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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Solcampbell: 12:17pm On Nov 25, 2024
Gerrard59:
Food was the first thing that came to my mind after I saw your initial post.

Na time sha and soon the article would be published.
Ok, you could refer me to the article when it's finally published. Thanks.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by ufotty2001: 1:34pm On Nov 25, 2024
kingbee90:
It's either you are still a teenager or your body-count is not more than 7.
Guy,if you have actually bedded a good number of women regardless of their age bracket but not more than 49 yrs, you'll descover that some ladies of 35 have tighter and creamer pussies than some 19 yr Olds.
Age is not a yardstick for pussy measurement.
Have met a girl of 36yrs with a tight pus*y and am the second person to have sex with her in her entire life. Age is not a measurement of pusxy
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by ufotty2001: 2:13pm On Nov 25, 2024
histemple:
Ordinarily, this advice appear harmless on the surface. However, the major challenge with women of 35 years and above is that their options are very limited.

Let me elaborate. Women naturally want to marry an older man and it's difficult to find a CAPABLE man of 38 and above who isn't already committed or even married.

You will usually find that a greater percentage of men in that age bracket are engaged, married, separated, divorced or widowed. So, how many never-married-before ladies fancy getting married to a man already with children?

Now do this!

Look around your area and check how many men of 38 and above that are available and capable.
Me am 39yrs not Married.. although I just engage a girl of 27yrs. What u will say is that men goes for younger girls 20s
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by histemple: 2:23pm On Nov 25, 2024
ufotty2001:
Me am 39yrs not Married.. although I just engage a girl of 27yrs. What u will say is that men goes for younger girls 20s
We are saying the same thing from different context.

A never-married single man of 38 and above will most likely not want to marry a 35-year-old. Only men of 38 and above who were married and had kids, would consider marrying a lady of 35 and above. And it's certainly for companionship.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100(op): 2:36pm On Nov 25, 2024
Tallesty1:
I doubt there’s any 35-year-old who hasn’t met someone who genuinely wanted them at some point.

For men, it’s often during a phase when you’re broke or still in school. These women truly cared, but you weren’t ready. Sometimes they moved on and married someone else because you didn’t value them or acted like an asshole.

For women, it’s usually about having unrealistic standards when they were younger, breaking up over trivial reasons, or friend-zoning the ones who genuinely cared for them.

Majority has at least that one relationship they wish they didn't mess up.
I agree that almost every woman have had one or more men who showed them genuine love, but there is nothing wrong with setting standards and waiting for the right time.

Almost every married man, even those who have turned their wives into punching bags or who constantly mistreat them, was once caring toward their wives. I doubt any woman would agree to marry a man who is uncaring or shows her hatred.

When will people understand that life is not black and white? It is better for a woman to have her own money and not take chances. I know women who have wealthy husbands that are not very involved in their children's lives, but they are financially secure themselves, so they are handling the responsibilities on their own and living peacefully with their husbands.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by luminouz(m): 3:15pm On Nov 25, 2024
Villa12:
only poor men uses simp in his statement. No one is the cause of your poverty. If you like shout simp from now till forever, men wey get money still dey spend on women and marriage dey happen every Saturday. Na poverty dey do you and your fellow poor alpha grin
See as ravencstar exposed your yansh. 🤣🤣🤣

You earned 40k as salary, was begging for 15k to fix the leaky roof in your family house...and yet you have been calling others broke and yelling poor, poor, poor..like a broken record.

See your life outside. I don screenshot ravencstar post....I go use am pepper you well.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by luminouz(m): 3:16pm On Nov 25, 2024
Merry100:
I agree that almost every woman have had one or more men who showed them genuine love, but there is nothing wrong with setting standards and waiting for the right time.

Almost every married man, even those who have turned their wives into punching bags or who constantly mistreat them, was once caring toward their wives. I doubt any woman would agree to marry a man who is uncaring or shows her hatred.

When will people understand that life is not black and white? It is better for a woman to have her own money and not take chances. I know women who have wealthy husbands that are not very involved in their children's lives, but they are financially secure themselves, so they are handling the responsibilities on their own and living peacefully with their husbands.
Please go and sit down somewhere jor

Your attempts to defend the topic revealed your own status as someone older than 35. We don't care ok but don't try to guilt trip men into choosing younger ladies over y'all.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by ufotty2001: 3:17pm On Nov 25, 2024
histemple:
We are saying the same thing from different context.

A never-married single man of 38 and above will most likely not want to marry a 35-year-old. Only men of 38 and above who were married and had kids, would consider marrying a lady of 35 and above. And it's certainly for companionship.
100% true
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100(op): 3:44pm On Nov 25, 2024
luminouz:
Please go and sit down somewhere jor

Your attempts to defend the topic revealed your own status as someone older than 35. We don't care ok but don't try to guilt trip men into choosing younger ladies over y'all.
You self go and hit your head on the wall.

