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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Acekidc4(m): 6:40pm On Nov 23, 2024
Stolen:
TRY NOT TO SOUND LIKE A POVERTY STRICKEN MOFO
It's Simpleton like you that use 20M to marry a useless woman into your house just for the woman to bring everlasting chaos into your life and divorce you last last or start sleeping around with your neighbors, driver or gateman.

I pity you simpleton like seriously
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 6:42pm On Nov 23, 2024
Ernesthugo:
such a weak man naso he go run from maternal hospital bill.
a winner stays and fight till the end
Objectivist04:
Am telling you, imagine how the family will feel after seeing this list trending on social media.
HE DOES NOT EVEN VALUE THE GIRL.

THE DISRESPECT HE IS SHOWING, WOULD EVENTUALLY BE EXTENDED TO HER.

THEY DODGED THE BULLET ON THIS ONE.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by gadgethead: 6:42pm On Nov 23, 2024
TheBillyonaire:
Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.

This your excuse cannot stick. Did the groom's parents not spend millions for his upbringing too? Thank God not all cultures practice this extortion
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 6:44pm On Nov 23, 2024
Acekidc4:
It's Simpleton like you that use 20M to marry a useless woman into your house just for the woman to bring everlasting chaos into your life and divorce you last last or start sleeping around with your neighbors, driver or gateman.

I pity you simpleton like seriously
U SEE, THAT IS PRECISELY THE POINT.


U WANT TO MARRY A WOMAN THAT YOU CALL USELESS.



A WOMAN THAT U DONT VALUE.


FROM THE TIME U ARE HANDED THE LIST, A FAMILY WITH A KEEN EYE WILL ACCESS YOUR RESPONSE.


EVEN IF YOU COME BACK THEY WILL TELL U , NO SHE CHANGED HER MIND.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Ernesthugo(m): 6:44pm On Nov 23, 2024
grin grin grin grin grin grin
Stolen:
HE DOES NOT EVEN VALUE THE GIRL.

THE DISRESPECT HE IS SHOWING, WOULD EVENTUALLY BE EXTENDED TO HER.

THEY DODGED THE BULLET ON THIS ONE.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Ernesthugo(m): 6:47pm On Nov 23, 2024
THIS IS THE ANSWER
Krismas:
Bride price is negotiable. If the man can only afford one million, they would have accepted it.
The man no serious about marriage b4
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 6:47pm On Nov 23, 2024
DO U WANT THEM TO BRING THE FULL AMOUNT OF MONEY THAT THEY HAVE SPENT SINCE THE GIRL WAS BORN.



WHAT IS ON THAT LIST, E REACH ORDINARY SCHOOL FEES ALONE.


LOOK U BETTER BE MARRYING YOUR USELESS WOMEN IN YOUR TRIBE FOR FREE, AS A MATTER OF FACT LET THEM FOOT THE BILL FOR YOU.



LEAVE OTHER TRIBES ALONE.



MARRIAGE IS SOMETHING WE DO FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEART AND WE DO IT WELL, WITH FULL RESPECT.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by AlanSugar(m): 6:50pm On Nov 23, 2024
GboyegaD:
It states it is negotiable, why not negotiate?
That said, the current day inflation added to the cost nonetheless, what is it with other people asides the parents on the list? Shouldn't it be one family?
The "stepfathers" got me! Like the mama married many husbands and the poor guy must settle all of them with drinks and cash. So very funny.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Acekidc4(m): 6:50pm On Nov 23, 2024
TheBillyonaire:
You are saying the entire races of humans with bride price culture are hungry.

Since you are rich enough to give out your sisters for free, you can as well just consider the suitor for 100k and a pack of indomie cos 3.5m is too much.
Those women they marry with less than 200K bride price nko🙄 are you trying to tell me they're lesser in value than your overpriced multimillion naira bride price babies🤔 Just admit you're an unrepentant simpleton.

Am beginning to think you're among those jobless men in the family that depends and feed on high bride price, that's why you're defending nonsense
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by ultimateprof: 6:51pm On Nov 23, 2024
This is thing must be a comedy.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by ponishah: 6:51pm On Nov 23, 2024
TheBillyonaire:
That amount is very considerate. There is no labor charge there, which exist in some climes.

He got a good offer to be honest, I see no reason to complain. The expense is less than 2 month's of average rent in London.
Oya naa, begin trend, as I know say to trend dey hungry
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Acekidc4(m): 6:57pm On Nov 23, 2024
Stolen:
U SEE, THAT IS PRECISELY THE POINT.


