manist or has he dated the whole Nigerian women to come to this conclusion or he dated the wrong woman.

Shiorrr

If I were the fool, I would not complain to any body but I would do exactly what one of my relatives did when similar thing happened to him. I would send an incurable madness to her and that would end the whole episode.

The Wife should have poisoned the fool before leaving him...
He is a useless animal .. may misery be on him till god knows when ..
That fool now has a younger brother and sister that needs his help but he helped a so called Wife...

Nonsense..
Kudos to the wife for dumping the fool

Sparrk007:
The only way to build a woman is to give her belle then keep her for house as housewife

May the Almighty that you serve Bless you in multiple folds...

ukaface:
Does this extends to daughters or just spouse/ partner/ wife?

U know what I m talking about. Y il boyfriend send lady to school ? Make she go make her Papa send am to school.

FORWARDEVERLY:
The Wife should have poisoned the fool before leaving him...
He is a useless animal .. may misery be on him till god knows when ..
That fool now has a younger brother and sister that needs his help but he helped a so called Wife...

Nonsense..
Kudos to the wife for dumping the fool

I hope you're not married and I'd advise you not to bother getting married because you'll not have a happy marriage.

Your comment tells me that you'd subconsciously consider your wife as an outsider or worse an "enemy" who doesn't deserve anything good.

Tallesty1:
A family joined hands together to send their son abroad so that when ground level for him, he will now take his sister. The guy got there and the first thing he did when ground level for am was to send for his girlfriend to join body with him there.

Point of correct not all are Men are stupid.

But the guy in particular is stupid

like tech bros everywhere, seun has decided that pandering to far right incels is great for clicks and for business - even if it sends society to shit

completely at odds with his sure home adverts

Saw it on Instablog Naija. Good for him. We have advised our fellow men several time but they will not listen. Men keep saying that they don't care about a woman's money, intellect or status in society as long as she's loyal and submissive. Well, that's the problem. You have no standards and they (women) know it. Ask yourself a very serious question, if the roles were reversed, would she do the same? Hell no. Women are more logical than men. They will NEVER settle for less.

How many times have you heard/seen a Nigerian woman sponsor her man abroad? How many times have you heard of a Nigerian lady overseas coming home to pick a husband? They would rather die single than try such. How many times have you heard of a woman who has a car dating a man on leggediz benz? Never. Even that illiterate girl from your village that you think is a "wifey material" would never settle for you if the roles were reversed. Many men are stupid and not logical.

Nahunger:
🤣🤣🤣🤣

It is easier for a camel to pass through the eyes of a needle 💉 that to see a naija girl with all these features you are looking for.

Na y I still dey single,seaching and stranded.


Buh even Jesus no marry,so who am I?

Aparche:
I hope you're not married and I'd advise you not to bother getting married because you'll not have a happy marriage.

Your comment tells me that you'd subconsciously consider your wife as an outsider or worse an "enemy" who doesn't deserve anything good.

I'm married already with two kids...
And I treat my wife as I should, which is "someone beneath me" ..
Your wailings won't change how I run my home..
If you control your husband na your win..
I can't simp like your papa

stacyadams:


Na y I still dey single,seaching and stranded.


Buh even Jesus no marry,so who am I?

Even devil, angels, Elijah, Enouck all no get wife

Nahunger:
Even devil, angels, Elijah, Enouck all no get wife

.. u see am

Thank you for the words of encouragement..




You are far too kind

stacyadams:
.. u see am

Thank you for the words of encouragement..




You are far too kind

Our creator get son, but no wife

Nahunger:
Our creator get son, but no wife

Make I find way get son....I gats keep our creator flag flying

Whether you train her or not, once a woman level passes your own, she will dump you.

As a man, once your woman's level passes your own she will dump you.
She may stay with you for the sake of the children but from her behavior you will realize that she is no longer value you.

[quote author=Tallesty1 post=132937290]A family joined hands together to send their son abroad so that when ground level for him, he will now take his sister. The guy got there and the first thing he did when ground level for am was to send for his girlfriend to join body with him there

Body no be firewood, na coal igniter E be