I am not even 30 yet, but that is not the point. Stop assuming that you represent all men. Women aged 35 and older are comfortably getting married.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by luminouz(m): 3:49pm On Nov 25, 2024
Merry100:
You self go and hit your head on the wall.

I am not even 30 yet, but that is not the point. Stop assuming that you represent all men. Women aged 35 and older are comfortably getting married.
Nah why you never marry na...very violent woman asking me to hit my head on a wall. Who wan marry such violent, animalistic tendencies.

We don't want your narrative. We won't marry women older than 35. Do your worst!!!
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100(op): 4:29pm On Nov 25, 2024
luminouz:
Nah why you never marry na...very violent woman asking me to hit my head on a wall. Who wan marry such violent, animalistic tendencies.

We don't want your narrative. We won't marry women older than 35. Do your worst!!!
Sorry dear, that one too harsh. Instead, kneel down and raise your hands.

Where in my comment did I say that women 35 years and older are in need of husbands, please marry them? All this crying no necessary; just carry cord go dey flog the men wey dey marry them.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by luminouz(m): 4:37pm On Nov 25, 2024
Merry100:
Sorry dear, that one too harsh. Instead, kneel down and raise your hands.

Where in my comment did I say that women 35 years and older are in need of husbands, please marry them? All this crying no necessary; just carry cord go dey flog the men wey dey marry them.
Nah ...still violent. Whatever happened to 'come to the table, I have prepared your pounded yam and efo riro soup and goat meat, enjoy' why must yours involve violence?

Lmaooo ...you must be naive to think Shiloh and other religious gatherings have a higher population of women because they love Jesus more than men! No matter how you paint them, they need husbands and urgently too.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100(op): 4:51pm On Nov 25, 2024
luminouz:
Nah ...still violent. Whatever happened to 'come to the table, I have prepared your pounded yam and efo riro soup and goat meat, enjoy' why must yours involve violence?

Lmaooo ...you must be naive to think Shiloh and other religious gatherings have a higher population of women because they love Jesus more than men! No matter how you paint them, they need husbands and urgently too.
But this is really toxic. After shouting at me and telling me to go and sit down somewhere, you are still expecting me to prepare pounded yam, efo riro, and ogufe for you.

You must be naive to think that their age is the problem.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by RealityKings1: 6:20pm On Nov 25, 2024
Merry100:
But this is really toxic. After shouting at me and telling me to go and sit down somewhere, you are still expecting me to prepare pounded yam, efo riro, and ogufe for you.

You must be naive to think that their age is the problem.
You should work on putting on a little weight so that you'll look appealing. That your profile picture no dey OK abeg
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by luminouz(m): 6:30pm On Nov 25, 2024
Merry100:
But this is really toxic. After shouting at me and telling me to go and sit down somewhere, you are still expecting me to prepare pounded yam, efo riro, and ogufe for you.

You must be naive to think that their age is the problem.
It's toxic to ask you to make food after I asked you to sit down? Lol...una don abuse this toxic word too much... What then do I call 'go and hit your head on the wall' as you said....sexy?

Lol...that you don't think their age is the problem is the height of naivety.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100(op): 8:05pm On Nov 25, 2024
luminouz:
It's toxic to ask you to make food after I asked you to sit down? Lol...una don abuse this toxic word too much... What then do I call 'go and hit your head on the wall' as you said....sexy?

Lol...that you don't think their age is the problem is the height of naivety.
Stop gaslighting me jor; I only reacted to your actions. It's not just about the 'sit down'; it's the tone and manner in which you said it that hurt.

Anyway, today was really stressful. I had a hectic day at work, all I need right now is a massage.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100(op): 8:05pm On Nov 25, 2024
RealityKings1:
You should work on putting on a little weight so that you'll look appealing. That your profile picture no dey OK abeg
Is the picture sitting on your head
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by luminouz(m): 8:29pm On Nov 25, 2024
Merry100:
Stop gaslighting me jor; I only reacted to your actions. It's not just about the 'sit down'; it's the tone and manner in which you said it that hurt.

Anyway, today was really stressful. I had a hectic day at work, all I need right now is a massage.
Lol...ok
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Cj4charles(m): 8:41pm On Nov 25, 2024
This one supose funny grin grin
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by lendahand(m): 11:24pm On Nov 25, 2024
Solcampbell:
Good morning
I believe their lifestyle could be a major contributing factor. Majority of the northerners still strongly maintain traditional and religious values. I'd say about 90 percent of northern women wait until marriage to lose thier virginity.

Even when they get married, northeners still frown at birth control pills and methods. We all know that.

Generally speaking, It has been suggested that hormonal contraceptives, abortion pills could interfere with a woman's fertility in the future.

You see, it's not just about the eggs released every month, there's also an intricate web of reproductive system and every part play a role in fertility and birth.