U WANT TO MARRY A WOMAN THAT YOU CALL USELESS.



A WOMAN THAT U DONT VALUE.


FROM THE TIME U ARE HANDED THE LIST, A FAMILY WITH A KEEN EYE WILL ACCESS YOUR RESPONSE.


EVEN IF YOU COME BACK THEY WILL TELL U , NO SHE CHANGED HER MIND.
😂🤣Be whinning yourself with all this your weak response............i believe you are part of those jobless men in the family that depends and feed on proceeds from bride price list......guy i get it, too much hunger is in the land, because it's only an hungry family that will be demanding exorbitant bride price as if it's a poverty alleviation scheme.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by ednut1(m): 6:57pm On Nov 23, 2024
uuzba:
At this rate, let Nigerian guys forget Nigerian girls.
Nigerian girls are expensive and useless.
Do your runs, leave the country and marry outside.
Cameroon, Niger, Benin Republic, Ghana.
lol no be all families dey do this nonsense
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by DemonSlayer: 6:58pm On Nov 23, 2024
And the bulk of this is on alcohol and cigarettes.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by GboyegaD(m): 6:59pm On Nov 23, 2024
AlanSugar:
The "stepfathers" got me! Like the mama married many husbands and the poor guy must settle all of them with drinks and cash. So very funny.
I look forward to the day the National Assembly will abolish it. The reason is because most Nigerian men think their wives are items in their homes and not human enough as them.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 7:00pm On Nov 23, 2024
Acekidc4:
😂🤣Be whinning yourself with all this your weak response............i believe you are part of those jobless men in the family that depends and feed on proceeds from bride price list......guy i get it, too much hunger is in the land, because it's only an hungry family that will be demanding exorbitant bride price as if it's a poverty alleviation scheme.
WEN U FINISH TALKING NONSENSE, U HEAD DOWN TO ADEOLA HOUSE SO SHE AND HER FAMILY CAN TAKE YOUR CLOTH AND SHOE MEASUREMENT AHEAD OF YOUR MARRIAGE TO HER.

OTHER TRIBES IN THIS COUNTRY HAVE REAL MEN, WHO FACE UP TO RESPONSIBILITY AND DEMAND THAT THEY DO TO ME AS THEY DID TO THE GUY BEFORE ME.


IT IS CALLED TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE RITE
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Badca81: 7:01pm On Nov 23, 2024
There is nothing wrong in that list. It is only given to the in-law if he can afford it. If he loves her he should pay up and move on, after all , no amount of money should come in place of your happiness ☺️.
And most importantly, I know he can negotiate a drop in the cash listed there.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by armyofone(m): 7:02pm On Nov 23, 2024
travelzcruix:
Two things government must interven in Nigeria through the Ministry of women affairs by passing strong laws to punish offenders, marriage and paternity fraud especially in the southern region. Girls can't get married again, as I speak there is a silent epidemic of single mothers of which 80% don't even know who their real fathers are because moma was sleeping around with 10 men in the pace of 24 hours, women working out of marriages without proper workings either from a court or on religious grounds. Tweh, in the nearest future foreign women will be sourced like foreign degrees in Nigeria.
It should be speaking up against violence such as -

The useless belief that human beings body can make you rich should need government, churches, organizations, platforms, etc interventions.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by razzydoo(m): 7:02pm On Nov 23, 2024
In Rescort's voice, the billing is much... grin
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 7:06pm On Nov 23, 2024
Acekidc4:
😂🤣Be whinning yourself with all this your weak response............i believe you are part of those jobless men in the family that depends and feed on proceeds from bride price list......guy i get it, too much hunger is in the land, because it's only an hungry family that will be demanding exorbitant bride price as if it's a poverty alleviation scheme.
Y U DONT OPEN THREAD OR SEND THREAD TO FP COMPLAINNIG ABOUT IYALOJA AND BABALOJA?



U THINK IT IS NORMAL TO JUST GO AND EXTORT TRADERS IN THE MARKET OF MONEY THEY SUFFER TO SELL?


AGBERO CULTURE?


BUT U ARE FAST TO OPEN THREAD AND RUSH IT TO FP, AS LONG AS IT IS OTHER PEOPLE CULTURE REGARDS MARRIAGE.



WOMEN DESERVE MORE THAN IS ON THE LIST.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Acekidc4(m): 7:09pm On Nov 23, 2024
Stolen:
WEN U FINISH TALKING NONSENSE, U HEAD DOWN TO ADEOLA HOUSE SO SHE AND HER FAMILY CAN TAKE YOUR CLOTH AND SHOE MEASUREMENT AHEAD OF YOUR MARRIAGE TO HER.

OTHER TRIBES IN THIS COUNTRY HAVE REAL MEN, WHO FACE UP TO RESPONSIBILITY AND DEMAND THAT THEY DO TO ME AS THEY DID TO THE GUY BEFORE ME.


IT IS CALLED TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE RITE
Am happily married dude and it's poverty and greediness that cause a family to see exorbitant bride price list as a means of temporary escape from poverty. When you demand for exorbitant bride price list like this, it simply means you're selling your daughter. SIMPle🤨
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Nobody: 7:10pm On Nov 23, 2024
3.5m is much for someone based abroad?

The guy is stingy.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 7:11pm On Nov 23, 2024
Acekidc4:
Am happily married dude and it's poverty and greediness that cause a family to see exorbitant bride price list as a means of temporary escape from poverty. When you demand for exorbitant bride price list like this, it simply means you're selling your daughter. SIMPle🤨
WE WILL TAKE U SERIOUSLY WEN U COMPLAIN ABOUT IYALOJA AND BABALOJA AGBERO TRADITION.


UNTIL THEN, U ARE JUST A DISRESPECTFUL TRIBAL BIGOT.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by joseph1832(m): 7:14pm On Nov 23, 2024
The very reason why many women remain unmarried today. Their family and village people have made marriage a means of milking would be suitors. This list is way too much.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by joseph1832(m): 7:16pm On Nov 23, 2024
Omoapena:
3.5m is much for someone based abroad?

The guy is stingy.
so because he is based abroad means he should be exploited? Imagine the way you think. Hian.
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by TenQ: 7:17pm On Nov 23, 2024
TheBillyonaire:
Marriage is not for the hungry.
True!'
May we not marry from a hungry family: they think their daughter is an investment they must harvest from before she leaves for her husbands house.

But Marriage is NOT for a Fool!
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Acekidc4(m): 7:17pm On Nov 23, 2024
Stolen:
Y U DONT OPEN THREAD OR SEND THREAD TO FP COMPLAINNIG ABOUT IYALOJA AND BABALOJA?



U THINK IT IS NORMAL TO JUST GO AND EXTORT TRADERS IN THE MARKET OF MONEY THEY SUFFER TO SELL?


AGBERO CULTURE?


BUT U ARE FAST TO OPEN THREAD AND RUSH IT TO FP, AS LONG AS IT IS OTHER PEOPLE CULTURE REGARDS MARRIAGE.



WOMEN DESERVE MORE THAN IS ON THE LIST.
Women deserve more than is on the list naim go make you pack your hard earned money go dey feed jobless hungry people in her family all in the name of bride price. Continue
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Acekidc4(m): 7:22pm On Nov 23, 2024
Stolen:
WE WILL TAKE U SERIOUSLY WEN U COMPLAIN ABOUT IYALOJA AND BABALOJA AGBERO TRADITION.


UNTIL THEN, U ARE JUST A DISRESPECTFUL TRIBAL BIGOT.
What are you even saying sef🤔 me a disrespectful tribal bigot🙄 as in how🤨
How does Exorbitant bride price and iyaloja and babaloja correlatehuh
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by DarkJeddi(m): 7:23pm On Nov 23, 2024
TheBillyonaire:
That amount is very considerate. There is no labor charge there, which exist in some climes.

He got a good offer to be honest, I see no reason to complain. The expense is less than 2 month's of average rent in London.
What does the average rent in London have to do with the bride price in Nigeria?
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Acekidc4(m): 7:24pm On Nov 23, 2024
TenQ:
True!'
May we not marry from a hungry family: they think their daughter is an investment they must harvest from before she leaves for her husbands house.

But Marriage is NOT for a Fool!
Your head too correct with this your smart response to the Simpleton 👏👍👍🙌
Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by CapitalBank: 7:24pm On Nov 23, 2024
TheBillyonaire:
Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.
You are far too removed from reality and of men who are not in your class.

I don say this as an insult but more of a compliment but to also make you see things from the eyes of others and be grateful for what you have.

I have known you since the GEJ days on here . BUT… while you think the way you do, never fail to remind yourself that 90% of Nigerians can only dream of where you are.


A lot of Nigerians are poor. To you, 3M is nothing. How many Nigerians have even 1M in their bank account?
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