Also, the regular food people eat might influence their overall health and immunity. The core and improverished north consume fresh and locally source food which are still nutrient-dense. This is way better than junk food and sugary snacks.

Honestly, I've never met or heard of a hausa woman with fibroids. But that doesn't mean they're non-existent.
you are making sense.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Rr423: 2:30am On Nov 27, 2024
I'm sure she is igbo. Na una dey always believe sey you know it all.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Memberclub(m): 9:37pm On Nov 27, 2024
Super33999:
If as a woman you don't have a partner at 34 or 35, just know it's important you have a good job.
You'll make a good sugar mummy if you have a good job.
Obviously, the primary reason men settle down with women is because of sex and the moment you are 26, for a woman, that tight pussyyyy sexual flavour is gone

Its important you use your time wisely
the one im fucking is 23. Dry pussy
The pussy i enjoyed the most she's 28-29
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by malcom1X: 5:23am On Nov 28, 2024
lendahand:
but if I got your post correctly, you said they continue churning out babies even when they are past 40 yrs of age, without complications and IVF just like they did in their 20s.
The ladies you are talking about, do they give birth early? No.the northern ladies give birth in their teens so their bodies get used to having babies.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by lendahand(m): 1:55pm On Nov 28, 2024
malcom1X:
The ladies you are talking about, do they give birth early? No.the northern ladies give birth in their teens so their bodies get used to having babies.
ok I'm learning something right here
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Akpabio22(m): 2:23pm On Nov 28, 2024
nolzautoz:
If all men were billionaires, do you think the world will be a better place?
it will bw a very better place because women will be the real slaves for errands
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by koldrun: 2:40pm On Nov 29, 2024
UyaiIncomparabl:
You write very well. wink

Enjoyed reading through.
You're so obsessed with good English.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:23pm On Nov 29, 2024
koldrun:
You're so obsessed with good English.
Very much. cheesy

You must know me well to know this.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by koldrun: 7:47pm On Nov 29, 2024
UyaiIncomparabl:
Very much. cheesy

You must know me well to know this.
It's a good thing
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100(op): 7:30pm On Nov 30, 2024
Saidfx:
If I marry woman and she get money nah for her pocket, because nah me suppose take care of am and give her unconditional love. All this rubbish about women considering thier financial status before marriage nah bull shiiiit. If woman wan marry make she just respect her husband and the people at large... Make she just see herself as woman and nah Nature[/color] set am like that...Men, pls women need you more than you need them. Just live according to your conscience and capacity. No forget the Equatorial Guinea[color=#990000] shit. E still dey for minds o...Men don take am as deep excuse to treaaaaat any potential woman as just lust mate. E deep well!
Being a woman does not entail sacrificing one's potential or goals, and unconditional love should not involve controlling your wife or expecting her to settle for less when she has the ability to aim higher and achieve more.

Only manipulative and toxic men want their capable wives to be financially dependent. Many responsible men understand that their wives' achievements would also benefit them, so they actively support their wives in starting businesses or finding jobs.

Respect is a natural quality that flows in healthy relationships. A woman does not need to render herself useless or devoid of potential to show respect for her husband.

Responsible men don’t make excuses for inappropriate behaviour; such tendencies are only found in irresponsible ones.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Saidfx(m): 11:30pm On Nov 30, 2024
Merry100:
Being a woman does not entail sacrificing one's potential or goals, and unconditional love should not involve controlling your wife or expecting her to settle for less when she has the ability to aim higher and achieve more.

Only manipulative and toxic men want their capable wives to be financially dependent. Many responsible men understand that their wives' achievements would also benefit them, so they actively support their wives in starting businesses or finding jobs.

Respect is a natural quality that flows in healthy relationships. A woman does not need to render herself useless or devoid of potential to show respect for her husband.

Responsible men don’t make excuses for inappropriate behaviour; such tendencies are only found in irresponsible ones.
Only and I repeat only men love unconditionally. Women should just submit and respect their husbands inrespective of their financial status..there is nothing like a woman being the bread winner..it's just a weak statement to pull men off their full potentials.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Merry100(op):
Saidfx:
Only and I repeat only men love unconditionally. Women should just submit and respect their husbands inrespective of their financial status..there is nothing like a woman being the bread winner..it's just a weak statement to pull men off their full potentials.
No, it is not only men that can love unconditionally.

A man doesn't have to make his wife financially dependent on him in order to ensure that she respects him.

Being financially independent does not automatically make a woman the primary breadwinner. A man can have a financially independent wife and still be the primary breadwinner, and there is nothing even wrong with a woman being the primary breadwinner. Every family should establish its own arrangements based on what works best for them.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by malcom1X: 12:34pm On Dec 02, 2024
Samantha125:
Yes, I do.
Tell me which clinic or hospital freezes eggs in Nigeria that you know of.
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